HarunaWest:

you must be a clown...A woman that loves clubbing is the one you said is tired of life...I pity you...you don't know your sister...From the write-up,it seems you are more interested in the guy than she is...Your sister won't marry that guy and even if she does it wouldn't last cos Las Las she will go back to the club to keep searching for her missing rib which obviously isn't MR CUTE...if I were you,shoot your shot,If he gree,go do marriage registry for Ikoyi, Japa next day

AwkaetitiBabe:
Its Annoying. I just hope everything works out well for the lady. The op wants a sister that lives in the uk

Another question, will the make take her 2 kids to England too?

Cutehector:
for where. Cost of transporting the two kids sef to u.k, where the money dey. Abeg the sister should act like a matured woman and know when a man is lying or not. Which matured woman will believe a man that says he will carry her and her two kids who aren't his to the u.k after experiencing dissapointments from several Nigerian men in the past. Such lady needs serious deliverance

piroux:
I don't know if you are Christians but my bible makes me understand that the blessings of the Lord maketh rich and addeth no sorrows.
So saying God brought such a man into your sister's life is quite weird. You like him hence you aren't being rational. Haven't you heard of men who pay dowries, impregnate women and then leave them to go back and never return?
That's not God's will for anyone, kindly pray and seek His face when giving advice to others. That man is not out for your sister's good, be guided. Thanks

Your sister, seemingly wiser is not so wise spending so much of her time with friends and clubbing. Granted, she might be doing so so that she doesn't spend time alone thinking or being overwhelmed. But it never ends well. He who must make a journey in life, will first start alone. You should be advising your sister to make more time to reason, plan and prioritize her life and her children's over being an overgrown baby.

blackangel0403:
yes that’s the plan, am only concerned she might loose him not because I want her to relocate but because I want her to settle down and live a responsible life.

blackangel0403:
yes that’s the plan, am only concerned she might loose him not because I want her to relocate but because I want her to settle down and live a responsible life.

dominique:
The biggest mistake your sister will make is if she gets pregnant for that man. The man most likely has a foreign based family and he's looking for someone to give birth to home based kids to him. You're so fixated on having a sister abroad that you can't see this. Has he said anything about going to registry to get married legally? Or you think by paying for dowry is enough to start processing her travel documents. Your sister is street smart, she knows most of these foreign based men are phony. Your sister should tell him to take her to registry first and marry her legally, then proess her visa before she takes in.

FamousMonk:
Question your sister.
Pressure her to confess.
I think she is no longer fertile and she has lost her womb due to so many abortion attempts..
She strikes me like someone who has an itchy and antsy kpekus.
But nevertheless,marriage should be built on love,communication and trust which this union is obviously bereft of.
You might just be encouraging her to toe the path of perdition.
No sane woman needs a man to survive in this modern day..

blackangel0403:
Hi guys, i need your sincere advice pls, my sister is a divorcee with two kids she is solely responsible for, life has not been fair with her, finally God brought a cute man who is based in uk her way, the man is willing to marry her and take her to the states, he has come to see our parents and also took her to see his, they have agreed to tie the nut in dec this year, the guy is currently in Nigeria and has been begging my sister to get pregnant for him, my sister knows for sure he will marry her once’s she is pregnant but doesn’t want to so that pregnancy doesn’t stop her from meeting other guys pending when he comes to pay her dowry, note, they met in the club but the man still overlooked it and still proposed marriage to her, sincerely speaking she wants to settle down with him but her problem is that she doesn’t want to get pregnant and stay alone all by herself pending when the man will take her and the kids to the uk, she wants to take in when she has moved to the uk, but then she is scared she might loose him befor then as they are already having misunderstandings been that my sister likes hanging out with friends and going clubbing which doesn’t go well with the guy, now the guy is having double mind on if he can go ahead with the marriage or not, I have adviced her to take in for the man and by dec her dowry will be payed but she is adamant, pls what is the best option for her in this situation? Take in for this guy now he is in Nigeria and secure him or wait till December and risk loosing him, note he is a very cute guy and every girls dream, my sister also is tired of life and wants to settle down, if she takes in now, by dec her pregnancy will be 3 months, she is also bothered abt wat people will say on why she took in befor she was married to the guy, my parents also especially my dad will frown at it but dey don’t know that life has not fair with her and she needs a man to call her own. Should she careless abt my parents and what people will say and take in or wait and do the proper marriage befor she takes in? She is 35 years old with two kids, no other suitor insight too.

LadySarah:
Op,You say?

Its like You Hate that ur sister.How can You even suggest She takes in.What If Uncle dissappoints.

No be this style dem take deceive My friend's sis till for 6 yrs now.She still dey Nigeria.
Uncle that is pressuring her,is it not the same kpekus that You will have in ur House when She comes over.

I'm beginning to suspect abroad Uncle cos it Seems he is a scammer Or looking for a Nigerian wife.

Your sister should never accept Such strange,demonic and ridiculous request.

blackangel0403:
Hi guys, i need your sincere advice pls, my sister is a divorcee with two kids she is solely responsible for, life has not been fair with her, finally God brought a cute man who is based in uk her way, the man is willing to marry her and take her to the states, he has come to see our parents and also took her to see his, they have agreed to tie the nut in dec this year, the guy is currently in Nigeria and has been begging my sister to get pregnant for him, my sister knows for sure he will marry her once’s she is pregnant but doesn’t want to so that pregnancy doesn’t stop her from meeting other guys pending when he comes to pay her dowry, note, they met in the club but the man still overlooked it and still proposed marriage to her, sincerely speaking she wants to settle down with him but her problem is that she doesn’t want to get pregnant and stay alone all by herself pending when the man will take her and the kids to the uk, she wants to take in when she has moved to the uk, but then she is scared she might loose him befor then as they are already having misunderstandings been that my sister likes hanging out with friends and going clubbing which doesn’t go well with the guy, now the guy is having double mind on if he can go ahead with the marriage or not, I have adviced her to take in for the man and by dec her dowry will be payed but she is adamant, pls what is the best option for her in this situation? Take in for this guy now he is in Nigeria and secure him or wait till December and risk loosing him, note he is a very cute guy and every girls dream, my sister also is tired of life and wants to settle down, if she takes in now, by dec her pregnancy will be 3 months, she is also bothered abt wat people will say on why she took in befor she was married to the guy, my parents also especially my dad will frown at it but dey don’t know that life has not fair with her and she needs a man to call her own. Should she careless abt my parents and what people will say and take in or wait and do the proper marriage befor she takes in? She is 35 years old with two kids, no other suitor insight too.

Bluehill1051:
The guy is playing her!
No single rich guy will carry another man's responsibility like that, even 2 kids sef and worse, she's a club girl, most probably an olosho.
I used this method once too. The girl actually thought I was her destined husband cuz I made her believe so. She even confessed to me that she has had two abortions for 2 guys. Bcuz of me, she changed her contact even up to her bank alert text number. Her aunt that she stays with and I even talk on phone weekends but most times I try to avoid meeting the family like an expected guest. Initially she'll say the usual let us wait till aft wedding b4 we sex, but then again I'll confuse her. I even promised her some cash the same day she finds out she's pregnant. But all na for play.
Who doesn't want a loyal pussy. It's like eating your cake and having it.
I fukked this girl like a wife!
Not once did we use CD. Las las I added my own to her collections of abortions!

bukatyne:

This is a joke right?

Bluehill1051:
The guy is playing her!
No single rich guy will carry another man's responsibility like that, even 2 kids sef and worse, she's a club girl, most probably an olosho.
I used this method once too. The girl actually thought I was her destined husband cuz I made her believe so. She even confessed to me that she has had two abortions for 2 guys. Bcuz of me, she changed her contact even up to her bank alert text number. Her aunt that she stays with and I even talk on phone weekends but most times I try to avoid meeting the family like an expected guest. Initially she'll say the usual let us wait till aft wedding b4 we sex, but then again I'll confuse her. I even promised her some cash the same day she finds out she's pregnant. But all na for play.
Who doesn't want a loyal pussy. It's like eating your cake and having it.
I fukked this girl like a wife!
Not once did we use CD. Las las I added my own to her collections of abortions!

Acidosis:


Joke ke? But that's what men do all the time to get the cookie?

Fountainofyouth:



Any guy that cannot define what he wants from the onset just to get sex in a relationship is immature to say the least.

Fountainofyouth:



You are so stupid it's heartbreaking, work on your stupidity cos you need help.

Bluehill1051:
The guy is playing her!
No single rich guy will carry another man's responsibility like that, even 2 kids sef and worse, she's a club girl, most probably an olosho.
I used this method once too. The girl actually thought I was her destined husband cuz I made her believe so. She even confessed to me that she has had two abortions for 2 guys. Bcuz of me, she changed her contact even up to her bank alert text number. Her aunt that she stays with and I even talk on phone weekends but most times I try to avoid meeting the family like an expected guest. Initially she'll say the usual let us wait till aft wedding b4 we sex, but then again I'll confuse her. I even promised her some cash the same day she finds out she's pregnant. But all na for play.
Who doesn't want a loyal pussy. It's like eating your cake and having it.
I fukked this girl like a wife!
Not once did we use CD. Las las I added my own to her collections of abortions!

orbitalgis:



I should run from this family and any guy that respects his peace of mind should run from this family.

blackangel0403:
speak for yourself mr man, you are not in his pocket and certainly all men don’t reason like you.