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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by worldfamousMJ(m): 11:22pm On Sep 07, 2019
You know the truth...you seeking for advice that u have answeoto.
What if she get pregnant and d man leaves her? It's not that glitters that is gold...
If the guy is serious..he should do what's necessary!
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Nobody: 11:22pm On Sep 07, 2019
a divorcee that wants to marry except her hubby is an adulteress
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Sirseedorf(m): 11:22pm On Sep 07, 2019
I'm not happy, life as been unfair to me partially. all the grace I've got is my life and soul, I can even think straight about tomorrow or next. Even without cut I feel a dip pain in me, I feel hopeless and life has let me down. I wish I can see God physically and express my predicaments to him, cause he's the only listener that can hear and give a solution to my pain. please God. even if I can't see you physically, but you can see me spiritually. hear my pain, heal my wound. even if the world has forsaken me, please don't forsake me, even though my joy has forsaken me, please don't abandoned me.



#$aheed write-up
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Wiifesnatcher(m): 11:22pm On Sep 07, 2019
cry


let her take inn at her own risk. a love that comes with conditions is not love but fantasy and infatuation


it's obvious your sister na slay mama, she was never married so why tagged her divorcee. she should just face her club life and forget about marriage but if she want to be a victim of her first circumstances let her closed her brain and open her legs

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by franchasng: 11:24pm On Sep 07, 2019
Breaststroke:


His narrative felt extreme and really cruel.

Is it always just about the cookie for you guys? I really want to know.

I think I need to read Steve Harvey's Think Like A Man.....book again.
sometimes men just want to feel the rush that comes with a new pussy, not that they haven't had sex before but the rush makes their blood hot, the sound she will be making can make most men to make lots of irrational decisions they will later be shocked they did and will run four forty as soon as their senses comes back after ejaculation shocked shocked

This comment is rated 20+ cool

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by franchasng: 11:25pm On Sep 07, 2019
Sirseedorf:
I'm not happy, life as been unfair to me partially. all the grace I've got is my life and soul, I can even think straight about tomorrow or next. Even without cut I feel a dip pain in me, I feel hopeless and life has let me down. I wish I can see God physically and express my predicaments to him, cause he's the only listener that can hear and give a solution to my pain. please God. even if I can't see you physically, but you can see me spiritually. hear my pain, heal my wound. even if the world has forsaken me, please don't forsake me, even though my joy has forsaken me, please don't abandoned me.



#$aheed write-up
what's the problem bothering you
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by WildChild00(m): 11:30pm On Sep 07, 2019
MBA! She should not try it and take in for the "abroad man" does your sis knows his background abroad? Does your sis knows if he is married abroad, and perhaps just want to marry a Nigerian based woman to keep body and soul going, this exact issue happens to one of my distance relation way back, the US based guy asked her to get pregnant for him and then he will marry her, and her friends all supported it, and she went ahead and got pregnant for the US based guy, could you believe that this guy never married her till date, fear abroad guys, if he is serious let him be patient till December and her dowry is paid and then she can go ahead.

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Frankeepee(m): 11:31pm On Sep 07, 2019
tyup:
me I don't even know what to say undecided
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Yankee101: 11:31pm On Sep 07, 2019
She's a grown up
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Neonkeon(m): 11:31pm On Sep 07, 2019
That guy na crook tell your sis to run...Any marriage with conditions na hoax
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by mkoabiola: 11:31pm On Sep 07, 2019
A club gal ....searching for another love.


She nva stop to de club
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by silibaba: 11:33pm On Sep 07, 2019
Op shine ur eyes, collect the man joor

Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Sketch007(m): 11:33pm On Sep 07, 2019
blackangel0403:
Hi guys, I i need your sincere advice pls.

My sister is a divorcee with two kids she is solely responsible for. Life has not been fair with her.

Finally, God brought a cute man who is based in UK her way, the man is willing to marry her and take her to the states, he has come to see our parents and also took her to see his, they have agreed to tie the nut in December this year.


Funny enough how you'd come up to say you need an advice for her whereas you are the one who needs it most. Knowing fully well she's had two kids, you still want her to take in another because of some UK relocation?? You just don't have your sister's back at all! From your write up, there is this desperate tone that lies beneathe and it will do you a lotta good if you take the cute man and take the so called pregnancy in, with the hope of being a UK certified.

My candid advice, leave your sister alone and at 35, she needs no puppet to direct her. Her actions is directly proportional to her responsibilities. Let the young man do the needful if its having someone pregnant he came all the way from UK for.

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by alexpumpin: 11:34pm On Sep 07, 2019
OP, who directed this interesting movie. So the director failed to remember that it is United states of America that is initialism " states" not UK.
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by don3e(m): 11:34pm On Sep 07, 2019
blackangel0403:
Hi guys, I i need your sincere advice pls.

My sister is a divorcee with two kids she is solely responsible for. Life has not been fair with her.

Finally, God brought a cute man who is based in UK her way, the man is willing to marry her and take her to the states, he has come to see our parents and also took her to see his, they have agreed to tie the nut in December this year.

The guy is currently in Nigeria and has been begging my sister to get pregnant for him, my sister knows for sure he will marry her once she is pregnant but doesn’t want to so that pregnancy doesn’t stop her from meeting other guys pending when he comes to pay her dowry. Note, they met in the club but the man still overlooked it and still proposed marriage to her.

Sincerely speaking, she wants to settle down with him but her problem is that she doesn’t want to get pregnant and stay alone all by herself pending when the man will take her and the kids to the uk, she wants to take in when she has moved to the uk, but then she is scared she might loose him before then as they are already having misunderstandings been that my sister likes hanging out with friends and going clubbing which doesn’t go well with the guy.

Now the guy is having double mind on if he can go ahead with the marriage or not, I have adviced her to take in for the man and by dec her dowry will be paid but she is adamant, pls what is the best option for her in this situation?


Take in for this guy now he is in Nigeria and secure him or wait till December and risk loosing him, note he is a very cute guy and every girls dream, my sister also is tired of life and wants to settle down, if she takes in now, by dec her pregnancy will be 3 months, she is also bothered abt wat people will say on why she took in befor she was married to the guy, my parents also especially my dad will frown at it but dey don’t know that life has not fair with her and she needs a man to call her own. Should she careless abt my parents and what people will say and take in or wait and do the proper marriage before she takes in?

She is 35 years old with two kids, no other suitor insight too.
First and foremost, you are wicked. How could you give such an advice? Get pregnant for him just because he proposed marrying her.... Hmmmm.
If your sister tries to please him by letting herself get pregnant for, the true nature of the Mr Cute will surface.
If the guy loves your sister, he will wait. Your sister should avoid clubbing as this could jeopardize the love he has for her.
Wishing her the best and God giving her wisdom

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Nobody: 11:34pm On Sep 07, 2019
allow her to make the mistake and learn

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Awe4luv(m): 11:35pm On Sep 07, 2019
blackangel0403:
Hi guys, I i need your sincere advice pls.

My sister is a divorcee with two kids she is solely responsible for. Life has not been fair with her.

Finally, God brought a cute man who is based in UK her way, the man is willing to marry her and take her to the states, he has come to see our parents and also took her to see his, they have agreed to tie the nut in December this year.

The guy is currently in Nigeria and has been begging my sister to get pregnant for him, my sister knows for sure he will marry her once she is pregnant but doesn’t want to so that pregnancy doesn’t stop her from meeting other guys pending when he comes to pay her dowry. Note, they met in the club but the man still overlooked it and still proposed marriage to her.

Sincerely speaking, she wants to settle down with him but her problem is that she doesn’t want to get pregnant and stay alone all by herself pending when the man will take her and the kids to the uk, she wants to take in when she has moved to the uk, but then she is scared she might loose him before then as they are already having misunderstandings been that my sister likes hanging out with friends and going clubbing which doesn’t go well with the guy.

Now the guy is having double mind on if he can go ahead with the marriage or not, I have adviced her to take in for the man and by dec her dowry will be paid but she is adamant, pls what is the best option for her in this situation?


Take in for this guy now he is in Nigeria and secure him or wait till December and risk loosing him, note he is a very cute guy and every girls dream, my sister also is tired of life and wants to settle down, if she takes in now, by dec her pregnancy will be 3 months, she is also bothered abt wat people will say on why she took in befor she was married to the guy, my parents also especially my dad will frown at it but dey don’t know that life has not fair with her and she needs a man to call her own. Should she careless abt my parents and what people will say and take in or wait and do the proper marriage before she takes in?

She is 35 years old with two kids, no other suitor insight too.
she needs a man she will call her own or she needs a man that will cater for her responsibility....lol...
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Sterope(f): 11:35pm On Sep 07, 2019
What is the problem then? What exactly is your question? If he is not adamant about pregnancy, fix a date for the wedding, let him invite her and live happily ever after. Court wedding doesn't take forever. They can be married in a week, she can secure a visa if everything goes according to plan in less than two months.

If I were you, I will.listen to people's advice. You are not this man's mind, you can't know him. Display of affection is not enough to show true love. If he loves her, he should do the needful. Prepping a woman to be the Naija wife or a maid is very real.

blackangel0403:
he wants a family he will take over there because of culture and also he loves my sis, for all the people saying he wants a Nigerian wife, I kept quiet because I know the real truth. Guy means his words 100% and he is not insisting on getting pregnant, he suggested it to her because he wants to assure her he is here for stay, I am only buying into the idea because I don’t want her to miss this opportunity, she might never see such opportunity again in her life because of our Nigerian men mentality. Like one pointed out earlier, no sane man wants to take responsibility of another mans children. For dose saying am the one desperate here, maybe because I know better in the case than u and I can smell the future if she looses this guy.

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Nobody: 11:36pm On Sep 07, 2019
I live abroad and I will not take a woman and her two kids who aren't mine with me.
Mbanu, impossicant. grin

But seriously speaking, the financial implications of raising the two kids and the responsibilities will be enormous so it will be difficult to see a man who can do this.
Huncle wants to play your sis simple.

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by WildChild00(m): 11:37pm On Sep 07, 2019
virgoquin:


Your reward is waiting for you, you are so wicked and heartless .
How can you do this to another person and you still have the guts to be gloating about it in public


It's like pride to him, he does not know he is distorying his own distiny with his own hand..

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by chronique(m): 11:37pm On Sep 07, 2019
You're the dumb one between you and your sister. Someone who has 2 kids already and you are advising her to get pregnant for a foreign based husband? Where did you keep your sense when you were writing this nonsense?

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Agugbadin: 11:37pm On Sep 07, 2019
Age is not on her side, I am not sure he wants to marry her

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by 360command: 11:37pm On Sep 07, 2019
blackangel0403:
Hi guys, I i need your sincere advice pls.

My sister is a divorcee with two kids she is solely responsible for. Life has not been fair with her.

Finally, God brought a cute man who is based in UK her way, the man is willing to marry her and take her to the states, he has come to see our parents and also took her to see his, they have agreed to tie the nut in December this year.

The guy is currently in Nigeria and has been begging my sister to get pregnant for him, my sister knows for sure he will marry her once she is pregnant but doesn’t want to so that pregnancy doesn’t stop her from meeting other guys pending when he comes to pay her dowry. Note, they met in the club but the man still overlooked it and still proposed marriage to her.

Sincerely speaking, she wants to settle down with him but her problem is that she doesn’t want to get pregnant and stay alone all by herself pending when the man will take her and the kids to the uk, she wants to take in when she has moved to the uk, but then she is scared she might loose him before then as they are already having misunderstandings been that my sister likes hanging out with friends and going clubbing which doesn’t go well with the guy.

Now the guy is having double mind on if he can go ahead with the marriage or not, I have adviced her to take in for the man and by dec her dowry will be paid but she is adamant, pls what is the best option for her in this situation?


Take in for this guy now he is in Nigeria and secure him or wait till December and risk loosing him, note he is a very cute guy and every girls dream, my sister also is tired of life and wants to settle down, if she takes in now, by dec her pregnancy will be 3 months, she is also bothered abt wat people will say on why she took in befor she was married to the guy, my parents also especially my dad will frown at it but dey don’t know that life has not fair with her and she needs a man to call her own. Should she careless abt my parents and what people will say and take in or wait and do the proper marriage before she takes in?

She is 35 years old with two kids, no other suitor insight too.
you be fool. What kind of advice is that.
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Frankeepee(m): 11:38pm On Sep 07, 2019
The game is fifty fifty that guy just wana ve a kid wit a nigerian woman just live ur sister alone, she must ve seen wat u can't see
tryin to ease her stress might turn out to be the worse nightmare.
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by CirocBoi(m): 11:38pm On Sep 07, 2019
This topic should be moved to the "slut" and "desperate" section

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by abc115: 11:39pm On Sep 07, 2019
UK but taken to the States?
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by LoveThemChubby(m): 11:41pm On Sep 07, 2019
OP I think you are the one with a problem here and not your sis.
1. Did having two kids stop her from separating from the father of those kids?
2. What are the guarantees that he will marry her? Is it his words of mouth?
3. Your mindset about how the guy is cute blah blah is wrong. His cuteness and presumed niceness will not raise the child o.
4. If you think your sis is not taking advantage of opportunity, just take her place and tell us the end result afterwards.
Note: No sane and serious guy will make such a demand on a woman he really loves and cares about considering the pain of divoice and raising of kids she has been and is going through.
If he's more concerned with her taking in than her stopping clubbing activities then he sure doesnt want her in the long term.

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Atom007(m): 11:46pm On Sep 07, 2019
Tell your sister to form fake pregnancy, she should make it perfect even with doctors report.
The truth will come out before three months , trust me, let her do it and you shall give testimony.

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by koyyess: 11:46pm On Sep 07, 2019
blackangel0403:
Hi guys, I i need your sincere advice pls.

My sister is a divorcee with two kids she is solely responsible for. Life has not been fair with her.

Finally, God brought a cute man who is based in UK her way, the man is willing to marry her and take her to the states, he has come to see our parents and also took her to see his, they have agreed to tie the nut in December this year.

The guy is currently in Nigeria and has been begging my sister to get pregnant for him, my sister knows for sure he will marry her once she is pregnant but doesn’t want to so that pregnancy doesn’t stop her from meeting other guys pending when he comes to pay her dowry. Note, they met in the club but the man still overlooked it and still proposed marriage to her.

Sincerely speaking, she wants to settle down with him but her problem is that she doesn’t want to get pregnant and stay alone all by herself pending when the man will take her and the kids to the uk, she wants to take in when she has moved to the uk, but then she is scared she might loose him before then as they are already having misunderstandings been that my sister likes hanging out with friends and going clubbing which doesn’t go well with the guy.

Now the guy is having double mind on if he can go ahead with the marriage or not, I have adviced her to take in for the man and by dec her dowry will be paid but she is adamant, pls what is the best option for her in this situation?


Take in for this guy now he is in Nigeria and secure him or wait till December and risk loosing him, note he is a very cute guy and every girls dream, my sister also is tired of life and wants to settle down, if she takes in now, by dec her pregnancy will be 3 months, she is also bothered abt wat people will say on why she took in befor she was married to the guy, my parents also especially my dad will frown at it but dey don’t know that life has not fair with her and she needs a man to call her own. Should she careless abt my parents and what people will say and take in or wait and do the proper marriage before she takes in?

She is 35 years old with two kids, no other suitor insight too.

Read this slowly....

You are one of the most idiotic beings ever to live on the surface of this earth.


In 2019?

If the man really wants to settle down with her, he doesn't need to give her conditions.

You are telling a mother of two who has been solely taking care of her kids to take in for a negro who is doubting her fertility. You don pay school fees before?

I hope you make the same decision you are asking your poor sister to take so that your eye go clear.

1diot.

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by openmine(m): 11:50pm On Sep 07, 2019
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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by openmine(m): 11:52pm On Sep 07, 2019
So people still get trapped in this phoney promise of abroad as if that will take them to their El Dorado!
Do they even know what the guy does for a living?
What if he has a family over there which he is hiding?
The worst mistake she will make is to get married or pregnant for a complete stranger!
OP Instead of trying to convince your sister to join a stranger abroad,why not channel that same energy to dissuade your sister from clubbing!

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Validated: 11:55pm On Sep 07, 2019
OP is desperately looking for an "akata" in-law, not minding how it turns out. By the way, do you really think that a man no matter how CUTE will burden himself with two children that are not his in UK? Hmmm! The guy want to give your sister another belle to make it 3 and jakpa. grin

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