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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by anEye4anEye: 11:57pm On Sep 07, 2019
Lol, what is the name of your sister? Is the Fiancee the one based in Brazil or London.

You sound like you're the one and your name is Nneoma grin grin grin

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Nobody: 12:01am On Sep 08, 2019
blackangel0403:
Hi guys, I i need your sincere advice pls.

My sister is a divorcee with two kids she is solely responsible for. Life has not been fair with her.

Finally, God brought a cute man who is based in UK her way, the man is willing to marry her and take her to the states, he has come to see our parents and also took her to see his, they have agreed to tie the nut in December this year.

The guy is currently in Nigeria and has been begging my sister to get pregnant for him, my sister knows for sure he will marry her once she is pregnant but doesn’t want to so that pregnancy doesn’t stop her from meeting other guys pending when he comes to pay her dowry. Note, they met in the club but the man still overlooked it and still proposed marriage to her.

Sincerely speaking, she wants to settle down with him but her problem is that she doesn’t want to get pregnant and stay alone all by herself pending when the man will take her and the kids to the uk, she wants to take in when she has moved to the uk, but then she is scared she might loose him before then as they are already having misunderstandings been that my sister likes hanging out with friends and going clubbing which doesn’t go well with the guy.

Now the guy is having double mind on if he can go ahead with the marriage or not, I have adviced her to take in for the man and by dec her dowry will be paid but she is adamant, pls what is the best option for her in this situation?


Take in for this guy now he is in Nigeria and secure him or wait till December and risk loosing him, note he is a very cute guy and every girls dream, my sister also is tired of life and wants to settle down, if she takes in now, by dec her pregnancy will be 3 months, she is also bothered abt wat people will say on why she took in befor she was married to the guy, my parents also especially my dad will frown at it but dey don’t know that life has not fair with her and she needs a man to call her own. Should she careless abt my parents and what people will say and take in or wait and do the proper marriage before she takes in?

She is 35 years old with two kids, no other suitor insight too.


The guy is a FoooOOoooOOOooL
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Meliian(f): 12:02am On Sep 08, 2019
So your sister with two kids without a husband still has time for clubbing? E be like say whoring life too sweet am. Nevertheless, this your story is disgusting to read. The question asked is a stupid question. It means that if a man tells you he would secure a citizenship u.s visa for you on condition that you get pregnant by him you would do it. Na wa. Women have truly lost their values.

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Meliian(f): 12:03am On Sep 08, 2019
anEye4anEye:
Lol, what is the name of your sister? Is the Fiancee the one based in Brazil or London.

You sound like you're the one and your name is Nneoma grin grin grin

She's the one definitely.

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by akpunda86: 12:03am On Sep 08, 2019
:2018 was ur sister


https://www.nairaland.com/4482312/divorcee-make-biggest-mistake-life#67194792

This year again your sister.
Miss that your sista is you.the divorcee is u.y same similar story every year.






quote author=blackangel0403 post=81994454]Hi guys, I i need your sincere advice pls.

My sister is a divorcee with two kids she is solely responsible for. Life has not been fair with her.

Finally, God brought a cute man who is based in UK her way, the man is willing to marry her and take her to the states, he has come to see our parents and also took her to see his, they have agreed to tie the nut in December this year.

The guy is currently in Nigeria and has been begging my sister to get pregnant for him, my sister knows for sure he will marry her once she is pregnant but doesn’t want to so that pregnancy doesn’t stop her from meeting other guys pending when he comes to pay her dowry. Note, they met in the club but the man still overlooked it and still proposed marriage to her.

Sincerely speaking, she wants to settle down with him but her problem is that she doesn’t want to get pregnant and stay alone all by herself pending when the man will take her and the kids to the uk, she wants to take in when she has moved to the uk, but then she is scared she might loose him before then as they are already having misunderstandings been that my sister likes hanging out with friends and going clubbing which doesn’t go well with the guy.

Now the guy is having double mind on if he can go ahead with the marriage or not, I have adviced her to take in for the man and by dec her dowry will be paid but she is adamant, pls what is the best option for her in this situation?


Take in for this guy now he is in Nigeria and secure him or wait till December and risk loosing him, note he is a very cute guy and every girls dream, my sister also is tired of life and wants to settle down, if she takes in now, by dec her pregnancy will be 3 months, she is also bothered abt wat people will say on why she took in befor she was married to the guy, my parents also especially my dad will frown at it but dey don’t know that life has not fair with her and she needs a man to call her own. Should she careless abt my parents and what people will say and take in or wait and do the proper marriage before she takes in?

She is 35 years old with two kids, no other suitor insight too.[/quote]

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by ibechris(m): 12:04am On Sep 08, 2019
This is serious oh.
Is like u are desperate to travel not even ur sister?

U are not talking like someone who reall wants to help ur sister. U think because he came from the UK that alone is brings happiness.

Ur sister may have come out from a big trouble and here u are pushing her to marry another strange man all because of selfishness.

I feel u want to drag ur sister into this relationship so that u can travel to the UK.
It is not how handsome a man is that makes a marriage,rather bonding and everlasting love are keys to a good marriage.
So be careful not to cause ur sister another divorce.

Listen
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by blackangel0403(m): 12:07am On Sep 08, 2019
koyyess:


Read this slowly....

You are one of the most idiotic beings ever to live on the surface of this earth.


In 2019?

If the man really wants to settle down with her, he doesn't need to give her conditions.

You are telling a mother of two who has been solely taking care of her kids to take in for a negro who is doubting her fertility. You don pay school fees before?

I hope you make the same decision you are asking your poor sister to take so that your eye go clear.

1diot.

you are senseless bigot, take your frustration elsewhere, I am not the reason why you are miserable in life, get some life pls.
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by ibechris(m): 12:10am On Sep 08, 2019
Meliian:
So your sister with two kids without a husband still has time for clubbing? E be like say whoring life too sweet am. Nevertheless, this your story is disgusting to read. The question asked is a stupid question. It means that if a man tells you he would secure a citizenship u.s visa for you on condition that you get pregnant by him you would do it. Na wa. Women have truly lost their values.




She sounds like a poor desperate lady...must men do everything for women. What makes her think that man is not fooling both of them.
How on earth would u allow ur sister to be used for this kind of APC joke?
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by madridsta007(m): 12:11am On Sep 08, 2019
blackangel0403:
Hi guys, I i need your sincere advice pls.

My sister is a divorcee with two kids she is solely responsible for. Life has not been fair with her.

Finally, God brought a cute man who is based in UK her way, the man is willing to marry her and take her to the states, he has come to see our parents and also took her to see his, they have agreed to tie the nut in December this year.

The guy is currently in Nigeria and has been begging my sister to get pregnant for him, my sister knows for sure he will marry her once she is pregnant but doesn’t want to so that pregnancy doesn’t stop her from meeting other guys pending when he comes to pay her dowry. Note, they met in the club but the man still overlooked it and still proposed marriage to her.

Sincerely speaking, she wants to settle down with him but her problem is that she doesn’t want to get pregnant and stay alone all by herself pending when the man will take her and the kids to the uk, she wants to take in when she has moved to the uk, but then she is scared she might loose him before then as they are already having misunderstandings been that my sister likes hanging out with friends and going clubbing which doesn’t go well with the guy.

Now the guy is having double mind on if he can go ahead with the marriage or not, I have adviced her to take in for the man and by dec her dowry will be paid but she is adamant, pls what is the best option for her in this situation?


Take in for this guy now he is in Nigeria and secure him or wait till December and risk loosing him, note he is a very cute guy and every girls dream, my sister also is tired of life and wants to settle down, if she takes in now, by dec her pregnancy will be 3 months, she is also bothered abt wat people will say on why she took in befor she was married to the guy, my parents also especially my dad will frown at it but dey don’t know that life has not fair with her and she needs a man to call her own. Should she careless abt my parents and what people will say and take in or wait and do the proper marriage before she takes in?

She is 35 years old with two kids, no other suitor insight too.


He is probably trying to persuade her to get pregnant for him because at 35 years and with 2 kids, your sister is still acting like an NYSC Youth Corp member- going to clubs, partying and smiling to other men.
No serious man would see such a behaviour and get worried.
1. You should first tell her to live a more responsible life. This sounds harsh, but hey, the truth is the truth. I read this, " my sister likes hanging out with friends and going clubbing" and read this "my sister also is tired of life and wants to settle down". Extremely contradictory. How can someone who wants to settle down continue hanging out with friends and hangs in clubs? That is a whoring lifestyle. You people should be serious for once.

2. Never, I repeat, never push her to get pregnant for the guy before the traditional marriage proper is done. Interestingly, you have said anything about what the guy does, etc. Only that he "stays in the UK". Is that some sort of job on its own, "staying in the UK?" Really? You seem not to know this dude's background asides his so-called UK residency. Again, you need to get serious.

Just as a word of advice: the day a man knows you are desperate for him, if the man does not have the fear of God in him, he will use your sister, use you and use your family.

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by koyyess: 12:14am On Sep 08, 2019
blackangel0403:
you are senseless bigot, take your frustration elsewhere, I am not the reason why you are miserable in life, get some life pls.

From your wright up, its even seems you are harboring feelings for this negroe.

Oya na go and get pregnant for him so you can enter obodo oyibo.

Its as simple as ABC in your own head.

Mumu.

It sucks to have females like you still existing in 2019.

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by blackangel0403(m): 12:15am On Sep 08, 2019
akpunda86:
:2018 was ur sister


https://www.nairaland.com/4482312/divorcee-make-biggest-mistake-life#67194792

This year again your sister.
Miss that your sista is you.the divorcee is u.y same similar story every year.you are entitled to your opinion, I have taken the advice from matured minded minds here and have trashed others given or insinuated by some frustrated individuals like you who come online to poor their frustrations on people, I will advise her accordingly.






quote author=blackangel0403 post=81994454]Hi guys, I i need your sincere advice pls.

My sister is a divorcee with two kids she is solely responsible for. Life has not been fair with her.

Finally, God brought a cute man who is based in UK her way, the man is willing to marry her and take her to the states, he has come to see our parents and also took her to see his, they have agreed to tie the nut in December this year.

The guy is currently in Nigeria and has been begging my sister to get pregnant for him, my sister knows for sure he will marry her once she is pregnant but doesn’t want to so that pregnancy doesn’t stop her from meeting other guys pending when he comes to pay her dowry. Note, they met in the club but the man still overlooked it and still proposed marriage to her.

Sincerely speaking, she wants to settle down with him but her problem is that she doesn’t want to get pregnant and stay alone all by herself pending when the man will take her and the kids to the uk, she wants to take in when she has moved to the uk, but then she is scared she might loose him before then as they are already having misunderstandings been that my sister likes hanging out with friends and going clubbing which doesn’t go well with the guy.

Now the guy is having double mind on if he can go ahead with the marriage or not, I have adviced her to take in for the man and by dec her dowry will be paid but she is adamant, pls what is the best option for her in this situation?


Take in for this guy now he is in Nigeria and secure him or wait till December and risk loosing him, note he is a very cute guy and every girls dream, my sister also is tired of life and wants to settle down, if she takes in now, by dec her pregnancy will be 3 months, she is also bothered abt wat people will say on why she took in befor she was married to the guy, my parents also especially my dad will frown at it but dey don’t know that life has not fair with her and she needs a man to call her own. Should she careless abt my parents and what people will say and take in or wait and do the proper marriage before she takes in?

She is 35 years old with two kids, no other suitor insight too.
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by greatermeme: 12:17am On Sep 08, 2019
blackangel0403:
Hi guys, I i need your sincere advice pls.

My sister is a divorcee with two kids she is solely responsible for. Life has not been fair with her.

Finally, God brought a cute man who is based in UK her way, the man is willing to marry her and take her to the states, he has come to see our parents and also took her to see his, they have agreed to tie the nut in December this year.

The guy is currently in Nigeria and has been begging my sister to get pregnant for him, my sister knows for sure he will marry her once she is pregnant but doesn’t want to so that pregnancy doesn’t stop her from meeting other guys pending when he comes to pay her dowry. Note, they met in the club but the man still overlooked it and still proposed marriage to her.

Sincerely speaking, she wants to settle down with him but her problem is that she doesn’t want to get pregnant and stay alone all by herself pending when the man will take her and the kids to the uk, she wants to take in when she has moved to the uk, but then she is scared she might loose him before then as they are already having misunderstandings been that my sister likes hanging out with friends and going clubbing which doesn’t go well with the guy.

Now the guy is having double mind on if he can go ahead with the marriage or not, I have adviced her to take in for the man and by dec her dowry will be paid but she is adamant, pls what is the best option for her in this situation?


Take in for this guy now he is in Nigeria and secure him or wait till December and risk loosing him, note he is a very cute guy and every girls dream, my sister also is tired of life and wants to settle down, if she takes in now, by dec her pregnancy will be 3 months, she is also bothered abt wat people will say on why she took in befor she was married to the guy, my parents also especially my dad will frown at it but dey don’t know that life has not fair with her and she needs a man to call her own. Should she careless abt my parents and what people will say and take in or wait and do the proper marriage before she takes in?

She is 35 years old with two kids, no other suitor insight too.
You have advised her to take in for him! You're stupid! What kind of a person are you? The life ban I'll place on you is "Never you ever give anybody any piece of advice!"

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by akpunda86: 12:17am On Sep 08, 2019
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by mozzking: 12:17am On Sep 08, 2019
everybody just dey talk too much for here, let just put love portion for him food simple
i trust real nigerian women lol
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by blackangel0403(m): 12:19am On Sep 08, 2019
Charlatan, you are entitled to your opinion, I have taken the advice from matured minded minds here and have trashed others given or insinuated by some frustrated individuals like you who come online to poor their frustrations on people, I will advise her accordingly.
koyyess:


From your wright up, its even seems you are harboring feelings for this negroe.

Oya na go and get pregnant for him so you can enter obodo oyibo.

Its as simple as ABC in your own head.

Mumu.

It sucks to have females like you still existing in 2019.
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by blackangel0403(m): 12:21am On Sep 08, 2019
greatermeme:
You have advised her to take in for him! You're stupid! What kind of a person are you? The life ban I'll place on you is "Never you ever give anybody any piece of advice!"
and from the way you sound like an uneducated fool, you think the best way to dish out advice is by first insulting the person. Agbaya
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by koyyess: 12:21am On Sep 08, 2019
blackangel0403:
Charlatan, you are entitled to your opinion, I have taken the advice from matured minded minds here and have trashed others given or insinuated by some frustrated individuals like you who come online to poor their frustrations on people, I will advise her accordingly.

Advise who

Someone who has more sense than you ever will?

Foolish clown.

See this jobless entity bringing her own sister's matter on this forum since last year.

Don't go and find your bearing.

fish head.

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by grandstar(m): 12:25am On Sep 08, 2019
blackangel0403

She should not get pregnant for the guy. If the guy can't accept it, he should go away.

What nonsense.

It's worse than having a prenuptial agreement before a wedding. Many women who have gone ahead have regretted it as the man can still dump her and she'll be stuck with 3 kids. She isn't a Bimbo and I respect her a lot.

She should be frank with the man: it's either they marry and have kids or no marriage. If he doubts her fertility, they can go to a fertility clinic to confirm.

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by greatermeme: 12:25am On Sep 08, 2019
blackangel0403:
and from the way you sound like an uneducated fool, you think the best way to dish out advice is by first insulting the person. Agbaya
Your dad is to blame for not using condom! He caused the rudeness I'm being unleashed upon by you!

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by blackangel0403(m): 12:25am On Sep 08, 2019
Meliian:


She's the one definitely.
yes my name is nneoma, and then what?
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by kowema(f): 12:25am On Sep 08, 2019
blackangel0403:
Hi guys, I i need your sincere advice pls.

My sister is a divorcee with two kids she is solely responsible for. Life has not been fair with her.

Finally, God brought a cute man who is based in UK her way, the man is willing to marry her and take her to the states, he has come to see our parents and also took her to see his, they have agreed to tie the nut in December this year.

The guy is currently in Nigeria and has been begging my sister to get pregnant for him, my sister knows for sure he will marry her once she is pregnant but doesn’t want to so that pregnancy doesn’t stop her from meeting other guys pending when he comes to pay her dowry. Note, they met in the club but the man still overlooked it and still proposed marriage to her.

Sincerely speaking, she wants to settle down with him but her problem is that she doesn’t want to get pregnant and stay alone all by herself pending when the man will take her and the kids to the uk, she wants to take in when she has moved to the uk, but then she is scared she might loose him before then as they are already having misunderstandings been that my sister likes hanging out with friends and going clubbing which doesn’t go well with the guy.

Now the guy is having double mind on if he can go ahead with the marriage or not, I have adviced her to take in for the man and by dec her dowry will be paid but she is adamant, pls what is the best option for her in this situation?


Take in for this guy now he is in Nigeria and secure him or wait till December and risk loosing him, note he is a very cute guy and every girls dream, my sister also is tired of life and wants to settle down, if she takes in now, by dec her pregnancy will be 3 months, she is also bothered abt wat people will say on why she took in befor she was married to the guy, my parents also especially my dad will frown at it but dey don’t know that life has not fair with her and she needs a man to call her own. Should she careless abt my parents and what people will say and take in or wait and do the proper marriage before she takes in?

She is 35 years old with two kids, no other suitor insight too.


Let her not take in for him. It's called repeated pattern and more like another test. It may most likely end up as the same two. The most of ur point about the man is that he is cute!.
Is cuteness what it takes to make a home work especially with the complexity of ur Sister's situation?.

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Shugargal(f): 12:27am On Sep 08, 2019
Pavore9:
You sister has been married and divorced, remarrying should not be based on desperation. At 35 and with 2 children, her focus should be on personal development that would positively impact on her children not a man who is promising to take her abroad. That the said man have gone to see your parents is no guarantee of marriage or eventual relocation abroad. What if the intention of the man is to have your sister get pregnant and have both families know about it and if he decides not to go ahead marrying her, she is definitely not going to abort the pregnancy thus becoming his baby mama. Being already divorced and with children, your sister would be less drama as his baby mama, which mouth she go use call out the guy?

At 35, your sister should re-evaluate her life, is clubbing helping her become more aware of self, the friends she hangs out with are they positive influence to herself and her children? She needs to redirect efforts in working on her self worth, she will not be begging a man when she will get pregnant.

When people feel you live a purposeful life, they see the gem in you.
God bless you sir!
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by pennywys(m): 12:28am On Sep 08, 2019
blackangel0403:
Hi guys, I i need your sincere advice pls.

My sister is a divorcee with two kids she is solely responsible for. Life has not been fair with her.

Finally, God brought a cute man who is based in UK her way, the man is willing to marry her and take her to the states, he has come to see our parents and also took her to see his, they have agreed to tie the nut in December this year.

The guy is currently in Nigeria and has been begging my sister to get pregnant for him, my sister knows for sure he will marry her once she is pregnant but doesn’t want to so that pregnancy doesn’t stop her from meeting other guys pending when he comes to pay her dowry. Note, they met in the club but the man still overlooked it and still proposed marriage to her.

Sincerely speaking, she wants to settle down with him but her problem is that she doesn’t want to get pregnant and stay alone all by herself pending when the man will take her and the kids to the uk, she wants to take in when she has moved to the uk, but then she is scared she might loose him before then as they are already having misunderstandings been that my sister likes hanging out with friends and going clubbing which doesn’t go well with the guy.

Now the guy is having double mind on if he can go ahead with the marriage or not, I have adviced her to take in for the man and by dec her dowry will be paid but she is adamant, pls what is the best option for her in this situation?


Take in for this guy now he is in Nigeria and secure him or wait till December and risk loosing him, note he is a very cute guy and every girls dream, my sister also is tired of life and wants to settle down, if she takes in now, by dec her pregnancy will be 3 months, she is also bothered abt wat people will say on why she took in befor she was married to the guy, my parents also especially my dad will frown at it but dey don’t know that life has not fair with her and she needs a man to call her own. Should she careless abt my parents and what people will say and take in or wait and do the proper marriage before she takes in?

She is 35 years old with two kids, no other suitor insight too.
its obvious what ur sister is and you a slut, imagine 'he is a very cute guy and every ladies dream' I won't surprise you may take in for the guy since ur sister is adamant. The nigga if he is rare I wonder how stupid he think to marry a divorcee mother of two, process travelling documents for mother and kids to the US. Or, probably he is using this antics to convince ur sister to become a single mother of three. Poor clubbing woman with experience, but you little slut won't see it that way

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Nobody: 12:28am On Sep 08, 2019
Don't push her to get pregnant for him oo. Not the right way to go about this. She's got two kids already
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by greatermeme: 12:30am On Sep 08, 2019
blackangel0403:
and from the way you sound like an uneducated fool, you think the best way to dish out advice is by first insulting the person. Agbaya
Monitor Lizard, you attacked me for no just cause!

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by blackangel0403(m): 12:32am On Sep 08, 2019
And your mum is to be blamed for opening her legs for a poor man hence why u are miserable.
greatermeme:
Your dad is to blame for not using condom! He caused the rudeness I'm being unleashed upon by you!
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by grandstar(m): 12:32am On Sep 08, 2019
tolugar:
My dear op.

That guy has no intentions of taking her to UK.

Na baby mama things he is looking for. Once he takes in and the dowery is paid then voooooommmmm

From one story to another.

Pls don’t push your sis. She know what she is doing. Once she gets to UK she can take in.

Either the guy take it or leave it.

He is looking for naija wife.


it or leave it.
Maybe guy man is looking for naija wife.

It is utter nonsense the guy is asking for. Wants her to be saddled with 3 kids.

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by greatermeme: 12:36am On Sep 08, 2019
blackangel0403:
And your mum is to be blamed for opening her legs for a poor man hence why u are miserable.
Your stupid dad once told me that your mum is a prostitute! Imagine that!

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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Amanda4life: 12:37am On Sep 08, 2019
Please leave that your sister alone.
Do you know what she has been through in the former marriage?

Infact you yourself can tie the nut with the UK man and leave your sister alone.

Please allow her to obey her instinct.

You want to push her into another fire.

Sincerely you yourself need help mchew
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by greatermeme: 12:39am On Sep 08, 2019
blackangel0403:
And your mum is to be blamed for opening her legs for a poor man hence why u are miserable.
And, I'm 100% sure that your mum is not alive!
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Trueyarn(m): 12:40am On Sep 08, 2019
Everyone just telling this OP to tell his sister to thread with caution should just go down to the eternal, bottomless and void pit of Tatarus!!! A woman who has 3 kids, at the age of 35, and is still an active member of "thank god it's friday"...in other words an active night clubber should understand that God has given her another slate... She should stop night clubbing, take in for the "cute based in UK guy" and just be grateful that the guy is a recompense from God for all she has suffered, knowingly and unknowingly.

I have just 3 Brothers, no sister... The day any of them takes a decision similar to the one the 'intending brother inlaw' on this thread took, I will personally disassociate from him, on my blood, drop for drop!
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by blackangel0403(m): 12:40am On Sep 08, 2019
pennywys:
its obvious what ur sister is and you a slut, imagine 'he is a very cute guy and every ladies dream' I won't surprise you may take in for the guy since ur sister is adamant. The nigga if he is rare I wonder how stupid he think to marry a divorcee mother of two, process travelling documents for mother and kids to the US. Or, probably he is using this antics to convince ur sister to become a single mother of three. Poor clubbing woman with experience, but you little slut won't see it that way
bigger slut, you have seen the bigger picture, shove your opinion down your empty pocket, all men aren’t as broke as you are.

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