1x2x3:


Lying nursing mother you mean. Is the husband not taking care of her financial needs? The husband isn't mad about the so called saving but the lies and deceit. How can he trust her next costing?

Now switch the table. The man lost his job and the woman is providing then you visited them only to hear the man takes money aside from what your sister provides for running certain bills........ He claims he is saving.

Will you be on his side?

Oga, the issue is just common sense. The females are defending the woman and making excuses for her because they are the types that would selfishly and wickedly milk their husbands. They are just soothing their conscience and protecting their manipulative game by using stupid excuses to favour the narrative that it's right to milk their husbands.

I don’t have time or energy to argue about such things. Petty arguements. What nonsense

Martinez39:
This is pure nonsense. Any money that remains from the upkeep money should be used in the next upkeep money. The woman is just milking her husband and it's not right. If she needed the remaining upkeep money, she should have told her husband. What's stops her from going to make her money instead of milking her husband? The husband is complaining because money is not easy to make and he understands, just like anyone with common sense, that she is milking him. The wife is selfish, mean and inconsiderate. Insecurity is indeed the weakness of a woman.

Well it's true, looking at it from that angle.

victorian:








Well it's true, looking at it from that angle.

How is work? I hope UyaiIncomparable is no longer giving you problems?

1x2x3:


She can't work?

Maybe the husband does not want her to work.
I know of igbo traders along the lane my office building is, the very beautiful wives they bring from the village don't work, they prefer she stays at home. While they work and bring in the money. You wil hear the traders whisper to themselves, they don't want Lagos girls to spoil their wives nor Lagos guys to deceive their wives. So she's better off staying at home.

All the igbo traders have seen, they are all the same. Their wives don't work.

What do you say about that?

fowlyansh181:
Nigerians and not being able to understand questions.. the man isn’t angry the wife is saving money, but rather is angry the wife didn’t tell him.. seems the wife had other plans and was caught.

Exactly. Had it been the wife had told him, he wouldn't be angry. For her to keep what's left and still collect more upkeep money shows she has been lying to the husband. For the husband not to have known shows that she must have told lies. She is milking her husband and the igwe must hear this.

Martinez39:
How is work? I hope UyaiIncomparable is no longer giving you problems?

Nah, at all

Uyailncomparable is a sweet girl, very nice lady. I misconstrue her intentions.

We later met and she's a cool babe.

work is great I can't thank God enough for everything .

victorian:







Nah, at all

Uyailncomparable is a sweet girl, very nice lady. I misconstrue her intentions.

We later met and she's a cool babe.

work is great I can't thank God enough for everything .

Oh great that both of you found peace with each other. Peace is better than dispute. Have a nice day.

Cantonese:


So your wife should turn to mallam changing money inside the house or aboki with walking stick that begs money? How does giving you “change” make your wife a trustworthy woman? Hahahahaha. I laugh in French.
One of those things that keep the house happy and going is the money madam keeps to herself. Bros na wah for you o. So it means that you will give your wife money and then the list of items like ugu, ponmo, etc to go to the market. When she gets back you execute a search warrant on her and the items. Why not kuku go to the market yourself so that madam will not “chop” your change illegally. Bros I hope you are not one eri eri?

you comment with emotions rather than making sense

victorian:







Nah, at all

Uyaiincomparabl is a sweet girl, very nice lady. I misconstrue her intentions.

We later met and she's a cool babe.

work is great I can't thank God enough for everything .

some men get wahala like women ishhhhh mtewww

I will be very angry.. Experience something similar, my babe be complaining foodstuffs is expensive,
Me- babe estimate how much you need without asking or complaining.
Babe- 35k.
Me- not wanting issues, okay monthly I struggle to pay 35k for foodsftufs.
I Carter for electricity bills, water, house rent, TV sub's, data etc by month end I'm dry, yet she keeps saving as much as 15-20k from the monthly house keeps.
I was once very broke I asked her if she had money she could lend, she said no.
I took inventory of what she bought month end it wasn't up to 10k I later discovered she gives out the remaining foodstuffs once month is ending...
Me will end the relationship end of this year, make she save well...

[quote author=Deola2020 post=82211875][/quote]Hehehe... See your nose

ha! Opari!!

ornicus:


no be you women

na hair money jare

i am just remebering a few years back when ceo was in psycho mode. every meeting na to tear pesin new yansh
guys were coming out of meeting with eyes wet.
pesin go dey think -fk this i no dey do again - then remember thins like food allowance and school fees.
the womans actions may actually be hindering the husbands goals and aspirations.

You'd better end it now before she milk you dry before year end.

Oyerinde16:
I will be very angry.. Experience something similar, my babe be complaining foodstuffs is expensive,
Me- babe estimate how much you need without asking or complaining.
Babe- 35k.
Me- not wanting issues, okay monthly I struggle to pay 35k for foodsftufs.
I Carter for electricity bills, water, house rent, TV sub's, data etc by month end I'm dry, yet she keeps saving as much as 15-20k from the monthly house keeps.
I was once very broke I asked her if she had money she could lend, she said no.
I took inventory of what she bought month end it wasn't up to 10k I later discovered she gives out the remaining foodstuffs once month is ending...
Me will end the relationship end of this year, make she save well...

asdfjklhaha:

You didn't read the part I said she was a nursing mum...she has a shop that has been closed for weeks.

Is it under this few weeks that they are already fighting over "change"? I doubt that, the issue has been there. Your sister should return all his change to him whenever she comes back from the market, to the last kobo. If he feels like giving her back, fine. After that she should face her business very well. If she were working a 9-5, salary for sure, but as a business woman- she has to find a way around it.

E get as you go ignore man money, not maliciously but because you are pulling your own weight- he would be the one trying to make impact. Allow his ego do the job.

LordKO:





You aren't just a healthy living advisor extraordinaire, but also an icon of fairness.

Kudos.

Kindly join the queue.
We are many on her case

1x2x3:


Lying nursing mother you mean. Is the husband not taking care of her financial needs? The husband isn't mad about the so called saving but the lies and deceit. How can he trust her next costing?

Now switch the table. The man lost his job and the woman is providing then you visited them only to hear the man takes money aside from what your sister provides for running certain bills........ He claims he is saving.

Will you be on his side?

So you never heard?
Different rules apply to males.

If she's saving for emergencies why on earth would I be angry with her? It gladdens a man's heart to hear of such woman. When I give my girlfriend money she saves some without telling me, but when problem comes this girl will magically bring out money from no where, if you see the smile in my face. Nothing sweet me pass, I don't have time to ask nonsense questions about where and how she got the money even if I noticed the meat in the stew was smaller than the previous one! Which kind yeye investigation be that one. Your sister deserves an accolade not bashing!

And those of you saying she broke his trust and she would have told him, really? As if you won't ask for the change to fuel the generator or reduce next month money and ask her to add it up with the change. She's doing you a favor by saving it, cause one day it will be red and you won't see a dime from anywhere then she'll magically provide money. Ave read of a case where a man was in tears because the landlord came disturbing for rent and he had nothing and the wife went into her room and opened her savings box, parked all the money and give to him. It was more than enough to pay the rent! There are boys and there are men, it's only a grown boy husband that would get mad at his wife for saving money! That's pure stupidity.

It even annoys me when she is spending the money for upkeep excessively on upkeep. I ask if she won’t save anything...

ednut1:
The average 9ja woman expect you to deplete your resources and even borrow despite her savings nonsense

This is the problem. She won't even borrow you your own money in time of shortage of fund

OgogoroFreak:
Hehehe... See your nose

My sexy nose ba

asdfjklhaha:

you didn't read where I sad she's a nursing mum...she has a shop that has been closed for weeks now.

Closed for some weeks ?

Where is her saving from her business ?


You don't have the full gist

Oyerinde16:
I will be very angry.. Experience something similar, my babe be complaining foodstuffs is expensive,
Me- babe estimate how much you need without asking or complaining.
Babe- 35k.
Me- not wanting issues, okay monthly I struggle to pay 35k for foodsftufs.
I Carter for electricity bills, water, house rent, TV sub's, data etc by month end I'm dry, yet she keeps saving as much as 15-20k from the monthly house keeps.
I was once very broke I asked her if she had money she could lend, she said no.
I took inventory of what she bought month end it wasn't up to 10k I later discovered she gives out the remaining foodstuffs once month is ending...
Me will end the relationship end of this year, make she save well...

Your babe is very wicked! There's a very big difference with what she's doing and being prudent. A good woman will never hype price or lie about cost of food stuff in the market. She will only price harder in the market, or omit some items that are excess at home. And she's saving the money for when you will need it not for her selfish gain. Asking for 30k monthly for food stuff just for the both of you is fraudulent and she should be reported to EFCC

lol olodo that's NOT gender equality though. Gender equality means access to equal opportunities regardless of gender. E.g a woman shouldn't be barred from being a pilot and a man shouldn't be barred from being a hairdresser.

Datazone:

Then let her work and earn some money. Stop being a parasite. You all want gender equality, no?

Shut the f^ck up!!!! Are you married? The sister already said the wife has a business. Do you know if that was the arrangement between the woman and her husband?! ”I doubt that” see your yeye mouth what do you know about a dispute between husband and wife??

pocohantas:


Is it under this few weeks that they are already fighting over "change"? I doubt that, the issue has been there. Your sister should return all his change to him whenever she comes back from the market, to the last kobo. If he feels like giving her back, fine. After that she should face her business very well. If she were working a 9-5, salary for sure, but as a business woman- she has to find a way around it.

E get as you go ignore man money, not maliciously but because you are pulling your own weight- he would be the one trying to make impact. Allow his ego do the job.

The man should be happy that the wife can save something from what she's given. Some women will spend everything and still request more. The money should be seen as spent for the month. The man is still behaving like a boy. This shouldn't be reason to quarrel. It's this kind of person that will one day call the wife for audit of spendings and subsequently request to be the one buying things for soup too.

Oyerinde16:
I will be very angry.. Experience something similar, my babe be complaining foodstuffs is expensive,
Me- babe estimate how much you need without asking or complaining.
Babe- 35k.
Me- not wanting issues, okay monthly I struggle to pay 35k for foodsftufs.
I Carter for electricity bills, water, house rent, TV sub's, data etc by month end I'm dry, yet she keeps saving as much as 15-20k from the monthly house keeps.
I was once very broke I asked her if she had money she could lend, she said no.
I took inventory of what she bought month end it wasn't up to 10k I later discovered she gives out the remaining foodstuffs once month is ending...
Me will end the relationship end of this year, make she save well...

As a man u need to marry a woman u can trust...infidelity is not only in body...there is financial infidelity too....I mean if u can't trust her with upkeep money...how do u trust her to execute and supervise projects if u need to travel and work from abroad....If only women know the doubts they cast in the heart of men with behaviours like this...A man begins to question loyalty sef...transparency and openness is all that is required

Some people will be lucky enough to find that good wife as described in the holy book but will now use their stupid behaviour to reject the favours and blessings they are supposed to get from God. Mad people everywhere.

asdfjklhaha:
Husbands please will you be happy with your wife,if you discover she is saving from the house keep money? Please give reasons.

I went to spend sometime with my elder sister along with my mum cos she just delivered. And recently her husband was quarreling with her it got so serious that mumsy had to intervene. after everything died down, I asked mumsy what happened she said the man was very angry because his wife which is my sister has been saving money from the upkeep money he's been given to her.

that if she had any left overs she should have told him so he'll add it to the next money he'll give and spend less. he said she's selfish and inconsiderate.

for me I don't see any big deal in it cos as a woman a nursing mother she should have some cash in hand.

please what are your views

No big deal, women have that tendency to always want to save for the rainy day. Infact I will be happy because she will save me expenses elsewhere.

[quote author=princeadams11 post=82210697][/quote] I disagree with u, ur sister is pushing this young man to spend higher so that she can save for different purpose, u and ur mummy came for Omugo for this hardships and u are telling the young man not to complain, he most complain oo, body no be firewood.

Martinez39:
Oh great that both of you found peace with each other. Peace is better than dispute. Have a nice day.

Yes we did.

Thanks dear