truthsayer009:


It's normal and that is the mantra. They invested a lot in such lifestyle because it still takes some effort to actually look rich.

1. They drive a good car, Benz preferably.
2. They live in a good rented apartment in urban areas.
3. They use the latest iPhone.
4. They dress quite well.

So when they meet you, you are already gassed and fallen in love. They they hit you with my business needs some loans etc

By then, you are already in love, so...

Hahaha.. And dem go fvck join... Scammers

pocohantas:


Because I expected and predicted post like yours. So, I helped you guys. That way you can save your breath and focus on the topic...

okay

healthserve:




My dear. One fell badly. The one that failed my test went for a man who kept shouting London today, Paris tomorrow, me wet just be ordinary teacher just dey look jeje. In the end, he fvcks her day in day out People knew about it, her reputation south. She was the one financing his deeds her eyes no clear. He went voodoo on her. He was sexing over ten ladies the same time. No marriage, nothing.


I've been having a good laff on the side lines. Babe I setup a company as a token to propose to her with. She would have been the owner of the company by nowm I'm having my evil laff at the back.

The drama hasnt ended as I'll update this story on a thread once the dust is clear. The shame she's suffering is still unfolding

Gist plenty. May God continue to deliver us from those who will only be loyal when our accounts are reading fat.

AwkaetitiBabe:
OH you even a guy. Well, we keep interacting until we meet the right one that suits us.

yes,i am.....no wonder I get funny replies from abj ladies online until I got tired and deleted the app.it must be that bad.

Blackivy29:

Although their operation is more coded than the females. A good amount guys are gold diggers, but few are noticed. That gives the impression that they aren't.

All I need is to give her a nice banging with some of my herbs and every other thing will fall into place

uboma:




Gist plenty. May God continue to deliver us from those who will only be loyal when our accounts are reading fat.

These ladies have now improved. Some will be loyal first few years of marriage, after some years they don leopard. Never propose to them without thorough due diligence prayerfully.

truthsayer009:


BRO are you minding the Idiot. A guy who takes you to Dubai & S/Africa will now be needing your 10Million.

Does he think people give what they don't have? I tire oh.

no, the thing i was trying to point out is that if the lady has the time to spend one full week with her man in dubai just to keep the man company while he does his business, it means she CANNOT have 10m naira of her own, at all!

Markets?I mean companies. All those guys claiming executives have you bothered to ask them where they work? The only businesses that can thrive in abuja are businesses that sell food or some other basic needs. The only coys to work in abuja are either banks, nnpc or govt parastatals/ministries. Sadly, majority of the guys that work in the last two are northerners so if you meet a guy in abuja and he's not a banker nor is gainfully employed in a govt agency please run!

AwkaetitiBabe:
You know that's not true. There are many businesses here. We having thriving markets where people make money legitimately.

healthserve:




My dear. One fell badly. The one that failed my test went for a man who kept shouting London today, Paris tomorrow, me wet just be ordinary teacher just dey look jeje. In the end, he fvcks her day in day out People knew about it, her reputation south. She was the one financing his deeds her eyes no clear. He went voodoo on her. He was sexing over ten ladies the same time. No marriage, nothing.


I've been having a good laff on the side lines. Babe I setup a company as a token to propose to her with. She would have been the owner of the company by nowm I'm having my evil laff at the back.

The drama hasnt ended as I'll update this story on a thread once the dust is clear. The shame she's suffering is still unfolding

BRO, I don't mean to rain on your parade but even If you dated or proposed to that lady, what is the guarantee that It would still work out? Answer: None.

I don't think It's good to mock people based on their Life's disappointments.

MiddleDimension:


no, the thing i was trying to point out is that if the lady has the time to spend one full week with her man in dubai just to keep the man company while he does his business, it means she CANNOT have 10m naira of her own, at all!

Ofcourse unless she has her own business & someone has to oversee it while she is away. It is still possible.

AwkaetitiBabe:
First question most of them ask is, who you living with? Tell them you live with family and watch them escape.

Babe I raise hand for you oo! You sabi! Abi dey don do yo be4?

Btw, what's wrong with being a farmer? Three 4 years ago I used to do poultry farming as a side hustle and I made at least 150k ler month as profit until I didnt have time to visit the farm every week cos of work and my employees started stealing from my farm. I had to shut it down. I plan to restart farming again next year.

uboma:


True, they ditch the good guys and fall mugu for the ones that will lie and treat them badly.

Recently I offered to send airtime to a lady whom I told earlier that I am a Farmer. She complained of not having airtime hence could not respond to my chats. Sent her some airtime, 3 hours later she acknowledged receipt and thanked me. Asked her how much she received, she first pretended not to know but later said something like 1500 or thereabout.

I no longer respond to her chats....

pocohantas:


Na them them. They play local and foreign...

lol,God airpus

[quote author=Olamsoh post=82349203]A friend of a family friend was scammed with such ingenuity. These Island guys (like 3) would rent an apartment. Share a big ride. They know their target market. They pick you out with good convo and financial distractions.

Within a week of talking, the guy would invite you to join him on his week long business trip to Dubai. In Dubai, he would give you money to shop daily while he goes for his "business meeting"

In your mind, you are having the time of your life. On due date, you return to 9ja. He will probably take you to another trip to S/Africa. Rinse & repeat. 1 month later, he would make a wonderful call in your presence where business would crumble or he need a huge sum to sort out something. His mood changes & in your sympathy, you offer to help loving boyfriend.

That is how, he will collect 10/15 million from you. You have seen him discuss business and hustle nd taken you on holidays so you think he is real. He probably spent 3 million on you. Now he is a profit of 13 million. When next you visit, you will see another guy in the house..[/quote. Quite agree with u. But sounds like one of these nollywood script

AwkaetitiBabe:
Sure I have. We gotta experience stuffs to learn and grow.

like your being open!

But that showed she doesn't. So I had to move on fast!

AwkaetitiBabe:
I think if she loves you truly, she won't mind your financial status.

That's scamming and not gold digging

smeag0l:
Btw, what's wrong with being a farmer? Three 4 years ago I used to do poultry farming as a side hustle and I made at least 150k ler month as profit until I didnt have time to visit the farm every week cos of work and my employees started stealing from my farm. I had to shut it down. I plan to restart farming again next year.

My brother, there is absolutely nothing wrong with being a farmer. I do some side farming too asides from my regular job. However there are some materialistic ladies who will loose interest in you the minute you inform them that you are a full time Farmer.

Mypeople2:
Wait, am I in Alice The Wonderland? I have never seen a girl giving a guy money before in my life. Woman give you N10,000....she go collect 2million from you las Las.Dem dey exist?

i am shocked too and funny enough I am in Abuja. A Nigeria lady giving a guy 100k is strange to me, but honestly I don't know were these girls jam guys like that. Maybe it is because of my social circle and other activities that I am hearing this for the first time.

An age long female tradition is now adopted by men and the female's can't take it. Maybe they just wanna switch roles for a bit.

smeag0l:
Markets?I mean companies. All those guys claiming executives have you bothered to ask them where they work? The only businesses that can thrive in abuja are businesses that sell food or some other basic needs. The only coys to work in abuja are either banks, nnpc or govt parastatals/ministries. Sadly, majority of the guys that work in the last two are northerners so if you meet a guy in abuja and he's not a banker nor is gainfully employed in a govt agency please run!

there are companies here but Abuja is a weird place and you will think it is an empty place until you go deep.

victorian:
Babes complaining about gold digging in guys?

It's because u babes quickly fall in the traps of having sex!

Immediately sex happens they penetrate into your emotional part of the brain and can tell you any sad stories, request you feed him with correct meal whenever , he's coming over and if u don't? He will say you are not caring as a babe. Lol

That's why I cancelled sex! No sex, no avenue for stupid mind games of sucking me dry of my money!

That's how one cute guy driving Camry wanted to hook me beforce with sex sharply, I smiled in my mind. Then he couldn't help but be requesting for meals at my place.
I told him guy, I'm at work. I don't have kitchen in my office. Sorry.

Then he strategise again, trying to talk about sex and stuff and ain't I feeling him?
I told him, look I'm celibate that's why I'm unwilling to come over to your flat.
Kpele.



. I dodge this guy like plague!

Some girls can lie... For your mind, u see one wey manage drive Camry cum toast u, u dey feel like something..anyways just trying to tell you gold diggers are not always like you presented.

healthserve:




Don't change.


I did the same for a damn pretty goddess whom I was intent on marrying recently. She failed as expected, even her mum failed the test.

Just throw them away, these ladies aren't loyal, and are only looking out for wallet to be submissive to, which perpetually throws them into the arms of the wrong persons.

I did same to an Igbo lady I loved but she failed the test thinking that I don't have money and not ready to settle down. Until her Aunt told her that she has missed her opportunity and that she should not mind the way I dress that I was using it to deceive people. Omo see calling day and night!

zexy2030:

Some girls can lie... For your mind, u see one wey manage drive Camry cum toast u, u dey feel like something..anyways just trying to tell you gold diggers are not always like you presented.

Camry Bawo? Shey that one na Gold Digger?

truthsayer009:


Camry Bawo? Shey that one na Gold Digger?

Abio ask am o, na her first time.

Of course I know. But how many companies are in abuja? Majority are, at best, small start ups or minuscule branches of big companies that are there just to keep a presence close to the country's capital.

Bizibi:
there are companies here but Abuja is a weird place and you will think it is an empty place until you go deep.

These gals calling guys gold diggers check their history well they are also gold diggers 70% of the time.

smeag0l:
Of course I know. But how many companies are in abuja? Majority are, at best, small start ups or minuscule branches of big companies that are there just to keep a presence close to the country's capital.

yea,that presence bring in billions for them.especially the ones in the neighborhoods.

GistMore4:
A Twitter user has started a conversation on the platform after she shared her experience with male gold diggers.

@De_BossLadyy, who says she's doing well for herself, tweeted: "Men are gold diggers too but y'all are not ready for that convo."

She went on to narrate how men try to take advantage of her financially when they realize she's well to do.

He tweets have led to people pointing fingers at Abuja men as the people she's referring to.

http://gistmore.com/men-are-gold-diggers-too-woman-shares-her-experience

Only women with low self esteem upon realization that men are gold diggers, when all the men don run becos how extremely stingy they are, anyway that's only way any woman who has crossed over 33 and has started loosing hope of getting married will console her self, you can build the man, if u gat the cash listen to his idea and spice it up with yours, MEN ARE REAL LEGIT HUSTLERS

very true,there are gold diggers everywhere,in both genders.

Yeah, but the fact is that those companies only maintain an office in abuja just to fulfil government regulations and also be close to the government of the day. However, they keep only very very few employees in those kind of offices because it's just an administrative or government relations office most big coys in nigeria maintain in abuja.

Bizibi:
yea,that presence bring in billions for them.especially the ones in the neighborhoods.

havilla:
wow, am in Abuja and one just asked me this question this afternoon lol.

One asked me some weeks back if I could borrow him money and when I said I didnt have he has stopped talking calling me a friend of convenience God help us in this town.

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