smeag0l:
Yeah, but the fact is that those companies only maintain an office in abuja just to fulfil government regulations and also be close to the government of the day. However, they keep only very very few employees in those kind of offices because it's just an administrative or government relations office most big coys in nigeria maintain in abuja.

it is weird here but the billions that flows here is not seen by many and these coys are raking it. It was created that way.

zexy2030:

Some girls can lie... For your mind, u see one wey manage drive Camry cum toast u, u dey feel like something..anyways just trying to tell you gold diggers are not always like you presented.

What is Camry?
Camry na car?

Guys with hummer have wooed me and I said no!
Guys with brand new jeeps have wooed me and I said no!

So what's Camry? Smhhhhh

I drive a car myself pure black! So what's in what am I feeling like?

Bounce off!

healthserve:




My dear. One fell badly. The one that failed my test went for a man who kept shouting London today, Paris tomorrow, me wet just be ordinary teacher just dey look jeje. In the end, he fvcks her day in day out People knew about it, her reputation south. She was the one financing his deeds her eyes no clear. He went voodoo on her. He was sexing over ten ladies the same time. No marriage, nothing.


I've been having a good laff on the side lines. Babe I setup a company as a token to propose to her with. She would have been the owner of the company by nowm I'm having my evil laff at the back.

The drama hasnt ended as I'll update this story on a thread once the dust is clear. The shame she's suffering is still unfolding

Don't rejoice at your enemy's pain

umuna:


Babe I raise hand for you oo! You sabi! Abi dey don do yo be4?

Normal

bentwood85:


Another guy go still catch you and knack you... The funny thing is that you will hide it from nairaland when it happens.

The only guy who will make love to me, will be my husband, and no other.

Get it into your thick skull!

Bloody manipulators!

I jump paśs all of una

uboma:



First timers, when they get so inquisitive, I tell them I am a Farmer or a Teacher. Their interest drops faster than water poured into the basket

Teacher works for me!

Lol...nothing wrong with either professions though!!!

healthserve:



Using her emotions to run the relationship

Na so...na your way.

MissJoy29:

Na so...na your way.

You don dey wise

Olamsoh:
A friend of a family friend was scammed with such ingenuity. These Island guys (like 3) would rent an apartment. Share a big ride. They know their target market. They pick you out with good convo and financial distractions.

Within a week of talking, the guy would invite you to join him on his week long business trip to Dubai. In Dubai, he would give you money to shop daily while he goes for his "business meeting"

In your mind, you are having the time of your life. On due date, you return to 9ja. He will probably take you to another trip to S/Africa. Rinse & repeat. 1 month later, he would make a wonderful call in your presence where business would crumble or he need a huge sum to sort out something. His mood changes & in your sympathy, you offer to help loving boyfriend.

That is how, he will collect 10/15 million from you. You have seen him discuss business and hustle nd taken you on holidays so you think he is real. He probably spent 3 million on you. Now he is a profit of 13 million. When next you visit, you will see another guy in the house..

Is this for real? My God!!!

umuna:



I did same to an Igbo lady I loved but she failed the test thinking that I don't have money and not ready to settle down. Until her Aunt told her that she has missed her opportunity and that she should not mind the way I dress that I was using it to deceive people. Omo see calling day and night!

Good for her. These ones are not loyal. If you marry them broke, na wahala. I form broke. As in Super broke here. One almost passed. I reduced the bar for her but she fail. Her mama don dey use style near me when they say my work spirit after getting close to me



Run from these leeches. They don't mean well.

victorian:









The only guy who will make love to me, will be my husband, and no other.

Get it into your thick skull!

Bloody manipulators!

I jump paśs all of una

Are you a virgin? Have you done without sex in two years?

Bizibi:
yes,i am.....no wonder I get funny replies from abj ladies online until I got tired and deleted the app.it must be that bad.

What app u referring to?

AwkaetitiBabe:
You in Abuja? Why do I feel you someone I've met who simply wanna troll me for no reason

Did I troll you

healthserve:




This same shit happened to me. Bro nothing like a disguise of being broke. Its the loyal woman we want and we must keep subjecting them thru the brokenness test.


The loyalty of a woman after all is her preservanve during trying times of a man

Nonsense and ingredient! Test ko tester ni. Never gone happen again

pocohantas:


Lmao. Anyone that thinks women are manipulative has never met some men in action. They will present it like the logical thing to do at that point- for you guys FUTURE.

1.They always have the marriage card somewhere in their script.

2. Unlike women, they are never BROKE, like BROKE over irrelevancies. What they always need is money to help their business-working capital and shii like that.

3. When you don't want to give. They will claim they were testing you (as Dragnet abi Workforce that they are) or try guilt trip you with talks of how guys do same and more.

They will soon be here to prove me right.

them Don wound you tire be that

AwkaetitiBabe:
Yea yea, I know you went to Oxford University. Must you rub it in our faces

victorian:
Babes complaining about gold digging in guys?

It's because u babes quickly fall in the traps of having sex!

Immediately sex happens they penetrate into your emotional part of the brain and can tell you any sad stories, request you feed him with correct meal whenever , he's coming over and if u don't? He will say you are not caring as a babe. Lol

That's why I cancelled sex! No sex, no avenue for stupid mind games of sucking me dry of my money!

That's how one cute guy driving Camry wanted to hook me beforce with sex sharply, I smiled in my mind. Then he couldn't help but be requesting for meals at my place.
I told him guy, I'm at work. I don't have kitchen in my office. Sorry.

Then he strategise again, trying to talk about sex and stuff and ain't I feeling him?
I told him, look I'm celibate that's why I'm unwilling to come over to your flat.
Kpele.



. I dodge this guy like plague!

Come and date me. I won’t disturb you for sex. What got my attention here is where you said you work in an office space. I’m always attracted to ladies who have their own field of profession. You know... we sleep together share strategic advices, wake up in the morning and help each other with domestic chores and we both head to our various offices.

Come date me babe. You won’t regret.

victorian:







What is Camry?
Camry na car?

Guys with hummer have wooed me and I said no!
Guys with brand new jeeps have wooed me and I said no!

So what's Camry? Smhhhhh

I drive a car myself pure black! So what's in what am I feeling like?

Bounce off!

You are too proud... I watch your replies closely..

Abuja is their head quarters. I knew one who drove a ranger Rover but his rich student gf was the one feeding him.

AwkaetitiBabe:
They crawling all over Abuja. Very fake human beings... Driving cars and still tell u Dem broke. Meet and next thing they downloading broke stories.

ROTFL

imitateMe:

As if you've ever sent money to any guy in your life. Mtchew.

jaxxy:
These gals calling guys gold diggers check their history well they are also gold diggers 70% of the time.

Exactly. You don't even say 99.9%. It's scam scamming the scammer.

,

American men are not sophisticated enough to pull all that off. But the last man I dated from the Congo was broke like that. I met his broke ass while we were BOTH working. He drives a Mercedes with a broke key that cost $400 to replace and it always has a flat tire. He sends pictures because his tire became flat during the time he visited me. Is it my fault? He dresses nice and has a hand me down Iphone showboating. He never hesitates to tell me about ALL his money problems. And will ask me for gas money if I don't open the door when he comes around during booty call hours. He complains to me about paying his rent, like I ain't got no rent to pay. I found out recently He has a Fiancee back in Africa 20 years younger than him he can't afford to bring to the states. Since I have 2 jobs, I should be investing in his future. I told him to have his Fiancee back in Africa invest in his future. All I got to say is so far, I haven't met dick that would make me lose my senses and give to men wrecklessly.

truthsayer009:


It's normal and that is the mantra. They invested a lot in such lifestyle because it still takes some effort to actually look rich.

1. They drive a good car, Benz preferably.
2. They live in a good rented apartment in urban areas.
3. They use the latest iPhone.
4. They dress quite well.

So when they meet you, you are already gassed and fallen in love. They they hit you with my business needs some loans etc

By then, you are already in love, so...

Toro2015:


You are too proud... I watch your replies closely..

I'm proud? Really?

Anyways I'm simply standing up for myself!

I won't take it when someone talks rubbish about me.

No way, I won't .

healthserve:




Are you a virgin? Have you done without sex in two years?

Still counting getting close to one and half years.


And hey u dont have to believe me.

It's a personal thing between thing between me and my Creator.

The iron part of it is that most of this so called gold digger can't even flow well in terms of speaking good English.

I wonder why an educated ladies will fall for someone that can't write down his own name and yet she became his baby mama.

Have actually seen many in Abuja falling for this traps. Its so sad when a lady thinks she can lure a man to marry her just because she has a little change to spare him.
Most of this gold digger has more than 10 different women in different locations. And taking you to their family house is nothing because U will end up speninding for his family too(our WIFE)

Have seen more than enough In Abuja and will like to encourage our ladies...if he CAN'T PUT A RING ON IT, HE DOESN'T DESERVE ANYTHING FROM U.
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Especially our"educated Sister s" .. Am looking for fine boy, no pimples, clean guy, big cars even though he has bleached all his veins out.
Love Is not that blind, u just need common sense to fall in love
Too much baby mama's on the rise just because of this.

I will say no more because of my type of business. But don't allow "come and marry" to take away your reasons girls..
My penny

smeag0l:
So true. However, it amazes me how ladies fall for these guys if not for greed. What stops you from asking what a guy does and actually studying the people he relates with, the phone calls he makes and even getting to know his friends

Unfortunately women think the other way round.

victorian:









The only guy who will make love to me, will be my husband, and no other.

Get it into your thick skull!

Bloody manipulators!

I jump paśs all of una

Lol.... You just busted my ribs with laughter..

But


Keep jumping and passing, but remember that even monkeys do fall from trees

pocohantas:
There are so many of them. I even prefer the female gold diggers to their male counterparts. The females are more direct and will humble their ego to beg and live off you...

The guys? Hell No.

They are very technical in their approach. They put you in that spot where you have to prove you are a SUPPORTIVE GIRLFRIEND, one that is different from the rest of Nigerian girls. Highly manipulative elements.

The poor girl would keep giving because in her mind, she is BUILDING/SUPPORTING HER MAN or STANDING BY HIM IN TRYING TIMES.

You see some of them will collect their gfs car and be driving it around. At COB, he will come pick her up with it. The girl will be feeling loved. She doesn't know what is about to hit her.
,

Not trying to be tribalistic, but benin boys are very good at this.

They appear romantic. Sweet mouth and all....they will even go the extent of openly allowing their gfs to have sexual relationship with loaded dudes, as far as he is seeing his own share. The foolish girl will be thinking her bf understands until he milks her dry and japa.

I hve seen a lot of these guys. 90% in this lagos are edo boys.

But girls are the problem themselves. They will never cherish a truthful guy. Thats why these unrepentant liers manipulates them a lot.

bentwood85:


Lol.... You just busted my ribs with laughter..

my pleasure

pocohantas:
There are so many of them. I even prefer the female gold diggers to their male counterparts. The females are more direct and will humble their ego to beg and live off you...

The guys? Hell No.

They are very technical in their approach. They put you in that spot where you have to prove you are a SUPPORTIVE GIRLFRIEND, one that is different from the rest of Nigerian girls. Highly manipulative elements.

The poor girl would keep giving because in her mind, she is BUILDING/SUPPORTING HER MAN or STANDING BY HIM IN TRYING TIMES.

You see some of them will collect their gfs car and be driving it around. At COB, he will come pick her up with it. The girl will be feeling loved. She doesn't know what is about to hit her.

No! What has hit her already.

bentwood85:


Lol.... You just busted my ribs with laughter..

But


Keep jumping and passing, but remember that even monkeys do fall from trees

Well that's monkeys.


I'm a human being. A higher version of mammals. So plz don't compare me to a monkey.