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Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by midnighter(f): 3:17pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Logobenz: He said his own is making profit but his wife's own will take a while to warm up And without her support his own business will crash |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by OkirikaDealer: 3:18pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Hmm |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by Fidelismaria: 3:19pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Too vague You can't get any meaningful advice with this Add more details otherwise you are on your own |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by baby124: 3:20pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Why can’t you handle your business without her? What if your business fails? Then the whole family will be in trouble. One source of income is not it. Let her grow her own business. You can both support each other without demanding someone give up their dream and business for the other. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by Tinalex(f): 3:20pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
You sound selfish and egoistic, so if they 'l think she is the owner then what? Must you put your silly ego first? It shows you don't trust her n you are here posing reverse psychology to make her look bad!!! 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by Elijahrona(m): 3:21pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
faithfull18: Like why is he feeling inferior already? 5 Likes |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by healthserve(m): 3:21pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Another day, another dose of family problem threads. |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by Nobody: 3:21pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
midnighter:The bolded cannot be trusted.No good businessman leaves a going concern for uncertainty. His wife's might make more money later sounds like a bullshìt business plan to me. I clearly don't think that is the case because I will like to believe someone smart enough to build a yielding business should be able to know that is a wrong move. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by jaxxy(m): 3:21pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Tehila07: Ur businesses work against each other business? Let’s be objective and practical or business minded a little. Which of these 2 business has more potential I’m not talking about short term peanuts bt long term serious bucks? That’s is the business both of you should focus on and have a 50/50 partnership agreement so it’s both of you investment/business. I know u have a passion for yours bt if it doesn’t have higher or enormous potential then it shud just be a hobby rather than core business investment. Think business minded, profit minded and objectively. Ur wife’s business can be urs also if u work together and have the agreements. Yes ur business will go down bt wud u be richer for it? If yes then I don’t see the problem here. It’s a wiser business move. Vice versa for ur wife. |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by Harbeeorlar(m): 3:22pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
subtlemee: Can't expect less from a woman |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by midnighter(f): 3:23pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Logobenz: Sorry I made a mistake. I have modified His wife just doesn't want to leave her own to support his even though it's making some money |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by ibawon(m): 3:26pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Both of you are just to selfish to reach an agreement. |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by ZinoFasisi: 3:27pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Tehila07: The work no get name? More like 1 wants to sell weed, the other wants to sell bible. Cos i can't think of businesses that contradict each other. Tell the two businesses or the two unsupported future na, so can give well informed advice What if it's weed u wanto start selling in a shop and ur wife wants to sell bible in d same shop. we won't know and be saying ur wife is not supportive, meanwhile na u get problem. Eyan pablo escober 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by emerged01(m): 3:27pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
AJIBOLA840:Don’t jump into conclusion. Sometimes our wives are our asset/ladder but due to our ego as a man we tend to kill their dreams for ours to come alive. Some men are animal. I have a case study at hand. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by gbagyiza: 3:28pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
AJIBOLA840: I must be frank in my comment, women are the most greedy set of beings I have come across. They are too selfish. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by frozen70(f): 3:29pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
AJIBOLA840: Stop it naw, why the abuse, he didn't say you should abuse her Do you really know what transpired ❓ 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by DaddyMorenike: 3:29pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
NwaAmaikpe: I don miss your comments sha. |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by laivwire(m): 3:29pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Whats up with the riddles , come out clean man. |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by Remsilla(m): 3:30pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
if you want genuine advice, then u have to be open. what business do u do and what business does ur wife do. only then will I know what to give as an advice. |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by oglinyaanya: 3:30pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
[For my discovered, best gift to earn me money, my wife must agree with the job. But my wife has a job which is at Cross purposes with my job. I'm the biggest asset she needs for her business to flourish, and she is the only person that must agree to work with me in my line of interest. That means if I lend my expertise for her business, she will still be seen as the owner. If she agrees to be with me in my field, her business will go down. quote][ I think the main intent of their getting married is finally playing out. Let the Best Man win! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by glogirl(f): 3:31pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Women cling to their source of income for security. Her money is her defence. Have you made your wife feel insecure in any way? In fact, it might not even be you. All the negative news about marriages of today make participants very defensive, especially women. If only we realise that ur marriage is urs and urs alone. You make what u want of it. |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by badonkadonk: 3:41pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Tehila07: Must the two both of you work together..? 1 Like |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by PHIPEX(m): 3:41pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
faithfull18:He stated the wife's business can't feed the family. Isn't it easier for the wife to support a business that has a higher chance of success? At Op, I feel your wife is afraid of losing out completely in the future. You may have to sit down and reassure her of her safety. You can also register or re-register your business and include her in the shareholding, that will make her see the business as her own too. |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by phorget(m): 3:44pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
The op is so confused. Must your wife support your business before it florich? If you so much need some support then I guess you should employ a good hand. Why must you make your business a family business for crying out loud? |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by Nobody: 3:45pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
vivypretty: We started different businesses after marriage |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by wizkidblogger(f): 3:45pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
must the person be your wife? go find someone else that can push you jare... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by fk002: 3:47pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Are you doing illegal business while your wife is a policewoman?? Because I am not getting it at all you haven't tell us what type of business you are both in. Modified.. Oh you are a pastor |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by Nobody: 3:49pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
chloride6: I'm a pastor in one of the biggest churches in Nigeria. She started a school. Profit can't be in school business at the beginning. So I'm helping with teachers salary at times. But in ministry, if I'm transfered, she must follow me. Now the school is growing fast and she said she won't follow me if I'm transfered. I've been a school teacher for years and I'm the academic backbone of the school. |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by vivypretty(f): 3:49pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Tehila07:which one will make the biggest amount of money from? |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by Nobody: 3:50pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
midnighter: I'm a pastor in one of the biggest churches in Nigeria. She started a school. Profit can't be in school business at the beginning. So I'm helping with teachers salary at times. But in ministry, if I'm transfered, she must follow me. Now the school is growing fast and she said she won't follow me if I'm transfered. I've been a school teacher for years and I'm the academic backbone of the school. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by Nobody: 3:52pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
Fidelismaria: I'm a pastor in one of the biggest churches in Nigeria. She started a school. Profit can't be in school business at the beginning. So I'm helping with teachers salary at times. But in ministry, if I'm transfered, she must follow me. Now the school is growing fast and she said she won't follow me if I'm transfered. I've been a school teacher for years and I'm the academic backbone of the school. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm Building A Future Not Supported By My Wife by LoveThemChubby(m): 3:55pm On Sep 26, 2019 |
subtlemee:hanty thank God you are not a judge o. The world for hear am . I rep your solution jor. That way everyone wins |
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