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Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by MrNipplesLover(m): 1:34pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
I will not let any woman play with my situation/head/emotion for any reason. I can't put myself under any unnecessary pressure cos of one woman whom I'm not sure would be a good wife to me. u can't control me to come to you wherever you are just to retain our relationship. never! I am the man. I would discuss with you what I want, we should then work towards making it work for both of us. I won't let any woman toy with my manbeing. no woman will. OP, be a man. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by Peterosky(m): 1:34pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Op after going through all the comments above, I would have reasonably concluded that you have had enough advice to make you take charge of the situation at hand. But for emphasis sake, I will also add my little voice. l am not going to doubt the fact that your girl loves you and want the best for you and her.But first, she is doing it the wrong way by placing an ultimatum on the matter, this simply means that the future is bleak if you eventually marry her as she will be the final say in the house. If you ask me, at this point I will simply break up with her. Secondly,any decision taken under duress has 90% possibility of counting against you in the future. Again, I don't see Abuja having job opportunities like Lagos except by serious connection and God's devine grace. And for her to say she will never come Lagos no matter what, hhhhmmm.You are dating a commander-in-chief . In conclusion, that girl is not a wife material. So forget her and focus on your life. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by Sirmuel1(m): 1:34pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
aralc: Is this the advice he's asking for? 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by mrsfavour(f): 1:35pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
U may not like how this affair will end. She seems to be ahead of you, u need time to fix your self,don't run at her pace,run at your pace. Tomorrow she will/ may see a ready made guy and ditch you. She will soon be detective. Allow her . Mid 20s ? Please talk about marriage at 30 when you are sure you will be in control of a girl not the other way. Give her space. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by JayPeeOham: 1:36pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Mensah007: This is a serious matter that needs to be handled wisely. Rationally speaking, you need to be sure of the kinda strings she's tryna pull on you, like, does she have a surprise job, accomodation for you in Abuja? Kindly, ask her those questions. Secondly, hope she is not the kinda girl that will want to be the man in her relationship simply because she's been the "financial pillar" in the relationship right from school days. Hence, will want to make decisions for you not minding if you're comfortable with it or not thereby leaving you optionless and without choice. Her motive for you might be right but she shouldn't be pushy about it. And forcing you to do it under duress!! My brother, you are a man and whatever you accept in your relationship you should be ready to accept it forever (that's if you guys end up together). You are at a point in your life where you need to evaluate your decisions critically before you choose and when you eventually go for a particular option, you do it intentionally and not out of compulsion from a girlfriend/Lover/Friend/Family member and so on. Mind you, I'm not saying all the aforementioned cannot advise but las las the decision is solely for you to make. Any decision you make at this point imn your life will definitely have a turn on you tomorrow! Lastly, I will submit by this pidgin phrase that says: "Na Sleep We Dey Use No How Death Be!!!" |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by kelz2205: 1:36pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
[quote author=gideonite98 post=82800860][/quote] Na d 2 u know u dey talk oo, if u sell one land or house for abj, ur life Don set, and it happens on a daily, plus there are businesses and other side hustles available in abj, |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by Happyguy201: 1:36pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
OGA Mr poster some people never eat since morning. Na relationship matter u wan come take disturb us . Your own better Sha .. Na person wey chop Belle full dey worry him self on top woman matter .. |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by noisy45(m): 1:36pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Kpekus giving us problem since Adam and Eve era |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by zynzyn(m): 1:36pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Mensah007: You can play by her rules to save your relationship. B U U T T T!! Expect more instructions and deadlines after marriage!! 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by Carlyboi(m): 1:36pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Rule number one in life-The best thing you can be in life is yourself,being yourself Rule number 2-always avoid see finish.......3.chase success,accomplishments,happiness and peace within when you acquire all these qualities and you have such state of my mind...you can then attract the good things of life with it which includes money and material possessions,women and love,fun relaxation and pleasure...!!This is my piece don’t relocate to Abj cos of your gfs threat or condition or whatever you may call it....relocate and move on if you can see loads of positives and your heart,your body and soul is unison your spirit goes with it....don’t go with the mindset or go empty handed in a nutshell if you don’t have enough resources to sustain for a short term never consider it we humans can be very fickle and you don’t wanna tske a very bold and daring step in the hope of living on your gf’s goodwill....unless you’re a leech or you lack self esteem have some dignity and self respect man! 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by kelz2205: 1:38pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
medd422: Till see finish enter because e no get work or money den break up set, love no be everything ooo 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by PabloAndreas(m): 1:38pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
This is a very serious matter but for some reason this song keeps ringing in my head..."It ain't nothing to cut that bitc# off" 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by jaxxy(m): 1:41pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Mensah007: I know u love her and she loves u bt she’s being unreasonable and I hate that. Such attitude can get one in trouble for no reason. Are u going to redeploy urself by urself? If she can’t be patient she’s not serious or worth it. If the case was reversed will u do same thing to her? How will she take it? I’m tired of gals making unreasonable demands pls. That is not how love works. I wud rather she breaks up than put myself and future in jeopardy. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by Blinkers: 1:42pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Aurielfinizu: As in d guy mumu no be small! It's clearly obvious that the dominant bîtch is the MAN in the relationship. This love is already a set up for disaster in the future. The foolish love go soon clear for e eyes when e go Abuja become errand boy. I don't know who is raising these boys to be stupid , lately. Except your papa na Dangote or you have already earned millions before finishing your NYSC, no struggling guy has business dating a lady of almost the same age, because the lady is due for marriage and has options. All that is left for you, is to hustle and if she is not patient to stay, she can move on. Too many pûssies around. 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by kollysnut(m): 1:43pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Mensah007: tell her you want to show her something for show her i lagos........when she comes i will tell what to tell her next, kkeep calm she not leaving you . |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by midnighter(f): 1:43pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
What So she can't wait a few measly months until it's over? Aghotaro m akuko nke a oh She gave you a deadline to come there and be doing what exactly...? Does she have a job for you there? Imagine passing through all the rubbish from lecturers and all the insults from police and nysc staff, just for somebody from your own graduating class to be giving you one kind frog jump command and condition Anyway just try moving to that Abuja, let me see |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by King44(m): 1:44pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Guest007:true, what would be would be my guy don't rush ur sef because of the fact that u love her if she wants to break up let the words come out of her mouth but before then make yourself clear n let her know she doesn't have to go to that length of giving you a deadline plus you need some time to figure out things for yourself at your own pace if she can't wait brother don't use ur own to hold her back or rush your life because of love so u won't leave for abj after sometime come back disappointed to start over again in lag besides like a guy asked when last did u f...k her she is surely missing you take some time out to pay her a visit find cheap hotel at most 4k a night two days is OK then back to lag to continue ur life who knows she might change her mind when you explain things to her over there plus it would be better if you explain things to her face to face rather than explaining over a phone call 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by Urchiuche: 1:46pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Oluromantic:Dis matter confuse me, let me wait for my forefathers. |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by Kaycee54321(m): 1:46pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
When last did you She Loves you and believe me, girls willing to invest in a guy are rare these days... Most dey find already made Go to Abj and do the needful, spend some days with her and make her see reason... Then do what's best for your PERSONAL development. That woman Loves you. |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by Jaybnjamin(m): 1:46pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Born2winnx: Sometimes I wonder how a dude will be so goddamn stupid. Claiming you are in love with a girl when you barely stand your ground. Carry girl matter for head. 1 Like
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Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by Mensah007: 1:47pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
cenaman: She stays in Gwarimpa. Y do u ask pls |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by Nobody: 1:47pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
lilmax:I'm with you on this one. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by trippleKAY(m): 1:48pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Mensah007:my man, don't let a lady manipulae your course in life, they can't be trusted no matter how you think she loves u. Their Brain fluctuate like glo network, if u relocate to Abuja u might end up regreting u ever did. You've started your life here in Lagos, things will get better for u as time goes on I strongly believe. Her love for u is conditional, I repeat, it's conditional... Such love don't last long , at the end she's still gonna fine a reason to break up with you. That's when you'll regret your actions. God bless your hustle. Piece..... (voice of God) 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by Xisnin(m): 1:49pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
What is in Abuja? Do not move even if you have the money. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by Nguru55: 1:50pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Put a price on yourself. If she cherishes and loves you, she will come for what is hers. If she actually has that belief. Else; my guy"signout" Best of luck 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by princessdoyenne(f): 1:50pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Lagos has more opportunities than Abuja. I have been to the two places. It is easier to grow a hustle in Lagos too. My point: intensify your efforts. Better still, learn a digital skill, it can pay you more than you think. Reason with her, talk things over with her and present your points and concerns. If she still insists.... Pray and follow your heart. You can still reassure of your commitment to making it work. Do not put yourself under unnecessary pressure. Nothing gets better in a day. As far as your mindset is positive enough, you can make it anywhere. 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by Tyakukwe(m): 1:51pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Mensah007: Bruv, don’t sweat. There are a lot of things ahead. Your break through may come sooner than you think. Oga leave woman hustle. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by trippleKAY(m): 1:53pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Jaybnjamin:i swear, God forbid I let a woman control my destiny. He's gonna regret going there if he tries it 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by Nobody: 1:54pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
AstroG:lmao! Savage. 1 Like |
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