Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,195,542 members, 7,958,668 topics. Date: Wednesday, 25 September 2024 at 08:10 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up (34742 Views)
My Girlfriend Gave My Baby Girl To Another Man, Help!!! / See What My Girlfriend Gave Me For New Year / See The Beautiful Gift My Girlfriend Gave Me Today - Photos (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by Homguy(m): 1:56pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Mensah007:based on these Info you provided, she doesn't have your best interest at heart. I know you are in love, but there are millions of women out there. Hustle and be successful, forget her, and you will find that in the future when you look back at this time, you will laugh, and be grateful that you didn't live for life for an unreasonable woman. This advice is coming from my personal experience. Goodluck 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by Nobody: 1:57pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Op I'm a lady but I don't think the condition she's giving you is right. She's only trying to play safe. The reason she's giving you a condition is to measure your stance with who she's thinking about already. Your coming to Abuja will be the only reason she'll choose you above her incoming guy. I've done this before yea and I know just exactly what is playing out. She has broken up with you already, move on, get yourself together, forget whatever kindness she must have shown you in the past. Try to make her reason along with you and if she doesn't just call the bluff. Get yourself together and make a better life for yourself. She's only being selfish, even if if you go to Abuja you'll just end up being frustrated as she doesnt have feelings for you anymore. She's only trying to see if your being around her can rekindle whatever you guys shared in the past. I might not be absolutely right but I'm sure you'll definitely have something to learn from my contribution. Daalu � 8 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by ocheejeh: 1:58pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Bros calm down, make your woman shill, once once enta Abuja go visit her then use the opportunity adventure for job, Putting pressure on you makes no damn sense. Baba calm down plan your life, Las las u go de alright whether she still de yur life or not... Abuja nor be place to enta without proper strategy/plan on ground... Jettison pressure for now, this stage of your life is very delicate 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by King44(m): 1:59pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Kaycee54321:seriously she is a really good person unlike some of our sisters we are not related to they can't be trusted 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by Nobody: 1:59pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Just one advice for you lil bro. Forget about that girl. Stay back in Lagos and hustle. She is sex starved she wants you to be close enough to to her so that she can be getting the cassava on a regular. She used you in school and wants to continue thereafter. cassava is scarce in abuja. I bet yours is circumcised majority of Abuja cassava are uncircumsied. by the way you didn't tell us how long you guys have been fucking? |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by Nobody: 2:00pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
She might be under serious pressure from other suitors, hence her insistence that you relocate so that you could ward off intruders. I will advice you go there even if it's for a week to survey and see how likely you will be able to relocate. You may loose her if you don't take action soonest. |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by Mensah007: 2:00pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Born2winnx: egbon no vex, she is aware of my parents condition too and is using it to blast me on d need to make money immediately and help them. Bottom line is that she wants to make money asap. She feels I'm wasting away in Lagos nd shud go over to abuja asap, not minding the nysc situation |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by Kaycee54321(m): 2:03pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
King44: Yeah, that's what the op has failed to realize. If the girl doesn't care about him, she won't need to be begging him to come to Abj. She'll simply be getting her engine oiled from them Abj Niggas and be satisfying the op with video call and sweet text. The woman has his interest at heart though the ultimatum and threats na based on how the guy keep body for the relationship before. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by boxer022(m): 2:04pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
My brother listen to me and listen good. You will not risk your life and safety over a girl that is not yet your wife. It is not compulsory that you will make it in Abuja even if you go there. My advice to you is simple; since she has broken up with you over this matter, stay back in Lagos and continue trying your best. I am sure you will make it. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by Blueblack01(m): 2:05pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
ocheejeh:JUST[b][/b] CALM[b][/b] DOWN[b][/b] If you follow woman around with no strategic plan of your life, she go frustrate your life eehn you go consider SNIPER. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by Kaycee54321(m): 2:05pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Mensah007: O Boy. Go Abj for some days. After una finish praise and worship, sit her down and explain stuff to her. That Lady na wife material. Make una plan una way logically and decide the best thing to do for yourselves... Give her ur reasons and listen to her own too Good girls no dey oh. If you enter slay mama hand, my brother you go swallow red pill tire. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by season8: 2:06pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Theres no big deal here, She misses you thats why shes acting up, Just let her know you will find way to relocate, but for now She should give you lil time, while you sought yourself out, Use the deployment money to make necessary travel arrangement and make plan to see her in abuja soonest, for short stay 5-10 day so that you can both reason it together. buy her time, Let her you ve enrol for additional/optional training in lagos. Let her see reason with you and stop complaining to her about the bad situation of things in Lagos. Infact tell her you are doing fine. If indeed you want lagos to be your home instead of Abj. The Choice is yours |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by headz(m): 2:07pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
.. |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by King44(m): 2:08pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Peterosky:did she say she would not come to abj no matter what I didn't pay attention to dat part my guy move on and figure out your life if it would take time it should don't take a decision that would waste your time n life, if she is meant for you she would reason with u |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by umorensylva: 2:11pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Guy, my question is, " has she prepared a place where you would stay as long as it requires for you to get job and also made plans for your welfare? If no, my brother her talk and agitations are just empty. Hence, you need to make decisions as a man too. If she breaks up bcus you tow the rational part of staying back, then she was not yours from the onset. My guy shine your eyes oh 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by demoBaba: 2:11pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
kowema: You nailed it. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by jojolegal: 2:13pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
if she is the husband, then go, but if you are the husband, give her your stand if she disagreed, brake-up immediately. use your head |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by King44(m): 2:13pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Kaycee54321:kikikikiki if e enter their hand na iPhone 11 + he go use that him money wey him dey save buy las las 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by Vixlot: 2:17pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
How is Abuja lucrative more than Lagos? Op receive sense 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by Born2winnx: 2:17pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Mensah007: Guy from your post and write up.. You sound like a baby crying for nothing No sense at all. For you to even come here put it on the internet I feel ashamed for you.. You not worth to be created as a man..... If your mother see this post she be ashamed of you.. If father see this post he will weep bitterly This not even your wife Your girlfriend blackmailing you to come to abj or she dumps your assx That Lagos when you de..jobs buku pass abj |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by Kaycee54321(m): 2:17pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
King44: I dey tell you He see Lady wey dey motivate am, he dey complain. |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by holusormi(m): 2:20pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Mshad662: Lmao , your foolery is legendary , 3am naija time or yankee time or Dubai time ? Does your juju know time difference ? We have to be in sync for this to work lmao , ode |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by King44(m): 2:22pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Kaycee54321:but if he go abj no get connection, no know anybody no know how he go run him life there I am sorry nahin be hin be him last name the worse scenario he gets there try to hustle is way out over some time the girl gets a well paying job and a guy who is showering her with love las las she dumps him then he comes back to lag to pick up the pieces of his life or keep struggling over there then story ends what he has been trying to avoid still happens the girl still wins he loses 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by Perkins1: 2:25pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Bros... Don't go anywhere. She has already broke up with you. She just want a reason so she won't feel bad. Hear my advice. Hear am. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by luminouz(m): 2:25pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Mensah007: See the way a grown man is whining and bitching because he couldn't meet the target his 'master' gave him. Chai, what a generation of weak and sissified men I have been born into. At least, there are still few men like me to feed these weak men gallons of guts and balls |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by Kaycee54321(m): 2:25pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
King44: Na Wetin make I suggest make he go reason the babe wella. Lag get opportunities as a hustler pass Abj. The guy dey sound like person wey no get liver sha...He dey complain for nairaland untop good girl, if he come jam Karishika, I wonder Wetin he go do |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by Nobody: 2:27pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Mensah007: Put your confusions together, my own confusion is way bigger... Abeg she go give you job for Abuja?. Bro i met someone like that who insisted i was wasting my time serving, then i didn't even wanna be seen in Abuja cos i just wanted to be out of reach from my peeps...las las you will survive.. She may be right, Abuja is more lucrative but then if she can get her people to get you a job then by all means, mind you if after few months in Abuja and you still can't secure any reasonable thing she will/might ditch you and even say you are lazy..so save yourself the dignity, no leave, no transfer, infact since she has offered to pay the 50k collect it add 30k buy your laptop..afterall she has broken up with you, i am just saying oh, just do what your mind tells you. |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by cenaman(m): 2:28pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Mensah007:will she allow u to stay in kado for some time before looking for an apartment, if yes i can ask a friend if he can accomodate u for the main time. NB: KADO is like AJ in lagos. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by King44(m): 2:29pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Kaycee54321:sniper loading.... 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by depthlone: 2:30pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
what if this madam is pregnant and wants to lay it on ya Me I am just thinking ooo 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by cozyfaithex(f): 2:30pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
That ur girlfriend is a selfish person and too desperate,if u end up relocating to abuja on this basis,u will surely regret it,be a man and make the right decision for urself. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Gave Me A Deadline To Break Up by Christiana24: 2:32pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
J111333: My brother.... This your reply seems like a joke but it's the best advise so far... Let him be a man... Bold Steps matters. She loves him and wants to help him. I stay in Abuja, i would have love to be of help but. Chai! Oju tiri mo beru eyan. Ara la mo, ako mo nu (in Yoruba) |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (Reply)
This Girl's Endowment Will leave You Speechless (PHOTO) / Guys And Their Lies / Throwback Picture Of Valentine's Day In 1965
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 68 |