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Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by Funmmyastic: 7:31pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Blackivy29: Good evening. |
Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by dottozil: 7:31pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Blackivy29: You really believe he doesn't know it's you? Common, well he'll probably say he's sorry and wants you back. Anyways I hope you find whatever you seek. |
Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by SenecaTheYonger: 7:32pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Blackivy29: The poor lad. You were using his head to play football. |
Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by Nobody: 7:32pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
healthserve: Mr healthserve....I know that having closure on a matter is really good, but when it comes to all this lust relationships the best closure is the one u derive for urself... there’s no point telling her to go ask him for reasons.... that’s just showing the dude still has a lot of power over him and what he will say will help her move on...that’s crap.....and we humans can be very cruel we know how to play the blame game and play victim. we always make it look like our ex is at fault......And because she’s still in love she’ll be bitter blaming herself cos the guy will definitely play victim..... Blackivy29 pick urself up...let it ring in ur head, no one determines ur happiness but u...ur ex owes u no explanation for walking away, he’s a chicken and scared cat, not bold enuf to talk to u, he’s even probably wicked not caring how u’ll feel... ... tell urself u are great girl... it’s his loss at the end of the day 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by Nobody: 7:33pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
yomi007k:it was a test. But i didnt end things because of the gf stuff. I gave him a chance to explain. But he got angry. If he had explained i would have been cool but he was ignoring my question. And as a girl, i was tensed up. He wasnt assuring me or anything. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by healthserve(m): 7:35pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
1StopRudeness: Abi. You spoke well Back in the good days people date one two or three straight to altar. Now people date fifty persons and still don't have themselves settled. I begin to wonder if its crude oil people search for in relationships thesedays 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by Nobody: 7:35pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Korllami007:You get me completely. Im bad when it comes to dating and choosing guys. |
Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by Nobody: 7:37pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
dottozil:He doesnt thats for sure. He's opening up because according to him, he's hurt. |
Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by yomi007k(m): 7:38pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Blackivy29:Relax. You don't need to get angry. Everybody is tensed up in Nigeria. Try and use his babyish nature on him too. In relationships, you might be offended and still need to make apologies to make things work. Try this and clear your conscience that you did your best to make things work. You still love him. P.s I don't believe there is any "girl friend " any where. There might be a girl but not confirmed. He just wanted to know if you would fight to keep him. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by dottozil: 7:38pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
1StopRudeness: Thumbs up |
Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by Nobody: 7:39pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
1StopRudeness:thanks. Getting answers is hurting. |
Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by Nobody: 7:43pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
yomi007k:I guess i still do. I dont like manipulating thats why. He could have explained to me before things ended. |
Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by Nobody: 7:44pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
SenecaTheYonger: |
Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by yomi007k(m): 7:46pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Blackivy29: You can still pass the test. He has begged u in the past. This is not about who is right or wrong. Its about ending this thread and being happy. |
Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by Nobody: 7:48pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Ardar:he just turned 18. We havent even kissed. But we've had romantic moments nothing sexual. Im just tired of the pain. |
Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by Kapilta(m): 7:48pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Blackivy29:please how old are you again? |
Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by Kapilta(m): 7:50pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Blackivy29:so you are using one 18 year old boy to judge man. Smh, i knew you'd be a teen from your first post. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by Nobody: 7:55pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Kapilta:he's now an adult na. |
Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by Martinez39(m): 7:59pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Korllami007: JONNYSPUTE: alpha, secondary alpha, beta, how to play the game of a player, understanding the heart of men(part 1, 2, & 3) 1 Like
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Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by Nobody: 7:59pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Blackivy29: |
Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:02pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Martinez39:.. |
Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by SenecaTheYonger: 8:03pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Blackivy29:I'm just as confused as you are |
Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by Korllami007: 8:03pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Blackivy29: I think the lack of sex between you guys might have been frustrating him. He might have be thinking why the wait when he's not even sure where the relationship will lead to. Just imagine after five years of dating without no sex, you see someone better than him financially or in other aspect and then you dump him, which is possible. At the moment, you maybe thinking you love and nothing can make yoh leave him, but the love you think you have for him may not pass the test of time because the way you view the world may change as time goes on, which may change the way you view him also. That's why they say, the only permanence in the world is change. To me ooo, if things don't work out with you guys, I'll advice you to suspend relationship for now and focus on your self because most guys eyes choco. Before you see guys that will accept no sex relationship with you, e go te. They will see your age as set back because 6 to 7 years from now, marriage may not even be on your mind. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by Martinez39(m): 8:04pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
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Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:06pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Martinez39:.. Lol. I got you. |
Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by Martinez39(m): 8:06pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Blackivy29:You need to grow up. People don't owe you any explanation and it's not every explanation that you must know. Forget about him and move on. Once someone doesn't want you or is unserious, move on. Gosh. |
Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by Korllami007: 8:07pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Martinez39: She go soon turn it to Korean movies series. "Understanding the heart of men" season 1, episode 2.
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Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by Nobody: 8:09pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
@ Korllami007 i would love to agree but thats not it. He tends to see me as this innocent thing. He found it weird when i talked dirty once. He likes that whole romance, looking at each other love than sex. Once his friends were watching porn and i was curious (i didnt know that it was it then)he prevented me. That i wouldnt like it. |
Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by Nobody: 8:10pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Martinez39:not here dear. |
Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by Nobody: 8:13pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Martinez39:please. So its cool for someone to toy with my emotion and i should just walk away content. If i were a guy your response would be different. |
Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by Nuclear99(m): 8:13pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
JONNYSPUTE:All this girls, confusion full their head |
Re: Why Is My exBoyfriend So Confusing. by Martinez39(m): 8:14pm On Oct 05, 2019 |
Blackivy27:Grow up. How old are you? |
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