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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Nobody: 12:29am On Oct 15, 2019
Sissy men disgust me. sad

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by marvelous000: 12:36am On Oct 15, 2019
TemmyT002:
I guess that means my babe is lucky to have me. I don't have to cheat when no one is better than she.
that is to unequivocally say; you'll drop her like a bag of filth as soon as you find someone better than her.

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by mcdreeezy: 12:49am On Oct 15, 2019
safarigirl:
Another thread of back and forth exchanges between two genders filled with people that refuse to commit and be accountable to anyone.

Everyone just wants to fvck and chop lofe without responsibilities, then come online to demonize each other after things go south, as they most often do.

Nonsense hedonistic generation

What's wrong with not wanting to commit and be accountable to anyone?

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by mashbranding334: 12:52am On Oct 15, 2019
wink
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Nobody: 1:10am On Oct 15, 2019
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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by arrestdarrester: 1:37am On Oct 15, 2019
The fact that you only attract your own type does not mean others are like you or that they will be miserable like you
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Nobody: 3:03am On Oct 15, 2019
Always look at the distance between them and you when your standing together to know where you stand with someone no thread can tell you how to be a good partner it’s profitable to be kind

Guys and Girls Love is truly free
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Nobody: 3:42am On Oct 15, 2019
safarigirl:
Another thread of back and forth exchanges between two genders filled with people that refuse to commit and be accountable to anyone.

Everyone just wants to fvck and chop lofe without responsibilities, then come online to demonize each other after things go south, as they most often do.

Nonsense hedonistic generation
Word!!! cool
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Psalm2423(m): 3:56am On Oct 15, 2019
marvelous000:

that is to unequivocally say; you'll drop her like a bag of filth as soon as you find someone better than her.




And, drop her like a bag of filth he should.
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by optimistfeel(m): 4:00am On Oct 15, 2019
Not all guys cos many guys are God fearing
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Damfostopper(m): 4:19am On Oct 15, 2019
at my age I don't comment on stewpid post

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by SavageResponse(m): 4:29am On Oct 15, 2019
comshots:
It takes the grace of God to find a faithful partner.You are making it seem like guyz are the only gender that cheat in a relationship.The reason is that guys don't hide their sexual history like the opposite sex.

Truth!
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by jaxxy(m): 4:59am On Oct 15, 2019
chenzen:
It is not my intention to sound like a broken record... but the reality of that romance that u re putting your life into is that you re simply a pun in his game of chess in the end he s preserving his queen for his final conquest.



Ask me y and I ll tell u...

The fact he’s seeing sm1esle doesn’t mean Ure not the queen, even the queen gets cheated on if the guy lacks such principles or is just promiscuous. it depends on the type of relationship u are in bt not every guy is seeing sm1else and those who do have their reasons some which may be considered valid and others generally have no principles and will cheat no matter what.
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by forreelliinc: 5:30am On Oct 15, 2019
chenzen:
It is not my intention to sound like a broken record... but the reality of that romance that u re putting your life into is that you re simply a pun in his game of chess in the end he s preserving his queen for his final conquest.



Ask me y and I ll tell u...
You are simply one of the garages for his penis
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by iamJ(m): 5:37am On Oct 15, 2019
See generalization ooooo
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Isoduwa(m): 5:51am On Oct 15, 2019
lifestyle1:
When you love your sis with all your heart, you come up with this shit...

Take heart bro.

You can't control or satisfy a woman.




You said it all
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by jaxxy(m): 5:53am On Oct 15, 2019
chenzen:
not all males are bad but the majority in this context has cast their shadows over the few near flawless ones... ladies has suffered in the hands of these guys.

Ladies are not saints many especially now unlike b4 have lost all their morals and even shame. Yes Guys are have always been bad bt ladies are now playing serious catch up it will shock u and this is besides the few heartless and slut ones that have always been there. However we still have decent and good ones from both genders.
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Bigseven(m): 6:00am On Oct 15, 2019
Is not out of place to justify the rational that men cheat and get away with it because the society has placed men in advantage side via customs, traditions and culture especialy in africa. But the western world placed both gendre in the same advantage side. For instance, a typical married african man can take a single lady or a married woman for an outing and the society will see it as normal but a married woman seen with a young guy or married man hmmm its a taboo cos she'll be tag as olosho. So allow men to ride in the norm and tradions meanwhile REAL MEN DONT CHEAT.

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Ramos16(m): 6:08am On Oct 15, 2019
chenzen:
the core reason I advocate for these ladies is because they most likely do not initiate the idea of an affair rather it has mostly been the guys who sweet talk these ladies into kick starting a romantic episode.


Who the hell is this guy? Are you high on something? You are telling me that women have no say in who they go into relationship with? Where did you grow up? Women just as much as men play the game of chess with their relationships, I have first hand experience 3 times. A girl even got married while we were dating but didn't tell me

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Nobody: 6:23am On Oct 15, 2019
This generation of girls are so lucky. Young men of today are alot more verbal about what they think of the female gender. My generation won't so lucky, I hope these young ladies control their two lips and get their brain in the game. This is a blessing in disguise and las las we all gone be alright.

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Nobody: 6:26am On Oct 15, 2019
comshots:
It takes the grace of God to find a faithful partner.You are making it seem like guyz are the only gender that cheat in a relationship.The reason is that guys don't hide their sexual history like the opposite sex.

Before nkor? Is it not guys that cheat in every relationship.
The only reason it seems most romance are successful or lead to marriage is because the girl takes in and traps them down with pregnancy which even takes some years again to go and forcefully perform the marriage rites.

Please the OP has a point there. Just accept dont argue biko.

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by marvelous000: 6:27am On Oct 15, 2019
Psalm2423:

And, drop her like a bag of filth he should.
please, If I may ask; do you expect loyalty in your relationship with women?
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by frank317: 6:30am On Oct 15, 2019
Martinez79:
Sweet talk? Why are you acting like ladies don't know what they are doing? It's common for guys to ask ladies out, so why call it sweet talk as though the guys were brainwashing and manipulating the ladies into a relationship? Do guys asks ladies out for the sake of love or to play "chess" with them? Face the facts, boys are the ones that are usually used, sucked dry, cheated on, and dumped cold despite the sacrifices and investment in the relationship. What was their undoing? Falling in love. If you can get all these for loving someone, what does that say about the person you love? Do you still think boys are the heartless manipulators?

It happens many times and we see that by the threads with stories and pleas by unfortunate boyfriends seeking the advice of nairalanders. Despite all these, you act like boys are the manipulators and girls are the victim? Are you serious? Mind you, I am not saying that there are no bad men in relationship.

It's not news anymore, except you want to pretend, that romantic relationship is called a scam for a reason. Do you know the gender of the usual victims of this scam? That's your assignment.
- Martinez39



Cc. CAPSLOCKED, astroG, healthserve, ubunja, lukui, JONNYSPUTE, emmaodet

I am not sure am with u on this
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Psalm2423(m): 6:36am On Oct 15, 2019
marvelous000:

please, If I may ask; do you expect loyalty in your relationship with women?

What you give is what you get. At a point when I was loyal, I did expect loyalty from my partner. Currently, I don’t since I’m not loyal. I’m not a hypocrite.

What about you? Do you expect loyalty from your man?

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Tsolutionifede(m): 6:38am On Oct 15, 2019
Fountainofyouth:
Lol, true in a way, the smart ones don't get caught, cheating isn't only through sex, it can be in different ways, just don't get caught.
coded olosho sighted
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Neoteny(m): 6:41am On Oct 15, 2019
chenzen:
It is not my intention to sound like a broken record... but the reality of that romance that u re putting your life into is that you re simply a pun in his game of chess in the end he s preserving his queen for his final conquest.



Ask me y and I ll tell u...

Traitor!
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Psalm2423(m): 6:41am On Oct 15, 2019
Bigseven:
Is not out of place to justify the rational that men cheat and get away with it because the society has placed men in advantage side via customs, traditions and culture especialy in africa. But the western world placed both gendre in the same advantage side. For instance, a typical married african man can take a single lady or a married woman for an outing and the society will see it as normal but a married woman seen with a young guy or married man hmmm its a taboo cos she'll be tag as olosho. So allow men to ride in the norm and tradions meanwhile REAL MEN DONT CHEAT.

I still don’t understand this talk bout “real men.” A man is a man, there’s nothing like a fake man or a real man. That term is just a female agenda for dragging men down to their level and obeying their wishes. I can’t believe that even a matured man with many years of experience will be out screaming the term real men don’t cheat.

The term cheating is basically used loosely, and now it doesn’t hold water anymore.

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by emmaodet: 6:45am On Oct 15, 2019
bdchange:

I have said several times that ladies has a lot to loose when it comes to relationship palava. Do you use body count for men but will not hesitate to throw it to any lady that you feel deserves it..ba

One thing you should know is that as humans, we will have what is used against us unless you want to be an animal like dog or cat without pressures.
Apart from body counts or slut shaming, pls what pressure are the females experiencing? So women should just be like cats or dogs that eat, sleep, fvck, party and die without any consequence or pressure? Why all the pressures to sustain a family and society should be on the men constantly been broke shamed or not firing enough.
If that is the case then virtually every man will want to be a woman because there is no point been a man and that will also make us to believe God is really biased to create a lopsided condition.
We all have pressures bro
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Martinez79: 6:45am On Oct 15, 2019
frank317:


I am not sure am with u on this
Feel free to tell me your objection.
Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by Deepthoughts: 6:46am On Oct 15, 2019
chenzen:
It is not my intention to sound like a broken record... but the reality of that romance that u re putting your life into is that you re simply a pun in his game of chess in the end he s preserving his queen for his final conquest.



Ask me y and I ll tell u...
If men are not trustworthy try lesbianism ok.

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Re: Ladies, Don't Be Fooled, That Guy Is Seeing Someone Else by emmaodet: 6:49am On Oct 15, 2019
Michellekabod2:
I was talking to Martinez not you...

By the way,what I meant is why condemn People for the same things you do
Because what you condemn a lady for is not what you will condemn a man for.
Men are been broke shamed also why ladies are let off the hook, you see?
Unless you want us to be bashing men for been dogs why we brokeshame ladies heavily too but believe me, you won't like that situation and then you will know that it is better to be slut shamed than be struggling with poverty.

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