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Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 10:49am On Oct 26, 2019 |
kluivertngong: I don't know you but your post is suggestive that you know me beyond nairaland but i am not pretending to be bad but i keep it real with my write-ups. That i don't sleep around or that i am sexually upright will never stop me from writing realistic stuff. If many ladies bashing me know me outside nairaland they will be shocked to their marrow that i am not who they think i am if they judge my life by what i write...but as i wrote, i don'r write about my life or on what i think should be but i write based on the reality around us and one if such realities is preparing the womenfolk to embrace reality and stop chasing shadows. No woman no matter how sweet-looking she is can make a man remain sexually faithful to her except the man just wants to and any lady expecting her husband to be faithful to her should have a rethink. The misplaced priority of many ladies in marriage today has brought about damaged generations with kids coming from broken homes. A failed society is a ripple effect of failed families. Ladies must get their ass right and focus on what really matters. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Nobody: 10:52am On Oct 26, 2019 |
pocohantas: regina, na so i turn my back and you begin dey bat eye at these small boys |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 10:55am On Oct 26, 2019 |
Rapmoney: Bro i respect your opinion especially the mature manner you put it but do you juxtapose a man's character with his choice to be with another lady? On the contrary, this thread is not about ladies who are fortunate to be with a faithful guy or guys who are smart enough to hide their sexcapades but it is for ladies who find themselves with a philandering hubby. Would you suggest that women run out of their marriages cos their hubbies cheat on them? Ladies writing unrealistic epistles here about how a man should remain faithful are not only unrealistic but they are living in delusion. 1 Like |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by kluivertngong: 11:00am On Oct 26, 2019 |
If I Get You Right, Then Keep It Real With Men. Tell Them That Cheating On Your Wife, Is A Choice And Not A Must. Tell Them That, They Can Change And Be Better Human Beings. Afterall, Change Is A Constant Thing. Tell Them How It Hurts To See Your Spouse Cheat. Most Men Are Really Inconsiderate, They Feel It Is Okay For Them To Cheat On Their Wives, While Their Wives Should Just Overlook It And Not React, Because They Are Furnitures Abi? When The Woman Cheats, All Hell Will Break Loose. IT IS NOT FAIR. Do You Want To Know Why Jesus Christ Was And Is Considered The Best Husband To The Church? 2 Likes |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 11:05am On Oct 26, 2019 |
kluivertngong: Shebi you know you can always create a thread about this and quote lalasticlala to consider it for the frontpage. For me, i chose to prepare the ladies for the wickedness of many men who do not have respect for their marital vow and i don't think all the sermons in the world will stop men from being with another woman. |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by kluivertngong: 11:05am On Oct 26, 2019 |
genq:You Make Me Laugh With The Way You Display Your Ignorance. For Your Information, My Mum Is Right Here Laughing At Your Stupidity. You Are A Half-Man, My Brother. Try To Upgrade. 7 Likes |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by kluivertngong: 11:12am On Oct 26, 2019 |
Toks2008:Sorry To Burst Your Bubbles. Not All Men Are The Same. There Are A Few Good Ones Out There In The World. Just Make Sure That, Men Should Know That They Can Change And Be Faithful. 7 Likes |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by pocohantas(f): 11:13am On Oct 26, 2019 |
purleesh: Hahaha. Thanks sis. I'm glad you are entertained. 1 Like |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 11:17am On Oct 26, 2019 |
kluivertngong: Of course they are few good faithful guys My threads are for ladies who end up with the bad unfaithful guys who are more in number and ironically the ladies prefer them to good guys like you. |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by kluivertngong: 11:21am On Oct 26, 2019 |
Toks2008:Me? |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by purleesh(f): 11:21am On Oct 26, 2019 |
DMerciful: She's "alarmingly" gifted..I follow her just to laugh Pocohantas 2 Likes |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by ImaIma1(f): 11:22am On Oct 26, 2019 |
pocohantas: The op's mindset is disturbing and unbelievable. He's promoting disunity, and freedom for men to live however they choose while the woman takes it all. Then why marry? Everytime,...women of old, olden days women, our mothers. Did he think such women were happy?Besides a good number of "our mothers" married out of love and not this loveless and pathetic union he keeps mentioning here. A woman should be all about her kids and allow the man live his life the way he wants. Really? Can she also sleep around? This op's write up is just myopic and bourne out of selfishness. This "women" of old he keeps magnifying were not all that he describes. Besides if anyone expects the present situations and outcomes to be the same as in the 60s, that person needs to wake up and move with the times or die in the past. 7 Likes |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by ImaIma1(f): 11:26am On Oct 26, 2019 |
NNEWIsuper: He is a one way traffic . Nothing else to offer except his usual mantra of men should be left free to roam while the women wait at his beck and call like the "women of old" 4 Likes |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Nobody: 11:29am On Oct 26, 2019 |
pocohantas: poco ah - you want to eat your cake and have your prick too. kolewerk |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 11:31am On Oct 26, 2019 |
ImaIma1: Aunty Aristotle so with all your rantings.. Can you stop even your own husband from cheating on you? And of he cheats and you have kids with him wettin you go do? It is convenient to always come online to form Amazon. 1 Like |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by ImaIma1(f): 11:33am On Oct 26, 2019 |
bukatyne: You echoed my thoughts. How does he know if the women were happy? And would it be unjust for women to crave happiness and satisfaction in present times? He is only thinking about how is benefits the men at the expense of the women. 6 Likes |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 11:36am On Oct 26, 2019 |
NNEWIsuper: And how wrong is this thread? How many ladies have you slept with all your life and how certain are you that you will remain faithful to your wife as long as you live? Oh let me guess...you also expect me to preach to men about how to remain faithful to their wives... Bro please commot for road make people pass..your apologies belittles you as a man except you are a female, Be a man and face reality. 1 Like |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 11:38am On Oct 26, 2019 |
ImaIma1: Madam Amazon biko answer my questions above. |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Paxie55: 11:45am On Oct 26, 2019 |
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Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Nobody: 11:50am On Oct 26, 2019 |
Toks2008: LMAO your thread is void of any support to women. You are just validating Randy men, that's all. Personally speaking, If I am your daughter and i read this piece you wrote, I might end up killing you & covering the Tracks before you ruin my life totally papa biko mee ọsọ ọsọ ma nwụọ tupu ị laa ndụ m n'iyi 7 Likes |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by ImaIma1(f): 12:16pm On Oct 26, 2019 |
Toks2008: Mr ITK The answer to these your rhetorical questions is inconsequential to you and irrelevant to me. So just rest. 2 Likes |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by LilMissFavvy(f): 12:24pm On Oct 26, 2019 |
The priority of both husband and wife should be their children....don't lay the ''priority on children'' thing on women alone, especially today's woman. It is childish for anyone to expect today's woman to act like women of olden days. Today's woman is educated and often a working class, she is exposed and has a say in issues. Yesterday's women were mostly dependent illiterates who were dependent on men, and saw their husbands as god's. They could tolerate all kinds of oppressions from men. A woman that dumps an unrepentant cheating husband should not be blamed, and she is not jeopardizing her children's future like you have said, rather she is protecting herself from emotional blackmail, or STDs. A philandering unrepentant husband is not worthy of love/respect from his wife and children, so he should be ready to swallow whatever decision his wife takes. He may end up having kids littered everywhere/many divorces, but his wife should not be blamed. His life, his choice! Toks2008: 2 Likes |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by CaptainMitch: 12:28pm On Oct 26, 2019 |
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Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Nobody: 12:29pm On Oct 26, 2019 |
genq:thats a girl not a guy 1 Like |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Nobody: 12:30pm On Oct 26, 2019 |
CaptainMitch:na queensexy be dat? |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by CaptainMitch: 12:30pm On Oct 26, 2019 |
Yes o lefulefu: |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Nobody: 12:35pm On Oct 26, 2019 |
Paxie55:ahh put up a pix for the boys oo .boys want to relax this early morning 1 Like
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Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by Nobody: 12:39pm On Oct 26, 2019 |
Toks2008 always fond of shaking the table .biko toks watch the way u always shake the table b4 sumtin heavy fall on ur head ooo.i can see the love given to you be the ladies here
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Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by dominique(f): 12:55pm On Oct 26, 2019 |
Mstick: +1000 likes especially the last bolded 4 Likes |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by wrongnumber: 1:09pm On Oct 26, 2019 |
I don't know why toks like bothering his head advicing these ladies who are not ready to face the truth. All I see here are just emotions outpour and some blatantly attacking his personal life. It goes to show the crop of ladies we have on nairaland. 1 Like |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by wrongnumber: 1:13pm On Oct 26, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy: Do you know that after I read your post I was totally confused because you just rewrote what toks wrote up there. Infact from what I can deduce he is saying ladies should learn to be totally independent. Nairaland ladies and unnecessary arguement. 1 Like |
Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by otherway: 1:26pm On Oct 26, 2019 |
This thread is both hilarious and down to earth. What I keep pondering about is the fact that if polygamy is allowed in African marriage then why should any lady bother herself with her husband being faithful to her. I don't think all these arguments from women make any logical sense. Oh I forgot to add that Polygamy is very acceptable only if the guy is rich but a taboo for a broke guy. That is the level of hypocrisy with Naija babes. 1 Like |
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