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Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by midnighter(f): 3:35pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
zyzxx: No, traditional marriage rites are. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by mignone(f): 3:41pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
AleAirHub:When we agreed to start up a relationship after being friends for about 6 months, it was agreed that there will be no sex until the wedding night but at a point I asked her "what if we are done with traditional marriage rites are we still not gonna have sex? To my creates surprise she said we won't until church wedding is done. I did not actually took her serious. Where did u read that he was tricked into having a white wedding sir? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by TVSA: 3:43pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
Guest007:I am not talking about the girl's wish. I am talking about what you wrote that "If you're Christian then the church is the REAL marriage, the traditional isn't Christian. She's a born again so how does tradition become more important than her church?" Church or white wedding is not a christian practice at all, it was invented into the christian practice by the Europeans. Someone even said the white dress symbolizes purity . "The first documented instance of a princess who wore a white wedding gown for a royal wedding ceremony is that of Philippa of England, who wore a tunic with a cloak in white silk bordered with grey squirrel and ermine in 1406. Mary, Queen of Scots, wore a white wedding gown in 1559 when she married her first husband, Francis Dauphin of France, because it was her favorite color, although white was then the color of mourning for French Queens. This was not a widespread trend, however: prior to the Victorian era, a bride was married in any color, black being especially popular in Scandinavia. White became a popular option in 1840, after the marriage of Queen Victoria to Albert of Saxe-Coburg, when Victoria wore a white gown to incorporate some lace she prized. The official wedding portrait photograph was widely published, and many brides opted for white in accordance with the Queen's choice. Not a biblical practice at all . What's more practiced in scriptures is today's traditional wedding . We comply with the laws by going to registry even though the laws recognize proper customary wedding in Nigeria ." 1 Like
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Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Lamanii22(f): 3:45pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
BarrElChapo: She's not being coersed.... They are fucking married traditionally.... It's not until they do church wedding... |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by mignone(f): 3:46pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
West2019:Wow!the better for the lady cos getting involved with smone who can't keep an agreement,doubts her claims (of being a virgin), capitalises on bride price, brings sacred matters of d home (a barely established one) to a public forum, etc is DANGEROUS! 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by mignone(f): 3:47pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
ufotty2001:See reasoning! 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 3:51pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
TVSA: You're probably having a great conversation but it's with the wrong person. My concern is the girl's wishes. I don't care about Christianity or Nigerian traditions. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Dollarseeker: 3:51pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
Offpoint:listen to ursef...ur don't need a big money for any white wedding...its not by force to hold a big white wedding. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by zyzxx(m): 3:52pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
Yuneehk:it's just a scam |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by zyzxx(m): 3:59pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
Martinez39:lol, that money is important, he should collect it. I just pity the guy if he marry such lady... |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by zyzxx(m): 4:01pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
midnighter:so what the bases of that lady's claim? That a strong signal to the guy that she will be a bad wife even if she is a virgin She will be completely selfish and not consider the man's sexual urge, she will give in only when she is in need and I doubt they are sexually compatible She is just error as far as am concerned |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Mbenny(m): 4:02pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
what is traditional and what is after marriage. wedding is wedding and moreover she is already your wife the very first day you paid her bride price. the church weding is white culture which is optional. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Shanana1(m): 4:05pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
[quote author=SillyeRabbit post=83594156][/quote]Go ahead with the wedding but let a lawyer and her family be involved that if she's not a virgin as she claimed they will pay everything u spent on her in thousand folds....Before u do the wedding make a legal agreement with her and her family. .if they scam you, they are all in trouble |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by sykeng(m): 4:08pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
mignone: I do not know her but ladies like that are everywhere. Talking from experience. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Sh1g1d1: 4:09pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
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Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by lovethchioma(f): 4:26pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by deltateam: 4:27pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
Martinez39: I blame the woman. All this nonsense wouldn't have come up if she had obeyed the biblical injunction not to be unequally yoked with an unbeliever. Now see now. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by mignone(f): 4:29pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
oscarhyno:... while all men are worth it |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by iyke0280: 4:42pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
Righteousness89:I'm guessing you are a Christian...please help me answer these questions 1)Do you think one becomes married after the church wedding or after the traditional wedding? 2) Do you believe a sin has been committed by a couple who engage in sex after their traditional wedding? Bible quotes to back up your answers will be appreciated... Let's see if we can learn a thing or two |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kunleweb: 4:45pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
Righteousness89: 100% 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by West2019(m): 4:47pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
mignone:pls what did the Bible say about marriage , if stated White wedding and I need the prove pls |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by mechanics(m): 5:13pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
ImaIma1:lolz, tell me what the Bible is saying? |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by ImaIma1(f): 5:16pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
DeRay98: If her plan was going to work, she should have done the trad and white in one or two days instead doing traditional and moving in with him and then withholding sex. It's better she remained in her parents house till the white wedding. It's good to have principles but it's also good to do it with wisdom. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Raalsalghul: 5:31pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
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Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by ImaIma1(f): 5:31pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
mechanics: Mention one marriage ceremony in the Bible that was done in the church/synagogue/temple? As long as the traditional rights for marriage between the families have been done, everything don set. A close relative of mine has not done white or court since 5years ago. And the interesting thing is that they got a visa to the US as a couple which I thought was impossible. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by mechanics(m): 5:37pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
ImaIma1:I understand your point using the case of Isaac and Rebecca abi, the church leadership might have think deeply to see reason why couples should not have sex till after the white wedding, being that they are leading us to heaven, we have no choice than to obey. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by DozieInc(m): 5:38pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
midnighter:Sure it is... |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Righteousness89(m): 5:42pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
iyke0280: I will answer your As a Bible Believing Christian.. 1. Heb 13:4: Marriage is honorable in all and the bed undefiled. As a Bible Believing Christian, at what point are you declared fully Married? The Church is the Body of JESUS CHRIST. As such a Bible Believing Christian is fully Married after the Pastor or Priest Blesses and pronounces the Couple Married in The Name of JESUS.. 2. YES ! Without being Blessed and Declared Married by the Pastor or Priest I will Advice Couples to stay away.. As a Believer the Pronoucement and Blessing of The Church on my Marriage is what gives me the access to my wife... 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by martowskin1(m): 5:47pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
ImaIma1: smelling food u can't eat, u know things is really going to be rocky for them, because this dude is definitely going to have his own principles and he won't shift ground .... Just for this her act |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Datingcomrade(f): 6:07pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe:The lady doesn't see the guy appealing, she's not into him I guess which I think made her stand on her decision even after traditional marriage which is the main ritual for couples. What if bros no get money for white wedding, so konji go just finish him whereas him don pay bride price. Him no be my brother Sha, I for tell him the truth. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by DeRay98(m): 6:12pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
ImaIma1: Absolutely... Principles without wisdom and like Zeal without knowledge... This whole approach by them is dangerous and can lead to "rape" if the guy loses it or whatever.... Let's assume the man dies today, is she entitled to his estate as wife, will she claim his estate as her inheritance I don't she 'll reject it or let his family claim it. She'll cry out for justice that she's being denied her rights as the widow of the man.... 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by DeRay98(m): 6:21pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
Righteousness89:Forget this quotation you're applying wrongly... Once, the bride parents accepted her dowry the marriage contract is signed sealed and delivered. After that what the church ought to be blessing the marriage. Performing traditional marriage ceremony and going to church is duplication of process. Are there no Christians who did only traditional marriage ceremony and goes to regular church service on Sunday and Pastor calls them out to bless the union without any further ceremonies of joining? It's even becoming the norm for many couples in many churches who have financial challenge... 2 Likes 1 Share |
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