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Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Nobody: 11:57pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
pappy2000:What is wrong you bro, why will you marry just to divorce? Do you know the rigorous processes that comes with divorce? If you are not interested just call off the wedding instead of putting yourself in a lifetime regret. You even wanted this because you were pushed in the first place, SMH. 21 Likes |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by ahahnow: 1:44am On Nov 08, 2019 |
I am afraid for the child's wellbeing 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by edoman2016: 1:52am On Nov 08, 2019 |
pappy2000:How old is your fiancee? 4 Likes |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by ireneidiva(f): 1:53am On Nov 08, 2019 |
How did you guys manage to understand this writeup? 35 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by deltateam: 3:26am On Nov 08, 2019 |
pappy2000: You seem to lack financial and emotional intelligence as well self control. You want to marry and the first thing that came to mind was 'loan'! Your supposed fiancee that was to advise you even had to chunk out #200 000 to add. All for what? You weren't ready to marry and yet you were firing her on top gear. 45 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by deltateam: 3:35am On Nov 08, 2019 |
pappy2000: How do you intend to pay off the car loan because that is even the headache not this marriage drama. 23 Likes |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by pappy2000: 5:47am On Nov 08, 2019 |
The truth is that we have already done the court wedding the traditional marriage is around next two weeks, her sister has spent like 900,k on the wedding. She is 34 years old 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by pappy2000: 5:50am On Nov 08, 2019 |
deltateam: What am I supposed to do brother, the reason why she said she left her ex was because that one na boxer, but I have for once hit her even when provoked,I think I made the mistake of my life , my thinking is to finish the wedding in November give her one month to displayher madness and then file a divorce early January, that lady used to be so loving that I didn't even pray about it, 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by pappy2000: 5:54am On Nov 08, 2019 |
This is alady that I go on my knees when she visit me that I promise to worship her for the rest of my life, I told her I am ready to give her 50k out of my salary'yet she said that is not enough that she wants to open a shop , I am just damn tired her delivery date is April yet last week she told me she went to see a doctor to plead with him to evacuate the pregnancy 5 Likes |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by pappy2000: 6:15am On Nov 08, 2019 |
deltateam: Like i told u i earn over a little more than 100k , i have built my own place and i liive in the suburb of ikorodu, i intend to o the uber biz on a part time basis to repay the loan 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by AngryIgboMan: 6:15am On Nov 08, 2019 |
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Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Niceman4u(m): 6:28am On Nov 08, 2019 |
ireneidiva: I thought I was the only one who did not understand the write up. 9 Likes |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by pappy2000: 6:30am On Nov 08, 2019 |
AngryIgboMan: i dont need any one money just need advice on how to live a happy life , I am doing great. so dont get it twisted 34 Likes |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by pappy2000: 6:31am On Nov 08, 2019 |
Niceman4u: sorry its a story of my life just writing from the heart. i dont think i am writing bad english i am a graduate , I am writing this issue as its comes to my heart. 6 Likes |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by generationz(f): 8:14am On Nov 08, 2019 |
pappy2000: I thought you said she was supportive and gave you 200k for your business? What changed? Did you do something that made her not trust you anymore and made her become mean to you? I think you both should just take time off and cool off from each other. Marriage isn't by force. The wedding you are scared of cancelling some people die before it and it still gets cancelled. No one remembers all the rice and invitation when they are mourning. Since you guys have done court wedding just relax. Let her have her baby. Isn't one of the aims of marriage to have kids. Don't let anybody put pressure on you. Be in charge. You are the man. Think straight. Plan well. Plan how you'll get out of this mess. Wedding isn't compulsory. If she thinks you are not man enough then it is time for you to take a break from her. Only send her monthly upkeep for her and the baby. Set a standard amount that even in the toughest times you will be able to afford. Stay away from each other. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Too much familiarity breeds contempt. Let her only see the proceeds of your hustle. Forget everything romance right now. And if you did anything to offend her, ask for her forgiveness. 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by pappy2000: 8:26am On Nov 08, 2019 |
generationz: God bless you this is what I really need right now, I think I am getting too emotionally attached to her 10 Likes |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by generationz(f): 8:31am On Nov 08, 2019 |
pappy2000: Did you both agree orally that she will receive proceeds front the Uber business? Was the 200k a loan or an investment on her part? Or did she give you as a gift? 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by mindful01: 8:33am On Nov 08, 2019 |
Free your mind 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by seunmohmoh(f): 8:34am On Nov 08, 2019 |
This wan wey you dey fear your wife sister. Nawao Guy, you are not ready for marriage. 16 Likes |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by statusquoante: 8:36am On Nov 08, 2019 |
pappy2000: @bolded Godliness with contentment is great gain - the Holy Bible. How dare you quit your job to do uber And you took a loan You are the architect of your misfortune! Sorry!! I hope you get yourself again. 9 Likes |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by saydfact(m): 8:36am On Nov 08, 2019 |
pappy2000: you're complaining over NOTHING...... I cant seem to understand what the problem is here; Keep faith things would get in the right places 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by 24kmagic: 8:36am On Nov 08, 2019 |
Are we talking about Kogi state girl here or someone whose parents just live in Kogi? Cos if that girl is from Kogi state, just back off! I'm yet to see one good girl from Kogi state and I've seen many. Only go ahead with this wedding if you're also from Kogi state, if not.... Kogi state? God forbid 15 Likes |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Bukden16(m): 8:37am On Nov 08, 2019 |
But.... Let just read comments and sell ma market. 4 Likes
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Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by maestroferdi: 8:37am On Nov 08, 2019 |
The choice is between making your partner happy and getting affirmation and approval from people like her sister. Make your choice... 1 Like |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by ctleurocollege: 8:38am On Nov 08, 2019 |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Larryyybbb(m): 8:39am On Nov 08, 2019 |
I will suggest you call off the wedding since the court has been done and save up some money for your unborn child.. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by urose93(f): 8:41am On Nov 08, 2019 |
pappy2000: 'THINKING OF DIVORCE AFTER THE WEDDING'. please someone should explain this to me. l am lost. 8 Likes |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by alizma: 8:41am On Nov 08, 2019 |
pappy2000:The fact is she loves you are want a marriage with you. You mentioned that she is pregnant, her recent behavior may be as a result of her being pregnant. Notwithstanding that, one need to be very mature to be a husband. One key thing that had help me is that even before I married my wife, I told myself I was going to consider my wife as my first daughter therefore I need to do everything possible to raise my first daughter properly with care, love and tolerance, not leaving behind constructive corrections when necessary. Finally, in my own dictionary, acceptance precede love when it come to marriage. I wish you success 15 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Drpeey(m): 8:41am On Nov 08, 2019 |
If you're already thinking about divorce b4 d wedding day.. why go on with the planned wedding? This marriage thing shudnt be by force sir. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by Rekhina(f): 8:41am On Nov 08, 2019 |
ladyGKilaBCrueD:leave okmn alone ! Na by force 2 chop preek |
Re: I Am Getting Married Yet I Am In So Much Pain/ by almarthins(m): 8:42am On Nov 08, 2019 |
pappy2000: U don buy market na�! Abeg jeje o and be a man by being bold. Tell dem where u stand n stoP crying like a baby. Wetin ur tear tear don solve now? |
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