pocohantas:
3yrs and counting...

How old are you?
How old is she?
How old is the agent of dickstraction?

We dump one, we marry another.

No one wants to become evening newspaper.

Few yrs from now, you will dickstract another young guy's babe and he will be here to wail too

Cold world.

truly.

I have lost count of girls I know, that in January, you knew they were dating one Femi, but by April, na Johnson dem dey marry

Girls are calculating marriage period. Three years is too long to be dating with no signs of marriage for many women, so, once they see s guy that is ready to take them off the market, they'll start second-guessing the one that is 'wasting their time'

holaxi:
My girlfriend and I have being together for almost three years now. We've had all the moments the good ,the bad and the ugly.

But recently she met a guy who asked her out, she refused his advances but the guy and her spend so much time on calls and chatting which I don't really like.

I've talked to her so many times about it but if she listens for a week the next week they are back in business.

Last week we were chatting and she just went offline I tried calling her to know what's up only for her number to be busy for like 20 mins. When she came back online and I told her she said she wasn't on call with anyone.

When I probed her further she said she wanted a two weeks break that I complain too much and I don't trust her.

I apologized to her so peace could reign but since then I've started losing interest in her.

Go and get another GF simple

my guy, go marry her and see what happen ...

holaxi:
My girlfriend and I have being together for almost three years now. We've had all the moments the good ,the bad and the ugly.

But recently she met a guy who asked her out, she refused his advances but the guy and her spend so much time on calls and chatting which I don't really like.

I've talked to her so many times about it but if she listens for a week the next week they are back in business.

Last week we were chatting and she just went offline I tried calling her to know what's up only for her number to be busy for like 20 mins. When she came back online and I told her she said she wasn't on call with anyone.

When I probed her further she said she wanted a two weeks break that I complain too much and I don't trust her.

I apologized to her so peace could reign but since then I've started losing interest in her.

I think she feels that guy's keen on marriage while you are in no hurry. She's hedging her risk. She may be sending you a subtle warning.

Better let her go. If she's really yours, she'll come back to you. Love is mutual and not one sided. When it becomes one sided, it becomes parasitic.

You apologise lmao
Thats were your problem is.....
Me o whether I'm right or wrong I don't apologise to anyone
Its either you apologise or let the issue die a natural death.....
Apologising to a woman shows hear you are weak....

ibkayee:
You aren't 'losing interest' per se, rather your girlfriend has left you with no choice with her disrespectful antics lol

I'd leave her if I were you

the girl will probably leave him first, since e never ready to marry her.
Maybe the new guy has even promised to go for introduction in a month.

My brother don't bother yourself, don't listen to those talk to her talks or try to make peace or be patient. This is the time to run as you are losing interest it's the best sef.

There is no other way this will play out unless you want to keep living in false hope. Peace

she's not your girlfriend... it was just your turn

safarigirl:
the girl will probably leave him first, since e never ready to marry her.
Maybe the new guy has even promised to go for introduction in a month.

Lol I'm telling you, it's like the girl has already mentally checked out of the relationship. Two weeks break kwa? There is nothing remaining for him to be losing interest in

2 me u r off track he said he has tried every tin & he s tired..

Ladylite:


Am really sorry on behalf of ladies on how you have been treated by your lady.

But I need to explain some few things
You may have not understood about ladies.... So you do not make the mistake again in your next relationshipssss

You can kiss a lady and still not know her
. You can sex a lady very well and she will still not be yours.
You may even spend money on her education, looks, parents, health and in gratitude she will cheat on you.

The key to a Lady's heart, soul and body is COMMUNICATION.

Once a guy has good communications with a lady NOT just talk games o, the girl is owned even if she denies it vehemently.

Many guys stop pursuing impressive communication once they have gotten the girl to date them or marry them. That's man's biggest mistake or oversight about women.

Communication is a life long work both parties must do for the relationship to remain strong and grow.

Let her make her choice and try to live with it, you could be boring to her, let go of her so you don't die of heartache in the future

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I think I can relate with the situation. Most probably, she just loves the attention the guy gives her. You know when a guy is first wooing a lady, he makes her feel so special especially if he is a funny kinda guy. I was once carried away with chatting with a guy and there was absolutely nothing between us. He was just a friend and knew i was in a relationship. He just brought newness and I just liked it.

I don't think you should take any rash decisions tho, 3years is not a joke. The likeness she has for the guy will soon wear off, just play along but don't keep your distant and don't be so conscious of the other guy because if you do, you would be giving her the opportunity to move farther away from you. That would be playing right into the guys hand.

safarigirl:
truly.

I have lost count of girls I know, that in January, you knew they were dating one Family, but by April, na Johnson dem dey marry

Girls are calculating marriage period. Three years is too long to be dating with no signs of marriage for many women, so, once they see s guy that is ready to take them off the market, they'll start second-guessing the one that is 'wasting their time'

All these ones telling him to find another girl that will "respect" him are just deceiving him. If he is in his mid-twenties, he will still be passed round. I call them transitional boyfriends.

I have friends who say if they see a girl that fits now, they done marry am in 3-6mths. Yet someone is dating for 3yrs. Highest na to call you for night, dey ask "have you eaten?"

holaxi:
My girlfriend and I have being together for almost three years now. We've had all the moments the good ,the bad and the ugly.

But recently she met a guy who asked her out, she refused his advances but the guy and her spend so much time on calls and chatting which I don't really like.

I've talked to her so many times about it but if she listens for a week the next week they are back in business.

Last week we were chatting and she just went offline I tried calling her to know what's up only for her number to be busy for like 20 mins. When she came back online and I told her she said she wasn't on call with anyone.

When I probed her further she said she wanted a two weeks break that I complain too much and I don't trust her.

I apologized to her so peace could reign but since then I've started losing interest in her.

The earlier you realise she's not for you, the better for you!

Mine does same but . butter I bother my self when I notice she's on another call but now I no send . all I know is I have a competitor . make the guy dey polish him toasting wella.

davillian:
You apologise lmao
Thats were your problem is.....
Me o whether I'm right or wrong I don't apologise to anyone
Its either you apologise or let the issue die a natural death.....
Apologising to a woman shows hear you are weak....

“Apologising to a woman shows hear you are weak....” You should change this mentality, women worth APOLOGIES when you go wrong.

The other guy has her,trust me..the break is for her to cheat. After the other guy uses her like mad,she will then come back begging. But u would be a fool to accept her back.

pocohantas:
3yrs and counting...

How old are you?
How old is she?
How old is the agent of dickstraction?

We dump one, we marry another.

No one wants to become evening newspaper.

Few yrs from now, you will dickstract another young guy's babe and he will be here to wail too

Cold world.

Na so back in school uche (med student) dump Kenneth (med student) for oyel big boy back then. Married the guy sharp sharp.

This one is still crying because of woman. You are very far oo

Bro go to ONITSHA make money..I mean money...forget you too disturb and space bla bla bla...

clems88:
Mine does same but . butter I bother my self when I notice she's on another call but now I no send . all I know is I have a competitor . make the guy dey polish him toasting wella.

You mean polish her kpekus ��

Don't even try to beg. Reduce your attention on her and see her crawl back to you.

RESHARPENED:
'She asked for a 2-week break'

Congratulations, you got yourself a girlfriend with scruples. She doesn't want to cheat on you. The two-week break is to allow the new guy twist, turn and tweak her system to his full pleasure and her carnal satisfaction without the accompanying conscience-crippling guilt of infidelity.

In plain terms,
She's going to get sexually intimate with the new guy.

And there's no stopping her. If after the tryst, she still fancies you then she can come back with a pure heart, devoid of guilt. Since, technically you guys were not together during the time she did the deed.

If on the other hand the experience was orgasm-inducing, she's going to dump you or fxck with your head and make you walk away.

So, you have to just understand that your girlfriend is gone with the new goon. Forget her and move on!

You can thank me by working on yourself and NEVER giving any girl your absolute commitment.

Rich Regards!

Bad G, you code from afar... James Hardley Chase Jr....

holaxi:

You might be right though cos I don't know what a guy and girl will be talking about at after 11pm for 43mins+. But I try my best for her. If my best isn't enough then she's free to do whatever pleases her. One bad thing about me is once I lose the feelings, there's no gong back.

Kindly loose the feeling. She's not as good as you say, if she is, you wouldn't be here complaining.

You are big slowpoke bro....

You are also a weakling..

Call her bluff and ignore her too.

Discipline yourself not to call her...Delete her number, block WhatsApp line... Then later Facebook and Instagram too.

How will a woman tell you to give her a two(2) week break and you still think she loves you.

When a woman really loves you she cannot do without you for a day.

The relationship is gone I mean gone and gone for real

Just start scouting for a girl friend

holaxi:

No bro,its not about the sex... I just love this girl.. I know myself if I should get angry once it's over , but the girl has a lot of good attributes in her. I'm just trying to do everything to make her come back to her senses.

For her to ask for a 2wks brake... It's evident she wants out because you stalk her too much but who wouldn't... That 2weeks brake is a test period for her and her new catch, if things don't work out then she can always run back to you, plan B.

That being said, I thinks she's picked sides already and it's not your side. Just blank her and move on.

metformin:
my brother, move on with ya life, think of how you can better your life.

This is d best advice so far. Some men they waste their time chasing shadows. Which sign do you need again to know say your girlfriend don leave u? Do something meaningful with your life.

[b][/b]Mr man if a girl tell you she needs a break even it for 2days oga move on and don't ever look back don't even beg never never I repeat beg again... move on and don't look back..
Don't even accept to Bleep her again cuz it may bring back old memories and you will be back to square 1...#talkingfromexperience

Bro leave her before you get heart broken she's no longer interested.

holaxi:

My mum and sisters know her already and I know hers too. She's not a bad girl. Just don't know what got into her lately

Women live to feel good and live good.

Men live for a mission.

Move on those other bros told you correct.

When a woman get wishy washy its because she has before her other choices she is tempted by. She will keep both guys or several in her life playing all sides like a greedy pig. Learn to recognize this sort of women right away and move on quick. There are women who don't play these games.