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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by safarigirl(f): 10:13pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
pocohantas:truly. I have lost count of girls I know, that in January, you knew they were dating one Femi, but by April, na Johnson dem dey marry Girls are calculating marriage period. Three years is too long to be dating with no signs of marriage for many women, so, once they see s guy that is ready to take them off the market, they'll start second-guessing the one that is 'wasting their time' 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by anonymous1759(m): 10:13pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
holaxi: Go and get another GF simple 3 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by ZooOga: 10:14pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
my guy, go marry her and see what happen ... 6 Likes
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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by grandstar(m): 10:14pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
holaxi: I think she feels that guy's keen on marriage while you are in no hurry. She's hedging her risk. She may be sending you a subtle warning. Better let her go. If she's really yours, she'll come back to you. Love is mutual and not one sided. When it becomes one sided, it becomes parasitic. 9 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by davillian(m): 10:15pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
You apologise lmao Thats were your problem is..... Me o whether I'm right or wrong I don't apologise to anyone Its either you apologise or let the issue die a natural death..... Apologising to a woman shows hear you are weak.... 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by safarigirl(f): 10:15pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
ibkayee:the girl will probably leave him first, since e never ready to marry her. Maybe the new guy has even promised to go for introduction in a month. 1 Like |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by mrcrabs(m): 10:17pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
My brother don't bother yourself, don't listen to those talk to her talks or try to make peace or be patient. This is the time to run as you are losing interest it's the best sef. There is no other way this will play out unless you want to keep living in false hope. Peace 4 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by BlackZeus17: 10:18pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
she's not your girlfriend... it was just your turn 11 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by ibkayee(f): 10:18pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
safarigirl:Lol I'm telling you, it's like the girl has already mentally checked out of the relationship. Two weeks break kwa? There is nothing remaining for him to be losing interest in 12 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by nnaemekanwachuk(m): 10:19pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
2 me u r off track he said he has tried every tin & he s tired.. Ladylite: |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Tajbol4splend(m): 10:19pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Let her make her choice and try to live with it, you could be boring to her, let go of her so you don't die of heartache in the future |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Windflower(f): 10:20pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
[quote author=holaxi post=84084637][/quote] I think I can relate with the situation. Most probably, she just loves the attention the guy gives her. You know when a guy is first wooing a lady, he makes her feel so special especially if he is a funny kinda guy. I was once carried away with chatting with a guy and there was absolutely nothing between us. He was just a friend and knew i was in a relationship. He just brought newness and I just liked it. I don't think you should take any rash decisions tho, 3years is not a joke. The likeness she has for the guy will soon wear off, just play along but don't keep your distant and don't be so conscious of the other guy because if you do, you would be giving her the opportunity to move farther away from you. That would be playing right into the guys hand. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by pocohantas(f): 10:20pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
safarigirl: All these ones telling him to find another girl that will "respect" him are just deceiving him. If he is in his mid-twenties, he will still be passed round. I call them transitional boyfriends. I have friends who say if they see a girl that fits now, they done marry am in 3-6mths. Yet someone is dating for 3yrs. Highest na to call you for night, dey ask "have you eaten?" 28 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Nobody: 10:21pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
holaxi:The earlier you realise she's not for you, the better for you! |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by clems88(m): 10:21pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Mine does same but . butter I bother my self when I notice she's on another call but now I no send . all I know is I have a competitor . make the guy dey polish him toasting wella. 8 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Victorex001(m): 10:21pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
davillian: “Apologising to a woman shows hear you are weak....” You should change this mentality, women worth APOLOGIES when you go wrong. 13 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by omotoyossi(m): 10:22pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
The other guy has her,trust me..the break is for her to cheat. After the other guy uses her like mad,she will then come back begging. But u would be a fool to accept her back. 8 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Nobody: 10:22pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
pocohantas: Na so back in school uche (med student) dump Kenneth (med student) for oyel big boy back then. Married the guy sharp sharp. 6 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by crackhouse(m): 10:23pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
This one is still crying because of woman. You are very far oo |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Nobody: 10:23pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Bro go to ONITSHA make money..I mean money...forget you too disturb and space bla bla bla... 1 Like
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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Victorex001(m): 10:24pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
clems88: You mean polish her kpekus �� 2 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by SaintNegro77: 10:24pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Don't even try to beg. Reduce your attention on her and see her crawl back to you. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by dannybrasky(m): 10:24pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
You questioned your girl about being on phone for 20 minutes. Next thing she is asking u for 2 weeks break. Oga do u need an herbalist to tell you she no dey dig your parole again or she choose someone or something over you. She is about to go screw the guy she's been talking to. 2 weeks freedom to galavant and then come back to you in case things doesn't work out with the other guy. If a lady ask me for 2 weeks break not because I cheated on her or did something really terrible to warrant it,the 2 weeks would be till eternity. As I'll be using the tharnos effect on her 27 Likes
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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Samuels90: 10:24pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
RESHARPENED:Bad G, you code from afar... James Hardley Chase Jr.... 4 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Benwems(m): 10:24pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
holaxi:Kindly loose the feeling. She's not as good as you say, if she is, you wouldn't be here complaining. 4 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Lanruze: 10:24pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
You are big slowpoke bro.... You are also a weakling.. Call her bluff and ignore her too. Discipline yourself not to call her...Delete her number, block WhatsApp line... Then later Facebook and Instagram too. How will a woman tell you to give her a two(2) week break and you still think she loves you. When a woman really loves you she cannot do without you for a day. 24 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by maxiuc(m): 10:25pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
The relationship is gone I mean gone and gone for real Just start scouting for a girl friend 4 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by tonididdy(m): 10:25pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
holaxi:For her to ask for a 2wks brake... It's evident she wants out because you stalk her too much but who wouldn't... That 2weeks brake is a test period for her and her new catch, if things don't work out then she can always run back to you, plan B. That being said, I thinks she's picked sides already and it's not your side. Just blank her and move on. 4 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by gbagyiza: 10:25pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
metformin: This is d best advice so far. Some men they waste their time chasing shadows. Which sign do you need again to know say your girlfriend don leave u? Do something meaningful with your life. 2 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by uncleDk50: 10:26pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
[b][/b]Mr man if a girl tell you she needs a break even it for 2days oga move on and don't ever look back don't even beg never never I repeat beg again... move on and don't look back.. Don't even accept to Bleep her again cuz it may bring back old memories and you will be back to square 1...#talkingfromexperience 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by iamKeo(m): 10:26pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Bro leave her before you get heart broken she's no longer interested. 3 Likes |
Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Godhatesodomy: 10:26pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
holaxi: Women live to feel good and live good. Men live for a mission. Move on those other bros told you correct. When a woman get wishy washy its because she has before her other choices she is tempted by. She will keep both guys or several in her life playing all sides like a greedy pig. Learn to recognize this sort of women right away and move on quick. There are women who don't play these games. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
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