anslem04:



Bro calm down, she jus a GF not yet ur wife, yu shuld be hapi u av a competition now is d time to show ur manly attributes, show less worry n let her see why u are d best option.
i didnt say impress or go collect renloan to start splashing, stop seein the other guy as a threat. i was two times in ur shoes

In naira Marley's voice..... Alaye calm down joor, she's not ur girlfriend just ur turn

holaxi:

No bro,its not about the sex... I just love this girl.. I know myself if I should get angry once it's over , but the girl has a lot of good attributes in her. I'm just trying to do everything to make her come back to her senses.

Man, please stop being too naive. Hypergamy is real, that's what's playing here. Only thing I ll advice is that you do not tolerate disrespect which you are already tolerating. Personally, I ll advice you put a prize and value on yourself. If she messes up again, kindly ghost her. No dramas or explanation, just tell her it is no longer working and move on

holaxi:
My girlfriend and I have being together for almost three years now. We've had all the moments the good ,the bad and the ugly. But recently she met a guy who asked her out she refused his advances but the guy and her spend so much time on calls and chatting which I don't really like. I've talked to her so many times about it but if she listens for a week the next week they are back in business. Last week we were chatting and she just went offline I tried calling her to know what's up only for her number to be busy for like 20 mins. when she came back online and I told her she said she wasn't on call with anyone. When her probed her further she said she wanted a two weeks break that I complain too much and I don't trust her. I apologized to her so peace could reign but since then I've started losing interest in her.

Move on please, with all those you mentioned and esp the two weeks break of a thing points to the fact that she has seen someone better over on

holaxi:
My girlfriend and I have being together for almost three years now. We've had all the moments the good ,the bad and the ugly. But recently she met a guy who asked her out she refused his advances but the guy and her spend so much time on calls and chatting which I don't really like. I've talked to her so many times about it but if she listens for a week the next week they are back in business. Last week we were chatting and she just went offline I tried calling her to know what's up only for her number to be busy for like 20 mins. when she came back online and I told her she said she wasn't on call with anyone. When her probed her further she said she wanted a two weeks break that I complain too much and I don't trust her. I apologized to her so peace could reign but since then I've started losing interest in her.

lol....you even apologize to her...Ok kontinue

anslem04:



Bro calm down, she jus a GF not yet ur wife, yu shuld be hapi u av a competition now is d time to show ur manly attributes, show less worry n let her see why u are d best option.
i didnt say impress or go collect renloan to start splashing, stop seein the other guy as a threat. i was two times in ur shoes

Lol.. competition ke, e no get wetin we no go hear.. like say gals don finish

theTransporter:


UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: That Lil' Break-up She Initiated For No Reason, she said two weeks and you are begging her, it will end in tears bro.. am waiting for your next post

lol bold tears ��

holaxi:

My mum and sisters know her already and I know hers too. She's not a bad girl. Just don't know what got into her lately

Hahahaha listen to yourself bro. Good girl that abandoned her boyfriend in the middle of a chat so she can go talk with another man. Somebody she knows her boyfriend hates. Lwkmd.

The earlier you wake up the better for you. Gather whatever is left of your respect and forget that girl.

A girl only say what she said to you if she is tired of you and doesn't want to feel guilty when she is sleeping with the other dude. So taking a "two weeks" break with such flimsy excuse just so she can continue screwing the other dude without feeling guilty and having to make excuses each time you ask her who she has been with.

Bro you say you are losing interest in her, but the truth is she has already lost interest in you. Hence the two weeks freedom she wants from you

holaxi:
My girlfriend and I have being together for almost three years now. We've had all the moments the good ,the bad and the ugly. But recently she met a guy who asked her out she refused his advances but the guy and her spend so much time on calls and chatting which I don't really like. I've talked to her so many times about it but if she listens for a week the next week they are back in business. Last week we were chatting and she just went offline I tried calling her to know what's up only for her number to be busy for like 20 mins. when she came back online and I told her she said she wasn't on call with anyone. When her probed her further she said she wanted a two weeks break that I complain too much and I don't trust her. I apologized to her so peace could reign but since then I've started losing interest in her.

GREAT'..
..brother....if u don't wanna smash..I beg....let me smash!!

You need to be red pilled bro.

holaxi:
My girlfriend and I have being together for almost three years now. We've had all the moments the good ,the bad and the ugly. But recently she met a guy who asked her out she refused his advances but the guy and her spend so much time on calls and chatting which I don't really like. I've talked to her so many times about it but if she listens for a week the next week they are back in business. Last week we were chatting and she just went offline I tried calling her to know what's up only for her number to be busy for like 20 mins. when she came back online and I told her she said she wasn't on call with anyone. When her probed her further she said she wanted a two weeks break that I complain too much and I don't trust her. I apologized to her so peace could reign but since then I've started losing interest in her.

honestly bro, I understand your situation perfectly! I'll tell you the truth, break up with her! It's not a curse, you guys won't end up together! I say again, no be curse.

holaxi:
My girlfriend and I have being together for almost three years now. We've had all the moments the good ,the bad and the ugly. But recently she met a guy who asked her out she refused his advances but the guy and her spend so much time on calls and chatting which I don't really like. I've talked to her so many times about it but if she listens for a week the next week they are back in business. Last week we were chatting and she just went offline I tried calling her to know what's up only for her number to be busy for like 20 mins. when she came back online and I told her she said she wasn't on call with anyone. When her probed her further she said she wanted a two weeks break that I complain too much and I don't trust her. I apologized to her so peace could reign but since then I've started losing interest in her.

It is like all female brain wired the same..

Exactly what my girl did last four months ago..

I quit the relationship and i have peace of mind make i no come get HBP..

Now we are ordinary friends

You can never stop her because her mind is made of..
Till when the new guy disappoint her that is when she will want to come back to you

ll

holaxi:
My girlfriend and I have being together for almost three years now. We've had all the moments the good ,the bad and the ugly.

But recently she met a guy who asked her out, she refused his advances but the guy and her spend so much time on calls and chatting which I don't really like.

I've talked to her so many times about it but if she listens for a week the next week they are back in business.

Last week we were chatting and she just went offline I tried calling her to know what's up only for her number to be busy for like 20 mins. When she came back online and I told her she said she wasn't on call with anyone.

When I probed her further she said she wanted a two weeks break that I complain too much and I don't trust her.

I apologized to her so peace could reign but since then I've started losing interest in her.

Better leave her to learn her lesson the hard way. When kasala burst she knows the road to your house to beg. Make your money and take care of yourself. Start looking for her replacement because it's obvious you would soon be history to her.

Even if you stalk a house wife too much self you go have issue,that's woman with there problem

Starz825:


Bro na normal thing...stop stalking her....she isn't married to u yet... no dey put mind for girl wey no be ur wife.... though I wouldn't advice u tolerate disrespect but leave her for some time....ur mind too dey her side...

3yrs and counting...

How old are you?
How old is she?
How old is the agent of dickstraction?

We dump one, we marry another.

No one wants to become evening newspaper.

Few yrs from now, you will dickstract another young guy's babe and he will be here to wail too

Cold world.

Guy u nailed it

lilmax:



How can a MAN possess this high degree of low self esteem?

He even apologized

If you're asked what she brings to the table I know you will say sex


The good thing here is, you will realize how stupid you were in months to come

Two weeks break to go and collect kondo from the guy
She’s gone already bro

Dump her and never call again

That "you complain too much" is that she is cheating already. Maybe emotionally, and soon kpkustically.

But hey! You aren't married to her yet na. Engage yourself in something worthwhile, like making money and take a break for the meantime.

Bros. It's very simple. Ur babe is gone. Zero ur mind, don't expect her to care, don't expect any good thing from her, stop calling or messaging her. if she get some sense left, she wl quickly return to u. Bros, wat am l even saying sef! Forget dt girl. No give urself headache on a girl( ur ex)dt doesn't worth u. Hustle, girls wl rush u.
I have close( so close) female crush, despite d closeness, they don't trash their boyfriend cos of me and we don't cross red lines. Ur ex just trashed u.
This is wat happen when u love her more. Date someone dt loves u more and u wl get peace of mind and u wl be d boss.
U sef con go apologize, wat peace! She already knows u are weak and she's trading on dt. U are a man not woman!

holaxi:
My girlfriend and I have being together for almost three years now. We've had all the moments the good ,the bad and the ugly.

But recently she met a guy who asked her out, she refused his advances but the guy and her spend so much time on calls and chatting which I don't really like.

I've talked to her so many times about it but if she listens for a week the next week they are back in business.

Last week we were chatting and she just went offline I tried calling her to know what's up only for her number to be busy for like 20 mins. When she came back online and I told her she said she wasn't on call with anyone.

When I probed her further she said she wanted a two weeks break that I complain too much and I don't trust her.

I apologized to her so peace could reign but since then I've started losing interest in her.

you apologize for peace to reign, all these Una type of talk dey provoke me...

holaxi:

No bro,its not about the sex... I just love this girl.. I know myself if I should get angry once it's over , but the girl has a lot of good attributes in her. I'm just trying to do everything to make her come back to her senses.

Its simple the guy has more money than you... Poverty and low self esteem has destroyed naija women. Guy its already over just work on yourself........ Its only Nigeria young men that would be semi-broke and want to package a broker nigerian girl and expect the ship not to break in the midst of bigger and heavier vessels. Do you have a covenant with the word BROKE? Dont just listen to people saying she would come to her senses, there is no sense nor attribute in a broke nigerian girl only a better life or harsh lessons and that gamble till thine kingdom comes naija girls would always play it. That risk is already imbedded in their DNA.

holaxi:
My girlfriend and I have being together for almost three years now. We've had all the moments the good ,the bad and the ugly.

But recently she met a guy who asked her out, she refused his advances but the guy and her spend so much time on calls and chatting which I don't really like.

I've talked to her so many times about it but if she listens for a week the next week they are back in business.

Last week we were chatting and she just went offline I tried calling her to know what's up only for her number to be busy for like 20 mins. When she came back online and I told her she said she wasn't on call with anyone.

When I probed her further she said she wanted a two weeks break that I complain too much and I don't trust her.

I apologized to her so peace could reign but since then I've started losing interest in her.

Chairman move on....No let person turn you to bug/nagger, that shit is exhausting.

Bro u cnt change sm1

holaxi:

No bro,its not about the sex... I just love this girl.. I know myself if I should get angry once it's over , but the girl has a lot of good attributes in her. I'm just trying to do everything to make her come back to her senses.

Starz825:


Bro na normal thing...stop stalking her....she isn't married to u yet... no dey put mind for girl wey no be ur wife.... though I wouldn't advice u tolerate disrespect but leave her for some time....ur mind too dey her side...

Na normal thing, but you wouldn't advice him to tolerate disrespect. Abeg, what could be more disrespecting.... think before you type plz

lefulefu:
maybe the new guy she"s chatting with has promised to take her to dubai or milan.u know how some babes loose their sanity when dem hear abroad .

Why do you think it id abroad turning her head? Abroad dey turn head pass marriage?

Maybe the new guy has promised to put a ring on it, and she is now considering the possibility of OP being ready for marriage any time soon.

Sometimes, women are lured with promise to marry, not promise of abroad trip.

What got into her lately s her real self.

holaxi:

My mum and sisters know her already and I know hers too. She's not a bad girl. Just don't know what got into her lately

metformin:
my brother, move on with ya life, think of how you can better your life.

I like you bro, you no dey form like metformin or fenformin wey dem don ban...

You aren't 'losing interest' per se, rather your girlfriend has left you with no choice with her disrespectful antics lol

I'd leave her if I were you

Let her go...improve yourself in all rounds,then you will thank God you called it quit when you did

Guy u deserve d best commenter of d year

lilmax:
if you're not getting peace of mind from a woman dispose her immediately


If she was good as you claim, you won't be on nairaland at the moment

Dump her, find a better person, use your time for money not wasting it on a woman

Who knows!!! Maybe the guy promised her marriage