lefulefu:
maybe the new guy she"s chatting with has promised to take her to dubai or milan.u know how some babes loose their sanity when dem hear abroad .

Lol bro you know girls so much... This one isn't abroad matter sef ooh..
I experienced a very similar case of this op with my babe tonight...she's a girl I really love a lot and we've been together for years... I felt something was wrong btw us tonight and tried engaging her in a convo.. Truthfully, she admitted she met someone and have been studying him for sometime. She mentioned that the guy sends her some random lovely messages on whatsapp all day (which I don't really do) and even told me about the one the dude still sent to her this morning.

Most girls easily get freaked out when guys sweetmouth them.. Its really sad sha.

Men should just think and work on themselves which is the most important thing. Women would value and chase you when you're OK.. I mean OKAY!

THE babe matter just dey funny me sha.

she asked for 2 weeks break and u apologized. Are you insane? Do you need your math teacher to solve this equation. SHE IS DON WITH YOU.





Be a man and move forward

holaxi:
My girlfriend and I have being together for almost three years now. We've had all the moments the good ,the bad and the ugly.

But recently she met a guy who asked her out, she refused his advances but the guy and her spend so much time on calls and chatting which I don't really like.

I've talked to her so many times about it but if she listens for a week the next week they are back in business.

Last week we were chatting and she just went offline I tried calling her to know what's up only for her number to be busy for like 20 mins. When she came back online and I told her she said she wasn't on call with anyone.

When I probed her further she said she wanted a two weeks break that I complain too much and I don't trust her.

I apologized to her so peace could reign but since then I've started losing interest in her.

Leave her alone for your own good... She's not into you anymore...

Dump her before she does bro!!!!
If she is d one to make d first move, Two things are involved, you will be in severe pain and you may not get over her on time.
If you are d One who initiate d breakup, isolate yourself from whatever that reminds you of her.Delete all her pics frm your phone n etc. Then, engage yourself with profitable things, hook up with Friends, fxxck her best friend as a pay back.......u ' ll be fine with respect to time.

holaxi:
My girlfriend and I have being together for almost three years now. We've had all the moments the good ,the bad and the ugly.

But recently she met a guy who asked her out, she refused his advances but the guy and her spend so much time on calls and chatting which I don't really like.

I've talked to her so many times about it but if she listens for a week the next week they are back in business.

Last week we were chatting and she just went offline I tried calling her to know what's up only for her number to be busy for like 20 mins. When she came back online and I told her she said she wasn't on call with anyone.

When I probed her further she said she wanted a two weeks break that I complain too much and I don't trust her.

I apologized to her so peace could reign but since then I've started losing interest in her.

you apologised to a lady? A lady that is openly cheating on you and even asked you for a break up?



Thank your stars you're not my younger brother. I would have smashed something on your head. I'd rather not have a son than a guy like you as son


Tueh!

holaxi:
My girlfriend and I have being together for almost three years now. We've had all the moments the good ,the bad and the ugly.

But recently she met a guy who asked her out, she refused his advances but the guy and her spend so much time on calls and chatting which I don't really like.

I've talked to her so many times about it but if she listens for a week the next week they are back in business.

Last week we were chatting and she just went offline I tried calling her to know what's up only for her number to be busy for like 20 mins. When she came back online and I told her she said she wasn't on call with anyone.

When I probed her further she said she wanted a two weeks break that I complain too much and I don't trust her.

I apologized to her so peace could reign but since then I've started losing interest in her.

Simple! Oga, spike it up a notch. Maybe you nag like a sissy. Learn to trust her OK?

Ladylite:


Am really sorry on behalf of ladies on how you have been treated by your lady.

But I need to explain some few things
You may have not understood about ladies.... So you do not make the mistake again in your next relationshipssss

You can kiss a lady and still not know her
. You can sex a lady very well and she will still not be yours.
You may even spend money on her education, looks, parents, health and in gratitude she will cheat on you.

The key to a Lady's heart, soul and body is COMMUNICATION.

Once a guy has good communications with a lady NOT just talk games o, the girl is owned even if she denies it vehemently.

Many guys stop pursuing impressive communication once they have gotten the girl to date them or marry them. That's man's biggest mistake or oversight about women.

Communication is a life long work both parties must do for the relationship to remain strong and grow.

Op

Here is the answer

Mehn she don dey Bleep outside already. She don already dey find the other guy interesting.

holaxi:
My girlfriend and I have being together for almost three years now. We've had all the moments the good ,the bad and the ugly.

But recently she met a guy who asked her out, she refused his advances but the guy and her spend so much time on calls and chatting which I don't really like.

I've talked to her so many times about it but if she listens for a week the next week they are back in business.

Last week we were chatting and she just went offline I tried calling her to know what's up only for her number to be busy for like 20 mins. When she came back online and I told her she said she wasn't on call with anyone.

When I probed her further she said she wanted a two weeks break that I complain too much and I don't trust her.

I apologized to her so peace could reign but since then I've started losing interest in her.

its the spirit of Succubus and Incubus

holaxi:

No bro,its not about the sex... I just love this girl.. I know myself if I should get angry once it's over , but the girl has a lot of good attributes in her. I'm just trying to do everything to make her come back to her senses.

a girl that openly cheats on you has NO GOOD ATTRIBUTES.



Dude you have been poocee-whipped damn! Who raised these kind of men

Just enjoy the pussy forget all this your complains most ladies are born hoes

My brother, if you stay at a job for 3 years, no promotion, no increase in salary, won't you be applying for another job? It's just human nature

She's been with you 3 years, no marriage. It can be either of these 2 things:
1. You're still contemplating if she'll make a good wife
2. You do not have the resources to run a family, yet

I doubt if no. 1 is the case.

If it's no. 2. Bro, just focus on you increasing your means. Let the babe go if she wishes to move. You will definitely get opportunities to meet better quality people when you increase your means

And as for your GF, she just wants chance to enjoy the other guy without feeling too much guilt. I might be wrong though.

The signs are there. But it's up to you to decide if she's worth waiting for.

If she isn't, turn that 2 weeks break she's asking for to a permanent break

Selah

It's done, move the fúck on.

You've been dumped, bro.

makinson2865:
Dump her before she does bro!!!!
If she is d one to make d first move, Two things are involved, you will be in severe pain and you may not get over her on time.
If you are d One who initiate d breakup, isolate yourself from whatever that reminds you of her.Delete all her pics frm your phone n etc. Then, engage yourself with profitable things, hook up with Friends, fxxck her best friend as a pay back.......u ' ll be fine with respect to time.

Or make he go follow @ aro1 for romance section,make em too watch it flow out like a boss

richard870:
Na normal thing, but you wouldn't advice him to tolerate disrespect. Abeg, what could be more disrespecting.... think before you type plz

Oga...don't expect too much from a girl wey no be ur wife..its normal for girlfriends to have people who still eye them while they are dating some other guy .....as a guy we handle matters differently...the moment u begin to stalk a woman...u want to know who she is talking to and all..u go get heart attack....if ur girl is fine and set...for sure guys are in her dm (u don't need to be told, even married women wey set..guys are in their dms chatting them day and night)...so if u warn her and she isn't adhering then she has lost focus... meaning no commitment...then the next is to leave her for some time which is the only way not to tolerate disrespect....esp all this girl within the bracket age of 18-25..

holaxi:

My mum and sisters know her already and I know hers too. She's not a bad girl. Just don't know what got into her lately

Was that a trick question? Because you damn well know what has gotten into her.

Channel your energy into a productive venture. It will pay off. Don't fight for love. What's yours wouldn't give you stress.

metformin:
my brother, move on with ya life, think of how you can better your life.

Your username though....Are you a pharmacist?

Again, work on insecurities too. There are two sides to a story. However, women and their wahala self. Check my blog for all things security at www.securitymattersafrica.com

She has started luvin dat guy.
She will break up wit u soon. Its glaring, hw can a girl tell u dat she nids 2weeks break cos u complain 2much.
My advice is:start looking for anoda girl. Nd pls stop dating one girl if u dnt wanna die of hypertension. Atleast keep 3 to 4 girlfriends nd i promise u dat u will feel more lyk a man.

I'm always perplexed whenever I see guys complain like this about the lady they're dating

I mean, even when true love is involved, who wouldn't know the best course of action to take in a situation such as this?

....when I was in a similar situation, about two years ago, I left the bitch and clung to my side chick. A year n some months later she was trying to come back to me; cos the guy later left her.
Presently, she and I are still f*cking even as I keep telling her at every chance I get that I won't have her back as a girlfriend.


In conclusion: Bro, DROP THAT GIRL.
You'll still be fine Las Las.

When you said GIRLFRIEND....I got discouraged to say a word......pls drop her ass and move on .....

She is only transiting in life until a husband picks her

Ladylite:


Am really sorry on behalf of ladies on how you have been treated by your lady.

But I need to explain some few things
You may have not understood about ladies.... So you do not make the mistake again in your next relationshipssss

You can kiss a lady and still not know her
. You can sex a lady very well and she will still not be yours.
You may even spend money on her education, looks, parents, health and in gratitude she will cheat on you.

The key to a Lady's heart, soul and body is COMMUNICATION.

Once a guy has good communications with a lady NOT just talk games o, the girl is owned even if she denies it vehemently.

Many guys stop pursuing impressive communication once they have gotten the girl to date them or marry them. That's man's biggest mistake or oversight about women.

Communication is a life long work both parties must do for the relationship to remain strong and grow.

word

My brother, I like you so much for speaking up.

I will give the Advice my father gave me and it’s working me.

He said: “my son focus on your dreams and achieve success; women will run after you and then you will make your choice out of a bunch of options.”

Put it in prayer

holaxi:
My girlfriend and I have being together for almost three years now. We've had all the moments the good ,the bad and the ugly.

But recently she met a guy who asked her out, she refused his advances but the guy and her spend so much time on calls and chatting which I don't really like.

I've talked to her so many times about it but if she listens for a week the next week they are back in business.

Last week we were chatting and she just went offline I tried calling her to know what's up only for her number to be busy for like 20 mins. When she came back online and I told her she said she wasn't on call with anyone.

When I probed her further she said she wanted a two weeks break that I complain too much and I don't trust her.

I apologized to her so peace could reign but since then I've started losing interest in her.

It’s either she wants to get married or is bored of the relationship. If you really love her, add some spice to the relationship. Take her out, buy her chocolates, send her love messages early in the morning of how you never want to lose her. Be romantic! Don’t give up too easily.

Alaye leave her alone with the new guy and focused on your self.. Work hard and make money.. Life is good when there 3is money.... She will be using your name as prayer point sooner or later when this money arrive

I pray u lose the feeling already, because women are not meant to pute inside heart. dey are supposed be in a shoulder, so that when she misbehaved u can dropped her down without hurting urself

Starz825:


Bro na normal thing...stop stalking her....she isn't married to u yet... no dey put mind for girl wey no be ur wife.... though I wouldn't advice u tolerate disrespect but leave her for some time....ur mind too dey her side...

And you think she will stop after marriage?

I can relate. I just broke up with mine cos I couldn't learn to trust her again after she did a similar thing, mine even went as far as telling the guy on WhatsApp that she needs a quiet time with him.

I loved this Lady with all my being and I still do but I had to let her go just for me to have peace of mind.

I'd never tolerate a girl cheating on me cos I don't do such too (like I even have the time to cheat)

Women matter no dey ever taya una, bikonu?

Nonsense.

Ladylite:


Am really sorry on behalf of ladies on how you have been treated by your lady.

But I need to explain some few things
You may have not understood about ladies.... So you do not make the mistake again in your next relationshipssss

You can kiss a lady and still not know her
. You can sex a lady very well and she will still not be yours.
You may even spend money on her education, looks, parents, health and in gratitude she will cheat on you.

The key to a Lady's heart, soul and body is COMMUNICATION.

Once a guy has good communications with a lady NOT just talk games o, the girl is owned even if she denies it vehemently.

Many guys stop pursuing impressive communication once they have gotten the girl to date them or marry them. That's man's biggest mistake or oversight about women.

Communication is a life long work both parties must do for the relationship to remain strong and grow.

Communication ko, Communication ni.

(Hisses)

The way to most women's heart is to know when to decide to spend quality time with them and when to leave her and face Ur Art ( what brings U money) .
Shit Always leaves them wanting more.


A man gets his sense of worth from Work, not from Women.
Use Ur head.

I see it everyday.
It's as right as rain. [color=#990000][/color]