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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by davillian(m): 10:40pm On Nov 16, 2019

Victorex001:

“Apologising to a woman shows hear you are weak....” You should change this mentality, women worth APOLOGIES when you go wrong.

I have a reason for this
You spoil women when you apologise to them just to make peace reign whether you eight or wrong..
They let it get into their head ad they expect you to say sorry all the time.

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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by dakido(m): 10:41pm On Nov 16, 2019

Bro, just forget the girl matter already. Reading this write up of yours just made me feel i told you my past relationship story. She already gave herself in for the guy. Move on now.... No think the matter again!

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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Ebonygirl1(f): 10:41pm On Nov 16, 2019

THURAFTERNOON:

Lol bro you know girls so much... This one isn't abroad matter sef ooh..
I experienced a very similar case of this op with my babe tonight...she's a girl I really love a lot and we've been together for years... I felt something was wrong btw us tonight and tried engaging her in a convo.. Truthfully, she admitted she met someone and have been studying him for sometime. She mentioned that the guy sends her some random lovely messages on whatsapp all day (which I don't really do) and even told me about the one the dude still sent to her this morning.

Most girls easily get freaked out when guys sweetmouth them.. Its really sad sha.

Men should just think and work on themselves which is the most important thing. Women would value and chase you when you're OK.. I mean OKAY!

THE babe matter just dey funny me sha.

Some of you just don't understand women. What's sad about sending your girlfriend a message now and then to let her know you're thinking of her? undecided

some guys can be so boring

Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Nobody: 10:41pm On Nov 16, 2019

safarigirl:
the girl will probably leave him first, since e never ready to marry her.
Maybe the new guy has even promised to go for introduction in a month.

And that's why most of them come back after few months to cry about yeye husbands.
How can someone rush into marriage without knowing who the person is.

Everyone with their own self.

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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Ajens1991: 10:43pm On Nov 16, 2019

She wants to see what's happening at the other room. She'll definitely be back shortly. She's been influenced by her sister and close friends she confide in. I've tasted similar thing before. After we broke up, she had to run back, begging. I accepted her back cos I love her.

During this period, I also kept myself busy with a side chick ooo... Though we didn't do anything relating to s*x

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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Opinedecandid(m): 10:44pm On Nov 16, 2019

holaxi:
My girlfriend and I have being together for almost three years now. We've had all the moments the good ,the bad and the ugly.

But recently she met a guy who asked her out, she refused his advances but the guy and her spend so much time on calls and chatting which I don't really like.

I've talked to her so many times about it but if she listens for a week the next week they are back in business.

Last week we were chatting and she just went offline I tried calling her to know what's up only for her number to be busy for like 20 mins. When she came back online and I told her she said she wasn't on call with anyone.

When I probed her further she said she wanted a two weeks break that I complain too much and I don't trust her.

I apologized to her so peace could reign but since then I've started losing interest in her.

At op, you see women, there are a bundle of manipulators. To succeed with them, you much be the chiefest manipulator. I rest my case.
Instead for to fall a victim tons woman's antics, be the one to spin the antics.

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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Sweeetheart(m): 10:45pm On Nov 16, 2019

you're officially single if you need to know. she might be rejecting the guy advances before but maybe she got to know the guy is financially stand than you. just wait let that guy fvck her then you will see her telling you she's not interested again

you better zero your mind and see her as your side chic why you look for another mental balance lady

my own fiance now put her Whatsapp in nobody settings and I don't see her status update but by this weekend I'm going to cloned her Whatsapp and get her with evidence. if I see something strange, she become side chic immediately, na her pussy go suffer it

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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by HMarshal(m): 10:45pm On Nov 16, 2019

If ur other problems witout she adding hers ain't Enuf stress aldy, then pls continue trying to "make her cum back to her senses" bro.there r Enuf problems for an average man to let a lady ,who is meant to ease ur stress, add to it for wateva reason.bad energy nobe only from ur enemies fam.

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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by chigoizie7(m): 10:46pm On Nov 16, 2019

Me that loose interest easily, then a girl will be doing me anyhow, she is on her own.

I will go my way, na she go come back last last

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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by johnnyn1(m): 10:46pm On Nov 16, 2019

That was how my gf told me she need to focus more on her studies, that we should return back to being friends.
Was really confused tho. I stopped calling her and all.
I loved her but I Lost total interest in her.

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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by THURAFTERNOON: 10:46pm On Nov 16, 2019

Ebonygirl1:

Some of you just don't understand women. What's sad about sending your girlfriend a message now and then to let her know you're thinking of her?
some guys can be so boring

No, you don't get the narration.. But don't worry, nothing changes if I explain the whole thing to you. So thanks for stopping wink

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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by YorubaPrince: 10:47pm On Nov 16, 2019

holaxi:

I try my best and we both know. She says it herself also. I can't do beyond my capacity

"You tried your best"... OP, You're a disgrace to manhood, I swear. This is a one-sided relationship. angry

You gave her ur best, does she deserve ur best? Does she give you her best? angry

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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by bejick(m): 10:47pm On Nov 16, 2019

holaxi:
My girlfriend and I have being together for almost three years now. We've had all the moments the good ,the bad and the ugly.

But recently she met a guy who asked her out, she refused his advances but the guy and her spend so much time on calls and chatting which I don't really like.

I've talked to her so many times about it but if she listens for a week the next week they are back in business.

Last week we were chatting and she just went offline I tried calling her to know what's up only for her number to be busy for like 20 mins. When she came back online and I told her she said she wasn't on call with anyone.

When I probed her further she said she wanted a two weeks break that I complain too much and I don't trust her.

I apologized to her so peace could reign but since then I've started losing interest in her.

Dude go and make money. Go hustle the babe don go. She tell you say she no gree for the guy you believe am and she continue chatting and talking with him. Save yourself of heart � break it happens to most guys, yours won't be the ist or last. When make money babes will be at you call grin

Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Nobody: 10:47pm On Nov 16, 2019

THURAFTERNOON:

Lol bro you know girls so much... This one isn't abroad matter sef ooh..
I experienced a very similar case of this op with my babe tonight...she's a girl I really love a lot and we've been together for years... I felt something was wrong btw us tonight and tried engaging her in a convo.. Truthfully, she admitted she met someone and have been studying him for sometime. She mentioned that the guy sends her some random lovely messages on whatsapp all day (which I don't really do) and even told me about the one the dude still sent to her this morning.

Most girls easily get freaked out when guys sweetmouth them.. Its really sad sha.

Men should just think and work on themselves which is the most important thing. Women would value and chase you when you're OK.. I mean OKAY!

THE babe matter just dey funny me sha.

You guys will never understand women. Do you know some women get jealous of their first daughters when it seems their husband is showing them more love. Be continuously romantic, you guys won’t hear. You feel after sleeping with her you’ve taken her pride and she’s yours. Well, wait until someone else gives her attention. Someone said communication, and he or she isn’t far from the truth.

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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Starz825(m): 10:47pm On Nov 16, 2019

DominusPrime:

And you think she will stop after marriage?

Bro...girls are like that.....I Know them very well now.... unlike before....

All this married women you see...most of all this beautiful ones u see around....if their husbands go check their dms....the husband go faint......

Some ladies will sincerely tell some men that they are married or are in a relationship...and some men will still insist they have a taste.....so ladies go through a lot of temptations...it takes few to pull off that's if she is well trained and well cultured

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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:48pm On Nov 16, 2019

holaxi:

Your words seem harsh but they are the bitter truth. I'll show her my other side soon. Thanks

Be there saying bitter truth. You’re probably taking the advice of someone who’s single and lonely... people who have never held a stable relationship.

3 years is a long time to be dating without progress. It gets really tiring sometimes, even if you love your partner. There’s a tendency to begin to take each other for granted... there’s a slight desperation on the lady’s part for the relationship to progress to the next level.

If you like, destroy your relationship with your own hands.

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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Macon1212: 10:48pm On Nov 16, 2019

holaxi:

You might be right though cos I don't know what a guy and girl will be talking about at after 11pm for 43mins+. But I try my best for her. If my best isn't enough then she's free to do whatever pleases her. One bad thing about me is once I lose the feelings, there's no gong back.

Going by this time, the guy is from abroad you are fired forget about her.

Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by freethinker01: 10:48pm On Nov 16, 2019

It sickens me so much to hear stuffs like I begged her, for what exactly? Does she have your life in her control or your sanity depends on her? For Christ sake, y on earth would you beg her? This really pissed me off so much this night. D@mn! Again y would u beg her?

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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Numerouno94(m): 10:48pm On Nov 16, 2019

makinson2865:
Dump her before she does bro!!!!
If she is d one to make d first move, Two things are involved, you will be in severe pain and you may not get over her on time.
If you are d One who initiate d breakup, isolate yourself from whatever that reminds you of her.Delete all her pics frm your phone n etc. Then, engage yourself with profitable things, hook up with Friends, fxxck her best friend as a pay back.......u ' ll be fine with respect to time.

Bro no lady can Bleep wit me. Cos i dnt kip one girlfriend, nd i dnt behave lyk a sissy. I dnt do genuine luv wit dem, i only pretend to. Nd wen one bleeps up i block her 4 lyk a week nd continue wit odas. Man i luv my life. I dnt care being called a Casanova.

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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Godhatesodomy: 10:50pm On Nov 16, 2019

Wow

Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Numerouno94(m): 10:51pm On Nov 16, 2019

God knws i will neva marry a Naija girl.All of dem now na slay mamas.

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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by aycapri(m): 10:51pm On Nov 16, 2019

Your gal na Bolanle. Sincerely, if you know what 2 wks break means. You would take your mind off her. Ask any guy who once got such statement from their girlfriend.

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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by THURAFTERNOON: 10:53pm On Nov 16, 2019

maiahsaiah:

You guys will never understand women. Do you know some women get jealous of their first daughters when it seems their husband is showing them more love. Be continuously romantic, you guys won’t hear. You feel after sleeping with her you’ve taken her pride and she’s yours. Well, wait until someone else gives her attention. Someone said communication, and he or she isn’t far from the truth.

Yeah, I truly understand the whole thing.. Women always loved attention from Adam. Thanks for stopping by too. Appreciate your input.

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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Tarabye: 10:55pm On Nov 16, 2019

Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by kevotek1000(m): 10:56pm On Nov 16, 2019

There's always 2 side in a story like this.... But bro, I must say some ladies this days don't value relationship like that anymore and they don't give a dam how long you both have been together. They are moved by what they hear and see, and the new guy in the picture is probably bursting her head with words and creating a beautiful world in her heart, you know ladies love fantasy. I can understand you're gradually loosing interest in her because she's showing you the other side of love. My honest advice is for you is to give her some space while you too MOVE ON. You bearing this burden because you are more emotionally attach maybe she was at some point in the relationship but now certainly not at least you're convinced she's not the girl you use to know. Just move on, '' life goes on''.

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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by fatymore(f): 10:56pm On Nov 16, 2019

Nairaland guys never disappoint with their advice...

Shior

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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by franchasng: 10:57pm On Nov 16, 2019

Lol, honestly its good for a man to be financially buoyant mhen, sometimes stories like this keep me wondering how possible cos I know chicks will never dare this nonsense with a guy that is in full control of his financial life, instead its the financially buoyant guys that are terrorists terrorizing women and giving them sleepless nights grin

Let me borrow one slang I learnt here, guys hustle oh make your girlfriend no come de tell you to give her 2 weeks break cheesy

I remember when I was a guy, no chick tried that with me, back then, I was the most wanted terrorist among ladies, I am forever grateful cos I know its not by my power oh, owo ni koko mhen shocked

op Cc: holaxi this is a wake up call that will motivate you to add more effort towards liberating yourself financially....if it takes leaving Nigeria to any saner country to look for greener pasture, go for it and forget women.

Girls should be least worries on any guys' life problem list, especially a guy that is still struggling financially. Focus on improving your financial life first, believe me, better ladies with far better qualities will come your way without stress and you will feel like its a dream, I speak from experience when I was a guy wink

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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Donjazzy12(m): 10:58pm On Nov 16, 2019

holaxi:
My girlfriend and I have being together for almost three years now. We've had all the moments the good ,the bad and the ugly.

But recently she met a guy who asked her out, she refused his advances but the guy and her spend so much time on calls and chatting which I don't really like.

I've talked to her so many times about it but if she listens for a week the next week they are back in business.

Last week we were chatting and she just went offline I tried calling her to know what's up only for her number to be busy for like 20 mins. When she came back online and I told her she said she wasn't on call with anyone.

When I probed her further she said she wanted a two weeks break that I complain too much and I don't trust her.

I apologized to her so peace could reign but since then I've started losing interest in her.

Forget her, most women are lesbians and apart from our mother's none is loyal.

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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by limitless777(m): 10:59pm On Nov 16, 2019

lilmax:

How can a MAN possess this high degree of low self esteem?

He even apologized

If you're asked what she brings to the table I know you will say sex

The good thing here is, you will realize how stupid you were in months to come

As in Enh!!!!

Relationship na by force to some people.
EPIC and mature response

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Re: Losing Interest In My Girlfriend by Originalsly: 11:00pm On Nov 16, 2019

holaxi:

Thanks bro I think I've put my mind on her too much for real. I guess its time to let her be on her own.~~for a while~~

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