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Every one keeps hearing,

" a woman has nothing to offer in a relationship / marriage except sex"
but

What does the male folk have to offer either ?

MODIFIED

Seems it's only money or anything related to money they have to offer .

The equation is balanced then .

1. Protection
2. Money
3. Emotional support
4. Family support
5. Intellectual support
6. Buying gifts
7. Taking them out........
The list is endless jarey.
And even the sex sef.... Who enjoys it more? The women

I ll speak for myself using myost recent EX as a case study

I offered money
I offered job (made her a nice CV and helped her through the online apt test).
Made a great website for her business and help her in importing all her female products from china..
Etc i cant start writing all...

She offered ntn aside sex

no one knows

Women actually do not even offer sex. Women engage in an equal act of sex, but see it as if they are offering it to men, and this notion have been on for long that people think women offer sex.

pansophist:
Women actually do not even offer sex. Women engage in an equal act of sex, but see it as if they are offering it to men, and this notion have been on for long that people think women offer sex.

Lol

Every woman wants a man who will foot her bills and take care of her but still yet u ask what a man offers? Even d sex women offer is clickbait for financial enumeration

Juell:
Everything

Everything? Be specific !

Juell:
1. Protection
2. Money
3. Emotional support
4. Family support
5. Intellectual support
6. Buying gifts
7. Taking them out........
The list is endless jarey.
And even the sex sef.... Who enjoys it more? The women

6 and 7 fall under 2

Have u brushed ur teeth today?


I don't see the reason you'd put up this shitty thread..when u are fully aware of wot men offer in a relationship

Nigg3369:
6 and 7 fall under 2

Nope 2. Is giving them cash not spending on them

Juell:
Nope 2. Is giving them cash not spending on them

ok

Pubichairs:
Have u brushed ur teeth today?


I don't see the reason you'd put up this shitty thread..when u are fully aware of wot men offer in a relationship

And you had to display your foolishness here .

Newguyhere:
this shouldn't even be a question when we all know that men are the biggest loosers in a relationship
Especially the white knights and beta simps

So your answer to the question is?

Riele:
So your answer to the question is?

Actually men bring nothing to the relationship, its the women that take care of them.
The woman gives him money to look good, buy things to make his life more comfortable, even in some cases when they get married, the woman buys a new car for the man.

In fact men are just a liability, they bring nothing to the relationship, they only look out for rich women (not broke asses) that will be able to take care of them.

Instead of asking directly "where have all the good men gone", you paraphrased it with "what do men offer in a relationship"? Lol.

Well, men are leaving their traditional duty of being providers, putting a woman first, being the expendable and the sacrificial lamb, the workhorse, and now, are treating women as an equal partner, not expecting her to just show up, but show up with something. At least for me.

If you want a rich man, you have to be rich too, educated if you want an educated man. Being a woman is not enough anymore, Afterall, women go for "real men", we also want "real women, not a woman-child that we should be responsible for.

pansophist:
Instead of asking directly "where have all the good men gone", you paraphrased it with "what do men offer in a relationship"? Lol.

Well, men are leaving their traditional duty of being providers, putting a woman first, being the expendable and sacrificial lamb, and now, are treating women like an equal partner, not expect her to just show up, but show up with something. At least for me.

If you want a rich man, you have to be rich too, educated if you want an educated man. Being a woman is not enough anymore, afterall, women go for "real men", we also want "real women, not an underage child that we should be responsible for.

One bottle of budweiser for this your comment.

Money while she offers sex. Relationship na transaction

protection,attention, money, discipline and companionship...unless u want to deceive yourself,we both know that an average guy can give atleast 3 of the aforementioned,can u say the same for an average girl.

Riele:
Every one keeps hearing,

" a woman has nothing to offer in a relationship / marriage except sex"
but

What does the male folk have to offer either ?

MODIFIED

Seems it's only money or anything related to money they have to offer .

The equation is balanced then .

The nerve of you to ask such a stupid question!

Who doesn't know that the livelihood of 90% of Nigerian women is tied to a man in one way or the other.

Women = entitled, lazy pigs with nothing to offer than a rotten BOREHOLE in btw their legs.

pansophist:
Instead of asking directly "where have all the good men gone", you paraphrased it with "what do men offer in a relationship"? Lol.

Well, men are leaving their traditional duty of being providers, putting a woman first, being the expendable and sacrificial lamb, and now, are treating women like an equal partner, not expect her to just show up, but show up with something. At least for me.

If you want a rich man, you have to be rich too, educated if you want an educated man. Being a woman is not enough anymore, afterall, women go for "real men", we also want "real women, not an woman-child that we should be responsible for.

If this comment was a woman, she'd be Marilyn Monroe, or Genevieve Nnaji! It's so beautiful.

pansophist:
Instead of asking directly "where have all the good men gone", you paraphrased it with "what do men offer in a relationship"? Lol.

Well, men are leaving their traditional duty of being providers, putting a woman first, being the expendable and sacrificial lamb, and now, are treating women like an equal partner, not expect her to just show up, but show up with something. At least for me.

If you want a rich man, you have to be rich too, educated if you want an educated man. Being a woman is not enough anymore, afterall, women go for "real men", we also want "real women, not an woman-child that we should be responsible for.

Fantastic comment!

genq:
The nerve of you to ask such a stupid question!

Who doesn't know that the livelihood of 90% of Nigerian women is tied to a man in one way or the other.

Women = entitled, lazy pigs with nothing to offer than a rotten BOREHOLE in btw their legs.

You're frustrated .

I ask a general question about men and you had to drag this down to NIGERIAN WOMEN ,even went as far as insulting your mother .

At the end of it all , you didn't answer the question .

LINTUNE:
protection,attention, money, discipline and companionship...unless u want to we both know that an average guy can give atleast 3 of the aforementioned,can u say the same for an average girl.

An average girl can also offer atleast 3 of your list.

ednut1:
Money while she offers sex. Relationship na transaction

fantastic transaction .

So why does one gender keeps wailing about the other having nothing to offer .

When they both are in the boat .

Riele:
An average girl can also offer atleast 3 of your list.

if u are sincere, u cant compare , in terms of stats ..even as a player, u still protect ur woman,and buy stuffs for her,can u say the same for a woman player

LINTUNE:
if u are sincere, u cant the in terms of stats ..even as a player, u still protect ur woman,and buy stuffs for her,can u say the same for a woman player

Protect her in what way?
Buying stuff for = money .
A man offers nothing but money .

pansophist:
Instead of asking directly "where have all the good men gone", you paraphrased it with "what do men offer in a relationship"? Lol.

Well, men are leaving their traditional duty of being providers, putting a woman first, being the expendable and sacrificial lamb, and now, are treating women like an equal partner, not expect her to just show up, but show up with something. At least for me.

If you want a rich man, you have to be rich too, educated if you want an educated man. Being a woman is not enough anymore, afterall, women go for "real men", we also want "real women, not a woman-child that we should be responsible for.

Mad oh

Riele:
Protect her in what way?
Buying stuff for = money .
A man offers nothing but money .

hmmm well the protection is one things we guys offer to u gals by default .no matter the guys personality

LINTUNE:
hmmm well the protection is one things we guys offer to u gals by default .no matter the guys personality

I ask again .
Protection in what area ?

Riele:
Protect her in what way?
Buying stuff for = money .
A man offers nothing but money .

You're right. Smart men offer nothing — until she's officially a wife, then he offers her everything. Stupid men try to offer everything during courtship in exchange for sex. I just pity these stupid men — I really do.