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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by SEALL(m): 8:39am On Nov 20, 2019
chenzen:
no one knows

pls, a link to this story

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by pansophist(m): 8:42am On Nov 20, 2019
franchasng:
That guy you quoted is right, very right......can you swear by Sango or Amadioha or Siddhartha Gautama that you have helped any man who is not your relative with a tangible help (money, favor, job, business contract, visa, etc) that transformed his life ever since you were born


Ladies should be honest for once and accept the truth.....men offer much more to women than women do.


Majority of women, especially Nigerian women offer nothing than sex to men.


I am a lady, a sexy hot lady and I must say the truth and shame the devil, I am not a hypocrte angry angry





Telling that guy you quoted that its the ladies he has met is wrong, all men cannot be wrong, all men cannot be saying the same thing and you are here saying its the ladies they have met, so who are all these men meeting


We hear everyday how much Dangote, Otedola, Ned Nwoko, etc are donating and giving to their communities and people, how many times have we heard how much Alakija, Aisha Buhari, Oluremi Tinubu, etc have given to people or their community

Nigerian women are selfish, stingy and wicked to their society and men, say the truth....only few insignificant women are exception, very few undecided

The chief himself has spoken. Too much sense in one post cool

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by solofresh(m): 8:42am On Nov 20, 2019
U should have asked your mum this same question and see the reply see will give you
If you continue having this belief then you are termed an "An Ingrate"

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by pansophist(m): 8:43am On Nov 20, 2019
safarigirl:


They don't know what that makes them sound like. Perhaps if they were offering more than money, they would find women offering more than sex.

Deflection.

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Nobody: 8:45am On Nov 20, 2019
This is a very stupid question coming from a silly h*oe

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by izospindle(m): 8:46am On Nov 20, 2019
franchasng:
He is right na, the op is a hypocrite for asking such stupid question when we know we ladies depend solely on men directly or indirectly.


Be honest, how many guys who aren't your brother or relative have you given money, huge money before How many guys who aren't your relative have you bought a phone, a computer, clothe, a car, rent a house or take out before Be honest.


But even the poorest of guys have bought a phone, bought some clothes, bought some gifts, taken out uncountable girls out with their little money, and the financially buoyant ones, some have bought cars, houses, taking their ladies to foreign vacations, etc....


Ladies offer nothing to men, honestly men, Nigerian men especially ought to be respected and adored for accommodating us ladies with our zero values to their lives....the much overrated sex, we ladies enjoy it most once we are being dicked by our preferred man, let's say the truth, heaven won't fall angry angry
Reading your writeup realise that the reason men are so bitter towards women is because we are not been appreciated. How many women can say this to a mans face. I bet you if you make your man feel this good about what he does for you he will kill him self just to hear you say more

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 8:49am On Nov 20, 2019
safarigirl:
this is one of my struggles

I don't subscribe to the sexfest, I don't want the money, they can't understand either. The mere idea of a woman valuing sense over money is alien to a lot of Nigerian men.

At this point, I am tired of it all

Lol, I can totally relate, but it only gets better with time.

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Listar(m): 8:49am On Nov 20, 2019
safarigirl:
LOL

Go and write a job application like that and see if you get the job. Perhaps those responsible for recruiting are all in primary school

That's why I said it's a purposeful and though, not conventional write-up. If you'd read meaning to his style of writing, you would've understood he wrote it on purpose

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by solofresh(m): 8:49am On Nov 20, 2019
[quote author=Riele post=84156127]

And you had to display your foolishness here .[/you are the foolish one
This type of thread shouldn't be in the morning.Am sure you having nothing doing because A hard working lady won't have time for this trash ]
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Sundrus: 8:50am On Nov 20, 2019
franchasng:
Hey sis, hope you are still among the bridal squad for Cynthii, I will whatsapp you my own design, its so mwaah, I can't wait to flaunt what my momma gave me, them boiz must humble, remember its lemon green, mwaah kiss kiss
cheesy cheesy
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by larryking540: 8:51am On Nov 20, 2019
Juell:
1. Protection
2. Money
3. Emotional support
4. Family support
5. Intellectual support
6. Buying gifts
7. Taking them out........
The list is endless jarey.
And even the sex sef.... Who enjoys it more? The women

That's for Nigeria or let's say Africa relationship,not Western relationship
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by bukatyne(f): 8:54am On Nov 20, 2019
pocohantas:


I am very particular about who I date or associate with. Right from my university days, guys always called me "proud" "arrogant", because I didn't see the need for majority of those relationships that was just a sex fest.

What the average Naija guy wields in a relationship is most times money and that money isn't even a lot (to me). The problem is, Nigerian girls are just too physically and mentally lazy to do better for themselves. Na why we dey see all this nonsense talk online.

kiss kiss kiss

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by safarigirl(f): 8:54am On Nov 20, 2019
Listar:

That's why I said it's a purposeful and though, not conventional write-up. If you'd read meaning to his style of writing, you would've understood he wrote it on purpose
it's the wrong platform for such.

Except you are chatting on WhatsApp to your family and friends, there is no reason why anyone should write like that.

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Nobody: 8:55am On Nov 20, 2019
SEALL:

pls, a link to this story
its in the list of my thread
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Fixitgood(m): 8:57am On Nov 20, 2019
Don't engage this stupid post.

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Nobody: 8:58am On Nov 20, 2019
Riele:
Every one keeps hearing,

" a woman has nothing to offer in a relationship / marriage except sex"
but

What does the male folk have to offer either ?

MODIFIED

Seems it's only money or anything related to money they have to offer .

The equation is balanced then .
You know when you are so depressed and Yuu get a good D1ck and some cuddling ?? Not even money can replace that shiit? The question isn’t what do men offer? Rather it is What have men not offered?

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by tochukwu75(m): 8:58am On Nov 20, 2019
genq:



The nerve of you to ask such a stupid question!

Who doesn't know that the livelihood of 90% of Nigerian women is tied to a man in one way or the other.

Women = entitled, lazy pigs with nothing to offer than a rotten BOREHOLE in btw their legs.


Guy, take it easy.

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 9:01am On Nov 20, 2019
ireneidiva:
Money ke? LMAO. How many men give money these days?

It is on NL I read that 99% of Nigerian men give money. In reality, unemployment rate is in double digits and less than 5% of the population control over 90% of the economy.

On NL, undergraduates littering Romance section are so rich that they sponsor girls and buy them cars. Anyway, even 1k na money. If the girl get am, she no for beg for am.
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by ireneidiva(f): 9:04am On Nov 20, 2019
franchasng:
That guy you quoted is right, very right......can you swear by Sango or Amadioha or Siddhartha Gautama that you have helped any man who is not your relative with a tangible help (money, favor, job, business contract, visa, etc) that transformed his life ever since you were born


Ladies should be honest for once and accept the truth.....men offer much more to women than women do.


Majority of women, especially Nigerian women offer nothing than sex to men.


I am a lady, a sexy hot lady and I must say the truth and shame the devil, I am not a hypocrte angry angry





Telling that guy you quoted that its the ladies he has met is wrong, all men cannot be wrong, all men cannot be saying the same thing and you are here saying its the ladies they have met, so who are all these men meeting


We hear everyday how much Dangote, Otedola, Ned Nwoko, etc are donating and giving to their communities and people, how many times have we heard how much Alakija, Aisha Buhari, Oluremi Tinubu, etc have given to people or their community

Nigerian women are selfish, stingy and wicked to their society and men, say the truth....only few insignificant women are exception, very few undecided
Cuppy that has a foundation, ladies that have NGOs even in Nigeria here? Madam speak for yourself. Women have helped me, men have too. And I've helped too. You are another person that should change her circle.
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by ireneidiva(f): 9:05am On Nov 20, 2019
pocohantas:


It is on NL I read that 99% of Nigerian men give money. In reality, unemployment rate is in double digits and less than 5% of the population control over 90% of the economy.

But on NL, undergraduates littering Romance section are so rich that they sponsor girls and buy them cars. Anyway, even 1k na money. If the girl get am, she no for beg for am.

People that can't comment on posts outside toto and breast, will also claim they offer career motivation and support. Wetin Musa no go see for gate. grin
I'm just shocked.
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 9:07am On Nov 20, 2019
ireneidiva:

I'm just shocked.

Having a prick makes you automatically eligible to live under the illusion that you are doing well. Reality dey wait for all of them grin
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by ChiefRocker(m): 9:10am On Nov 20, 2019
If a woman does not offer sex to you, watch it she's getting the sex from someone else. Sex is not an offer from both both sides it's an expression of love

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by odisman(m): 9:10am On Nov 20, 2019
Juell:
1. Protection
2. Money
3. Emotional support
4. Family support
5. Intellectual support
6. Buying gifts
7. Taking them out........
The list is endless jarey.
And even the sex sef.... Who enjoys it more? The women
Wonderful and powerful response. Great analysis.
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by adeoljyd(m): 9:11am On Nov 20, 2019
Riele:
Every one keeps hearing,

" a woman has nothing to offer in a relationship / marriage except sex"
but

What does the male folk have to offer either ?

MODIFIED

Seems it's only money or anything related to money they have to offer .

The equation is balanced then .

You have your answers in the write up.
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by alaira(m): 9:11am On Nov 20, 2019
Juell:
1. Protection
2. Money
3. Emotional support
4. Family support
5. Intellectual support
6. Buying gifts
7. Taking them out........
The list is endless jarey.
And even the sex sef.... Who enjoys it more? The women
YOU ARE COMPLETELY CORRECT AND EVEN MORE SIR!!! grin grin
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Baldwretch: 9:11am On Nov 20, 2019
ireneidiva:
The majority of husbands remind me of an Orangutan trying to play the violin-Honore de Balzac

So what memories do they bring to your mind? I'm curious.
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Captiveportal: 9:11am On Nov 20, 2019
Riele:


Protect her in what way?
Buying stuff for = money .
A man offers nothing but money .
shut up, as if you have anything better to offer anyways apart from spreading those legs mtchew... We will keep using you women since most of you don't have sense

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by victorazyvictor(m): 9:12am On Nov 20, 2019
Nigg3369:
6 and 7 fall under 2

Not true ....
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by osv4real: 9:13am On Nov 20, 2019
Why do women agree to enter into a relationship with guys?? The answer u give are all the things a man has to offer.

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Baldwretch: 9:14am On Nov 20, 2019
franchasng:
That guy you quoted is right, very right......can you swear by Sango or Amadioha or Siddhartha Gautama that you have helped any man who is not your relative with a tangible help (money, favor, job, business contract, visa, etc) that transformed his life ever since you were born


Ladies should be honest for once and accept the truth.....men offer much more to women than women do.


Majority of women, especially Nigerian women offer nothing than sex to men.


I am a lady, a sexy hot lady and I must say the truth and shame the devil, I am not a hypocrte angry angry





Telling that guy you quoted that its the ladies he has met is wrong, all men cannot be wrong, all men cannot be saying the same thing and you are here saying its the ladies they have met, so who are all these men meeting


We hear everyday how much Dangote, Otedola, Ned Nwoko, etc are donating and giving to their communities and people, how many times have we heard how much Alakija, Aisha Buhari, Oluremi Tinubu, etc have given to people or their community

Nigerian women are selfish, stingy and wicked to their society and men, say the truth....only few insignificant women are exception, very few undecided

I don't believe a female is behind this moniker?
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Captiveportal: 9:17am On Nov 20, 2019
Riele:


A woman can offer most of the listed .
idiot, I hate feminist scum like you... You don't know how hard it is to be a man all because your stupid boyfriend is sending you money for recharge card you have the guts to post this topic on niaraland claiming men don't have anything to offer, no matter how you see it a man can do fine on his own because we have porn and Vaseline, can't say the same for a lady who feels giving a guy sex is everything the guy ever wanted in the first place, abi una want gender equality ...I fucking hate dumb bitches like you, every religion has always said that females are nothing but helpers to men, no religion would hold a female to high esteem

Lest I forget, it's you idiot females that made Adam eat apple that is bringing us this suffering we are experiencing today to show you guys were stupid from the start , idiot

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by johnkey: 9:20am On Nov 20, 2019
All these arguments no concern me, as long as I get blood for body i will never give any naija babe one Kobo if I never hit that pvssy, broke or not. I'll rather pay for sex, fvck and japa than to be forming ownership on the second hand pvssy.

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