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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Thegamingorca(m): 10:52am On Nov 20, 2019
pocohantas:


Same way your blood is always hot to counter women and you type so much epistles- makes it look like you know what you are saying.

If I dig out your posts, I will see a billion contradictions. Is it not you? Global parrot!!!!


Don't forget the almost first class from mech engine
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 10:53am On Nov 20, 2019
Sunnyobums:

A trial will convince you

Lol. Please stick to your gfs. The type that scarred you guys so badly. grin
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by goodnewscliff(m): 10:53am On Nov 20, 2019
franchasng:
I hate when people see the truth and not agree to it. Men here sometimes agree with ladies when they say the truth too but ladies will never agree, the same reason they keep wasting their time trying to be equal to men all over the world as if that's even ever going to be possible, jokers cheesy
If nor for something,, i for marry today grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by openmine(m): 10:56am On Nov 20, 2019
frozen70:


If you grow with this mentality and mind set

You will be a puppet
grin grin
He was just being sarcastic!

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 10:56am On Nov 20, 2019
Thegamingorca:



Don't forget the almost first class from mech engine

Don't mind that parrot.
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by franchasng: 10:58am On Nov 20, 2019
pocohantas:


Same way your blood is always hot to counter women and you type so much epistles- makes it look like you know what you are saying.

It I dig out your posts, I will see a billion contradictions. Is it not you? Global parrot!!!!
Lol, the problem is, instead of you ladies to take correction, learn from all these threads and the comments from guys and make adjustments and improvements, you lots will prefer to be arguing and rocking shoulders....this thread was not talking about who is richer between Nigerian ladies and guys, of course we know there are rich Nigerian ladies, only a fool will deny that fact, but what we are saying is that even the rich Nigerian ladies don't help their men nor do they offer any other value to their men aside to allow the sex....so if I were you and other ladies, i will pick a point from here and make a personal resolution never to be a valueless lady to any man i come across....I will make a resolution to be different and make impact on the life of any man I am dating, would date or marry.


In case you will come for me as usual, let me also use myself as example....I once stumbled upon a Twitter thread sometime last year where a Nigerian lady was ranting how stingy and wicked Nigerian men are that they will never improve their life of their partners while dating unless after marriage, so she was advising ladies to stop being caring to men until they marry them too....after going through the thread and the comments, I remembered my partner was telling me that after her housemanship, that she would love to save the money and get a car, it touched me, I had to do what I swore never to do for any lady till I marry her just because of that single thread....I didn't even argue or post on that thread, but I learnt from it.


So dear Nigerian ladies, all what the guys are asking for is that you ladies should change, be nice, be valuable, help your boyfriends, fiances and husbands.....if you have money you can give him, give him like he would give you, if you have a job you can help him secure, help him and don't be stingy with it, if you have a boyfriend you can help to secure visa and travel out to improve his life, help him and don't be stingy or listen to your friends from hell that will tell you one thousand and one reasons why you must not be a help to any man. That's all wink

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by victorcompovine(m): 10:58am On Nov 20, 2019
Riele:
Every one keeps hearing,

" a woman has nothing to offer in a relationship / marriage except sex"
but

What does the male folk have to offer either ?

MODIFIED

Seems it's only money or anything related to money they have to offer .

The equation is balanced then .


Very true, men lets be realistic what have we got to offer if not anyother but related to money.
A woman keeps your home clean, do your meals, do your laundry despite when some freaking men are out there licking another bobby. and at the end of a 9 month after having that thing you call what women can only offer, women still go ahead to offer men a child......

I think we need to reverse some cases of some men who says women offers nothing, maybe they should bear the child that ewill bear their name at the end then

Drops mic
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Sunnyobums: 10:59am On Nov 20, 2019
pocohantas:


Lol. Please stick to your gfs. The type that scarred you guys so badly. grin
Wrong, not every guy has that story, I'm single btw and its my personal decision cos I don't have time for relationship drama, I have my goals and aspirations and until I complete them, it's a no no to dating.
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Sterope(f): 11:00am On Nov 20, 2019
It can never be that bad. It is lack of contentment. At most, ask or borrow from a friend or cut your coat according to your cloth. Then admire those that do have from a distance, it is allowed. What you don't do is shame yourself because of subscription.

wizdomnzube:
E bad pass naija economy.

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by MJBOLT: 11:01am On Nov 20, 2019
i love how you failed to mention that the Lion also protects the pride from danger

safarigirl:
This is untrue

A lion does nothing but sit at home and piss everywhere to mark territory, while the lionnesses hunt for food and bring the food home to the lion, the lionnesses also protect their cubs, if I know nothing else from Nat Geo, I know this one.

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by wizdomnzube(m): 11:01am On Nov 20, 2019
pocohantas:


Stop deceiving yourselves, gbola isn't scarce. Any woman that isn't fcking, is out of her own will not for a lack of it.

If I want to fck 10 NL males this week, I would fck 25. They wouldn't even consider my history. Neither will they allow pride stop them from excavating my feminist pussy!
Madam with the way you talk, I doubt if any guy would even get an erection when they see u nakedd. That's why u've been lacking the vitamin D...... Lack of vitamin D can turn a lady to a bitter feminist

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Unpussified: 11:03am On Nov 20, 2019
Riele:


As far as i'm concerned , you lots offer nothing .

It's either u a troll or jst delusional.

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Riele(f): 11:03am On Nov 20, 2019
victorcompovine:



Very true, men lets be realistic what have we got to offer if not anyother but related to money.
A woman keeps your home clean, do your meals, do your laundry despite when some freaking men are out there licking another bobby. and at the end of a 9 month after having that thing you call what women can only offer, women still go ahead to offer men a child......

I think we need to reverse some cases of some men who says women offers nothing, maybe they should bear the child that ewill bear their name at the end then

Drops mic

smiley
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by wizdomnzube(m): 11:04am On Nov 20, 2019
Sterope:
It can never be that bad. It is lack of contentment. At most, ask or borrow from a friend or cut your coat according to your cloth. Then admire those that do have from a distance, it is allowed. What you don't do is shame yourself because of subscription.

Well u need to tell that to your fellow ladies. Hunger don too format dia brain, na ordinary sharwama 700 dey take dey crucify dia kpekus.
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by goodnewscliff(m): 11:05am On Nov 20, 2019
So called NIGERIAN FEMINIST are ALMOST ALWAYS dumb to facts....... When shiiu gone south,,, they take it personal

Stewwpeed species grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 11:05am On Nov 20, 2019
wizdomnzube:
Oh cool u even know them sef. Your fellow feminists. Lack of vitamin D can make u lot bitter,mk una humble ursef mk una for enjoy lyf and the numerous things wen men fit offer una.

I am struggling to understand you at this point. Some have humbled themselves to beg you, focus on those ones and leave feminist na.

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Riele(f): 11:05am On Nov 20, 2019
Unpussified:

It's either u a troll or jst delusional.
Lame !
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Sterope(f): 11:05am On Nov 20, 2019
It is very shameful. That shit sends my brain to overdrive. Kilode?

pocohantas:


It is o, it is very bad out there. There was a thread on this, guys were mentioning subscription, 1k, 5k. I was ashamed on behalf of my sisters. Na small small money bring this nonsense plenty talk.
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Unpussified: 11:05am On Nov 20, 2019
pocohantas:


Nah, we are reserved for a special breed. Men who see value beyond SEX, BEAUTY and MONEY. smiley

Keep deceiving urself.

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Pelxmiye(m): 11:06am On Nov 20, 2019
safarigirl:
says a lot of you, if you can only find useless girls

Nigerian men are averse to any being that has boobs and sense. A lot of you are only attracted to the most dense women, because your fragile egos can't deal with a woman with brains, then you come here and claim Nigerian women are dumb and have nothing to offer

If you carry eye enter market, you no go come back dey complain say you buy fake product. It is Nigerian men that are marrying Nigerian women in Nigeria, where did they find those ones?

Well...even the ones that have brain too are so entitled like the world revolves around them,those ones make it feel like they are an object to be won by the higher bidder or a trophy..imagine a lady telling you"who should pay for the 1st,2nd,3rd date in a relationship...then you as a man should know she got nothing much to offer.. naturally we men want to please you women ,take you round the world and the like,but don't get caught up in that shit,still anytime anyday I'm down for a smart, intelligent woman,the only problem is..it's seems our generation might be the most bleeped up with the Importance we have placed on Money! Money! You want a better life as a woman.. hustle..strive hard, develope yourself, meet men who are just like that as well and move up together from there, don't cut corners looking for prince charming who would be worthy of your coochie or honey pot.. undecided undecided

I always tell people,know what you want is it "Relationship that would settle your bills,fine" or " Relationship for companionship" or for sex,choose whichever you want,but know this,you can't have everything at once in a relationship,you need to strive for some things,it's either the guy's rich and he is an gigolo or is an average but has potential and is a goal getter,choose your ogbanje and jejely continue with life, developing and evolving along the way,but the most important thing,choose the option you can work best with.

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 11:07am On Nov 20, 2019
Always a battle ground.Nawa o
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Unpussified: 11:07am On Nov 20, 2019
Sunnyobums:

A trial will convince you

Stop chasing something that has no value bro

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 11:08am On Nov 20, 2019
Sterope:
It is very shameful. That shit sends my brain to overdrive. Kilode?


Very very shameful. You will think this money they are on about is "much". It is not, but some girls have decided to have no shame.
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by wizdomnzube(m): 11:08am On Nov 20, 2019
pocohantas:



Stop hyping the penis!!!

Once again, if I wanna fck 10 guys on NL, this week- have it in mind that today is Wednesday already, I will fck 25!!! I will even collect money and subscription from some. In fact, they are the ones that will brag about fcking Poco, while I move on with my premium feminist pussy.
It's not a hype lady, it is what it is. The D can mk even poco as humble as a servant. If na lie ask Linda Ikeji, TBoss.
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by LINTUNE(m): 11:10am On Nov 20, 2019
undecided
Riele:


That's because there's nothing to explain .
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Riele(f): 11:11am On Nov 20, 2019
goodnewscliff:
So called NIGERIAN FEMINIST are ALMOST ALWAYS dumb to facts....... When shiiu gone south,,, they take it personal

Stewwpeed species grin grin grin grin grin

Where are the feminist?

A simple question and you male are lamenting ignoring the question .

Useless species .
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 11:12am On Nov 20, 2019
wizdomnzube:
It's not a hype lady, it is what it is. The D can mk even poco as humble as a servant. If na lie ask Linda Ikeji, TBoss.

Tell that to Tonto. Naso una dey take marry the ones that stab you lots to death.
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by wizdomnzube(m): 11:14am On Nov 20, 2019
pocohantas:


Very very shameful. You will think this money they are on about is "much". It is not, but some girls have decided to have no shame.
Madam it's much. 1k 2k100k 1m all na money. If e nor much she for get am full for account naw, dey for nor they sell their most valued possession just for nothing "much"
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by Sunnyobums: 11:14am On Nov 20, 2019
Unpussified:


Stop chasing something that has no value bro
I'm not chasing her bro and she knows that too, it's all part of the fun, and btw poco has value, it's just that she always forms stubborn and feminist just to look for trouble and her target audience are usually the guys, she's the opposite of who you think she is in person.
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by pansophist(m): 11:16am On Nov 20, 2019
franchasng:
Lol, the problem is, instead of you ladies to take correction, learn from all these threads and the comments from guys and make adjustments and improvements, you lots will prefer to be arguing and rocking shoulders....this thread was not talking about who is richer between Nigerian ladies and guys, of course we know there are rich Nigerian ladies, only a fool will deny that fact, but what we are saying is that even the rich Nigerian ladies don't help their men nor do they offer any other value to their men aside to allow the sex....so if I were you and other ladies, i will pick a point from here and make a personal resolution never to be a valueless lady to any man i come across....I will make a resolution to be different and make impact on the life of any man I am dating, would date or marry.


In case you will come for me as usual, let me also use myself as example....I once stumbled upon a Twitter thread sometime last year where a Nigerian lady was ranting how stingy and wicked Nigerian men are that they will never improve their life of their partners while dating unless after marriage, so she was advising ladies to stop being caring to men until they marry them too....after going through the thread and the comments, I remembered my partner was telling me that after her housemanship, that she would love to save the money and get a car, it touched me, I had to do what I swore never to do for any lady till I marry her just because of that single thread....I didn't even argue or post on that thread, but I learnt from it.


So dear Nigerian ladies, all what the guys are asking for is that you ladies should change, be nice, be valuable, help your boyfriends, fiances and husbands.....if you have money you can give him, give him like he would give you, if you have a job you can help him secure, help him and don't be stingy with it, if you have a boyfriend you can help to secure visa and travel out to improve his life, help him and don't be stingy or listen to your friends from hell that will tell you one thousand and one reasons why you must not be a help to any man. That's all wink

A woman's love flows one-step downward, from her to her child. She can do anything, give anything, and sacrifice anything for her children. For men, his love flows two-step downwards, from his partner, then to his kids. Expecting a woman's love to flow upward in not in line with her nature. From time memorial, it has been men protecting, defending, and giving women. There are also reserved titles given to wives of honorable men, but not the husband of honorable women. So to actually convince women to see it from your perspective, you will have to edit a thousand years of evolutionary hardwiring, which is impossible.

For example, for a woman to know a man loves her, he has to spend and premium her interest, she understands love from a solipsistic perspective when it is all about her, hence, many say women are selfish and care only about themselves (which is not bad in itself, but a whole theory of natural reasons). If you also observe the female biology, she is designed to collect from her partner (e.g semen, resources, protection, etc) but give to her offspring (e.g breastfeeding, nurturing, maternity, etc). Biology supports her selfishness, it doesn't have to make sense, it is what it is. There has never been a time in human history where women are protecting, providing or acting in any way to make life better for men, so it will be illogical to expect such now.

Women do not evolve to give men but to receive from men and give to their children. How many times have you heard women sacrificing her life for her man? I have not, please let me know if you find any. Though, I have seen women sacrificing their life for their children. Though millions, if not billions of men have died defending women, from soldiers and firefighters, and all the dangerous jobs needed to make sure society is safe for her to thrive. Expecting a woman to give you is too much for her, she just can't. The evidence speaks for itself.

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Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by wizdomnzube(m): 11:17am On Nov 20, 2019
pocohantas:


Tell that to Tonto. Naso una dey take marry the ones that stab you lots to death.
Oh cool u even know them sef. Your fellow feminists. Lack of vitamin D can make u lot bitter,mk una humble ursef mk una for enjoy lyf and the numerous things wen men fit offer una.
Re: What Do Men Offer In A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 11:17am On Nov 20, 2019
Sunnyobums:

I'm not chasing her bro and she knows that too, it's all part of the fun, and btw poco has value, it's just that she always forms stubborn and feminist just to look for trouble and her target audience are usually the guys, she's the opposite of who you think she is in person.

I am not the OPPOSITE biko. Na like this I be.

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