₦airaland Forum

Charleys:
Let's help this guy...


Like for raw sex, share for condoms.

Okoroawusa:
Why you carry person pikin pic put here?

Revolva:
What has Jesus have to do with me
Accepting a false myth of a Jewish person who has no relationship with you african

Even in isreal he is not accepted as a Messiah

Then your fish brain .. mentality is here to tell me to accept Jesus ..oya make d jesus come na we de wait for am nonsense

faithscharms:
It's simple..if you like her and don't mind Fathering her child then take her for the medical test to be sure she is clean of ALL possible stds,then don't forget to also run a pregnancy test as well to be sure she isn't planning to PIN someone's pregnancy on U..goodluck.

A beg check my signature to own a house in Abuja at an unbelievable price,and not outskirts of abuja but in Abuja..sellers need urgent cash thus cheap deal. Also self contains for 140k in Lugbe Federal housing after AMAC market.

drnoel:
U guy take urselves too high. U forget as the world is changing so does many norms in Nigeria. Nothing can go against a good discussion. Did u not see OP say he is taking her for medicals?
Let me educate u guys, gone are those days when men are the all and all. Many women who are earning their keep and not in a serious relationship would prefer to have a child outside wedlock. That girl in question may be one of such. The idea of pinning another man's pregnancy on a single man is so outdated, only jobless low-lives do that. If she is working she won't need to.
I have met many ladies Who only want children and not the hassles of a man who would complicate their lives.
It's as easy as that since Nigerian men are no longer forth coming as regards commitment.

Fountainofyouth:
It really beats me that a guy, at the climax of arousal and urge, would really not have the sex raw, no matter the consequences.

excessmon:
Pls answer me!
This thing you typed
Did it come from ur spirit,mind,soul,body,heart or did it just get to you from a dream... bottom line it makes no sense

Finestbae1:
pls watch your tongue. Dont annoy your maker. He died for your sins and made you whole again.

May God forgive you and your tongue Satan!

Finestbae1:
pls watch your tongue. Dont annoy your maker. He died for your sins and made you whole again.

May God forgive you and your tongue Satan!

bobkayzeee:
It's beats my imagination how you could bring such topic up,sex before marraige? are you for real??..what does the word of God tell's you Brother please repent today,go back to your bible and start gaining souls for christ..remain blessed.

krissconnect:
hy. I need a self con oo.. lugbe abj precisely

Finestbae1:
Accept Jesus pls before it's too late.

Thanks

Okoroawusa:
Don't force someone to accept your belief. How would you feel if I force you to accept that Guru Maharaji is your Lord and saviour?

Finestbae1:
Uncle, you have no point. Anyday, anytime, I will always accept and stand by my Jesus!

Benclever1:
Hello everyone.

So I met this girl through a mutual friend and we started bonding. Initially, I didn't take the friendship seriously because this lady is a little older than me and I do not see any future between us.

Now, things got more intense between us. She visited me one time, one thing leading to another, we were in bed, about to have sex and then I pulled out the condom but she refused, insisting that she doesn't enjoy sex with condom. I was very surprised to hear that, so I tried to make her see reasons why the condom is very necessary. She adamantly refused. We ended up not having the sex that day.

Just last week she visited again and we spent the night together. We tried to have sex again but the same issue came up again. She insisted I must not used condom. Now this got me upset. During the conversation that ensued, she made it very clear to me that she does not have any STD/STI so I should not be afraid. She however admitted that she was ovulating and that the chances of getting her pregnant was high, but that I should not worry that she'd take care of herself and the pregnancy, if it happens. She said that she would not force me to get involved with the baby if I don't want. However, she made very clear that she's not ready to get married. This got me confused.

I don't want to let my guards down by indulging in unprotected sex with someone I don't trust. I also do not want to hurt her feelings. So I plan to take her for medical tests next week and then we can kick it off from there.

What's your advise for me.

Thank you.