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So a guy we used to watch football matches together got married around November last year and I was happy for him cos he was already 40 something. I'm so shocked to have learnt days ago that the marriage crashed in less than 3 months. In fact, the informant told me the marriage packed up precisely in the month of March this year for undisclosed reasons.

Honestly, cases like this scare us the singles big time. To me, no marriage is better than broken marriage. What has become our marriage these days?

Impatient!

No matter how d gods small reach,people wey dey go carry am...dey use two hands.

Maybe both of them are too stubborn. Two captains can't be in a ship

ambivert27:
Maybe both of them are too stubborn. Two captains can't be in a ship

And the guy is always preaching, trying to win soul for God but I think he is someone with pride. Perhaps he was exerting pride in the house with the ex wife.

When you wait too long before you marry, you get comfortable in the self-centred bachelor lifestyle. Any wife after that will be seen as an intruder in your home, eating your food and destroying your appliances. It won't last before you vex pack the 'guest' commot.

RisenPhoenix:
When you wait too long before you marry, you get comfortable in the self-centred bachelor lifestyle. Any wife after that will be seen as an intruder in your home, eating your food and destroying your appliances. It won't last before you vex pack the 'guest' commot.

I have to agree

TourismMan:
So a guy we used to watch football matches together got married around November last year and I was happy for him cos he was already 40 something. I'm so shocked to have learnt days ago that the marriage crashed in less than 3 months. In fact, the informant told me the marriage packed up precisely in the month of March this year for undisclosed reasons.

Honestly, cases like this scare us the singles big time. To me, no marriage is better than broken marriage. What has become our marriage these days?

4 months

In Nigeria 40 year old men are single because of poverty not choice.

Nah poverty still crash that marriage. 90% probability.

Four months is too much now

ambivert27:
Maybe both of them are too stubborn. Two captains can't be in a ship

You said it all... Who will calm down now.. Cos two can't calm down either at the same time

No be only marriage.

3 months everywhere don burst o

RisenPhoenix:
When you wait too long before you marry, you get comfortable in the self-centred bachelor lifestyle. Any wife after that will be seen as an intruder in your home, eating your food and destroying your appliances. It won't last before you vex pack the 'guest' commot.

lmao.

Guest ke

RisenPhoenix:
When you wait too long before you marry, you get comfortable in the self-centred bachelor lifestyle. Any wife after that will be seen as an intruder in your home, eating your food and destroying your appliances. It won't last before you vex pack the 'guest' commot.

The truth.

RisenPhoenix:
When you wait too long before you marry, you get comfortable in the self-centred bachelor lifestyle. Any wife after that will be seen as an intruder in your home, eating your food and destroying your appliances. It won't last before you vex pack the 'guest' commot.

Hmm this your words really got me, just like you are talking to me directly but am already adjusting though.. God help me

There was no love from both side, or maybe it was a one sided dice.

A friend of mine who got married this year at a really huge event center has divorced the husband. The marriage didn’t even last 4 months sef.

marriage most times to fulfill societal demands

Tobinrobin:
A friend of mine who got married this year at a really huge event center has divorced the husband. The marriage didn’t even last 4 months sef.

Na wa o.

donbachi:
No matter how d gods small reach,people wey dey go carry am...dey use two hands.

O deep, words of wisdom

It is obvious one of these things that destroy married is the past, people tend to compare and contrast, marry a virgin if you are virgin, or marry someone with no bad past and have a wonderful marriage, although my marriage is still tender (few months to a year) but we are waxing stronger

RonaldoVido:
In Nigeria 40 year old men are single because of poverty not choice.

Nah poverty still crash that marriage. 90% probability.

I don't know what you mean by poverty, but I married without job literally, and my marriage is still intact, now I have a joy through my inlaw, just marry a woman not prostitute or a materialistic imp.

Kai! See as man dey mk aproko

RonaldoVido:
In Nigeria 40 year old men are single because of poverty not choice.

Nah poverty still crash that marriage. 90% probability.

What about DON JAZZY, they are numerous wealthy individual out there that are yet to tie the knot for numerous of reason to themselves.

adebayo10977:
What about DON JAZZY, they are numerous wealthy individual out there that are yet to tie the knot for numerous of reason to themselves.

Having a car and a house doesn't even mean a man has enough money to feed himself..

In Nigeria, many people are living on hand to mouth except you have basic salary..

I know people who live in their own duplexes, living on hand to mouth. Forget what you see..

Many pockets are DRY.

RisenPhoenix:
When you wait too long before you marry, you get comfortable in the self-centred bachelor lifestyle. Any wife after that will be seen as an intruder in your home, eating your food and destroying your appliances. It won't last before you vex pack the 'guest' commot.

Lmao �....This one seems to have working experience

RisenPhoenix:
When you wait too long before you marry, you get comfortable in the self-centred bachelor lifestyle. Any wife after that will be seen as an intruder in your home, eating your food and destroying your appliances. It won't last before you vex pack the 'guest' commot.

This is so true..I have a 39 year cousin always complaining to me of how so so of our relations came and was invading his space and privacy. I’m like, how do someone invade your privacy in semi detached 4 bedroom duplex? Dude is growing so strong in this single lifestyle

TourismMan:
So a guy we used to watch football matches together got married around November last year and I was happy for him cos he was already 40 something. I'm so shocked to have learnt days ago that the marriage crashed in less than 3 months. In fact, the informant told me the marriage packed up precisely in the month of March this year for undisclosed reasons.

Honestly, cases like this scare us the singles big time. To me, no marriage is better than broken marriage. What has become our marriage these days?

are you sure you are not the guy?

aro1:
are you sure you are not the guy?

Not at all.