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pocohantas:
It is actually moving slowly and civilly. If say na woman, we for dey 18pages by now na. E for mad gaan . Wetin concern us with educative? Most educative threads that hit FP struggle to get to 3pages.




Hahahahahahaha. Abeg no kill me.

Its serious o. Atleast i have read some books to know this is not normal behavior ,why will a grown man be saying "i love my space" and feel a companion is an intruder? I might not be a therapist but i know its a symptom of social disorder, which why they need to see a therapist for proper diagnosis ,nor be only when person run mad e need psychiatric intervention.

Now i know why some advanced bachelors here are so angry and grumpy always on the edge lookin for anything related to women to tick them off so they can lash out their frustration. You know when someone says frustration ,people just think its only money,imagine not being to hold down a relationship,it must be frustrating for these advanced bachelors here.

profolaolu:
It is obvious one of these things that destroy married is the past, people tend to compare and contrast, marry a virgin if you are virgin, or marry someone with no bad past and have a wonderful marriage, although my marriage is still tender (few months to a year) but we are waxing stronger

No, you are fvcking strong..

pocohantas:
Dick-measuring contest of who is richer.

this one don land with off point,who is blaming who here now?? Did you not see were folks here attributed the break up to being single for too long?? Read Everytime no be fight!

golddust6000:
everyone clock is ticking. I can tell you how it goes.
Moreover approaching Nigeria girl of this days eh. They look more aggressive when talking to them.
You won’t know I am 38 years old except I tell you, sister my clock is not ticking o, I am so handsome to the extend that if I walk pass group of opposite sex they always look me twice.
So I have all it takes to wait for my queen to arrive.

Lmaoooo

RisenPhoenix:
When you wait too long before you marry, you get comfortable in the self-centred bachelor lifestyle. Any wife after that will be seen as an intruder in your home, eating your food and destroying your appliances. It won't last before you vex pack the 'guest' commot.

Hahahaha!

You didn't say what age is " too long" though and how you came about that number.

I suppose you are joking though.

kokaneprodigy:
which one be advanced bachelor again

the old guys na. Imagine a 40 plus bachelor,that one na advanced bachelor o.

Okoyiboz3:
Perspective bro, perspective.
In the city of the blind, a one-eyed man is the king.
When you leave your mediocre circles, you'll realise you have nothing.

As for me being broke, well I'm under 35, own 3 businesses. I solo founded 2 and the third one has investors on board. I won't state my revenues so it doesn't seem I'm bragging.

Ignore the mediocre abeg.

Feeling cool with 400k per month forgetting that na person get the business wey dey pay am the 400k.

[quote author=Okoyiboz3 post=84625445]4M isn't money bro.
That's not up to the wedding budget of people. [/quoit

It's a matter of choice.. I can have 4m and spend 400k on wedding... the way we see money different bro

Ladycewhy:
Na wah o ,see advanced bachelors on this thread, so you people cant even live with another human being yet you claim there are no good ladies around. "I love my space " is another name for "social disorder",you guys need to go for therapy asap.

LMAO this one don Off me Las Las "I love my space" now "social disorder" according to a nairalander Lmao!! so like this now na therapy levels !! Burst my head!!

safarigirl:
all of this is superficial.

Omashola is a prime example of how being single for too long can mess with your head.

You are all these things and you can't seem to find a woman that can tick all the right options in your box? It is well. I wish you luck in awaiting this elusive queen of yours.

Free the guy. Is it by force?

Ladycewhy:
Its serious o. Atleast i have read some books to know this is not normal behavior ,why will a grown man be saying "i love my space" and feel a companion is an intruder? I might not be a therapist but i know its a symptom of social disorder, which why they need to see a therapist for proper diagnosis ,nor be only when person run mad e need psychiatric intervention.

Now i know why some advanced bachelors here are so angry and grumpy always on the edge lookin for anything related to women to tick them off so they can lash out their frustration. You know when someone says frustration ,people just think its only money,imagine not being to hold down a relationship,it must be frustrating for these advanced bachelors here.

Hahahaha. You are cracking me up. Advanced bachelor is the opposite of evening newspaper ehn?

When exactly does this advance bachelorhood start? Just so we put things into perspective.

Some people are loners though, they thrive better on their own. If they can do that without blaming anyone for their woes- perfect.

Guys don oldooooo

Jgoldie:
God knows I hate stingy men....if you are stingy while dating,you will definitely be stingy while married.....


Oops what do I know

Lazy leech, Get your stiff smelly ass out there and hustle like your gonna pass out and make your own money. Shege barawo banza......Always looking for readily prepared sweet soup. Una own no pass to comot Fufu for pocket....nonsense.

Asour:
Hahahaha!

You didn't say what age is " too long" though and how you came about that number.

I suppose you are joking though.

The proprietary feeling develops gradually so there is no specific age that you suddenly get it. The longer you are alone, the more you get used to it.
And no, I'm not joking. I have observed this trait in many older men who married late. They can never be really satisfied with a wife. At that point they only want a housegirl with benefits, and woe betide her if she should make her presence in the house felt.

millionboi2:
Same with me

me too o, am 34,God help na, pls.

golddust6000:
everyone clock is ticking. I can tell you how it goes.
Moreover approaching Nigeria girl of this days eh. They look more aggressive when talking to them.
You won’t know I am 38 years old except I tell you, sister my clock is not ticking o, I am so handsome to the extend that if I walk pass group of opposite sex they always look me twice.
So I have all it takes to wait for my queen to arrive.

Interesting..

pocohantas:
Hahahaha. You are cracking me up. So advanced bachelor is the opposite of evening newspaper ehn?

So, when exactly does this advance bachelorhood start? Just so we put things into perspective.

Some people are loners though, they thrive better on their own. If they can do that without blaming anyone for their woes- perfect.

lets start from 38.

Loners fine but the part where they get irritated by the presence of another person is where the issue is. Its this kind of people that will tell you to stop chewing food too loud,to walk less noticebly ,God help you if you belch in their presence they just don't want anything that indicates you are there,if possibly don't even breathe heavily around them . I know what i am talking about, its not normal behavior.

safarigirl:
my father always says that a man who has reached 40 and has neither been married or had a child, must have a problem.

A lot of older men want to marry small girls and lord over them, some of them have bad attitudes and are looking for one small girl they can talk to anyhow and she won't say a word, some have zero personality, some are so deep into womanizing that they can't imagine sticking to one woman.

Bottom line, whenever I notice a man advanced in age, who is yet to settle down, I always raise an eyebrow.

All this your propaganda no go work.

Stop pushing it.

BlowYourMind:
I don't know what you mean by poverty, but I married without job literally, and my marriage is still intact, now I have a joy through my inlaw, just marry a woman not prostitute or a materialistic imp.

Just be careful on d path U walk ...

Ladycewhy:
Its serious o. Atleast i have read some books to know this is not normal behavior ,why will a grown man be saying "i love my space" and feel a companion is an intruder? I might not be a therapist but i know its a symptom of social disorder, which why they need to see a therapist for proper diagnosis ,nor be only when person run mad e need psychiatric intervention.

Now i know why some advanced bachelors here are so angry and grumpy always on the edge lookin for anything related to women to tick them off so they can lash out their frustration. You know when someone says frustration ,people just think its only money,imagine not being to hold down a relationship,it must be frustrating for these advanced bachelors here.

your manipulative reverse psychology ain't that tight try again harder and smarter no be only social disorder both autism , amnesia even Hallucinations should follow wehdon ma!

RisenPhoenix:
The proprietary feeling develops gradually so there is no specific age that you suddenly get it. The longer you are alone, the more you get used to it.
And no, I'm not joking. I have observed this trait in many older men who married late. They can never be really satisfied with a wife. At that point they only want a housegirl with benefits, and woe betide her if she should make her presence in the house felt.

Ok.

You could start by giving us the median age of the ones you know.

Asour:
Ok.

You could start by giving us the median age of the ones you know.

Hit a nerve?

okomile:
Impatient!

Can u explain? He is 40 years old.

The problem is that he will not marry a 38 working class lady who has her shit together. He wants to marry a 23 year old working class lady who is independent at 40 years. How many of them dey naija? They say some women have unrealistic standards, I think some men really need a wake up call.

Mindfulness:
At 40 it should not be a problem to find such a lady.

Ladycewhy:
lets start from 38.

Loners fine but the part where they get irritated by the presence of another person is where the issue is. Its this kind of people that will tell you to stop chewing food too loud,to walk less noticebly ,God help you if you belch in their presence they just don't want anything that indicates you are there,if possibly done even breathe heavily around them . I know what i am talking about, its not normal behavior.

I get very irritated by people eating too loud and belching. I thought I had good manners not a social disorder.

Westernlove:
Lazy leech, Get your stiff smelly ass out there and hustle like your gonna pass out and make your own money. Shege barawo banza......Always looking for readily prepared sweet soup. Una own no pass to comot Fufu for pocket....nonsense.

stay on your lane mr. westernlove....
must you insult me?
why are you this pained because I stated my opinion
shows the kind of person you are.

Go about your relationships not spending shishi,let me do mine?

haba...

na that kind bucket dem go dey throw your way IJN.

olabrinks:
The problem is that he will not marry a 38 working class lady who has her shit together. He wants to marry a 23 year old working class lady who is independent at 40 years. How many of them dey naija? They say some women have unrealistic standards, I think some men really need a wake up call.

Unrealistic standards are a characteristic of the times we live in thanks to social media promoting (fake) images of perfect people and families. How do you lower your standards? I know people who tried and settled for people they later resented.

stevmatt:
Marriage is not by Force

Bible only said WHO EVER FIND A WIFE, FIND A GOOD THING not a better thing.

Aptly said thank you....

Mindfulness:
I get very irritated by people eating too loud and belching. I thought I had good manners not a social disorder.

do you also get irritated when people drag their feet on the floor and make noise when walking? Or how they brush their teeth and gaggle water?

Jgoldie:
You are entitled to your opinion...

I don't need you to quote me to prove your point

Oh shut up! You little brat and take advice

Been observing your comments
Mannerless cow

Ladycewhy:
do you also get irritated when people drag their feet on the floor and make noise when walking? Or how they brush their teeth and gaggle water?

No, these things don't bother me but my mum hates it when I drag my feet and she has never lived alone in her life. From papa's house to her matrimonial house with kids following very soon after.

RonaldoVido:
Having a car and a house doesn't even mean a man has enough money to feed himself..

In Nigeria, many people are living on hand to mouth except you have basic salary..

I know people who live in their own duplexes, living on hand to mouth. Forget what you see..

Many pockets are DRY.

As of today,not Don jazzy's pocket.
It's all about choice for some few.