TourismMan:
So a guy we used to watch football matches together got married around November last year and I was happy for him cos he was already 40 something. I'm so shocked to have learnt days ago that the marriage crashed in less than 3 months. In fact, the informant told me the marriage packed up precisely in the month of March this year for undisclosed reasons.

Honestly, cases like this scare us the singles big time. To me, no marriage is better than broken marriage. What has become our marriage these days?

Jgoldie:
God knows I hate stingy men....if you are stingy while dating,you will definitely be stingy while married...


Oops what do I know

Alanpoza007:

Other people have been contributing intelligently to the thread but you just had to find a way of showcasing your shameless tribal bigotry when it's not needed. Your type isn't needed in a sensible thread like this. Go to Politics and Crime sections where your unevolved types exist in multitudes to drag your Afonja and Igbo nonsense there.

profolaolu:
It is obvious one of these things that destroy married is the past, people tend to compare and contrast, marry a virgin if you are virgin, or marry someone with no bad past and have a wonderful marriage, although my marriage is still tender (few months to a year) but we are waxing stronger

tiredoflife:


Some maybe one caught the other in either homosexuality
He may be gay or she maybe gay

TourismMan:


And the guy is always preaching, trying to win soul for God but I think he is someone with pride. Perhaps he was exerting pride in the house with the ex wife.

golddust6000:
you get sister wey dey work? Chanel her to me.

rosalieene:
why do I have feeling that the marriage packed up because he cannot perform

RisenPhoenix:
When you wait too long before you marry, you get comfortable in the self-centred bachelor lifestyle. Any wife after that will be seen as an intruder in your home, eating your food and destroying your appliances. It won't last before you vex pack the 'guest' commot.

tiredoflife:


He maybe gay

RisenPhoenix:
When you wait too long before you marry, you get comfortable in the self-centred bachelor lifestyle. Any wife after that will be seen as an intruder in your home, eating your food and destroying your appliances. It won't last before you vex pack the 'guest' commot.

eboniest:
Most marriages nowadays are mostly built on faulty foundations.

mabea:
Everything to you is tribalism because that's what your brain can only process. For clarification I was only pointing out the fact that Yorubas make marriage easier for him to be able to marry even when he had no job because both families will support you unlike some parts of the country where you would bear the entire cost.

safarigirl:
my father always says that a man who has reached 40 and has neither been married or had a child, must have a problem.

A lot of older men want to marry small girls and lord over them, some of them have bad attitudes and are looking for one small girl they can talk to anyhow and she won't say a word, some have zero personality, some are so deep into womanizing that they can't imagine sticking to one woman.

Bottom line, whenever I notice a man advanced in age, who is yet to settle down, I always raise an eyebrow.

Ladycewhy:
the symptoms might not be Same but a person who feels his personal space is being invaded will exhibit such traits and even more, like one said,he doesn't like leaving something in one place and not coming back it meet it there ,so that is an excuse for him not to marry.This tells you such a person has taken it to another level and used it as an excuse to isolate himself ,which makes it a disorder.

LabDNA:


If I leave something on the table in bedroom and I come home and can't find it. I'll be like 'Babe did you see the file I left on the table before going out?', what I want to hear is something like 'Honey I arranged it in that folder in the wardrobe so I don't spill tea on it while taking breakfast'. Case solved!

But If I hear, 'I didn't see any file on the table o', for Godsakes, I live alone with you, who then must have entered this bedroom, a ghost? Isn't that enough to drive anyone crazy? Even you?

abbatoir:


Well..what I cherish most in Life is lonely and freedom! To God be the Glory no human in this planet ever deny me that privileged...like the op suggested I live in large house and financially comfortably. So I was able to achieve that as I don't share room with my wife...she takes permission to enter my Room to enjoy sex.we could sit together in liiving room for hours without a words...my marriage is over a decade


So they were available though scarce!

RisenPhoenix:
When you wait too long before you marry, you get comfortable in the self-centred bachelor lifestyle. Any wife after that will be seen as an intruder in your home, eating your food and destroying your appliances. It won't last before you vex pack the 'guest' commot.

semyman:

Tafia kee u dere

RisenPhoenix:
When you wait too long before you marry, you get comfortable in the self-centred bachelor lifestyle. Any wife after that will be seen as an intruder in your home, eating your food and destroying your appliances. It won't last before you vex pack the 'guest' commot.

TourismMan:


This your comment has outshined my post. Lol. You must've gotten more then 100 mentions and 1k likes.

RisenPhoenix:
When you wait too long before you marry, you get comfortable in the self-centred bachelor lifestyle. Any wife after that will be seen as an intruder in your home, eating your food and destroying your appliances. It won't last before you vex pack the 'guest' commot.

Ryan03:
I have to agree

TourismMan:
So a guy we used to watch football matches together got married around November last year and I was happy for him cos he was already 40 something. I'm so shocked to have learnt days ago that the marriage crashed in less than 3 months. In fact, the informant told me the marriage packed up precisely in the month of March this year for undisclosed reasons.

Honestly, cases like this scare us the singles big time. To me, no marriage is better than broken marriage. What has become our marriage these days?

Ladycewhy:
exactly my point, i used to hate people gaggling water when they brush, but one day i observed my brushing routine and found out i didn't like how i was spiting ,lol. Some will even tell you that people's laugh irritate them ,like how is one supposed to laugh decently? You cant even be in a mood and be humming a rhythm to yourself,you are being noisy,you must tip toe and be invincible around them.

AquariusRising:


So true! While you were being irritated by other people gaggling, you decided to search yourself for irritating brushing routines. That is always the first step if the maturing or evolving process.

Nobody is perfect! Nobody! and anyone who doesn't see that or refuses to see that is free to buy an island on Mars and go live there..living in a massive duplex on ones own is not enough, and while they are at it, they should feel free to buy a sex doll...I hear they are becoming popular among disordered people.

In my personal journey of evolving, I have found that these irritating tics we find in other people are sometimes involuntary....and if one has any humanity, those tics become cute with time...that's if we are willing to melt our frozen hearts and open it to someone...

spencekat:
And you are proud to be an advanced bachelor?

RisenPhoenix:
When you wait too long before you marry, you get comfortable in the self-centred bachelor lifestyle. Any wife after that will be seen as an intruder in your home, eating your food and destroying your appliances. It won't last before you vex pack the 'guest' commot.

golddust6000:
bro, i know how old I am. Marriage is just nothing. Most things in marriage is bearing children.
What can you say to those that are over 40 married but divorced? Or talk about those that are married for long still no kids? Guy, use your tongue to count your teeth. My father got married at the age of 37, my eldest sister is 52 now. We are seven boys two girls. We are all living fine. I am an Igbo man. We don’t bring children into poverty.
My father is still alive. So I dey follow his footsteps. I know I will live above 100. Because we are naturally strong in my family.