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After all the people you met and introduced her to, you can't back down now.

Just be careful is all. Treat her well but realize that just because you brought her to PH doesn't mean you own her.

Richnerd69:
So I met this youth corper lady in abuja when I escorted my friend Whose babe pushed buttons for an appointment for him to meet with a dignitary in brit high Commissions, in order to secure visa to Europe and job connections on arrival to the UK. Who recalled I created a thread about my friend who was about to leave everything he worked for, to travel along with his rich babe? Well, dude just left days go.

Well, that aside. Prior to meeting this pretty corper who just came back from camp, I just came out of a messy break up which left a vacuum in me... We got talking and loved up in 2days cuz she also lodged in the same guest house as we did, and at night she would come downstairs to relax, as even i too would.

We got down, We became so close in a short space of time as we exchanged pleasantries, thoughts and ideas and we laughed about the funniest things together. Told her about the opportunities in Port Harcourt and how I would love her to come serve in PH, and that she could live with me.

She's 23 and she has a very humble spirit and a good vision. On my proposal, she declined and her reasons were the security threats and rumors about evil practices and she hasn't been to PH before . I tried to assure her to keep her safe if she would allow me work her transfer to PH. Guys she agreed, and that evening I put a call across an uncle who's a Brig.General who pushed buttons the following day... And by January she is to be in PH for service .

My friend left for Lagos on the 5th to meet with his babe so they would catch their flight and I couldn't follow him because I had to stay back to make preparations for her to come stay with me in PH. Beforehand, I had introduce her to my guy and he told me to be careful with this one but he liked her vibe and everything about her. She then took me to see her elder sister who is married in Niger state before we would both be leaving for PH. Her sister was mean and harsh at first, but I spoke with her husband who was from my home town and he talked to his wife so I could take her sister with me. We would be leaving on Wednesday as my 2weeks work leave expires this Tuesday.

Now guys, I don't know why I feel like I've started stepping out of my boundaries, like I'm moving too fast and doing too much, just too early... Now that she's coming over to PH, I don't know what the future holds tho but I really like this lady and I want to build her up...But do you think moving in together in a short time of knowing each other is bad for us? Any suggestion whatsoever ?? Do I get her a place so she could have a roommate so we could at least keep space ?

Richnerd69:
So I met this youth corper lady in abuja when I escorted my friend Whose babe pushed buttons for an appointment for him to meet with a dignitary in brit high Commissions, in order to secure visa to Europe and job connections on arrival to the UK. Who recalled I created a thread about my friend who was about to leave everything he worked for, to travel along with his rich babe? Well, dude just left days go.

Well, that aside. Prior to meeting this pretty corper who just came back from camp, I just came out of a messy break up which left a vacuum in me... We got talking and loved up in 2days cuz she also lodged in the same guest house as we did, and at night she would come downstairs to relax, as even i too would.

We got down, We became so close in a short space of time as we exchanged pleasantries, thoughts and ideas and we laughed about the funniest things together. Told her about the opportunities in Port Harcourt and how I would love her to come serve in PH, and that she could live with me.

She's 23 and she has a very humble spirit and a good vision. On my proposal, she declined and her reasons were the security threats and rumors about evil practices and she hasn't been to PH before . I tried to assure her to keep her safe if she would allow me work her transfer to PH. Guys she agreed, and that evening I put a call across an uncle who's a Brig.General who pushed buttons the following day... And by January she is to be in PH for service .

My friend left for Lagos on the 5th to meet with his babe so they would catch their flight and I couldn't follow him because I had to stay back to make preparations for her to come stay with me in PH. Beforehand, I had introduce her to my guy and he told me to be careful with this one but he liked her vibe and everything about her. She then took me to see her elder sister who is married in Niger state before we would both be leaving for PH. Her sister was mean and harsh at first, but I spoke with her husband who was from my home town and he talked to his wife so I could take her sister with me. We would be leaving on Wednesday as my 2weeks work leave expires this Tuesday.

Now guys, I don't know why I feel like I've started stepping out of my boundaries, like I'm moving too fast and doing too much, just too early... Now that she's coming over to PH, I don't know what the future holds tho but I really like this lady and I want to build her up...But do you think moving in together in a short time of knowing each other is bad for us? Any suggestion whatsoever ?? Do I get her a place so she could have a roommate so we could at least keep space ?

FUÇKTÁRD

You are just looking for free pussy to be fucking nonsense

Did you go to her elder sisters house to introduce yourself as a husband to be? How did you expect them to allow thier sis follow a total stranger to go knws whr. Abeg you no try hunku

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Richnerd69:
So I met this youth corper lady in abuja when I escorted my friend Whose babe pushed buttons for an appointment for him to meet with a dignitary in brit high Commissions, in order to secure visa to Europe and job connections on arrival to the UK. Who recalled I created a thread about my friend who was about to leave everything he worked for, to travel along with his rich babe? Well, dude just left days go.

Well, that aside. Prior to meeting this pretty corper who just came back from camp, I just came out of a messy break up which left a vacuum in me... We got talking and loved up in 2days cuz she also lodged in the same guest house as we did, and at night she would come downstairs to relax, as even i too would.

We got down, We became so close in a short space of time as we exchanged pleasantries, thoughts and ideas and we laughed about the funniest things together. Told her about the opportunities in Port Harcourt and how I would love her to come serve in PH, and that she could live with me.

She's 23 and she has a very humble spirit and a good vision. On my proposal, she declined and her reasons were the security threats and rumors about evil practices and she hasn't been to PH before . I tried to assure her to keep her safe if she would allow me work her transfer to PH. Guys she agreed, and that evening I put a call across an uncle who's a Brig.General who pushed buttons the following day... And by January she is to be in PH for service .

My friend left for Lagos on the 5th to meet with his babe so they would catch their flight and I couldn't follow him because I had to stay back to make preparations for her to come stay with me in PH. Beforehand, I had introduce her to my guy and he told me to be careful with this one but he liked her vibe and everything about her. She then took me to see her elder sister who is married in Niger state before we would both be leaving for PH. Her sister was mean and harsh at first, but I spoke with her husband who was from my home town and he talked to his wife so I could take her sister with me. We would be leaving on Wednesday as my 2weeks work leave expires this Tuesday.

Now guys, I don't know why I feel like I've started stepping out of my boundaries, like I'm moving too fast and doing too much, just too early... Now that she's coming over to PH, I don't know what the future holds tho but I really like this lady and I want to build her up...But do you think moving in together in a short time of knowing each other is bad for us? Any suggestion whatsoever ?? Do I get her a place so she could have a roommate so we could at least keep space ?

move in with you ? mehn constant knacking toh sure

You were too much in hurry, wrong move bro.

It seems you are in the Oil and Gas Sector, hook you guy help if any vacancy. (mechanical engineer)

You have asked and now hear me out, in my opinion you have made some few mistakes.
Except if you’re not telling us everything we need to know. You sound like someone who needs a constant bed warmer or get laid at all times. Because why do you want to live with someone you hardly know or you have understudy so well with you? This is an act of desperation!
Your IGG will run cold once she moves in with you and you begin to see flaws here and there suddenly your love will grow cold and you’ll be desperate for her to leave. Love for me should grow over time, steadily and constantly.
Please give yourself a space and respect yourself. Let her stay in her own rented apartment, give room to other options. You found her by chance and who says you still can’t find another better than her by another cheer miracle? Why shot yourself on the foot? You do you want to throw in the towel so early.
Premiership is not the only league bro watch and visit la liga! Keep an open policy in case she also messes up too! That’s my view.

It would be seen in 2 ways, it is either you are trying to lure her to PH for your selfish interest or she is using you for her selfish interest.
But honestly, nobody knows anything, everyone is just assuming things and they could be wrong or right, so it is all about you. What you should be thinking of is if she is making you happy, how she makes you feel.
Is the feeling you are having worth all you hav done and would still do for her?

samso247:
I dey wait for OP report, mk e nor com disturb us here, wen some changes done dey happen. Common sense is not common this days

I swear, not common at all, him never see anything

xynniey:
Did you go to her elder sisters house to introduce yourself as a husband to be? How did you expect them to allow thier sis follow a total stranger to go knws whr. Abeg you no try hunku

na this one wonder my wonderment. just like that

Suremikky:
Are you sure u don’t want to move in with him?aunty talk tru o

I need a good job that's all

Alawaxbimbex:
Hummmmmm, just be careful,I'm also a lady ooooo,I know what we are capable of doing...

Good advice

Greetings. Separate a day alone in prayer and let God speak to you. You're taking things to fast and you need to slow down. Don't be mesmerized by a girl's beauty or youth. Be wise follow your heart and instinct after praying. Good luck.

Richnerd69:
So I met this youth corper lady in abuja when I escorted my friend Whose babe pushed buttons for an appointment for him to meet with a dignitary in brit high Commissions, in order to secure visa to Europe and job connections on arrival to the UK. Who recalled I created a thread about my friend who was about to leave everything he worked for, to travel along with his rich babe? Well, dude just left days go.

Well, that aside. Prior to meeting this pretty corper who just came back from camp, I just came out of a messy break up which left a vacuum in me... We got talking and loved up in 2days cuz she also lodged in the same guest house as we did, and at night she would come downstairs to relax, as even i too would.

We got down, We became so close in a short space of time as we exchanged pleasantries, thoughts and ideas and we laughed about the funniest things together. Told her about the opportunities in Port Harcourt and how I would love her to come serve in PH, and that she could live with me.

She's 23 and she has a very humble spirit and a good vision. On my proposal, she declined and her reasons were the security threats and rumors about evil practices and she hasn't been to PH before . I tried to assure her to keep her safe if she would allow me work her transfer to PH. Guys she agreed, and that evening I put a call across an uncle who's a Brig.General who pushed buttons the following day... And by January she is to be in PH for service .

My friend left for Lagos on the 5th to meet with his babe so they would catch their flight and I couldn't follow him because I had to stay back to make preparations for her to come stay with me in PH. Beforehand, I had introduce her to my guy and he told me to be careful with this one but he liked her vibe and everything about her. She then took me to see her elder sister who is married in Niger state before we would both be leaving for PH. Her sister was mean and harsh at first, but I spoke with her husband who was from my home town and he talked to his wife so I could take her sister with me. We would be leaving on Wednesday as my 2weeks work leave expires this Tuesday.

Now guys, I don't know why I feel like I've started stepping out of my boundaries, like I'm moving too fast and doing too much, just too early... Now that she's coming over to PH, I don't know what the future holds tho but I really like this lady and I want to build her up...But do you think moving in together in a short time of knowing each other is bad for us? Any suggestion whatsoever ?? Do I get her a place so she could have a roommate so we could at least keep space ?

safarigirl:
she isn't decent in the opinion of sensible people, your agreement is inconsequential, since you need the internet to think for you.

Maybe if your daughter goes off to live with a man she has known for two weeks, you will be fine with it and the world will applaud your fathering skills.

Stop disturbing us here, since you think you have found the most decent and 'teachable' woman in the world, even your use of terms is condescending. She is 'teachable' as what? An animal or a baby? I hope you are just as teachable, you will both learn lessons from each other eventually

Take your indecisive self off the internet, and face the quagmire you have put yourself in like a man. If it turns out fine, good for you, if not, good for you too...for someone who recently came out of a rather bad break up like you claimed, you sure make rash decisions, it explains a lot about you.

Good night sir.

Nice responses to the guy. You are the first person who saw through him.

What does teachable mean? What does humble mean? It means she will do anything for the perks. I don't know why Nigerian men think women are to be controlled and subjugated. What is this humble they always talk about?

It tells a lot that a girl would know you for two weeks and pack in. Her elder sister agreed. Methinks they're poor and overwhelmed. One of the reasons poverty is known as a bastard. It will make adults turn to fools.

Ginaz:
Wawu. Me being frustrated at what exactly? The way you guys just throw the word frustration eh? one would think every living soul in the world is. You’re contradicting yourself with each step you make to sound right .

You want to help her, you say you like her, then you say you gonna send her off, come back again to say no.

Mr man, by the time you are through making this mistake , you would be the one frustrated last last. Whatever reason you had the girl, kudos to it. Lemme remove mouth and stop here.

Keep living in a fairytale world, reality is coming soon.

Trust me, you're working yourself up too much. For starters, you're not the girl in question neither are you her sister.

You keep talking about him fucccking the girl, is someone not fucccking you??

She's 23 for goodness sake, she isn't a minor. If Richnerd69 did not lie to her about a relationship nor rape her, he hasn't done anything bad please.

You can meet a lady, take interest in her and want her by your side, he is comfortable and knows people, judging from what we've read, so allow him help her. He might change his mind and later marry her, his sister might fall in love with the said girl and make her brother marry her.

Let him be, all I am concerned about it, he shouldn't let the girl regret her decision to move to PH and he should protect her like he has promised to.

There's no manual to this love thing, I have seen people dated/courted for 9 years and were madly in love, they got married and after two kids, marriage scattered, they never got back, calm your tits already please and let the young man be.

Richnerd69:
So I met this youth corper lady in abuja when I escorted my friend Whose babe pushed buttons for an appointment for him to meet with a dignitary in brit high Commissions, in order to secure visa to Europe and job connections on arrival to the UK. Who recalled I created a thread about my friend who was about to leave everything he worked for, to travel along with his rich babe? Well, dude just left days go.

Well, that aside. Prior to meeting this pretty corper who just came back from camp, I just came out of a messy break up which left a vacuum in me... We got talking and loved up in 2days cuz she also lodged in the same guest house as we did, and at night she would come downstairs to relax, as even i too would.

We got down, We became so close in a short space of time as we exchanged pleasantries, thoughts and ideas and we laughed about the funniest things together. Told her about the opportunities in Port Harcourt and how I would love her to come serve in PH, and that she could live with me.

She's 23 and she has a very humble spirit and a good vision. On my proposal, she declined and her reasons were the security threats and rumors about evil practices and she hasn't been to PH before . I tried to assure her to keep her safe if she would allow me work her transfer to PH. Guys she agreed, and that evening I put a call across an uncle who's a Brig.General who pushed buttons the following day... And by January she is to be in PH for service .

My friend left for Lagos on the 5th to meet with his babe so they would catch their flight and I couldn't follow him because I had to stay back to make preparations for her to come stay with me in PH. Beforehand, I had introduce her to my guy and he told me to be careful with this one but he liked her vibe and everything about her. She then took me to see her elder sister who is married in Niger state before we would both be leaving for PH. Her sister was mean and harsh at first, but I spoke with her husband who was from my home town and he talked to his wife so I could take her sister with me. We would be leaving on Wednesday as my 2weeks work leave expires this Tuesday.

Now guys, I don't know why I feel like I've started stepping out of my boundaries, like I'm moving too fast and doing too much, just too early... Now that she's coming over to PH, I don't know what the future holds tho but I really like this lady and I want to build her up...But do you think moving in together in a short time of knowing each other is bad for us? Any suggestion whatsoever ?? Do I get her a place so she could have a roommate so we could at least keep space ?

Bro, you only have to take things slowly. take your time to learn about each other and give yourselves required space.

safarigirl:
you're her best shot because you convinced her to come and live with you in a place you knew you would be her best shot.

You Sound like a manipulative guy. She will be at your mercy for the duration of her stay in PH. You must be obsessed with the idea of being someone's lord and personal savior, preferably a woman you can be having free sex with, while blackmailing her with threats of eviction if she ever challenges your authority.

For a woman to even agree to leave Abuja that she worked and had plans to stay with an aunt, to go to PH, where she only knows you, a man she has known for how long? You should be very afraid, because it speaks poorly of her. She must have ulterior motives just like you, because no good, decent girl would put herself in such a dicey situation

I hope this decision bites you in the ass and you receive a year of fire and brimstone on your head for inviting a stranger into your space for one year.

You will be the cunning man that will be buried with his cunningness.

Nawa oh....this fact that there are too many bad people in this country doesn't mean there are no good people.

Loom at how you are forming ideas in your head, you don't even know the OP

safarigirl:
you're her best shot because you convinced her to come and live with you in a place you knew you would be her best shot.

You Sound like a manipulative guy. She will be at your mercy for the duration of her stay in PH. You must be obsessed with the idea of being someone's lord and personal savior, preferably a woman you can be having free sex with, while blackmailing her with threats of eviction if she ever challenges your authority.

For a woman to even agree to leave Abuja that she worked and had plans to stay with an aunt, to go to PH, where she only knows you, a man she has known for how long? You should be very afraid, because it speaks poorly of her. She must have ulterior motives just like you, because no good, decent girl would put herself in such a dicey situation

I hope this decision bites you in the ass and you receive a year of fire and brimstone on your head for inviting a stranger into your space for one year.

You will be the cunning man that will be buried with his cunningness.

Nawa oh....this fact that there are too many bad people in this country doesn't mean there are no good people.

Look at how you are forming ideas in your head, you don't even know the OP

This op has already made up his mind. He ain't looking for advice. He's only looking to justify what his spirit must tell him is wrong.

Putting the cart before the horse

Acting before thinking about it.

Have you asked yourself, what was she doing in that guest house all by herself in the first place.

You just carry someone pikin whom you just met and gbam, you have changed her life and relocated her from her base to your house.

Please mention me in your subsequent threads. Cos I'm sure you are going to create more to entertain us.

Richnerd69:
I'm sorry, I was rude and I shouldn't have insulted you, but you provoked me.

It's alright... Thanks for your advice.

Sorry too if I was rude. Good wishes to you.

Ginaz:
Oga you talk from both sides of your mouth . You said the reason you wanted her to stay was because she behaves like your sister. She is teachable and Humble, that you really liked her.

You have changed the whole story she wanna serve bla bla bla. She doesn’t have anywhere else to stay. Who brought up the ideal of a life in ph? Was it not you? Who convinced her and called the shots for her to be transferred to ph? Was it not you?

So what’s this whole blabbers of “her serving , picking interest in a friend, she will adapt, bla bla bla “.

You’re not serious o. I regretted wasting my time with this piece of shiiit . The other guy that said you were a fool was right.

Let him be Ginaz. Just watch out for part 2 of this story when he will start writing the book of lamentations.

Puna sabi confuse person aswearrrr

Kseafresh:
You didn't even know whether she be mammy water or not before making plans for her to come and live with you..
You are making the biggest mistake of your life.
Some men sef...smh
Just because of toto..
Love gbakwa oku..
Notin wey Nma Ngozi no go see for Market.

;Dlove gbakwa oku
Did you grow up in Enugu?

Richnerd69:
I know right...Almost same thing her elder sister asked, "how long have you known my sister?"... And some other stuffs you're pointing out. I realized everyone was once a stranger and most times we isolate people and observe them from a distance before bringing them close, but I've tried that and it didn't work... For days now she has been thanking me consistently for everything and she's trusting that I wouldn't fail her...


I was more convinced when her elder sister's husband told me things about her and how she handles things. She is very humble with a teachable spirit... She's a good girl, I was told and I have come to see that in a short space of time. But I know people do change, I just hope I'm not making a mistake. I know I might be making one of the most stupid decisions of my life, but I want to believe in certain people and give them the chance to try to prove themselves. I really like this lady, I must confess.

I've informed my younger sister that I would be bringing someone I barely met, over. She's not having it with me tho...lol

Lol, bro do you know why most relationship last longer than marriage?

cuz couples are living separately during courtships...

decode the message

Richnerd69:
So I met this youth corper lady in abuja when I escorted my friend Whose babe pushed buttons for an appointment for him to meet with a dignitary in brit high Commissions, in order to secure visa to Europe and job connections on arrival to the UK. Who recalled I created a thread about my friend who was about to leave everything he worked for, to travel along with his rich babe? Well, dude just left days go.

Well, that aside. Prior to meeting this pretty corper who just came back from camp, I just came out of a messy break up which left a vacuum in me... We got talking and loved up in 2days cuz she also lodged in the same guest house as we did, and at night she would come downstairs to relax, as even i too would.

We got down, We became so close in a short space of time as we exchanged pleasantries, thoughts and ideas and we laughed about the funniest things together. Told her about the opportunities in Port Harcourt and how I would love her to come serve in PH, and that she could live with me.

She's 23 and she has a very humble spirit and a good vision. On my proposal, she declined and her reasons were the security threats and rumors about evil practices and she hasn't been to PH before . I tried to assure her to keep her safe if she would allow me work her transfer to PH. Guys she agreed, and that evening I put a call across an uncle who's a Brig.General who pushed buttons the following day... And by January she is to be in PH for service .

My friend left for Lagos on the 5th to meet with his babe so they would catch their flight and I couldn't follow him because I had to stay back to make preparations for her to come stay with me in PH. Beforehand, I had introduce her to my guy and he told me to be careful with this one but he liked her vibe and everything about her. She then took me to see her elder sister who is married in Niger state before we would both be leaving for PH. Her sister was mean and harsh at first, but I spoke with her husband who was from my home town and he talked to his wife so I could take her sister with me. We would be leaving on Wednesday as my 2weeks work leave expires this Tuesday.

Now guys, I don't know why I feel like I've started stepping out of my boundaries, like I'm moving too fast and doing too much, just too early... Now that she's coming over to PH, I don't know what the future holds tho but I really like this lady and I want to build her up...But do you think moving in together in a short time of knowing each other is bad for us? Any suggestion whatsoever ?? Do I get her a place so she could have a roommate so we could at least keep space ?

Guy pls dont. The end will be worst than the firstrelationship. She will takeyou for granted. Andthats just the beginning. As long as you are not and she is not talking about marriage happening soon. It will be to bigger heart break. Rather be close to her with a little distance. Becos very soon its either you or her will met the man or lady of your dream and start drifting away in loyalty. .....cheating.....deception and hate.

Tallesty1:
Hardly do you see guys help guys this way. It's all beer and flexing without giving you a dime to keep as your own but it's all good.



I just hope you've lived with a woman before and know what it entails else you're in for a surprise.


Clearly put, she will give you troubles, anything that has tyres and breasts would. Living with a girlfriend comes with a lot of terms, conditions and downfalls and lots of other crazy nonsenses that a man who isn't ready to settle down shouldn't get himself involved in.

You're going to devote your time, money, energy, feelings, loyalty, and personal space to a lady you haven't even decided what to do with.


The lady too has no plans on her own, it's obvious. I don't see how anyone with a good plan will just fall in to another person's like that(unless of course it coincidentally tallies with her own plans)

It's indeed a fast fast generation.


Something tells me that you listened to your dick during the decision making process. I could be wrong though.




Her boyfriend is going to cry very soon

Do you drink beer? I don't know you, who you are and where you're from... But I'll find you and buy a Cold Beer

You're too fast but seems you have already done everything. Go ahead but be more vigilant and prayerful. I wish you good luck.

You're too fast but seems you have already done everything. Go ahead but be more vigilant and prayerful. I wish you good luck.

Am searching for job as well. Please I need your assistant Biko. Thank you Sir.

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