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Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by bluefilm: 6:08pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Rubbiish: I taya no be small... |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Btruth: 6:10pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
wirinet:chai! pure wickedness. How does people like this always claim that they are Christians gan self tire me. |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Nobody: 6:10pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
STENON: U mean the heart of the woman abi? |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by openmine(m): 6:11pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
ikaboy:exactly |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by humblemikel(f): 6:11pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
85% of Nigerian Women/mothers are wicked to their house maid Quote me anywhere Very terrible being Thinking her children are better than the maid and deserving of a new dress is pure wickedness 1 Like |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by CAPSLOCKED: 6:11pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Martinez39: BUT WHY DO WOMEN ALWAYS MISTREAT KIDS THAT ARE NOT THEIRS? THE PART THAT GOT ME ANGRY WAS WHEN SHE STARTED CRYING IN SELF DEFENSE FOR HER STUPIDITY AND WICKEDNESS. I MEAN, HOW CAN A GROWN WOMAN BE TOLD THAT AN OBVIOUS WRONG IS A WRONG, THEN SHE GOES ON TO CRY AND NAG IN PROTEST? WHAT IS HAPPENING, I THOUGHT WE ALL HAVE BRAINS UP THERE?? humblemikel: SOME WILL SERVE MAIDS OIL WHILE THEIR KIDS SIP JUICE. I WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND THE CAUSE FOR SUCH UNCHANGEABLE EVIL AMONG MOST NIGERIA WOMEN. AND THEY'RE ALL CHRISTIANS AND WIVES OF JESUS. 12 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by pesty100(m): 6:13pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Graxie:will you send the minor in question to School, feed and clothe her ? |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Lamasta(m): 6:14pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
OP pls don't allow your wife manipulate You cos she is the selfish and inconsiderate type. Let LOVE LEAD in your family both to yourself, wife, children, house help etc DON'T ACCEPT ANYTHING LESS Shalom |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by SEGLIZ: 6:14pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
AFONAMARO: so so nasty to the least. can't just imagine a human in his or her rightful sense would type such. 1 Like |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by stanisbaratheon: 6:15pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Despair... Terrible comment to say the least. Please try and have open mind before you react. TonyeBarcanista: |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by CAPSLOCKED: 6:17pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista: IF THIS WOMAN CAN BE ENVIOUS OF A 15 YEAR OLD CHILD, IMAGINE THE EVIL SHE WILL BE CAPABLE OF PLOTTING AGAINST HER EQUALS. AND YOU MY DEAR FRIEND IS A CONFUSED DRUNK. ALL RESPECT TO THE THREAD STARTER FOR THE PERFECT DUELY DESERVED DESCRIPTION OF HIS WIFE. SIR, YOU'RE MY MVP. 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by King44(m): 6:18pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Unique357:. You didn't over react but you have to help her see wrong in what she did, help the girl complete her edu she showed your children genuine love in this would were some people maltreat their bosses children behind their backs cos of the wrong done to them by the wives she deserves it Reading up what some people said name calling is not cool but for me no more house help in that house cos if she could accuse you of infidelity with her niece what would she accuse you of if it's a total stranger let her do the chores alone and don't take offense or sympathy as long as no help if she insists tell her the truth you don't want accusations that would make you get angry or set your family apart, she has trust issues But on a straight note most married women have same character no difference all the same |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by TemmyT002(m): 6:18pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
luminouz: Carry your wahala and go Fighting and keeping malice no be everything |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Graxie(f): 6:19pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
pesty100:Is she an Orphan? Common Christmas clothes the man is dropping 2k while the woman is even refusing to buy. What of her parents? If you need a domestic staff, hire matured one. Pay the person and stop looking for people to enslave. After all govt school is almost free. |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Nobody: 6:19pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
1Sharon:U are smart Nobody want to dissect the story as long as it's a woman and maid. Even the ladies here didn't see that the story didn't add up at all 1 Like |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by petitejolie(f): 6:20pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
I think u should take the girl back and bar ur wife from bringing any house help. Make she dey do all d work by herself Unique357: 1 Like |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by obinnawhyte(m): 6:20pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista: So what's your Point....she acted that way because she don't trust her husband or the househelp first as a human doesn't deserve Xmas like her and her kids or that the husband did wrong providing enough money to buy for everyone?. Frankly speaking what the woman did is an act of wickedness and it's really common in this part of the globe where househelp are made or expected to appear in rags and hungry |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by sayisayi(m): 6:21pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Oga, you did well... Your children are learning from you. Some women must learn by force... I would have cut her clothes sef! |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by shilz(f): 6:24pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista:and you think being wicked to a maid will stop a maid whose intention is to become second wife?or a man whose intention is to keep the maid as 2nd wife? |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by izubext007: 6:25pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Prevention Is Better Dan Cure. She Might Hav Seen D Futur. |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Theboss100(m): 6:27pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista:But u av already sentenced the man by saying he is choking his eye below the skirt. Hypocrites everywhere. Mtcheeeeeew |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by iamkingzlee(m): 6:28pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
My brother, you didn't over react abeg. |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by adaphic: 6:28pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
@ OP, YOU ARE A GOOD MAN....... GOD BLESS U FOR NOT DISCRIMINATING. IT'S PPL LIKE U THAT WILL MAKE HEAVEN. BUT UR WIFE.....SMH IT'S UNFORTUNATE. I HOPE SHE DOESN'T MOCK GOD BY GOING TO CHURCH EVERY SUNDAY. AND SHE IS A MOTHER #WEEPING #PAINFUL #HEARTLESS. I JOIN THOSE WHO SAY RETURN THE GIRL AND TRAIN HER FOR HER SAFETY. AS U SAID, FIRST SPEAK WITH UR MOTHER-INLAW WHO BROUGHT HER. I also have a maid whom my children love so much n I treat her like my child. EVERYTHING I do for my children I also do for my maid. If u have a maid who doesn't maltreat ur children in ur absence, then u are BLESSED. The LEAST U CAN DO IS TO APPRECIATE THE BLESSING. WICKEDNESS DOESN'T PAY. NO FURTHER COMMENT. |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by kowema(f): 6:28pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
tiredoflife: Aiswearugad!. I like this comment and it speaks a part of my mind on this issue. So his wife got about 5 cloths for their daughter, which has to be out of the budget he gave her. Then she had 2k for the house help. She probably didn't bother to spend it cus low key, just like her husband, dey don't mean to buy anything good for the help. I guess the wife didn't see the need too. 2K. Lol. 1 Like |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by obinnawhyte(m): 6:28pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista: That you sleep around with Teenagers doesn't mean every other sane men does. What makes you think the man is that kind of man will even want to look at a 30 years old lady let alone lust over a child of 15 years . Nobody deserves what the wife did,it's purely an act of wickedness from her. It's not like is new in this part of the globe where househelp are expected or made to appear dirty and rough in rags by their madams simply because they are not their kids 2 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by jaxxy(m): 6:29pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista: Seems people can’t have pure minds these days. What is wrong in being concerned about ur househelps upkeep? Do u know what that 15 year old gal can be 2moro? I believe in treating people like human beings and not look at them from one status or the other. What is wrong in getting a househelp clothes just like u did for ur kids especially during the Christmas period. This is not just any ordinary time so it’s normal for members of the household to expect gifts. Is the househelp under his care not a humanbeing? Or is she a lesser being? Since her parents are not there what is wrong in being a parent to her on Christmas? I for one support that man 100% and the stupid wife who imagined nonesense can imagine anything once she sees her hubby with other ladies also. Without losing focus of the issue at hand she is clearly wrong because the money was given to her for everyone’s clothings including the househelp. What she did is very wrong and deserves correcting. Period! |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Akpacha(m): 6:29pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista:the man carry him wife mater enter public, he should expect public lashing na! |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Mykel51(m): 6:29pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
ahiboilandgas: Good evening sir, I sent you an email. I want to make an enquiry Thanks |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by hustla(m): 6:31pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista: 2nd woman? a 15 year old? WOW! I don dey see your posts for NL and you no dey ever talk with sense Na this one come finally off me! 2 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Martinez39(m): 6:31pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
CAPSLOCKED:That is their usual manipulation tactic. When things go south due their bad decisions or they are confront over their silliness and wickedness, they pull this tactic or feign ignorance to avoid taking responsibility/being held accountable and/or to turn the tables on you. Funny enough, the wife feels justified and I am not surprised if the money meant to buy the maid's cloth in the wife's secret bank account — an account the husband doesn't even know of. The op's wife is using such tactic and has done so, successfully, with the op. Already she is angry and she didn't greet or cook for the op. What's worse is that the op has fallen for given that he is foolishly asking is he overreacted or did something wrong. Indeed, all men don't have sufficient intellect to handle simple things. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Advancedman(m): 6:31pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Unique357: For me o.... The girl is maid would you prefer that your own daughter is the maid All your accolade of the girl is right and you never said anything harsh, now you know you married a devil who thinks her status is by her prowess and look down on other. Please for the sake of your generation born and unborn send the girl back gently with better package exclusively from you, then let your wife resume her duty fully and if domestic staff is required employ professional and pay the fee let see if your wife can pay 100k or more. |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Martinez39(m): 6:33pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
hustla:Ignore TonyeBarcanista. She is not worth the effort. |
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