James39:
See the minimum and maximum should be 4.

I can't give birth to 1 boy and 1 gal.

That's my take. I don't care what others think.

if your parent were so careful not to go beyond 2 kids you won't be here typing this. I'm sure you are not the 1st neither the 2nd.

we are 10 in numbers and we are doing fine.

Kalashnikov102:
Make I park here first

erifeoluwasimi:
That one no vex me at all. The one way vex me pass be say they will see me and tease me"madam this your boy suppose don get younger one o" and evening time they will come and be begging me for cup of rice.
One was telling me that why will I go for family planning if I am not cheating on my husband.
Nigerians women especially need reorientation

uninspired07:


My broda, no be small thing ooo. The thing dey always wonder me. If na America now, it’s ok. But Nigeria? With its problem with a domineering North bristling with millions of Islamic terrorists? Why will any southerner want to have so many children in this kind of country? 1 or 2 kids is enough with a comprehensive plan to emigrate at the earliest opportunity.

Naija doesn’t have a future & it has failed already. She is just yet to slip into internecine war.

uninspired07:


Why can’t you stop at 2? Nigeria has changed radically from the time of our parents?

How do you know that I am not among the 1st two children of my parents?

Nigeria is just too failed a country to burden with overpopulation. I observe that people who give birth to many Children are always illiterate & stark poor. And they are not afraid of poverty do they hug it with gusto by having many children they can’t cater for.

NB: 10 Childern? That’s fantastic. I am sure your pops was doing fine back in the days to have been able to shoulder the responsibility.

justnock:
@uninspired07 na your type wife go end up giving birth to quadruplets.

TonyeBarcanista:
My brother, I am also wondering.

I only desire 2-3 kids.

James39:
do you think having 2kids keeps you away from the harsh economy? Or do you thinks its everyone with many kids that's poor? Me I just can't takeb2 children. Call me whatever you like. Its my life and my decision

Like I said as for me ooo either maximum or minimum its 4kids.

When you know how to play your cards well. You will understand my own point

uninspired07:


It’s your choice sha.

James39:
those poor parents with children everywhere like rats opted for it unknowingly it was ignorance at it peak.

In this information age, I have been enlightened.

but thanks man

OJODEL10:
the best thing is have the number of children you can care for . even caring for two children in this country of ours where a rubber of rice cost roughly N1000 . but come to think of it having many children is not a crime my parent gave birth to 6 of and we are doin fine does not mean you should do the same please think b4 you do.

yvelchstores:
This topic is very important. In all honesty, people should think more in this country. Truth is people don't think, they don't plan either, they just fall pregnant repeatedly and some regret but if you had no preventive measure on ground, what did you expect? If not for anything, for the sake of the quality of life those children will have to live with. Nigerians, be Pro thoughtful, think ahead and don't just fall into mistakes. Anyone who has too many children, I can't pity you. You made your bed, lie down well on it.

AwkaetitiBabe:
They say children are gift from God and hope unto him to provide

ezugegere:
Some people end up having more children than they planned for. So many children are conceived by mistake. If you have not had a child by mistake, don't just think you have stopped having kids. Family planning fails a lot in Nigeria, I don't know why.
For me, I've had my 3, and I'm praying seriously not to have more. Nigeria is one of the most difficult places in the world to be a parent