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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Sweeetheart(m): 12:35pm On Dec 30, 2019

Your story is sad and funny at the same time. My guy start looking for another girlfriend

A lady you're dating tell you someone is crushing and disturbing her, she asked for a permission to go out with him and you allowed her? What sort of dumbness is that. If I burst your brain that this lady have been chopping this guy dick nko! Will you believe it

A lady that truly love you will not grant any guy audience not to talk of bothered about the person disturbance. She's gone, she's just shy to breakup with you yet, so prepare for the worse

While you await the total dissolution, do send forth for her in the oza room because you might not have the privilege again in few weeks to come. I can't settle with non virgin, I use to tell guys this

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Divay22(f): 12:36pm On Dec 30, 2019

Gforce2015:
I have been in your shoe. My Broda, it's not easy not to get money when you are dating a girl.
My ex-gf saw this guy that works in NNPC she dumped me. At the first , i trusted her since we are both committed Christian but when her sisters and parents advice her to go for NNPC guy, she called me one day and told me emphatically that she will marry the NNPC guy. Now they are happily married with kids.
My Broda, you can get the best of ladies if you have the money.....go and Hussle and stop disturbing yourself on relationship that her mind might not be with you as before. A word is enough for a wise .

Go and Hussle...

She's happily married now to the guy with great kids.
Let's talk about you. How far have you gone with your life?

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by LoudlyMouthed: 12:36pm On Dec 30, 2019

Talkwisdom:
Don't ever,I repeat, don't ever force love on a woman.

I agree with you Bro.

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by onadana: 12:38pm On Dec 30, 2019

ednut1:
Hustle and forget woman for now. Can you train her in school No use ya own spoil another man own. U can turn her to side chick

I wonder ooo.Had this beautiful chic,by Nigerian standard I am well off but Bob,the pressure she faces from guys daily is so terrifying. I did the needful,gave her a very handsome baby boy,to solidify my status

Nobody dey tell blind man say rain dey fall.

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by fujirice: 12:39pm On Dec 30, 2019

Biko, what did you people suffer in 6 months?
Just let her go already and focus on your career. You will definitely find a better one.

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by frozen70(f): 12:40pm On Dec 30, 2019

Brunosamel:
Hello guys, I have been worried about this issue.
I just graduated recently and am at the peak of my career trying to shape up my life for the better future with my girlfriend, someone that I have been dating for the past 6 months.

We have so much in common and built our relationships with love and trust. The journey wasn't easy but we were able to settle our differences and understand each other.

Recently she met a childhood friend whom she had a crush on when growing up, but the guy never asked her asked to be his girlfriend never said anything to her cuz he saw her as a small girl then.

The guy is into business and has quite established himself. Last 2 months the guy asked her out and she told me about it cuz she needed my permission whether she should go or not and I said okay she can but it will only be first and last time she will go out with him.

To cut the story short, last night I called her line and she was on another call for more that 30 minutes. I confronted her about it and she started crying, was begging me that she was sorry and that the guy is really disturbing her, asking her to give him a chance, to the extent that she should leave me for him, he will give her anytime and even train in the university.

She told the guy she can't leave her boyfriend becuz she loves me so much. I was dumbfounded and I don't even know what to do about it cuz I don't have the resources (money) at this moment

Relationships gurus what do you think about my situation I need your opinion and suggestions cuz I love this girl so much and want to settle down with her cuz she suffered with me and I suffered with her.

Say whatever you want to but just be brutally honest with me....

Prepare your mind to loose her

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Finchmgh: 12:40pm On Dec 30, 2019

Do we still have something called love?

My guy take tramadol and you will see girls and sex as shit...you will be in control of your emotions and no girl , I repeat no girl will ever play with your head because of sex.

Once you are on tramadol, your sexual urge will collapse and you will be in a state of euphoria and optimum joy.

Girls will be the ones rushing after you. This is not a story but a real fact and exactly what I am currently experiencing.

Bleep love.

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:41pm On Dec 30, 2019

Wolgrace:
What if I tell you that Satan might be using you as a weapon of delaying and stealing her blessing through your lustful relationship with her? And are you sure she is your destined future partner? If not, better release her. WIFE, NOT GIRLFRIEND, IS A PROPERTY. If you love a bird, free it. If its truly yours, it will come back. UNLESS YOU PUT RING IN HER FINGER AND PAY HER BRIDE PRICE, SHE'S NOT YOURS. Free yourself bro, no dey cage yourself. Growing and mature golden fishes still plenty for water.

He did not tie the girl na, which one be release her?
Op, your girl should make her choice, it's either you or the rich guy. Anything she choose, just accept it and move on.

Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Rilwayne001: 12:43pm On Dec 30, 2019

Brunosamel:
.

The guy is into business and has quite established himself. Last 2 months the guy asked her out and she told me about it cuz she needed my permission whether she should go or not and I said okay she can but it will only be first and last time she will go out with him....

There's this girl in my class that likes me. Just normal likeness, nothing attached. During the holiday, she had told me she would take me out when we resume. When we eventually resumed, she asked when I would be ready and when I told her, we planned the outing. When we eventually got there, the first thing she told me was that, her boyfriend wants to speak with me. Then, she called her boyfriend and gave the phone to me. Then that one starts asking, how am I to the girl.. What class am I.. Blah bla bla like that grin

we eventually settled and i gave the phone back the the girl.

The guy felt insecure that his girlfriend is going out with another guy and I think it's good. I had no soft spot for the girl in the first place, just normal friendship but if I had, it would have waned off the moment I spoke with the guy.

I learnt as a guy, if you want to keep that beautiful and loyal girl, that you feel is in consonance with your future, it's always good to be territorial in all ramifications. Don't ever give in for any guy to come near her, else, you'll lose her at the end in a very painful way.

As regards OP, just watch see and more priorities your career more than her. If she likes you, she'll wait, if not, she'll go with the guy, and then you know she was never meant for you.

Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:43pm On Dec 30, 2019

DenreleDave:
Chai very painful.. Calling ur babe and she is on another call for like 30 mins or 1 hours na to just mad remain

Bros, that thing dey pain ehn. I nor go lie give you.
Wetin you dey talk with person wey nor be your guy for 30 minutes+ ?

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by shilz(f): 12:44pm On Dec 30, 2019

She is already dating the guy.

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:44pm On Dec 30, 2019

Brunosamel:
Hello guys, I have been worried about this issue.
I just graduated recently and am at the peak of my career trying to shape up my life for the better future with my girlfriend, someone that I have been dating for the past 6 months.

We have so much in common and built our relationships with love and trust. The journey wasn't easy but we were able to settle our differences and understand each other.

Recently she met a childhood friend whom she had a crush on when growing up, but the guy never asked her asked to be his girlfriend never said anything to her cuz he saw her as a small girl then.

The guy is into business and has quite established himself. Last 2 months the guy asked her out and she told me about it cuz she needed my permission whether she should go or not and I said okay she can but it will only be first and last time she will go out with him.

To cut the story short, last night I called her line and she was on another call for more that 30 minutes. I confronted her about it and she started crying, was begging me that she was sorry and that the guy is really disturbing her, asking her to give him a chance, to the extent that she should leave me for him, he will give her anytime and even train in the university.

She told the guy she can't leave her boyfriend becuz she loves me so much. I was dumbfounded and I don't even know what to do about it cuz I don't have the resources (money) at this moment

Relationships gurus what do you think about my situation I need your opinion and suggestions cuz I love this girl so much and want to settle down with her cuz she suffered with me and I suffered with her.

Say whatever you want to but just be brutally honest with me....

She is interested in the new guy. Kindly go elsewhere my guy or a girl will drag you down financially.

Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by odogwu9(m): 12:44pm On Dec 30, 2019

Brunosamel:
Hello guys, I have been worried about this issue.
I just graduated recently and am at the peak of my career trying to shape up my life for the better future with my girlfriend, someone that I have been dating for the past 6 months.

We have so much in common and built our relationships with love and trust. The journey wasn't easy but we were able to settle our differences and understand each other.

Recently she met a childhood friend whom she had a crush on when growing up, but the guy never asked her asked to be his girlfriend never said anything to her cuz he saw her as a small girl then.

The guy is into business and has quite established himself. Last 2 months the guy asked her out and she told me about it cuz she needed my permission whether she should go or not and I said okay she can but it will only be first and last time she will go out with him.

To cut the story short, last night I called her line and she was on another call for more that 30 minutes. I confronted her about it and she started crying, was begging me that she was sorry and that the guy is really disturbing her, asking her to give him a chance, to the extent that she should leave me for him, he will give her anytime and even train in the university.

She told the guy she can't leave her boyfriend becuz she loves me so much. I was dumbfounded and I don't even know what to do about it cuz I don't have the resources (money) at this moment

Relationships gurus what do you think about my situation I need your opinion and suggestions cuz I love this girl so much and want to settle down with her cuz she suffered with me and I suffered with her.

Say whatever you want to but just be brutally honest with me....

You actually agreed to let your gf go out with another guy..soon u will sign the knacking papers and the guy will be knacking your gf..well, ur relationship with that girl is over.. Cry or no cry..u have paved the way for a break up..The idea and tots that there is a man willing to pay for academic expenses will keep running through her mind..you don't having the financial capacity to do what that dude has promised..she will definitely leave with or without ur consent ..because u having set the ball rolling.. I suggest u let her go now. It will be easier to let her go than for her to go behind u and do the inevitable.. Focus on being a more financially stable man by building ur career like you said...u will meet other women when you more settled ..And never agree to let your gf go on a date with another guy. Who does that..are u a learner.. Is she now footballer you can loan to another club on a season long loan

Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:46pm On Dec 30, 2019

Hustle o, make rich man nor come collect babe for your hand.

Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by emerged01(m): 12:48pm On Dec 30, 2019

Oga there is no relationship guru anywhere. We are all facing different issues in different relationship at different time. No one relationship here is perfect. Don’t let anyone thinks he has better advice for you,just follow your heart.
The best advice you can get is from that tiny still voice inside you. Once you are able to hear,listen and obey that voice you will always overcome issue like this in a relationship. Na disaster if you let your own desire,lust silent that still voice.

Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Alinso(m): 12:48pm On Dec 30, 2019

True love sometime will stay

Anyway, this is what POVERTY cause

Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:49pm On Dec 30, 2019

daddytime:
Go after another man's girlfriend too.

Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by SocialJustice: 12:49pm On Dec 30, 2019

Talkwisdom:
Bro,Don't bother yourself about girls,talk some sense into her the little you can and allow her make her choice.
Don't ever,I repeat, don't ever force love on a woman.

Case closed. The wise should read and understand.

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by sgtponzihater1(m): 12:50pm On Dec 30, 2019

Brunosamel:
Hello guys, I have been worried about this issue.
I just graduated recently and am at the peak of my career trying to shape up my life for the better future with my girlfriend, someone that I have been dating for the past 6 months.

We have so much in common and built our relationships with love and trust. The journey wasn't easy but we were able to settle our differences and understand each other.

Recently she met a childhood friend whom she had a crush on when growing up, but the guy never asked her asked to be his girlfriend never said anything to her cuz he saw her as a small girl then.

The guy is into business and has quite established himself. Last 2 months the guy asked her out and she told me about it cuz she needed my permission whether she should go or not and I said okay she can but it will only be first and last time she will go out with him.

To cut the story short, last night I called her line and she was on another call for more that 30 minutes. I confronted her about it and she started crying, was begging me that she was sorry and that the guy is really disturbing her, asking her to give him a chance, to the extent that she should leave me for him, he will give her anytime and even train in the university.

She told the guy she can't leave her boyfriend becuz she loves me so much. I was dumbfounded and I don't even know what to do about it cuz I don't have the resources (money) at this moment

Relationships gurus what do you think about my situation I need your opinion and suggestions cuz I love this girl so much and want to settle down with her cuz she suffered with me and I suffered with her.

Say whatever you want to but just be brutally honest with me....

How can you be at the peak of your career and still have no money. Clarify this statement.

About women, none isindispensable, you mostly do better without them speaking from personal experience.

Cheers

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by insperyadyou: 12:51pm On Dec 30, 2019

But somebody at the peak of his career as you said, should be buoyant financially. Why the complain?

Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by BlackPantherCri: 12:51pm On Dec 30, 2019

Brunosamel:
Hello guys, I have been worried about this issue.
I just graduated recently and am at the peak of my career trying to shape up my life for the better future with my girlfriend, someone that I have been dating for the past 6 months.

We have so much in common and built our relationships with love and trust. The journey wasn't easy but we were able to settle our differences and understand each other.

Recently she met a childhood friend whom she had a crush on when growing up, but the guy never asked her asked to be his girlfriend never said anything to her cuz he saw her as a small girl then.

The guy is into business and has quite established himself. Last 2 months the guy asked her out and she told me about it cuz she needed my permission whether she should go or not and I said okay she can but it will only be first and last time she will go out with him.

To cut the story short, last night I called her line and she was on another call for more that 30 minutes. I confronted her about it and she started crying, was begging me that she was sorry and that the guy is really disturbing her, asking her to give him a chance, to the extent that she should leave me for him, he will give her anytime and even train in the university.

She told the guy she can't leave her boyfriend becuz she loves me so much. I was dumbfounded and I don't even know what to do about it cuz I don't have the resources (money) at this moment

Relationships gurus what do you think about my situation I need your opinion and suggestions cuz I love this girl so much and want to settle down with her cuz she suffered with me and I suffered with her.

Say whatever you want to but just be brutally honest with me....

Your girlfriend na mumu.

Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by enemyofprogress: 12:53pm On Dec 30, 2019

Op shut the fok up, he is just your girlfriend and not your wife, she is still in on the shelf for anybody to pick. The relationship is just six months old, no be person drop the babe before you met her?abi na your tear her leather? Bloody coward!

Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by VicM6: 12:53pm On Dec 30, 2019

This op no get brain again fah...he is totally confused about life.... i thought it was 6yrs nt until i saw 6months.... 6 months nd he is saying the girl suffered with him nd he does too...... wahala dey Nigeria o. better go hustle make u no stand dey see anoda guy bang ur woman.

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by onadana: 12:56pm On Dec 30, 2019

Finchmgh:
Do we still have something called love?

My guy take tramadol and you will see girls and sex as shit...you will be in control of your emotions and no girl , I repeat no girl will ever play with your head because of sex.

Once you are on tramadol, your sexual urge will collapse and you will be in a state of euphoria and optimum joy.

Girls will be the ones rushing after you. This is not a story but a real fact and exactly what I am currently experiencing.

Bleep love.

The euphoria that will ultimately destroy you and turn you into a junky unless you turn from this evil habit. Brave men and women face life squarely. Our experiences positive or negative shapes our lives.

Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by enemyofprogress: 12:56pm On Dec 30, 2019

VicM6:
This op no get brain again fah...he is totally confused about life.... i thought it was 6yrs nt until i saw 6months.... 6 months nd he is saying the girl suffered with him nd he does too...... wahala dey Nigeria o. better go hustle make u no stand dey see anoda guy bang ur woman.

don't mind him.

Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by backbone503(m): 12:56pm On Dec 30, 2019

What if she loves the other guy more? Try suppress your emotional attachment to her, and give a little time, space and freedom to decide what she feels is best for her. Love is sweetest when both parties have personal unalloyed convictions to be together. That way, you worry less about distractions.

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by OmoOduduwa01: 12:56pm On Dec 30, 2019

Olowo fe gbayawo ole huh

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:58pm On Dec 30, 2019

Never trust a who.re Olosho issa goal

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by ForkDragnet: 1:00pm On Dec 30, 2019

soberdrunk:
hahahhaha!!! You want to drag woman with a "deep pocket" man!!?? Why do you want to complicate your life? Isn't it obvious enough that she has already started a relationship with the other guy? Do you need 30mins to say "No"??

WORD

Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Banky16(m): 1:01pm On Dec 30, 2019

Oga if the girl wants to leave let her leave. Then go make money. There ladies out there Wen u ready to settle down.

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Moneyboyz: 1:02pm On Dec 30, 2019

post=85324962:
Lol, give her belle already

Na wetin make me baby daddy and a married man today be that, I spent close to 400k on her already then she got involved with some very bad olosho friends.. na so attitude start, without thinking twice I give am Belle.

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by amadiwati(m): 1:05pm On Dec 30, 2019

Forget the cliché. "Whatever will be will be". Fight to keep your woman. Let her know from your actions that you can't afford loose to another man.

The thing is, there will always be someone wanting for her. even married ladies are victim of this.

However, it doesn't mean you should be stupid. If you see doubt from her l, baba, let be and keep your house in others to move on.

Brunosamel:
Hello guys, I have been worried about this issue.
I just graduated recently and am at the peak of my career trying to shape up my life for the better future with my girlfriend, someone that I have been dating for the past 6 months.

We have so much in common and built our relationships with love and trust. The journey wasn't easy but we were able to settle our differences and understand each other.

Recently she met a childhood friend whom she had a crush on when growing up, but the guy never asked her asked to be his girlfriend never said anything to her cuz he saw her as a small girl then.

The guy is into business and has quite established himself. Last 2 months the guy asked her out and she told me about it cuz she needed my permission whether she should go or not and I said okay she can but it will only be first and last time she will go out with him.

To cut the story short, last night I called her line and she was on another call for more that 30 minutes. I confronted her about it and she started crying, was begging me that she was sorry and that the guy is really disturbing her, asking her to give him a chance, to the extent that she should leave me for him, he will give her anytime and even train in the university.

She told the guy she can't leave her boyfriend becuz she loves me so much. I was dumbfounded and I don't even know what to do about it cuz I don't have the resources (money) at this moment

Relationships gurus what do you think about my situation I need your opinion and suggestions cuz I love this girl so much and want to settle down with her cuz she suffered with me and I suffered with her.

Say whatever you want to but just be brutally honest with me....

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