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Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? / Lady Who Said "I Can't Marry Man That Earns N100k Monthly" Caught Begging N50k / I Can't Date Any Lady That Earns Less Than N200K - Nigerian Man (2) (3) (4)
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Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Kendroid: 5:31pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
lilwetdick:oga a man with vision is heading somewhere. it doesn't matter where he is today. Some years back, my cousin sister got pregnant for one particular man she strongly believes in his vision and dreams. all efforts made to abort the baby cos of the status of the man as at that time proved abortive. today, guess what? the man is a former 2 time house member of one of the Eastern states. money na take chop now! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by lebron7(m): 5:31pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
funmisticqueen:And this is a rich speech If your father was not broke he would be able to buy everything you want in life and you would not be looking for a "rich guy" 3 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Nobody: 5:31pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Expert17: she is a young princess with masters degree..she isnt average..she works too but i know you cant take care of her..so no need. |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by BluntBoy(m): 5:32pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
uninspired07: What are you saying? If 100k is not enough, then nothing else can be enough. 100k is enough. What really is marriage sef Is it that capital intensive? If you can't keep a marriage with 100k, then you can't keep a marriage even with 1 billion naira. If the 100k is stable, and you live in a modest neighborhood, 100k is just enough. The truth is many people continue to put off marriage (even they want to get married) because they are scared to start. They want 200k. They start earning 200k but it is still not enough. They earn 300k but it is still not enough. In their mind, they will be like "Maybe, I should just wait till it is 500k". Marriages can be just the right thing to make you even more focus. 3 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Dextre(m): 5:32pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
[quote author=uninspired07 post=85352965]Regardless of the attitude of our women, I think a man earning 100k doesn’t have any business with marriage, let alone 30k. If any guy earning 30k comes to my family asking for my sister’s hand in marriage, it’s pepper water I will use to pursue him. pepper water. As in 30k o. |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by deleo16(m): 5:33pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
BluntBoy:well said 1 Like |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Pwettyella(f): 5:34pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Bahddo:U r getting it wrong A woman with a vision and goal can marry a man with vision and goals But starting with a 30k income? It's not a good start 1 Like |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Gandollaar(f): 5:34pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
lilwetdick:Mahn! You are sound. Respect! |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Nobody: 5:35pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Pro2makx: that is you and the man problem wetin concern me every man for himself..continue wailing and crying for the man did he send you. |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by lucky4west: 5:35pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
anybody who says their sister or daughter cannot marry a man who earns 30k and if their refusal is solely based on the guys income are really short sighted and low minded about life...then their daughter and sister too is not fit to marry any guy they (girls) are not earning above 30k too! chikena |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Fxwarrior: 5:35pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
lilwetdick: You are talking as if you live in space. They can start with self con then rent a 2 bedroom flat later on. If the man earns #30 000 and wife earns #45 000. Its #75 000 monthly which will carry them comfortably provided there's love and understanding. Its better to soak garri where there's peace than to eat chicken not knowing where and when the next slap will come from. |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Expert17: 5:36pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
[quote author=Adurabledamsel post=85352987][/quote] Dats y i say , DNT marry a lazy man.... Try to understand fast |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by shamsin6300(m): 5:36pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
lilwetdick: Vision & Focus? I bliv u re born with silver spoon so I wnt belame u. Vision ko Focus ni |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by lebron7(m): 5:37pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
lilwetdick:Nigger!!! |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by uninspired07: 5:37pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
BluntBoy: How many women will agree to marry you with a 100k salary in Lagos, Nigeria? Unless of course you want to keep petting & begging a woman to be with you for the rest of the marriage. Marriage will manageable for a family in Lagos, Nigeria if the man earns from 250 and above & they plan well. Anything else will be a struggle if you marry a normal Lagos girl. Unless you want to import a wife from the village. |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by firo08(m): 5:38pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
lilwetdick:There are people out there without a job but they have a family. Bro you are not God and if your sister insist on marrying a man she loves 50 of you can't stop her so stop being rational. |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by lebron7(m): 5:39pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
olabrinks:But I'm sure you are part of the bandwagon of goats that will be shouting feminism up and down. How much do u earn 1 Like |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by uninspired07: 5:40pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Fxwarrior: And that’s where you are getting it wrong!!! Where are the women who have love & understanding? Is it these women who have been brainwashed by social media to see salary earning guys as lazy? Nigerian women only respect yahoo guys or guys that work in Oil company. And that’s why I advice that guys should forget about chasing women until they have enough money to engage in the modern dating game. You think it’s easy using your hard earned money to chase a Nigerian soma with all the insults? Abeg, make una free these girls jaree. 2 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Pro2makx(m): 5:42pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
lilwetdick: Obviously, you are sick. And I am sure you will learn your lesson shortly. BTW, when are you auctioning your sister and how much? Make we come price her. Particularly, I would like to buy her to help end your family poverty, since it's like you are bent on making it in life through her marriage. Puke 4 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Nobody: 5:42pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
joyandfaith: so every man working in nnpc alway die or what 1 Like |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Gandollaar(f): 5:43pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
ChieduJoshua081:I'm sorry to come in, this place is not a familiar turf. I just wanted to add that they are free to marry, as long as they won't become a burden to FAF. After marriage, they would also have kids. What I'm saying is that, if one party is earning 30k, the other party must be someone who earns a 100k. If it's the guy who earns the 30k in this marriage, woe betide him. 2 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Nobody: 5:44pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Mgbadike80:Fertility issue is not certain.. Stop scaring people jo... Poverty is a disease!!! |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by UDOKABESTLUV(m): 5:44pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
How I wish I'm a girl, I will marry a guy who earn 15k per month, wetin happen to my own hand, God give me two hands to go and hustle for money, so that I will support My Man.... Money Is Not Everything Guys.... But thank God I'm a Guy, I'm not a lady. |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Nobody: 5:45pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
This post is making me very very angry. Too many average people throwing their free and cheap opinions all over the place. Nigerian is a place of too many small minds and sharp mouths full of organised stupid opinions. And it's not just about this post but a mentality and I am beginning to hate the young souls in this country. 1 Like |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Benbobola(m): 5:45pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Got married 8 months ago while i was teaching earning 29,700. 6 months after, got me a job that pays more than 5x. And i still have bigger career aspirations. My wife is my inspiration to do better and be better. Ladies, Just find yourself a man that has dreams and not afraid to go after them to be successful 5 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Nobody: 5:46pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Pro2makx: i love my sickness abeg, bro there is no lesson you can teach me, whatever you like say..life is not about self pity there is no price on her but even if we put price can you afford her..that is the problem, wont you get broke 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by habeesola(f): 5:46pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Let's be realistic 30k is a small amount of money you can live on even without kids. But there are people who does not earn up to that with more than 2 children but they are not comfortable. For me as long as the woman has a way of supporting the man, I mean ( source of income) they are good to go but without that, it's a no go area. 4 Likes |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by missyblissy: 5:48pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Well, money is. Important but its not the most important criteria for me when I got married to my husband. How much was he earning, 60k and mine was 80k but within a year he changed his job and was earning 250k then I changed my job was my salsry increased to 120k. He had nothing then. Just a bed, TV that's all and was staying with his brother. I have a principle, I don't depend on a man's money. I have my own money and can do whatever I want with it. I married cos I love him and he's different. I am so happy with my choice cos if I had missed him, whala for dey ooooo. He doesn't joke with me at all and I him too. Please ladies money is not everything. If you know your man has potential please stay with him. The constant thing in life is CHANGE. He will not remain same forever ooooo. Shine your eyes ooooo. Money can never buy happiness!!!! A lady says he wants a man that drive a good car and has 4 bedroom apartment and has a good paying job. I told her to cave the man and ask God to bring him down to her. Shes till single 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Fxwarrior: 5:49pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
RisenPhoenix: Do you know that you are wicked? |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by lebron7(m): 5:49pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Savagethe21st:Yo!! Pm 1 Like |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Nobody: 5:50pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
Gandollaar:Get away from me |
Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Benbobola(m): 5:50pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
lilwetdick: I got married earning 29,700. My FIL knew. He had faith in me to be more and to do more. Now i earn more than 5x in just 6 months |
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