dangotesmummy:
helooo please think again.

He cheated initially,she forgave him,she cheated,he can't forgive?

Of what use is marriage without forgiveness.so it's only 1 party that should be doing the forgiveness? Mshewwwww

Miss bride Go and thank God for making you escape a bullet.england or no England, you didn't enter into a life of regret and only you in the marriage.thank God.you don't know how God has delivered your body and soul from destruction

Moreover if it's England that is paining you, you can tell your parents to sponsor your trip to England

It shows she was about to enter a marriage where the man will show only conditional love (,traits of a narcisst) as if he's perfect and not guilty of the Same thing he cannot forgive his wife for

Yes, the man cheated but that's when they were just bf and GF SHE LITERALLY SLEPT WITH HIS FRIEND TWO MONTHS TO THE WEDDING!!!


What she did was unforgivable and the man was right to do what he did

Jodha:


Is it by nairaland threads ?...
Only few women cheat ....women are not cheaters in nature..
Only few women are overly sexually active....

Men are sexual being and are never satisfied that's why they always cheat...
According to statistics 80 out of 100 men cheat...
For women only 30% out of 100 cheat..

Plus most women cheat because of the terrible experiences they've had from men..

An example of how women lie shamelessly.

Where did you get these "statistics" from?

Do you even know what the word "statistic" means?

eni4real:
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AfroKnight:










First of all, Thunder faya the woman who wrote this story.

That done, I’d love to salute the young man for refusing to be joined in Holy Matrimony with someone who betrayed his trust, and kept quiet about it, planning to sneak into the marriage with such a vile secret. He has done well. Money is not his problem that’s why he didn’t call the engagement off much sooner.

Let the entire clan behold the hôe they were billing the young man for. Is she worth the yams and kegs of palm wine? You people should be grateful the guy still went ahead with the arrangement up to this point. You can entertain yourselves with the gifts. New year party is in full swing wherever the guy is. I wish I could send him a bottle of fine wine to celebrate the new year.



A king!

The greatest thing a man might find it hard to forgive is a cheating wife

I stand with the man

dangotesmummy:
the bride just unknowingly walked out of a disaster and instead of her to be celebrating and thanking God,she's Wailing.the man cheated on you too and you forgave him but when you did the same thing he wasn't ready to forgive you and the next thing is to be lamenting?


O puleaseee wipe your tears and thank God you didn't marry an unforgiving man that will be plotting to disgrace you on your day of celebration

Subjecting her to such public disgrace is what I don't understand

dangotesmummy:
the bride just unknowingly walked out of a disaster and instead of her to be celebrating and thanking God,she's Wailing.the man cheated on you too and you forgave him but when you did the same thing he wasn't ready to forgive you and the next thing is to be lamenting?


O puleaseee wipe your tears and thank God you didn't marry an unforgiving man that will be plotting to disgrace you on your day of celebration

What's this one saying? You wanna compare a woman getting flogged heartlessly by anoda seek, getting her ass spanked and having anoda deek down her throat and having cum poured on her boobs with a man?? Can you live with such an image forever with a wife? Bro think.

DrayZee:



An example of how women lie shamelessly. Where did you get these statistics from?

We're supposed to lie shamefully ABI?

Oga park well...

Google is always yhur friend..

Redeakaa:
Dawn....

So you mean all the rice and chicken ain't gonna be served.....

some men will still have to eat it. The rice and drinks are even sweeter in cases like this.

No blame the man na, why should people go berserk because he made a wise decision.

Redeakaa:
Dawn....

So you mean all the and chicken ain't gonna be served.....

It will still be eaten, served or otherwise.

Jodha:



Lool....Noted

Don't tell anyone

Situation001:
Shocking details posted on Facebook

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I don't understand, why are you crying more than the bereaved?

Oh, so you wanted him to go ahead and marry a lady that got herself drunk and prostituted" with her friend abi? Kwantinu!!;


And what made you think she wouldn't get drunk after marriage and be fcked again.

A who.re will always be a who.re.

And stop defending an olosho, except, according to the saying. "Birds of feathers"

Infact am beginning to suspect, the lady is either your sister. Or probably, you're the one that whor.red her.

Infact the guy is the real MVP.

Jodha:


Is it by nairaland threads ?...
Only few women cheat ....women are not cheaters in nature..
Only few women are overly sexually active....

Men are sexual being and are never satisfied that's why they always cheat...
According to statistics 80 out of 100 men cheat...
For women only 30% out of 100 cheat..

Plus most women cheat because of the terrible experiences they've had from men..

Lol. That must be the biggest gender myth ever to hit the web. Care to substantiate your statistics?

Men may be sexual beings, but the vast majority are satisfied when their wives do not weaponize sex by witholding it when they are not given things. To a man, an orgasm is an orgasm.

Woman are the true cheats because they are true slaves to their desires; material and emotional. They may not always cheat just because they like sex, true, and they can do without sex if they want to; largely because they don't like throwing it away for free. But they can cheat for dozens of other reasons; from pecuniary benefits to the thrill of being wanted and an inability to say "no" when they should. And women hide their cheating much better.

Jodha:


Why do people cheat sef.... if yhure not comfortable with yhur partner....

Take a bow and leave nah....Shu o

"He cheated on her and she forgave him"
....yeye dey smell...

Men are just...

Babe men don’t cheat. Only women does. You better learn.

This is partly wrong because in order to shame the girl, dude wasted the time and resources of both families as well as dragging them into what he should have settled with girl a long time ago.

I can understand from the dude’s view of having (pictorial) evidence of your fiancée cheating for two months while she pretends nothing is wrong. It’s heartbreaking.

Anybody that shows remorse after been caught for an/ or in an act is not truly remorseful.

If she was remorseful, she should have told the dude about the act immediately after it happened.

Dude is wrong for waiting this long before breaking it up. He should have saved everybody the embarrassment and done it quietly.

For cheating unconsciously, the girl doesn’t deserve this kinda treatment.

healthserve:




Subjecting her to such public disgrace is what I don't understand

Serves her right IMHO, I think the family is worried because they have eaten the bride price, they ought to be ashamed of raising a prostitutte and trying to sell her off to an innocent man. Now before you throw tantrums its just my opinion.

Redeakaa:
Dawn....

So you mean all the rice and chicken ain't gonna be served.....

This made my year

theButterfly:
Hmmm, so he had also cheated but couldn't forgive her like she did him? Talk about a vindictive hypocrite.

That’s because a man having a side chick is not called cheating. Only women cheats. For men it’s normal.

Maybe the headline should be "Husband-to-be" instead of husband since he cancelled it a day before the marriage.

Jodha:



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Obligations

Good for both of them.

Shebi when I was kicking against a woman drinking, some people attacked me saying it doesn't make the woman useless or misbehave that it doesn't affect her in anyways. Thats one.

Secondly, when I say kick against premarital sex , some came for my head saying its a normal thing, no biggies, I'm a pretender bla bla bla...
You meet a celibate, you dump her and go to the one who sees it as normal to open her legs in every relationship. Now she see it as a norm and its easy for her to do it with another guy, youll begin to form " she cheated" craze dey worry all of una. Like begat like.
Whatever you see as a norm will continue to be a norm inside and outside marriage.
Learn to take a stand and frown at immorality and you'll attract the right kind of people.
As long as he still engages in premarital sex, he will continue to come across promiscuous girls. I wonder how many he'll dump.

Law of nature go dey merge una with una type. Amen.

For those who say a woman can drink and still be in her right senses, make una kwantinu.
Mention me at your own peril.

Generation of immorality.

dangotesmummy:
helooo please think again.

He cheated initially,she forgave him,she cheated,he can't forgive?

Of what use is marriage without forgiveness.so it's only 1 party that should be doing the forgiveness? Mshewwwww

Miss bride Go and thank God for making you escape a bullet.england or no England, you didn't enter into a life of regret and only you in the marriage.thank God.you don't know how God has delivered your body and soul from destruction

Moreover if it's England that is paining you, you can tell your parents to sponsor your trip to England

It shows she was about to enter a marriage where the man will show only conditional love (,traits of a narcisst) as if he's perfect and not guilty of the Same thing he cannot forgive his wife for

Supposing he indeed cheated on her and she forgave him, is that now a reason for her to cheat on him?

So, he should have forgiven her and then gone and cheated on her again and she forgives and she cheats and he forgives.

Is that how you run a relationship?

Women. Don't sweat it at all. Its not worth the effort. Local man is in the blistering cold across the atlantic chasing pounds and sending in money for the wedding and local girl has just other ideas.

Normally, ladies on Nairaland would support the cheating lady but today, while some foolish ones are blaming the man and pouring out their frustration on all men, a few wise ones are on the side of the man.

As for the idiot who wrote this piece, may all your brothers be cheated on 2 months to their wedding.

E ma wo weyrey that is blaming the guy

Jodha:


We're supposed to lie shamefully ABI?

Oga park well...

Google is always yhur friend..

Stop defending your lies and think. Then you'll realise the load of bullcrap you wrote.

seangy4konji:
She will never co fess on her own if not caught. Its always the first time. Just like after dating mine for many years only to remember her iPhone password one night and read her messages. My heart sunk...she could not say it was first time cos I read it all..

When they get caught its the first time.

Thank God for your life sir... If ladies are not satisfied for what ever reason they should voice it abeg...

AmuDimpka:




The greatest thing a man might find it hard to forgive is a cheating wife

I stand with the man

Well said sir. Well said.

Fastestmanalive:



Yes, the man cheated but that's when they were just bf and GF SHE LITERALLY SLEPT WITH HIS FRIEND TWO MONTHS TO THE WEDDING!!!


What she did was unforgivable and the man was right to do what he did

what she did was unforgivable but she forgave the man of the Same offence.how many times do we offend God.is he perfect? Abeg joor

There's nothing worse than being in a marriage alone.she should thank God because that man Will be cheating on her cold-bloodedly, will be unforgiving, malicious and spiteful

Sometimes when God changes out plans we think we are being short-changed or embarrassed not knowing God is rescuing us from the consequences of our ignorance or foolish decisions

Madam bride if you marry na only you go dey for the marriage, nobody go follow you live for house and even if they live with you one day they'll live so it's better to suffer temporary disappointment than everlasting embarrassment or what's the use of marrying a man you will be walking on eggshells with around the house or you won't know what move he's making to bring you to disrepute

Jodha:


See as yhu dey proudly generalize ....Asif men don't cheat...

Asif y'all are saints....

What about men that cheat?

I’ve been quoting this thing since so you girls will understand the basics of relationships. Men Don’t Cheat. Only women does. Men only have side chicks or concubines. Men Don’t Cheat.

quentin06:


Serves her right IMHO, I think the family is worried because they have eaten the bride price, they ought to be ashamed of raising a prostitutte and trying to sell her off to an innocent man. Now before you throw tantrums its just my opinion.

If it's your opinion why involve me with it. You're just a hungry chipmunk that escaped the zoo truck. Eediot. Anadioha destroy the screen of that your yeye itel phone blind. Osu

a true Legend we need men like this.