Jeferious:
No long speech. The future is here with us.

Rebelworld:


If a woman does not have a very steady income or is financially stable, she should not think of men or marriage!

victorian:








What my exes did is a story for another day.

My criticism about guys not giving is for their own good, not mine.
A giver never lacks, that's why I mention I can help a broke guy with money or stuffs, as in dash but don't dare turn round in trying to woo me . You won't have me as maga don pay. I'm not that dumb.

Anyways Thank God I'm dating a successful humble guy who is wise and knows the kind of woman to spend on. He's a wise guy and a young man for that matter sef.

Anyways it's well, have to go.

See ya!

Telemon:
Nice. mean while how much. do u pay your workers?

Lightangel65:
I see different posts on Nairaland about girls not wanting to date or marry broke guys, you can't really blame them. In this world men are bread winners no matter how much we talk about splitting the breadwinning with females it can't happen, even if she is rich that's the world we live in.

If a girl should get married to a broke guy what of if he doesn't get rich, that's a life of poverty and also damming you children's future.

It's better to make it first, before thinking about marriage and women.

You would be surprised when you have made it women won't even be on your wishlist, there is more to life than women (there is games, movies, food and much more) you can also adopt kids if you feel lonely and can cater for them. And marriage is not for everyone.

victorian:








Hmm, I'm not looking to employ for now.

We have enough staffs . And I can't divulge how much we pay our workers on a public forum here. Sorry

Telemon:
.let me drop my CV for employment. so that I will buy your fellow pretty daughters of Zion some nice gifts

victorian:






No vacancy

ubunja:
"End Of Time" is something else. even now on YouTube people the world over are still entranced by that track.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
plain truth but guys will always remind such women that they will grow old and turn to evening news paper. I keep saying it that whether male or female, don't think of getting married until you have a steady source of income. Don't put pressure on Anyone in the name of marriage. Don't bring kids to come and continue in hardship from where you stopped.

victorian:










Well he loves her so much and was ready to do anything to keep her

Kris Humphrey that's stingy or lemme say not rich like Kanye had to bow out.

Now they have three or four kids, I think?

And Kanye is very happy, she's still his wife and mother of his kids.

People will always talk, so if it's that one. It's not new.

My new bf gifted me 6 digits , this Christmas . I don't see him as Mugu or maga but I see him as angel sent to make me very happy. And I pray every day for him. If he should think of what people will say, he won't even give me a dime. That's some Nigerian men mentality. Naija men think of they are stingy to women, the women will stay. My dear, the woman won't stay and another man out there who's ready to spend will wife her.

I don't date broke guys or guys who can't afford to gift their babes anything.

victorian:









Are you a billionaire yourself?

Davido is reeking in billions from his music, all his three kids are American citizens, all his baby mama's are well catered for and have their own businesses sponsored by him and he's just how old again? 24 years old!

How about you? Sorry to ask but what have u achieved so far?

victorian:






Well some part of my own future is not here yet.

Finnese001:
I just have one question to ask here

MUST EVERYONE BE RICH?

This same mentality is the reason why the world is in bad shape, so many evil in the land because everyone wants to make it, to be successful is by the grace of God and not your hustle, most of this broke guys hustle more than you that are rich, so you guys need to come to reality that all fingers are not created equal. So many broke folks are well educated graduates who's finding it very difficult to secure better jobs and live their dreams due to the poor system, so many are frustrated and so many are depressed. So if you made it, just count yourself fortunate and not because you hustle pass.

And please when you made it, try and help those broke ones around you. PEACE

victorian:







No vacancy

Telemon:


Again u made a statement about kanye spending on Kim and at some point he got broke.Now pretty, if it so happens that your brother, or your close friend (male) comes to you and says,"hi sister i did spend on the love of my life and now and i am so broke, and I need a loan from you to keep up with the hustle".what will be your first reaction or advice even if u are going to help?.Think about it before you reply.peace

nanakgh:



Only useful thing on this entire bloody useless thread

Mimicle101:
Lightangel65

What if the guy never marry and absents from woman and still never made it (become)?

What then

victorian:











Don't bother to fall in love so quick, I'm taken.

Oshin56:
You don't have money you are busy chasing ladies, when you supposed to be using the precious time to make money.

prince3009:


If he has not married you yet, you are still single!

olabrinks:
You can chase money for 50 years and still lack. Life is very unfortunate. Some men just want to Settle down with the little they have, if there is a girl out there who can settle then who am I to judge? If you are broke, don’t set too much of a high standard when looking for a woman, you will be happy.

victorian:










Well he loves her so much and was ready to do anything to keep her

Kris Humphrey that's stingy or lemme say not rich like Kanye had to bow out.

Now they have three or four kids, I think?

And Kanye is very happy, she's still his wife and mother of his kids.

People will always talk, so if it's that one. It's not new.

My new bf gifted me 6 digits , this Christmas . I don't see him as Mugu or maga but I see him as angel sent to make me very happy. And I pray every day for him. If he should think of what people will say, he won't even give me a dime. That's some Nigerian men mentality. Naija men think of they are stingy to women, the women will stay. My dear, the woman won't stay and another man out there who's ready to spend will wife her.

I don't date broke guys or guys who can't afford to gift their babes anything.

ezo4fta:

Ur idea of a relationship is wrong. Relationship is not all about money. Why is divorce rampant these days? Unlike the days of our grand father.

victorian:






I never said its all about money.

But money must be involved.

Or won't u pay rent?

Won't your family eat?

Won't your kids go to school?
Etc.

Abeg if you don't have money, don't suffer another man's daughter in your house.

Anyways my dad trained 17 children and set up trading biz for his 5 wives .
And they all stayed with him. None left him.

ezo4fta:

I am married. I met my wife when i was still struggling and she stood by me. Immediately i blow,i took her to the alter. She deserve to use the money anyhow she wants cos she was with me wen it was rough. Life is so funny. ...the girl that left me for another guy that came from canada just because i was struggling then......she is the one begging me on social media to help her with 50k(i just ignored the chat) I learnt the guy broke up with her. No one can predict tomorrow.

victorian:






Thank God u said no one can predict tomorrow. The girl from Canada that's broke today, can also bounce back tomorrow. That's life.
Life has ups and downs. No condition or situation remains permanent forever. There was always changes on the life paths of everyone.
There was a time ,years back I graduated from school, I could not boast of N100 naira. But yea I looked like a girl back then from a wealthy background and guys coming thought theyve seen maga but when they realised I had no money, I was about searching for a job, they dropped me like hot coals. Yes hot coals.
I felt disappointed at myself, and I shoved relationships at the background and focused on making money, that's where the zeal and passion in making money came into my life. After my experience with men, I had to believe and accept after God ,next is Money. Don't blame me, it's the experience I had in my past. I don't believe true love exist and that's the truth. It's just a make believe.

Anyways My late mom helped in sponsoring my fashion biz idea, thank God! Her portrait seats still on my table. I will always love her forever and ever. Best mom ever!

So No guy, not even my ex fiancee was ready to sponsor any biz idea I had.

So she sponsored my biz, I gave in my all. Any guy who walked up to me for relationships I cut them. Off. Cause they will just distract me and cause me more emotional pain, which I don't need. Especially if they feel money was not available on my side . So no need I simply cut them off and was walking my way up the ladder. And I would say today I'm not broke, I'm very comfortable, I have a fashion brand, I have a live company. I can eat and buy whatever I want.

But recently a guy strolled into my life. He didn't think or scheme of what will he take from me, but what he can he add into my life. I was like wow! Are u for real? And he's for real.

he truly added Into my life. If tomorrow he says, will u be my bride? I will scream hell yes! I will. He amazed me.

So that's life with its ups and downs. Nobody knows tomorrow. So money is important