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You can't ever own a human like an object or toy...

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You see that ”Comot for my front make I see road jor” mean say u no Dey try bro. She don comot you for mind o, but no vex

soobaba:
Hi guys,
So I'll be very direct and summarize this as possible. But please bear with me if I get carried away...

I've been been dating my girlfriend for a year now and we are very serious and I'm even considering proposing to her, but we are not based in the same town.

So I called her with another number last night, she couldn't recognize my voice cause I sounded different, so I decided to play around cause we gist and make fun of each other a lot. So I acted like I was someone who got her number and is trying to toast her.

She asked who was speaking and I said Victor, that I got her number when I saw her in the bank, we were on the same queue, so I copied her number from her teller, she laughed and all, so after all the lines I poured out, she was just laughing and flowing along, so I asked if we could see that night, but she said it was late but I had to persuade her, so she agreed that I instead come to her place to see her. "This is someone she hasn't met before and she agreed for him to come see her at her place, in the night for that matter".

So I asked for her address and she gave out her real address, asked if she has a boyfriend and she said yes but we ain't in the same town.
I got upset and had to open up and ask why she's cheating on her guy? At this point she was mute and ended the call. I called back but she didn't answer anymore.

So I just dropped a message on WhatsApp that I was disappointed.

Her reply was devastating: she wrote;
"keep your disappointment in your pocket.
Don't even get me more angry.
Just do yourself a favor by not ever mentioning me in your mouth again.
Remove everything that has to do with me in your phone and life.
Rubbish.
No be only disappointment.
Grow up.
Comot for my front make I see road jor..."

I haven't replied her yet, don't even know what to say to her right now, thought about calling her but my brother told me not to, that I should just free her. Please guys what should I do?

Moderator please help me move this to front page...

Reverse psychology, she is wrong but wants to make you feel bad, give her space, its either she will realize it's not working we'd come back to you and apologize or she would just go from there because she can't get herself to ask for forgiveness.

It's on FP
I repeat, its on frontpage bro!


Guys here blaming the dude don't know how crazy these emotions run at such points. I wish he could have pushed it further to get real proof but I understand he had to give in. The heart couldn't bare to take too much.
We learn everyday

And you came to nairaland?

Op, better grow up.... Your girlfriend? And you're angry about what exactly?

My friend stop that nonsense oh...

No romance without finance

2shure:
I stopped giving a fuc k since 2015. No babe is real. The all carry disease,bad luck.spiritual backwardness.liars. poor. All they have is pekus. The last gal i used tondie for. Couldnt use 10k tonfix her phone,but wud use 20k to buy fake china clothes cos na frm dubai thinking they are original. They are worthless,style a lot over nothing. Have nothing.u can imagine i found just 350 naira in her bag after she don go far. The gal loves me but i no love am cos she bleeps out a lot. At age 25 she still feel say she don arrive. Cook for me,sweep for me. But not submissive. Na na na.ni dont want that bitc h

How much were you expecting to see inside her bag? You wanted to steal her money ni?

Free the girl o make she go look for her own nan if you no love her, after all kpekus plenty outside. Wicked lovers everywhere you go like MTN

Beeches ain't loyal.

soobaba:
Hi guys,
So I'll be very direct and summarize this as possible. But please bear with me if I get carried away...

I've been been dating my girlfriend for a year now and we are very serious and I'm even considering proposing to her, but we are not based in the same town.

So I called her with another number last night, she couldn't recognize my voice cause I sounded different, so I decided to play around cause we gist and make fun of each other a lot. So I acted like I was someone who got her number and is trying to toast her.

She asked who was speaking and I said Victor, that I got her number when I saw her in the bank, we were on the same queue, so I copied her number from her teller, she laughed and all, so after all the lines I poured out, she was just laughing and flowing along, so I asked if we could see that night, but she said it was late but I had to persuade her, so she agreed that I instead come to her place to see her. "This is someone she hasn't met before and she agreed for him to come see her at her place, in the night for that matter".

So I asked for her address and she gave out her real address, asked if she has a boyfriend and she said yes but we ain't in the same town.
I got upset and had to open up and ask why she's cheating on her guy? At this point she was mute and ended the call. I called back but she didn't answer anymore.

So I just dropped a message on WhatsApp that I was disappointed.

Her reply was devastating: she wrote;
"keep your disappointment in your pocket.
Don't even get me more angry.
Just do yourself a favor by not ever mentioning me in your mouth again.
Remove everything that has to do with me in your phone and life.
Rubbish.
No be only disappointment.
Grow up.
Comot for my front make I see road jor..."

I haven't replied her yet, don't even know what to say to her right now, thought about calling her but my brother told me not to, that I should just free her. Please guys what should I do?

Moderator please help me move this to front page...

It's was not a so surprising response cos she knew she had been 100% busted...
And since she felt she wouldn't give any good explanation for her actions and be able to face you again shamefully,
She just came up with the break-up stand as an excuse not to face you..
Honestly, i will slap any girl in the mouth next time i hear them yapping that men are cheats and claiming saints, when its now official that they've been the biggest but smartest cheats since the beginning of time if not for cultural and religious regulations..
Just man-up and lock-up.
When she sobbers up, she will want to contact you..
Then it will be left for you to deal with the situation in your own terms..
I hate to say this cos I do not like generalizing or holding absolute views on issues of social behavior among men and women but the truth from my perspective is that alot of girls of today in Nigeria are just opportunistic and most times unreasonable s.l.u.t.s who would not mind the consequences of their actions just to have the chance flex and have wild fun while cashing-in with no effort becos they feel they have an easy bargaining chip in between their legs..
Unfortunately, many men will turn these s.l.u.t.s. to wives as they are, which will make their lives miserable in the long run..
I dont entirely blame them sha cos its still men who contributed to this mess they've now fully manifested into, in addition to the mess from the government that has led to the proliferation of poverty across the country which makes women more vulnerable to been taken advantage of..
But in this case of yours, your girl was just been a b.....h which is now the typical common characteristic of the modern Nigerian woman.
I really pity men of this new generation cos we may never have good women ever again like during the era of our mothers.. Its just a shame..

You go soon die!

Jewessgratitude:
Hmm... I must watch out for My girl child. Even though she's gonna be raised in this useless generation, she'll not be like them. She must be like me cos I'll use the same iron hand my parents used on me.

Abeg if she wan spoil she go spoil, just pray for her.

Some people received really extreme upbringing and they turned out worse. No be by upbringing alone.

Your girlfriend doesn't know your voice? Which kine girlfriend be that?

Yes, free her. Someone wronged you and you want to go and be apologizing. Inside Nairaland.
Forgive her but move on.

soobaba:
Hi guys,
So I'll be very direct and summarize this as possible. But please bear with me if I get carried away...

I've been been dating my girlfriend for a year now and we are very serious and I'm even considering proposing to her, but we are not based in the same town.

So I called her with another number last night, she couldn't recognize my voice cause I sounded different, so I decided to play around cause we gist and make fun of each other a lot. So I acted like I was someone who got her number and is trying to toast her.

She asked who was speaking and I said Victor, that I got her number when I saw her in the bank, we were on the same queue, so I copied her number from her teller, she laughed and all, so after all the lines I poured out, she was just laughing and flowing along, so I asked if we could see that night, but she said it was late but I had to persuade her, so she agreed that I instead come to her place to see her. "This is someone she hasn't met before and she agreed for him to come see her at her place, in the night for that matter".

So I asked for her address and she gave out her real address, asked if she has a boyfriend and she said yes but we ain't in the same town.
I got upset and had to open up and ask why she's cheating on her guy? At this point she was mute and ended the call. I called back but she didn't answer anymore.

So I just dropped a message on WhatsApp that I was disappointed.

Her reply was devastating: she wrote;
"keep your disappointment in your pocket.
Don't even get me more angry.
Just do yourself a favor by not ever mentioning me in your mouth again.
Remove everything that has to do with me in your phone and life.
Rubbish.
No be only disappointment.
Grow up.
Comot for my front make I see road jor..."

I haven't replied her yet, don't even know what to say to her right now, thought about calling her but my brother told me not to, that I should just free her. Please guys what should I do?

Moderator please help me move this to front page...

Did you ever realized that mid way into the call she got to know it’s you and you still went ahead to play according to her plans thinking you’re actually playing her. Babe have been coping with you for long and you decide to test her with such cheap trick thereby playing right into her trap. Congrats bro on ur return to singlehood

2shure:
I stopped giving a fuc k since 2015. No babe is real. The all carry disease,bad luck.spiritual backwardness.liars. poor. All they have is pekus. The last gal i used tondie for. Couldnt use 10k tonfix her phone,but wud use 20k to buy fake china clothes cos na frm dubai thinking they are original. They are worthless,style a lot over nothing. Have nothing.u can imagine i found just 350 naira in her bag after she don go far. The gal loves me but i no love am cos she bleeps out a lot. At age 25 she still feel say she don arrive. Cook for me,sweep for me. But not submissive. Na na na.ni dont want that bitc h

The all carry disease,bad luck.spiritual backwardness.liars. poor. All they have is pekus. Very true, they also have entitlement mentality.

This is 2020 no time for mumu boyfriend.... no body send you now you have given yourself heart attack.

soobaba:
Hi guys,
So I'll be very direct and summarize this as possible. But please bear with me if I get carried away...

I've been been dating my girlfriend for a year now and we are very serious and I'm even considering proposing to her, but we are not based in the same town.

So I called her with another number last night, she couldn't recognize my voice cause I sounded different, so I decided to play around cause we gist and make fun of each other a lot. So I acted like I was someone who got her number and is trying to toast her.

She asked who was speaking and I said Victor, that I got her number when I saw her in the bank, we were on the same queue, so I copied her number from her teller, she laughed and all, so after all the lines I poured out, she was just laughing and flowing along, so I asked if we could see that night, but she said it was late but I had to persuade her, so she agreed that I instead come to her place to see her. "This is someone she hasn't met before and she agreed for him to come see her at her place, in the night for that matter".

So I asked for her address and she gave out her real address, asked if she has a boyfriend and she said yes but we ain't in the same town.
I got upset and had to open up and ask why she's cheating on her guy? At this point she was mute and ended the call. I called back but she didn't answer anymore.

So I just dropped a message on WhatsApp that I was disappointed.

Her reply was devastating: she wrote;
"keep your disappointment in your pocket.
Don't even get me more angry.
Just do yourself a favor by not ever mentioning me in your mouth again.
Remove everything that has to do with me in your phone and life.
Rubbish.
No be only disappointment.
Grow up.
Comot for my front make I see road jor..."

I haven't replied her yet, don't even know what to say to her right now, thought about calling her but my brother told me not to, that I should just free her. Please guys what should I do?

Moderator please help me move this to front page...

The most annoying is the way they try to turn things around with some feigned anger. Can you imagine?
Is there going to be another generation with the way we are going?

Kingrexyl:
Date beautiful white girls dem no go hear..

Where u see them date, no bi wen you dey abroad u fit date them?

guy u are vexing us boys.. nothing like gf or bf it was just ur turn to knack and go

A girlfriend or a boyfriend does not owe each other fidelity because there is no legal binding, any party can decide to walk away anytime they wish without any legal implication or backing.


If you are a lady dating any guy, please for your own future, give other potential guys a chance of friendship, you are not his wife, if he wants you to be faithful and answerable to him, he should go and pay your dowry and do the necessary things.

A boyfriend can walk away from you anytime he so wishes and there is nothing you can do about it.


If your girlfriend decides to be completely faithful to you, its her decision, its not your right so don't persuade any girlfriend or boyfriend to remain faithful to you when you can change your mind and leave them tomorrow or anytime you pleases!!

It is over, move on Bro!!! That girl doesn't give a fucck about you, no single respect.

Allah kawo good yanrinya for you

Jewessgratitude:
Well you have just seen what she does behind you. I wonder what you're still asking this question for.
Do you know how many she's been inviting over?

When you see a decent girl, you'll jump her pass. Its those agaracha, because she works in a bank or has a high profile job, you'll want to die on top.
Marry her at your own peril.

On the side though
Why have girls moral value degenerated so badly? Is it because too much exposure in school? Hmm... I must watch out for My girl child. Even though she's gonna be raised in this useless generation, she'll not be like them. She must be like me cos I'll use the same iron hand my parents used on me.

I mean at my age I can't even invite a man to my house let alone a stranger. Good home training sure goes a long way. Hmm.

Nice one
Keep it up
So u live alone

Yawa.
Am often disappointed when my girl doesn't recognize when I call with a strange number.
I don't even think about playing along, cos I know ladies hate that stuff. I make them know immediately.
A lady may be in love with you but it doesn't mean 24/7 she's intoxicated with you.
Atleast she was truthful to admit she has (I mean had) a boyfriend.
You just crossed the line bro. Maybe you just have to pretend-toast her again as another person, but for this one it's officially over.
What would you do if a girl called you and tried to woo you?

She's a prostitute

Her pussie is cheap

You've been dating a cheap LovePeddler all this while

She's a "free for all' kinda girl.

Her response sef weak me, this daughter of Eve will break your head with bottle should you do anyhow .

Run for your life, She's not responsible.

soobaba:
Hi guys,
So I'll be very direct and summarize this as possible. But please bear with me if I get carried away...

I've been been dating my girlfriend for a year now and we are very serious and I'm even considering proposing to her, but we are not based in the same town.

So I called her with another number last night, she couldn't recognize my voice cause I sounded different, so I decided to play around cause we gist and make fun of each other a lot. So I acted like I was someone who got her number and is trying to toast her.

She asked who was speaking and I said Victor, that I got her number when I saw her in the bank, we were on the same queue, so I copied her number from her teller, she laughed and all, so after all the lines I poured out, she was just laughing and flowing along, so I asked if we could see that night, but she said it was late but I had to persuade her, so she agreed that I instead come to her place to see her. "This is someone she hasn't met before and she agreed for him to come see her at her place, in the night for that matter".

So I asked for her address and she gave out her real address, asked if she has a boyfriend and she said yes but we ain't in the same town.
I got upset and had to open up and ask why she's cheating on her guy? At this point she was mute and ended the call. I called back but she didn't answer anymore.

So I just dropped a message on WhatsApp that I was disappointed.

Her reply was devastating: she wrote;
"keep your disappointment in your pocket.
Don't even get me more angry.
Just do yourself a favor by not ever mentioning me in your mouth again.
Remove everything that has to do with me in your phone and life.
Rubbish.
No be only disappointment.
Grow up.
Comot for my front make I see road jor..."

I haven't replied her yet, don't even know what to say to her right now, thought about calling her but my brother told me not to, that I should just free her. Please guys what should I do?

Moderator please help me move this to front page...

Actually the joke is on you. You thought she didn't recognize your voice. She must have and played along cos when you said you were disappointed in her, she gave you back that you should grow up... All men should grow up. Your act was childish, you are childish..... Man up!

Afrikween:
This is 2020 no time for mumu boyfriend.... no body send you now you have given yourself heart attack.

not a big deal

that's how we roll

Kingrexyl:
Date beautiful white girls dem no go hear..

Where dem dey?

It isnt February yet and you already won the award for the biggest fool of 2020
Have u wifed her?
Have u paid her dowry?
Wetin u lost wey u dey find?
Person wey find anyhow go see anyhow

Atleast she dodged a bullet
Na una type dey go all psycho later, kill person pikin

Possible she was trying to set the niggar up but u been the fool was quick to jump the gun

Happy single life back

2shure:
I stopped giving a fuc k since 2015. No babe is real. The all carry disease,bad luck.spiritual backwardness.liars. poor. All they have is pekus. The last gal i used tondie for. Couldnt use 10k tonfix her phone,but wud use 20k to buy fake china clothes cos na frm dubai thinking they are original. They are worthless,style a lot over nothing. Have nothing.u can imagine i found just 350 naira in her bag after she don go far. The gal loves me but i no love am cos she bleeps out a lot. At age 25 she still feel say she don arrive. Cook for me,sweep for me. But not submissive. Na na na.ni dont want that bitc h

"Bad luck, spiritual backwardness"?
You sound like a regular small-dicked-superstitious-bastard who doesn't realize perhaps his attitude and bad mouth are probably behind the orchestration of his bad luck and backwardness. .

Zaheertyler:
Fashi her jur ....
But leave this propose talk....everybody for nairaland dun too day use am

He doesn't want nairalanders to crusify him, that's why he used that line ( propose ko )

lol.. see response.

So much venom in that response.

O boy.. there is nothing like you dumping her, she has already done that by that sms.
She has no single regard for you. just move on.

Roheemah04:
You be mumu man

Any girl here can fall for this sh*t!

She told you she has a boyfriend buh doesn't stay in town..
What more duyyu want?
She might just be friendly with the guyl!

If she had prank you with a beautiful and endowed friend of her ...to seduce you won't you fall for it too?

If truly you love her ..tell her you're wrong and don't play such prank on her again...

Forget negative comments here..

Wish you best of luck�

. I concur. Most of ladies will be eager to know the guy that has been calling them. Some will not have intentions of dating the guy. I don’t see anything bad in what the lady did. After all she didn’t deny having boyfriend.
The op should resolve the issue with his girlfriend. And never play such prank on her.