bimgo:
Are you faithful to her too?

Very faithful. But guess shit happens and this is just one of them. Too bad that I've learned the hardest and most embarrassing way. Funniest thing was we spoke not quite long and she's always the first to say I love you... That made me to be faithful and love her more. Guess I gave out my heart to the wrong person. If she ever loved me as she claimed then I wouldn't have gotten such horrible reply...
Life goes on bro

She don tell you to comot for road make she see the next daft boy like you.. the love wey some guys have for rubbish so called relationship ehh, na so one werey de tell me say he gives her gf 40k every month from his 120 salary.. I cried for this dude parents..

Let the so-called decent girls get a good job and maybe people will notice that they don't have only their 'decency' going on for them

Jewessgratitude:
Well you have just seen what she does behind you. I wonder what you're still asking this question for.
Do you know how many she's been inviting over?

When you see a decent girl, you'll jump her pass. Its those agaracha, because she works in a bank or has a high profile job, you'll want to die on top.
Marry her at your own peril.

On the side though
Why have girls moral value degenerated so badly? Is it because too much exposure in school? Hmm... I must watch out for My girl child. Even though she's gonna be raised in this useless generation, she'll not be like them. She must be like me cos I'll use the same iron hand my parents used on me.

I mean at my age I can't even invite a man to my house let alone a stranger. Good home training sure goes a long way. Hmm.

Hmmmm!

Las Las the guy don do himself

soobaba:
Hi guys,
So I'll be very direct and summarize this as possible. But please bear with me if I get carried away...

I've been been dating my girlfriend for a year now and we are very serious and I'm even considering proposing to her, but we are not based in the same town.

So I called her with another number last night, she couldn't recognize my voice cause I sounded different, so I decided to play around cause we gist and make fun of each other a lot. So I acted like I was someone who got her number and is trying to toast her.

She asked who was speaking and I said Victor, that I got her number when I saw her in the bank, we were on the same queue, so I copied her number from her teller, she laughed and all, so after all the lines I poured out, she was just laughing and flowing along, so I asked if we could see that night, but she said it was late but I had to persuade her, so she agreed that I instead come to her place to see her. "This is someone she hasn't met before and she agreed for him to come see her at her place, in the night for that matter".

So I asked for her address and she gave out her real address, asked if she has a boyfriend and she said yes but we ain't in the same town.
I got upset and had to open up and ask why she's cheating on her guy? At this point she was mute and ended the call. I called back but she didn't answer anymore.

So I just dropped a message on WhatsApp that I was disappointed.

Her reply was devastating: she wrote;
"keep your disappointment in your pocket.
Don't even get me more angry.
Just do yourself a favor by not ever mentioning me in your mouth again.
Remove everything that has to do with me in your phone and life.
Rubbish.
No be only disappointment.
Grow up.
Comot for my front make I see road jor..."

I haven't replied her yet, don't even know what to say to her right now, thought about calling her but my brother told me not to, that I should just free her. Please guys what should I do?

Moderator please help me move this to front page...

her response burst my belle for office.please free her.there was no relationship, na u de deceive ursef all along

Zaheertyler:
Fashi her jur ....
But leave this propose talk....everybody for nairaland dun too day use am

lol no mind the foolish guys...them go just dey lie for about to propose head..lol

nsesam:
No matter what, you acted immatured and childish. Why can't you trust her and be happy with yourself Afterall she isn't your wife. What makes you think she didn't know its you even after hearing your voice? She told you she has a boyfriend right? The call was uncalled for

Yes, I know it was uncalled for, but I just got carried away with the prank and got burnt.. Just wanted to make fun of her like we used to. I've learnt my lesson and have to move on. I even expected her to block me but she hasn't, she's among the first to quickly check out my status. I'll just have to ignore her for now, guess the relationship will end from there

Y won't u recognize each other's voices on phone.. Even when we fake it.. I n my ex still know..
Na normal thing.. u don catch her she want come chamge am for u. she wan turn am to rough.. We all do it 2 wiggle our way through situations in which we r guilty..
y r u so worried.. naija girls r oloshos na.. just don't fall in luv.. if u want 2 date.. just keep on fvcking n having fun.. let other guys too fvck their own.. na baby mama sure pass.. just get a kid n train d kid with all d money, love n discipline u av.. that's all..

Denko2721987:


It's was not a so surprising response cos she knew she had been 100% busted...
And since she felt she wouldn't give any good explanation for her actions and be able to face you again shamefully,
She just came up with the break-up stand as an excuse not to face you..
Honestly, i will slap any girl in the mouth next time i hear them yapping that men are cheats and claiming saints, when its now official that they've been the biggest but smartest cheats since the beginning of time if not for cultural and religious regulations..
Just man-up and lock-up.
When she sobbers up, she will want to contact you..
Then it will be left for you to deal with the situation in your own terms..
I hate to say this cos I do not like generalizing or holding absolute views on issues of social behavior among men and women but the truth from my perspective is that alot of girls of today in Nigeria are just opportunistic and unreasonable s.l.u.t.s who would not mind the consequences of their actions just to have the chance to catch while fun and reaping without effort becos they feel they have an easy bargaining chip in between their legs..
Unfortunately, many men will turn these sl.u.t.s. to wives as they are, and make their lives miserable in the long run..
I dont entirely blame them sha cos its still men who contributed to this mess they've manifested in addition to the mess from the government that has led to the proliferation of poverty across the country which makes women more vulnerable to been taken advantage of..

Great analysis

UBGG:


He tried to play mind games with her, one I am almost certain isn't a first(She asked him to grow up). He's insecure for sure. He definitely spies on her. He likes to play the victim. He's underemployed. He's immature(I mean, he brought their private conversation here!!!)

Now, how long do you think any sane person would survive a man like that before going insane?

Haunty, calm down.

Well, one could assume that the girl was playing along just for the fun of it. However, her response shows otherwise. She clearly was not.

Based on her response, OP doesn't need a soothsayer to tell him that the girl doesn't take the him seriously.

If she had claimed that she knew that he was the one all along, it would have made perfect sense. But, she didn't show any remorse even though she invited an unknown guy to her house at an ungodly hour. That girl is bold, I swear it

While OP has to take the blame of not being able to catch her red-handed, the response she gave him was inexcusable.

No picture could be this clearer: OP was her second-best lover. She's just managing OP, believing that a better man would come her way so as to ditch him. Sure, there are lots of girls like that out there.

One of my friends got married to a girl by asking her to call her guy to tell him it was over between them. She did, and he proposed the following week. Yes, most girls believe that there's a better guy out there.

Sunisonflex39:
OP come.. I had a thread like this here on nairaland,
I Bin never GET sense then.. I posted my matter here thinking nairalanders will sympathise with me.. for were? the bashing give me SENSE by force..




OP, don't worry, after we finish with you, you will GET sense by that force..

Hahahaha, bro the bashing dey clear my eyes like pass hypo

U dont know women... siddon there

Kingrexyl:
Date beautiful white girls dem no go hear..

White girls also cheat,that I know very well.

sunshine1974:
This is why the very beautiful girls find it difficult to marry, this same girl will be running from church to church in the future looking for husband. See the type of response she gave op. Too harsh

I was reading from page one to look for the first person that would mention what you mentioned. What a very very rude girl she is. I'm sure she's beautiful. Beautiful ladies are most times rude because they tend to assume their beauty is what the guy is falling for

soobaba


It is not until you catch a man his dick inside your girls pussy b4 u term it red handed. If as a man you a still considering give this lady a second chance or even sling to listening to any claim what so ever your brain must need evaluation.

This is what caught red handed is all about. You see this two I quoted ignore their claim of needing more evidence to nail your GF or the BS talk of putting a ring to stop any girl fucking around. She's nailed already n a confirmed CHEAT U can now decide to stay put with her for ever reason but no what as been exposed will never be undone it can only happen again.

CANDYDADDY:
You are a fool bro

why can't you set her up to visit you,that is when you will know she is not playing around,you have no evidence,bro no evidence

Although 98.9% of Nigeria girl have the tendency of keeping second guy

And you have not put the damn ring in her finger,bro the PUSSSY IS NOT YOURS!

if you still go ahead to dump her dont forget to edit your post to add her phone number and her location,bro

CIOSYLVA:
You spoilt everything...

You would have try to ask if u would sleep over her place and probably have sex with her... If she agrees then give it a little time and call her u are junction.. allow her to come outside looking for you..

Now u started what u can't finish.. no tangible evidence...

true talk....... I totally agree with you your third paragraph.

CANDYDADDY:
You are a fool bro

why can't you set her up to visit you,that is when you will know she is not playing around,you have no evidence,bro no evidence

Although 98.9% of Nigeria girl have the tendency of keeping second guy

And you have not put the damn ring in her finger,bro the PUSSSY IS NOT YOURS!

if you still go ahead to dump her dont forget to edit your post to add her phone number and her location,bro

Gadafii:
Leave her make she be bro, she was dating u but open to other guys that's what this means, but if a girl u have dated closed to a year couldn't detect ur voice even tho u faked it, then she never held u in high regards, sorry bro u was dating ur self


I don't think she was serious with you the way u are with her,if not she could have just said she knew it was u so she flowed well with you,but she doesn't even know ur faked voice to start with


Move on bro,u might be dodging a deadly 56mm sniper bullet

U said it all

All the girls I have dated even if they call my cell phone with a hidden number,I go still know without even asking who is speaking,with just 30seconds of conversation,my brain don filter out all the voices I have heard in this world till it gets to hers and the brain doesn't take time to do that


Dear op ,u never get girl friend oooooooo,,,how ur own girlfriend after 1 year of dating doesn even know your voice? Na waoooooooo

I haven't replied her yet, don't even know what to say to her right now, thought about calling her but my brother told me not to, that I should just free her. Please guys what should I do?

Op i think you should take the advise of your brother....there is nothing more to say or add!

She already exposed the kind of person she is. Run for your life dear friend. It's not worth it. This is one of the reasons I don't encourage distant dating.

Op.. If that's true... Call her by next wk... Then calm her down... Then do the neccessary thing... Don't fall in love again with her

soobaba:
Hi guys,
So I'll be very direct and summarize this as possible. But please bear with me if I get carried away...

I've been been dating my girlfriend for a year now and we are very serious and I'm even considering proposing to her, but we are not based in the same town.

So I called her with another number last night, she couldn't recognize my voice cause I sounded different, so I decided to play around cause we gist and make fun of each other a lot. So I acted like I was someone who got her number and is trying to toast her.

She asked who was speaking and I said Victor, that I got her number when I saw her in the bank, we were on the same queue, so I copied her number from her teller, she laughed and all, so after all the lines I poured out, she was just laughing and flowing along, so I asked if we could see that night, but she said it was late but I had to persuade her, so she agreed that I instead come to her place to see her. "This is someone she hasn't met before and she agreed for him to come see her at her place, in the night for that matter".

So I asked for her address and she gave out her real address, asked if she has a boyfriend and she said yes but we ain't in the same town.
I got upset and had to open up and ask why she's cheating on her guy? At this point she was mute and ended the call. I called back but she didn't answer anymore.

So I just dropped a message on WhatsApp that I was disappointed.

Her reply was devastating: she wrote;
"keep your disappointment in your pocket.
Don't even get me more angry.
Just do yourself a favor by not ever mentioning me in your mouth again.
Remove everything that has to do with me in your phone and life.
Rubbish.
No be only disappointment.
Grow up.
Comot for my front make I see road jor..."

I haven't replied her yet, don't even know what to say to her right now, thought about calling her but my brother told me not to, that I should just free her. Please guys what should I do?

Moderator please help me move this to front page...

Just move on but always remember that everyone is on probation in a relationship until you say I do at the alter.

Skmoda360:

Free her...she is not a good girl...... so if na another guy now na so em go just fvck her now.....she is a bad bitch

this is exactly the point.


and that's the impression the OP is having about the girl.


let go of rubbish.




I hail u, bro.

Baba, forget about the babe. If she is truly yours then she wouldn’t do or say what she said to you. Move On

soobaba:
Hi guys,
So I'll be very direct and summarize this as possible. But please bear with me if I get carried away...

I've been been dating my girlfriend for a year now and we are very serious and I'm even considering proposing to her, but we are not based in the same town.

So I called her with another number last night, she couldn't recognize my voice cause I sounded different, so I decided to play around cause we gist and make fun of each other a lot. So I acted like I was someone who got her number and is trying to toast her.

She asked who was speaking and I said Victor, that I got her number when I saw her in the bank, we were on the same queue, so I copied her number from her teller, she laughed and all, so after all the lines I poured out, she was just laughing and flowing along, so I asked if we could see that night, but she said it was late but I had to persuade her, so she agreed that I instead come to her place to see her. "This is someone she hasn't met before and she agreed for him to come see her at her place, in the night for that matter".

So I asked for her address and she gave out her real address, asked if she has a boyfriend and she said yes but we ain't in the same town.
I got upset and had to open up and ask why she's cheating on her guy? At this point she was mute and ended the call. I called back but she didn't answer anymore.

So I just dropped a message on WhatsApp that I was disappointed.

Her reply was devastating: she wrote;
"keep your disappointment in your pocket.
Don't even get me more angry.
Just do yourself a favor by not ever mentioning me in your mouth again.
Remove everything that has to do with me in your phone and life.
Rubbish.
No be only disappointment.
Grow up.
Comot for my front make I see road jor..."

I haven't replied her yet, don't even know what to say to her right now, thought about calling her but my brother told me not to, that I should just free her. Please guys what should I do?

Moderator please help me move this to front page...

Just free her and stop getting emotionally attached to women of all things. You can fall in love with a Bugatti or a Rolex or even an iphone XI or a 2020 alienware gaming laptop. But women, never.

But all women are like that. They like being flattered; and from there, it doesn't take long to open them up...even married women do it. When you are praising a woman and she's hissing and rolling her eyes, it's all pretence. They enjoy it pass chicken suya.

By the way, women don't ever settle finally. They are always on the lookout for better opportunity, if you know what I mean.

It is only an insecure, weak and shallow guy that will bother himself about petty things like; who called his girlfriend, who she is chatting with, who did she visit, who smiled at her, who is fucking her and so and so. For god sake be a man and focus on your career, business and future. Bleep her only with condom and have them ladies plenty so you dont give your sacred heart to any bitch.

When the time come for marriage just select the one you know was loyal and faithful and marry her. Simple.

Life is very simple if only we know how to apply logic and strategy to it.Detach yourself from any human being and never get emotional.

Kunleweb....... read the comment candydadd*y made, it is full of wisdom as far as I'm concerned, he said it all. The comment is on the first page.

kunleweb:




I love your comment. Every single sentence. What you said about the ladies that work in banks and organizations in high profile is true. One don do am to me. The thing pain me die.


By the way what I haven't seen my Chum chum's comment LilMissFavvy

Baba.... Free her jare
Olosho l'omo yen

Free her just like your brother said, else she'll do worse.

Girls are like that




You get them, dey change it





Awon omo komo

What a response........Comot for my front make I see road jor...

CANDYDADDY:
You are a fool bro

why can't you set her up to visit you,that is when you will know she is not playing around,you have no evidence,bro no evidence

Although 98.9% of Nigeria girl have the tendency of keeping second guy

And you have not put the damn ring in her finger,bro the PUSSSY IS NOT YOURS!

if you still go ahead to dump her dont forget to edit your post to add her phone number and her location,bro

Human being,if your girlfriend tell you this to the face how will you feel.You are very irresponsible

Ursullalindaa:
Never sleep with a woman whose troubles are worse than your own.

Man forgives woman anything save the wit to outwit him.

Women like silent men. They think they’re listening.

It was a man’s world. Then Eve arrived.

No man should marry until he has studied anatomy and dissected at least one woman.

Only good girls keep diaries. Bad girls don’t have time.

Here’s to woman! Would that we could fold into her arms without falling into her hands.
Women are nothing but machines for producing children.

To me, girls are just a pain in the ass.

Good women always think it is their fault when someone else is being offensive. Bad women never take the blame for anything.

Even if man could understand women he still wouldn’t believe it.

Good girls go to heaven, bad girls go everywhere.

Do you know what it means to come home at night to a woman who’ll give you a little love, a little affection, a little tenderness? It means you’re in the wrong house, that’s what it means.

Women hate everything which strips off the tinsel of sentiment, and they are right, or it would rob them of their weapons.

Here’s all you have to know about men and women: Women are crazy, men are stupid. And the main reason women are crazy is that men are stupid.

I have always found women difficult. I don’t really understand them. To begin with, few women tell the truth.

The woman who tells her age is either too young to have anything to lose or too old to have anything to gain.

Never trust a woman, even though she has given you ten sons.

Women and people of low birth are very hard to deal with. If you are friendly to them, they get out of hand, and if you keep your distance, they resent it.

Heav’n hath no rage like love to hatred turn’d, Nor Hell a fury, like a woman scorn’d.

Being a woman is a terribly difficult trade, since it consists principally of dealing with men.

I wouldn’t be caught dead marrying a woman old enough to be my wife.

Once a woman has forgiven her man, she must not reheat his sins for breakfast