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Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by YungJo207(m): 4:06pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
ImaIma1: Yes I would check myself what I have been doing right that makes us love and respect each other the more cause that first 3years from most marriages I have seen is that time the love even get stronger and they still act like they are still dating....so if you agure most time in your first year and always have misunderstanding then that marriage have a problem. |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by AmTruth: 4:07pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
It's not easy to pay this sacrifice in becoming a good wife that accommodate. My wife inorder to mitigate the pressure associated with my Mum's visit has to plan it during children's holiday. So as to avoid the stress of children's school runs of waking early, preparing other things for their school etc. And this was agreed by us and it worked for us. Less complain, Less stress, though some visit could come as emergency and would be treated as such. Sometimes My mum could assist her in some task like bathing the children not always anyway. But for Africa magic you can't seperate them...lol She has come and now she has gone back to her husband house. The visit isn't FOR EVER, so why are some women seeing visit or to stay as not acceptable is not appropriate and they should change. You said it all IT'S JUST AWHILE. May your children and family continue to see women such like you as golden vessels even in your advance age. Amen Pearl05: 2 Likes |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by midnighter(f): 4:09pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Triniti: They may not need to take your permission outright but they still need to be considerate because people (women) are trying to organise and budget for their feeding which a good visitor should be mindful not to scatter. 1 Like |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 4:13pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
SweetyZinta:. Thanks alot for this. |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by Nobody: 4:18pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
safarigirl:You mean people that washed their dirty linen in Public!!! You don't have to know them before you know the reason for their separation!!! They tell you without mincing words!!!! |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by dominique(f): 4:31pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
eni4real: Why not if they live in the same city? Even if they want to stay for sometime, anything more than 2 weeks should not be encouraged 1 Like 3 Shares |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by Nobody: 4:33pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
dominique:2weeks.. Now, they have tried!!! I was responding to the lady that said, they should leave the same day!!! 1 Like |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by Nobody: 4:43pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
majestique: If it was about d topic, i wouldn't av mentioned you, madam think you will realize my response was tailored for your comment. 1 Like |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by NELLY1990: 4:59pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
My in-laws comes after my own heart. I love my husbands relatives like they are my very own. I know we have individual differences but come on if they don’t visit who will? Emergency days can come o and we need them and even if emergency days never comes they are still precious to our hearts. My opinion 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by Honeydenz(f): 5:12pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Meeyankee:Very common these days. I have a rich uncle whom his younger ones sacrificed alot to make whom he is today, but his wife has totally turned him against us. No help whatsoever from him, you dare not visit his home self |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by AmTruth: 5:13pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
You are Right on. May God bless you all NELLY1990: |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by Nobody: 5:15pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
ImaIma1: "CONTROL" is one major problem with women, it quiet funny how wives see there hubby relative as threats ... if only women could think logically wives should know they occupy seperate spot in a man's heart , just as family get there own spot so why the tussel. When a man as the impression his wife loves & tolerate is family ,he will fight 4 her if the need arise without the wife avin to raise her voice. a woman with good heart will tolerate her hubby family cos someday she wil be a mother inlaw tew. 1 Like |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by Siberry: 5:16pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
AmTruth: Yea keep the same joyful energy when your wife's relations come visiting or staying. 1 Like |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by Nobody: 5:16pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Honeydenz:I am in the same position with you guys now. But man no just fit write plenty story down now. |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by Nobody: 5:34pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
safarigirl: Have you seen any man so tied to his family that he neglects his own immediate family (children & wife) never! becos no family will neva manipulate a man against his own children, buh i av seen so many wives that turn there hubby against his own family n when trouble comes these women flee. A real man wil only take advice frm his wife or relatives but he wil decide what is best. |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by AmTruth: 5:37pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Certainly I must do that and I am doing so. Siberry: |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by Pinkie2018(f): 5:47pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
worworbabe:it's my brothers house is what they will always say |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by AmTruth: 5:48pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Wow! Another Revelation. No Family will never manipulate a man against his own family (Children and Wife) I add youwanbanme: |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by ImaIma1(f): 5:51pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
youwanbanme: You didn't respond to what I quoted. You are still going on and on about women's flaws as if men are flawless angels with self control. 2 Likes |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by safarigirl(f): 5:56pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
youwanbanme: Yes, I have, MULTIPLE TIMES. It is so COMMON, so RAMPANT, that I cannot even begin to explain it's widespread nature. I kneww a girl in school who hated men in general, because of how much of an asshole her father was to them, while paying attention to his extended family. There are multiple tales of this, so much, some people even attribute it to jazz. Never ke? Do men know what is happening half the time? Some don't even know what they are doing, na when you catch their children in school, you will know why kids prefer their mothers and her relatives, to fathers relatives and even fathers. 5 Likes |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by Idaytesj29(m): 6:14pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Meeyankee: Bukatyne wet I won marry? I run for my life. |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by Skmoda360(m): 6:36pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Blu03:You better go and know it because I will never tell you..... |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by Nobody: 6:43pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
ImaIma1: lolz ! the topic itself makes women person of interest cos its majorly women that have problem puttin up or accomodating inlaws/relative, that doesnt mean men don't av flaws tew buh @least not on these subject matter. if my respond stil doesnt correlate with what you quoted... do you mind making it clearer |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by Nobody: 6:48pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Skmoda360:sshhhhh! Is the word by any chance...transgendered? |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by ImaIma1(f): 6:53pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
youwanbanme: If you didn't understand it, never mind. |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by Jman06(m): 7:15pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
NELLY1990:You're really wise ma'am! The easiest way a lady can win my heart forever is to love my siblings and mum! In fact, I'll go extra miles to make such a lady the happiest wife on earth. I have come a long way with my family. We've been through thick and thin, cried and laughed together for a very long time. No woman can restrain my lovely people from coming to my house. I'll try to emphasize that fact to any lady I'll be getting married to. |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by AmTruth: 7:40pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
That's exactly my point brother. They would indisputably win our hearts. There's no magic in that. God bless you. Jman06: 1 Like |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by paix(m): 7:54pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
TruthHurts100:Which would you choose? |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by Nwanna2588: 8:09pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
AmTruth:As for me, I like both my own and my woman relations to keep off. |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by Validcode: 8:12pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by NELLY1990: 8:26pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Thank you dear. Jman06: 2 Likes |
Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by NELLY1990: 8:27pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Amen and you too AmTruth: |
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