Bro, shit happen but be rest assured no saint out there.

Monaco2:


Thanks, how much is it?!?

Don't know now, but I bought 119k in October

Wanna sell mine though ?

Fountainofyouth:
The nerve, effrontery and audacity she has though, she wants you to be cool with her dating a married man jeez, I like her bluntness, she didn't try to deny it or cook up lies, decide wisely dude.

You like her bluntness??

If the case is reversed now, hot water, acid, stone, stabbing is what we will see!!!

Why can't a guy have kids like Hydra sef??

You want a woman you have not caught doing something wrong.

Sometimes the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know.

Na you know how una relationship strong reach.

babyfaceafrica:
There is nothing wrong checking your gf phone.. It shows you care.. People who don't like people checking their phone have something to hide.... Anybody can check my phone.. No password, no finger print scanner.. Nothing to hide. It gives me peace of mind.... Move on and look for someone more ọpẹn!!

@bold true sir

My American people will say stop wifing a hoe cos you ain't captain save a hoe. My bro collect your share of enjoyment/HIV and leave the rest she belongs to the streets you're just a side nigga. A hoe would still cheat even if you are the richest or have the biggest or sweetest dick

There is nothing bad about investigating just that you shouldn't get caught and you shouldn't confront your spouse about your findings..... Playing along is golden it brings peace ...... Allow them tell you at their best times that's why you are to be their friend..... Because person don say he one buy cloth no mean say na him own other persons go still come price am....... Apologize to the damsel and for next time sake don't get caught investigating

Checking of phones is where potential couples need to draw the line regardless of the trust between both of them.

Hian! wetin I know.

abeg I need to travel to Delta from Lagos tomorrow, someone should please assist me. No amount is too small


0247241146 -GTB

dirolad:
See you u will be fine las Las. She's really attached to the married man, unless the married man decides to let her go. She even prefer making him fall in love. If u end up marrying her, just know u ain't alone. Stop questioning her anymore and have it at the back of your mind that you gon leave her someday. She's not sorry for her doings and will make you beg when she's wrong. Don't be weak because of love.

Thanks

Sensini123:
You are checking a lady phone in 2020, are you VAR official?

This is a VAR era!!!

Biafrareform:
Good morning all, for those still awake.

I think my relationship just ended. Something we both cherish.

Well, months back my ex and I came back together. We had a bliss relationship while in our final year, but I wasn't committed at all and she knew it and left. Back then in school she kept going to my phone and of course she do see things to talk about .

After 1 year of being apart, I needed a committed relationship cos I wanted to settle down. She came to my mind and the feelings was so strong even though I tried to resist it. We finally met and resolved all issues that led to her leaving .

Is been the sweetest memory we have had so far. Everything was going fine. She is a nice and sweet girl. Our agenda is marriage and she is aware. She fits perfectly to my ideal woman. Our emotional and spiritual connection is just perfect.

Well, things take a turn when I went to her phone and saw stuff that knocked me out. What really got me mad was her dating a married man. My emotion was dead. She said the relationship is in the past. She was forced to go into it after she left school. Her mum forced her into it when she stopped caring for her and asked her to go fend for herself. Then we weren't together. She confessed to becoming someone else from who I knew when I didn't tried to bring her back. But she is not a bad as I think , she concluded .

I also saw her chat with someone where she sent a bedroom pics she took in my house. She said she is just flirting with him (they have a fling) but that I should give her time, she is going to completely cut of tiers with them.

Well, I love her was ready to stay with her.
She was around again this Val and was tempted to check again and noticed she is still communicating with the married man. Infact I noticed they met lately in January. I locked up , and decided that is over. Didn't talk to her about it.

We went out for on Saturday. She is the type that hardly post on Facebook. Infact she has reduced my activities on Facebook. Her reason, our lives shouldn't be on social media.
I uploaded our outing on WhatsApp. She did too, but didn't upload the one we took together. Yea, she hasn't done that b4. I was angry and voiced out what I saw in her phone. Accused her of deliberately hiding us from her contacts.
She apologised and told me she isn't doing anything with the man again. Just the normal chat cos of the friendship they have had b4 . She even handed her phone to me to call him and end it if I want . I wasn't taking any of that cos I saw from her browsing history where she is been searching how to make a married man fall in love and spend on her but didn't let her know of it.
She pleaded that nothing is happening between them again. Then she begged that I should stopped going to her phone that is destroying us. That if I ended up destroying this relationship, where do I want her to start.

She is back to her base and we chatted last nite and she brought up the case of me going to her phone again and I was angry with that and told her about the browsing history too.

She was completely devastated with my findings.
Is lengthy right, sorry about that. This is a relationship we both cherished and I know she love me real good. Ohh, I forgot to tell you, she bought me a native dress and sent 6k to me from her 33k NYSC allawee. She is a good girl. She is nice and caring. I love this girl real good. Never loved anyone like this before.

But I don't know what has really gone wrong with her. I was determined to really make this right, but as it stand now, it seems dead to me and I am sure she also feels same too.

I should have stayed away from her phone. But guys, is not my fault, I love this girl and I am serious about it.

This is a relationship you both cherish abi?? You are dreaming! You are dating yourself. Read what you wrote again and tell me if that who.re can be termed a good girl...

Brother wey mumu...

How old are you?? If you are still in your 20s please I beg you don’t bother your life with any woman who is not quality. In your 30s and 40s you’ll have so many at your beck and call that you’ll be spoiled with choices. Don’t kill yourself over this one.

Biafrareform:


Lol. Btw she is 20. And she love me, I know it .

She isn't even desperate for marriage .

I am not even bothered with her past . I am just concern about her present hence my reaction .

I love her I won't lie , but I am willing to cut it off and move on

U will be fooling urself if u think ladies date only one man.

Oga OP u have not married her yet...allow her to explore her opportunities.

Why going through her phone when u have not made her ur wife yet?

Even married women cheats these days talk of old time friend u left for more than one year.

If u want to be happy in ur relationship/marriage, avoid ur partner’s phones

Biafrareform:


She confessed to becoming someone else from who I knew when I didn't tried to bring her back.

She confessed.... and you dived in her phone repeatedly and came up with evidence that she is being truthful. The problem is... you can't handle the truth.
She bought you gift from her allawee... maybe... she can afford to because the married man can replace that and more. Bro... she may love you and all that... but she is about money first. Scale down... move on.

fulaniHERDSman:
You are dealing with an audacious whorre. Flee now and spare your future kids the agony of a harrlot mom.

See ur reasoning....shows u have chicken poo in ur brain

You have a problem of been broke as well, no girl commits to a broke niga, you said she sent you 6k from her 33k Alawi, you were so excited about it because you needed it, it goes a long way to show that you cannot take care of her, woman can not take you seriously, you said she started dating man because she needed financial support, you have not given her the reason to come out of it because she isn’t not s getting 10% financial benefits from you as much as she gets from her man friend, don’t be deceived she will never leave that man till she becomes financially independent or you take up responsibility, poverty is a bastard, my brother go and make money to take care of your woman and emotions

"I love this girl and I am serious about it."
Imagine this nonsense. What in the world is wrong with these guys

eni4real:
You like her bluntness??

If the case is reversed now, hot water, acid, stone, stabbing is what we will see!!!

Why can't a guy have kids like Hydra sef??

Yes I like her bluntness cos she didn't cook up lies or deny it, didn't you see that? Or are you blind? Do you prefer the one that will lie her way into marriage and continue fvcking the married man? Quote me with sense next time.

This hoes ain't loyal......

rOsy247:
buy her phone, no, take care of her needs, no, allow her na to date who is taking good care of her na, no. Op what is really the colour of your problem. U want her to sit with u just to be looking at your face? Will ur face solve any of her needs?

Now she gave u 6k and u collected it o? Is it not same man who u fighting her for that gave her the 6k? If u rejecting her for dating a guy that's taking good care of her why didn't you reject his 6k? Cox obviously he's the one taking care of her. Op having n maintaining a girlfriend requires u living up to responsibilities as her man.

If u can't take care of that babe park one side and allow better person see road care for her. Nonsense and ingredients lazy boyfriend. Don't goan work to take care of your babe, that's how they'll keep cheating on u till u haf sense.

Kudos to that babe for dumping u jor. U don't deserve her.

She should go back to her parents oooooo...

Hungry girls should go back to their poor parents!!!

Next

Actually met my woman when she was going to be 21 and a virgin. When you meet them at a tender age when they have not been ran through by every Tom, DICK, and Harry you have the opportunity to groom them to your taste. It is like a child you show the way he should go and he will not depart from there. But, if you did not meet her as a virgin or tender in heart, my brother, you get a lot of work to do oooh.

RisenPhoenix:


Wow. A really early starter in the game of manipulation. They exist.

So she is on her NYSC already at 20? She must have chopped life tire.
Anyway, not all <21s are marriageable. But all marriageable women are <21.

Lesson learned! Don't beg any man or woman for love to avoid had i know

I don tire to de advice foolish people who are not fit to be in a relationship on NL. The only advice I have for you is to commit suiciden save us all from senseless write up such as this. @

Biafrareform:


I also have ex's I have been with before going back to her . I cut it off immediately cos I don't want drama.

Nah, have never been silent . Have rebuked her openly when I started seeing those stuff. Though it was before we got back together.

But I was plain about the two she is still in touch when th especially the married guy . Which she promised to cut tiers .

For messed up when I saw she is still in touch.

I rebuked her again and she was like giving me her phone to end it if I believe she won't end it herself.

Our argument last nite really pissed me off. And right now , I feel is just over

Pp

Vortex369:
Of what use are you to her OP. She gave you 6k from her hustling not nysc, slowpoke.

Just having a dick is not enough. Dont you rhink marrying you will be a curse to her.

I strongly recommend she leaves you

No wonder she is saying ' if you break up with me, where would I start from'..
Relationship is not a Poverty reduction program..

She should go back to her poor Father!!!

LilMissFavvy:
Let her get a job. Lack of funds could be the reason.

If this guy is your brother, will you allow him to marry her

Be sincere.

forgot to tell you, she bought me a native dress and sent 6k to me from her 33k NYSC allawee. She is a good girl. She is nice and caring. I love this girl real good. Never loved anyone like this before.



If she is a good girl to you,then why coming here to narrate all ordeals to us

Park well man

oglalasioux:
You've just been baptized into the world of women. If you want to get married stick with this one. 99.999% of women will do same thing. Worse things are in store for you if you dare try others. Live with it. That's how the universe was made.

Kaiiii. You are the only one that have since said something in my mind .

Baba, to be honest, girls dey fear me now a days . I see shit they do. That's why I ran back to my ex, but unfortunately, alot have changed in her .

Can I have your WhatsApp digit

Alzirida:
Stop checking on people's phone.

Stop looking for clue to know if ur relationship is ideal. If u find one, it will cut the trust. If u didn't see, u won't stop searching until u see.

If u are a busy person with self esteem, u will not have time search for who the hell ur spouse is eyeing.


Pls quit the relationship. If u go ahead it will never end well.
Get a new person. This time not because the new person is different ....manage that one, don't look for clue of cheating

Never do Paternity test
That is your logic ooo

@OP,
See ehn, you are just looking for excuses to marry a LovePeddler.
If you don't mind sharing your wife with married men all over town, please go ahead. Just keep some money aside to do paternity test on future kids.
If the idea of kids born in the marriage not being yours appeal to you, great. Congrats in advance. You can even take up a new hobby of joining swingers club.

That 6k she sent you might well be from her married man, who knows?

Biafrareform:
.

I believed we all have past. Even myself have got a past. Same as you .

I believe everyone deserves a chance . A willing heart ready to change though.

And I also believed no one is perfect . The only bad girl out there is the one you have discovered her past .
There are many who we see as good , but undiscovered bad side .

Continue consoling yourself you hear? The next one you go see for her phone go break your waist.
*whistles away*

Even though it may be so hard but bro, ...




Move on !