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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Nobody: 9:12am On Mar 04, 2020
A friend of yours or you? grin
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by oluplus(m): 10:34am On Mar 04, 2020
JasonScoolari:
You're struggling to take care of your family but you did not struggle to unleash the loads of fertile sperm inside her....


If you're truly struggling as you claim, you would have thought of family planning or use contraceptive, but NO, you choose to dive Raw because "E too sweet"

This is the result of diving raw...


Keep the baby and keep on hustling.

Goodluck!

His friend, remember? You know it's always their friends

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Alanzazani: 5:40pm On Mar 04, 2020
OceanOfJoy:
A friend of yours or you? grin

So somebody cannot bring his friend's issue on nairaland without nairaland FBI poking nose.
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Alanzazani: 5:40pm On Mar 04, 2020
oluplus:


His friend, remember? You know it's always their friends

Drop your advice
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Nobody: 9:22pm On Mar 04, 2020
Lamanii22:
Give birth to the baby please... Let me adopt it....

Or you want to buy the baby. Since you are fertile.
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by nlPoster: 9:24pm On Mar 04, 2020
Alanzazani:


Drop your advice

Where are you from please?


It's a public forum and you shouldn't be opening general threads asking for people's opinions if you prefer specialized responses.

Alanzazani:
Ignore these stupid kids talking tribe here. Buh I was in icpc headquarters some days back and a friend had a problem with someone he met a Yoruba officer and the guy directed him to force headquarters and was like if u go to force headquarters just look for any Yoruba officer. D Yoruba's want d advancement of their race but in that process they discriminate against others, which is y people are weary of them. I dey civil service I know what I am saying. D northerner will never do that
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by dalass(f): 9:24pm On Mar 04, 2020
timro:
My daughter was six month old when I took in took in with the 2nd baby. I was very calm. All I did was to stop breastfeeding my daughter and placed her on baby food and multivitamins.

Your wife and baby will be very okay as long as both of them feeds well.

Please take care of them. " Children are the heritage of the Lord and the fruit of the womb is it's reward".

Wow... Amazing!
Good of you..

Great advice
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Akagbe(m): 9:26pm On Mar 04, 2020
GOOD LUCK TO YOU MAN
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by omotowo2: 9:27pm On Mar 04, 2020
Lamanii22:
Give birth to the baby please... Let me adopt it....
why do u want to adopt the baby?
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Hahjascho(m): 9:27pm On Mar 04, 2020
Don't rush while making sudden decision, be calm also, never do abortion.
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Meritocracy: 9:28pm On Mar 04, 2020
It's very sure that you're delivery through CS again, the minimum interval for CS to heal up and pregnant again for normal delivery is 18month.
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by roladex(f): 9:29pm On Mar 04, 2020
Nothing new under the sun.
Next pls
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by CaptainFM1: 9:29pm On Mar 04, 2020
Alanzazani:
A friend of my shared his story with me.

He got married in October 2018, had a baby in July 2019. His wife had a fibroid in her uterus hence a ceasarian operation was carried out.

A few days ago they went for a scan to see what the fibroid looks like. To his amazement he was told his wife is 10 weeks pregnant.

The young man is devastated. He is struggling to take care of his baby and his family. Only to be shocked with this news of a 10-week-old pregnancy.

He is contemplating aborting the pregnancy. He doesn't know if 8 months is enough time for his wife's body to have healed. I strongly advised him against this. His wife is unwilling to abort the baby. Mature advice need. FP please


Does this place looks like a hospital to you? This is how u will get toxic and dangerous opinions.
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by SweetCunt97(f): 9:29pm On Mar 04, 2020
michlins:
abortion isn't a sin. Abortion is safer than childbirth if you must know

At op, instead of you to bring a child into this world when you aren't ready, abort and prepare

I will know you religious people will come for me but before you do, ensure you're a virgin
Don't mind them. They don't know if they financially ready or not. If anything happens to the woman now tomorrow, dem go open mouth like kini dey look.
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by LifeIssues101(f): 9:29pm On Mar 04, 2020
My daughter was 10 months old when I realized I was pregnant with my son.

I know a lady whose child was barely 4 months old, when she got pregnant for another

If she had a c-section like me, she would likely be advised to have another, cos she might not have healed when enough to push a baby.

Her husband should start saving up for a c-section, miracles happen though, but they have to be careful for the safety of the mother and child

Children bring blessings, especially the ones we almost planned to abort

Don't trade your blessings for temporary comfort

This child might be your 'Bill Gates'.

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by roladex(f): 9:29pm On Mar 04, 2020
omotowo2:
why do u want to adopt the baby?
why do u want to know
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Martinez39s(m): 9:30pm On Mar 04, 2020
MrBrownJay1:
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grin grin grin

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Kpandex(m): 9:31pm On Mar 04, 2020
With both parties approval, no sin.
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by SweetCunt97(f): 9:31pm On Mar 04, 2020
Hahjascho:
Don't rush while making sudden decision, be calm also, never do abortion.
Never do Abortion? Woman had cs and dem no even give her body time to heal. Better to abort and heal up properly biko. Even God in heaven is rational, na we dey try turn him mouth piece and personal assistant.
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by gentle007(m): 9:32pm On Mar 04, 2020
JasonScoolari:
You're struggling to take care of your family but you did not struggle to unleash the loads of fertile sperm inside her....


If you're truly struggling as you claim, you would have thought of family planning or use contraceptive, but NO, you choose to dive Raw because "E too sweet"

This is the result of diving raw...


Keep the baby and keep on hustling.

Goodluck!
You don't have a point abeg, this is not what he asked you.
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Happyguy201: 9:33pm On Mar 04, 2020
why would any sensible man go into marriage if your going to be struggling in it . even the wife self no get job .smh
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by TheMainMan: 9:33pm On Mar 04, 2020
Children born in such circumstances mostly turn out great... you don't know the great man or woman of tomorrow you are aborting...

Who knows if the arrival of the baby will even spell good fortunes for you...
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by TruthSpeaker: 9:34pm On Mar 04, 2020
CAPITAL NO TO THAT ABORTION PLAN. THINGS WILL SORT OUT THEMSELVES. CAN YOU IMAGINE IF YOUR MUM HAD ABORTED WHEN SHE WAS PREGNANT FOR YOU, OR IF YOUR WIFE MUM DID THE SAME? YOU GUYS (HUSBAND & WIFE) WOULDN’T HAVE KNOWN EARTH LET ALONE KNOWN EACH OTHER. ASSUME RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR INTENSE SEX DRIVE. IT SEEMS AS IF YOUR WIFE REFUSED TO BREASTFEED THE 8 MONTHS OLD BABY, BECAUSE BREASTFEEDING IS ALSO A MEANS OF FAMILY PLANNING (ALTHOUGH NOT 100% EFFECTIVE).
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by KIA51(f): 9:34pm On Mar 04, 2020
My daughter was six month old when I took in took in with the 2nd baby. I was very calm. All I did was to stop breastfeeding my daughter and placed her on baby food and multivitamins.
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Your wife and baby will be very okay as long as both of them feeds well.

Please take care of them. " Children are the heritage of the Lord and the fruit of the womb is it's reward"


In their own case, an initial CS is involve; and His worries are if the wife is healed enough to house another feotos and have another CS down for delivery within the space of a year.

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by golddare: 9:34pm On Mar 04, 2020
Alanzazani:
A friend of my shared his story with me.

He got married in October 2018, had a baby in July 2019. His wife had a fibroid in her uterus hence a ceasarian operation was carried out.

A few days ago they went for a scan to see what the fibroid looks like. To his amazement he was told his wife is 10 weeks pregnant.

The young man is devastated. He is struggling to take care of his baby and his family. Only to be shocked with this news of a 10-week-old pregnancy.

He is contemplating aborting the pregnancy. He doesn't know if 8 months is enough time for his wife's body to have healed. I strongly advised him against this. His wife is unwilling to abort the baby. Mature advice need. FP please


Why is he disturbing himself, the child will be a year and half before the arrival of the second one.

Dont go and kill your wife with abortion because of shame.

Sometimes I wish I can scream at people that nobody send you so why you dey send people.

Double your hustle to increase your income and get closer to God for divine help.

Finally, look at the bright side of this matter.

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Harbeeorlar(m): 9:34pm On Mar 04, 2020
Can we chat as regard this?
Lamanii22:
Give birth to the baby please... Let me adopt it....
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by KIDfurniture(m): 9:35pm On Mar 04, 2020
Look at it this way.I think the woman have a short time to spend with us. GOD forgive us but let the baby grow peacefully. You will have to triple the struggle. Not every child will grow up to experience mothers love, not all will experience fathers love. God have mercy on us. Give that baby a chance please.
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Skmoda360(m): 9:35pm On Mar 04, 2020
Alanzazani:
A friend of my shared his story with me.

He got married in October 2018, had a baby in July 2019. His wife had a fibroid in her uterus hence a ceasarian operation was carried out.

A few days ago they went for a scan to see what the fibroid looks like. To his amazement he was told his wife is 10 weeks pregnant.

The young man is devastated. He is struggling to take care of his baby and his family. Only to be shocked with this news of a 10-week-old pregnancy.

He is contemplating aborting the pregnancy. He doesn't know if 8 months is enough time for his wife's body to have healed. I strongly advised him against this. His wife is unwilling to abort the baby. Mature advice need. FP please
it's you abeg stop lying....it's better you tell us the truth that it's you grin

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Lugianostar(m): 9:36pm On Mar 04, 2020
Raw divers always have a great experiences or great consequencies and what you landed yourself is part of it...!

Enjoy

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by crackhouse(m): 9:36pm On Mar 04, 2020
Lamanii22:
Give birth to the baby please... Let me adopt it....
Adopt it? What an insult to the baby...
Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by Offpoint: 9:36pm On Mar 04, 2020
timro:
My daughter was six month old when I took in took in with the 2nd baby. I was very calm. All I did was to stop breastfeeding my daughter and placed her on baby food and multivitamins.

Your wife and baby will be very okay as long as both of them feeds well.

Please take care of them. " Children are the heritage of the Lord and the fruit of the womb is it's reward".
Just 6 months and both of you were banging Raw and you even quote Bible verses to justify the ruthless banging.

Children are the heritage of the Lord yen yen... is responsible for the population problems Nigeria is facing.

even rats have mating season

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Re: Help My Child Is 8 Months And Wife Is Pregnant Again by madridsta007(m): 9:37pm On Mar 04, 2020
Alanzazani:
A friend of my shared his story with me.

He got married in October 2018, had a baby in July 2019. His wife had a fibroid in her uterus hence a ceasarian operation was carried out.

A few days ago they went for a scan to see what the fibroid looks like. To his amazement he was told his wife is 10 weeks pregnant.

The young man is devastated. He is struggling to take care of his baby and his family. Only to be shocked with this news of a 10-week-old pregnancy.

He is contemplating aborting the pregnancy. He doesn't know if 8 months is enough time for his wife's body to have healed. I strongly advised him against this. His wife is unwilling to abort the baby. Mature advice need. FP please

He should not abort that life.
There are adoption options he can go to.
Next time he should HOLD himself. He wont die. And I am sure his wife would understand too if he uses protection with her.
I am struggling to understand why people do not think with their heads with matters of se.xual nature.

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