NextD18:
What an interesting thread!

Comments here gives me hope that men are getting wiser.

Keep the comments coming! I'm highly impressed!

Korllami007:
There are millions of non virgin women giving their men wahala by fvcking their exes a day before their marriage then probably give you someone else kid to train. There millions of non virgin women a cross the world that they characters can turn north pole to desert. Most infedelities in the world are mostly perpetrated by non virgin women.

I would rather marry virgin with wahala and enjoy my tight pussy than marry a community sperm depot with wahala.

It's a food for thought.

CassieCougar:


Likewise marrying a non virgin girl does not guarantee successful marriage. I no fit carry ocean keep for house and the same ocean will have strong waves that can wreck big ships because I cannot come and go and kill myself.
If you marry a non virgin girl with good character, that's your luck. If I marry a virgin girl with good character, that's my double lucks.

Korllami007:
There are millions of non virgin women giving their men wahala by fvcking their exes a day before their marriage then probably give you someone else kid to train. There millions of non virgin women a cross the world that they characters can turn north pole to desert. Most infedelities in the world are mostly perpetrated by non virgin women.

I would rather marry virgin with wahala and enjoy my tight pussy than marry a community sperm depot with wahala.

It's a food for thought.

Vega100:
Disclaimer This thread does not in anyway encourage promiscuity nor does it propergate indecency but rather it underscores some real facts for young ladies to be aware and more mindful of what's ahead.

So a very close friend of mine I happen to know very well married as a virgin, this was about 11 years ago. After about a year of blissful marriage, her marriage turned hell in the ensuing years that followed, she never opened up to me until last week when she did; she is blessed with kids, but her husband has been giving her hell in the marriage, abuses her, both physically, mentally and emotionally, carries various young girls and flaunts them to her face. She is about calling it quite. This is a girl I know very well as we grew up together, and I can vouch for her on many fronts, one thing I know about her is how genuine, cool headed and humble she is, she's someone meek at heart, I am sure she wouldn't create problems for her husband in a home, she was just unfortunate falling into the wrong hands

I also happen to come from a large family with 5 sisters (all married), from all my sisters, the one with the best marriage is the one that lived more of a party life style in school, attended many parties etc, and the one with the worse marriage was the one that married a virgin (actually, she has the kind of personality I wouldn't be surprised might cause problem for her , her husband and husband relatives, as she could be selfish).

My point is, for the Ladies, being chaste and maintaining high morals is something any parent will be proud about and will long for their child to uphold; but do not see that as all you need to portray yourself as suitable enough "wife material". Marriage is something very dynamic and complex, it entails a lot, and has to do with both you working on various facets of your life (of which sexuality is just one) as well as being able to choose an appropriate partner for yourself.

Do not see being a Virgin as the price you have to uphold for your husband, as it doesn't in anyway guarantee a good or perfect marriage (far from it), it is rather more dependent or perhaps a fine and infallible blend of various facets of your life viz a viz personality, charisma, behaviour, sensibility etc. as well as your keen sagaciousness in choosing an appropriate partner who is sensible and will be very well compatible with you..

Just a food for thought sageful minds can ruminate and mull over!!

Thank you very much for your time.

Yours truly

Vega100

Paxie55:
Male virgins and rich guys with sense are the best

Paxie55:
Male virgins and rich guys with sense are the best

Chi59:
A sensible post riddled with silly comments from narcissistic, small - minded simpletons whose only aim in life is to remain buried between a tight kitten.

Amanda4life:



Virgin male are so so faithful in marriage


Every single thing you do he will appreciate it

Vega100:
after delivery of her kids, she's grown really fat and unattractive, I believe that's a major part of her troubles... the man just wants a new wife!!!... she's a good person..

Korllami007:
There are millions of non virgin women giving their men wahala by fvcking their exes a day before their marriage then probably give you someone else kid to train. There millions of non virgin women a cross the world that they characters can turn north pole to desert. Most infedelities in the world are mostly perpetrated by non virgin women.

I would rather marry virgin with wahala and enjoy my tight pussy than marry a community sperm depot with wahala.

It's a food for thought.

Korllami007:
There are millions of non virgin women giving their men wahala by fvcking their exes a day before their marriage then probably give you someone else kid to train. There millions of non virgin women a cross the world that they characters can turn north pole to desert. Most infedelities in the world are mostly perpetrated by non virgin women.

I would rather marry virgin with wahala and enjoy my tight pussy than marry a community sperm depot with wahala.

It's a food for thought.

Ayoswit:
Staying faithful to your partner is the real deal here. Some ladies who married as virgins are easy target for other men lustful sexual desire especially if their spouse isn't faithful to them. Virginity is a woman's pride no doubt but a lady with a great personality whether she is a virgin or not should be a better option for a man that wants to settle down maritally.

emkz:
While we need to interrogate the correlation of virginity with marital stability, what did your childhood friend do to trigger such erratic behaviour from her husband? Except he is a mad man, this story is one-sided.

Virginity and stability in marriages are anti-correlated; keeping your body chaste without paying attention to developing your character will not insure a successful marriage. I can marry a prostitute who has abandoned her ways and has turned a new leaf than a virgin with a questionable character.

Chi59:
A sensible post riddled with silly comments from narcissistic, small - minded simpletons whose only aim in life is to remain buried between a tight kitten.

Viking07:
How old are you?

Adeagbo77:
It's a matter of choice or available lady within your reach. Whether virgin or non-virgin the best thing that can happen to a man is to get a good well-mannered and cultured wife. If that's complemented with a nice and responsible husband, the marriage will be an enviable one. All the same, there's nothing as sweet as marrying a virgin with qualities of a good wife. Any time, any day that man would continue to cherish her. I am talking from experience. When I met my wife as virgin, I gave her special gifts and bought a big ram for her father. Ladies don't be deceived, you would be more appreciated by your husband if you marry as virgin.

unmask:
I am not interested in marrying a virgin.....most are usually not adventurous and socially awkward.

jmoore:
Neither does a borehole guarantee a stable marriage.

You said the husband was giving her hell. So what's the correlation with virginity and hellish husband?

I choose a virgin 1 million times over a non-virgin.

Those that use the phrase 'virginity doesn't guarantee a successful marriage' are usually borehole lovers.

You hardly see anyone saying 'non virgin doesn't guarantee successful marriage'. Your dislike for virgins would always show no matter how hard you try to mask it.
Nonsense!!

ndcide:



Rubbish!!!!!!
This stupid thread is for your ilks. Whatever message you think you want to pass, can be passed without bringing virgins into the narrative.

It shows hollowness to try to admonition virgins who have decided to take a noble path, with a general idea that should apply to all.

Keeping your virginity is an icing on the cake, it's a crown to the head of anyone who successfully took that path.

Non virgins are not better than virgins.

Treat character and attitude issues on its own, don't bring virginity to it, especially if you don't respect it.

UndauntedYOCA:

Great! I think the most important thing is for both of them to be of good conduct, not each, involving God first is of utmost importance (don't come for me over this, I have the right to have my belief) and lastly, as much as some folks are clamouring for virgins have also never had sex then that's great. Marrying a virgin is wonderful, at least you know say nobody don dey there but it doesn't even guarantee a peaceful home, a virgin can also eventually cheat in the marriage. Those who aren't virgins should also be careful of how, when and with whom they have sex
I happen to know a guy who married a virgin, Nigga still relishes the first time he had sex and the girl he had sex with . In all, being supportive, being each other's peace, being good listeners, ability not to keep grudge with one's spouse, resolve matters asap, build each other, not be violent in any form and not cheat dey important!!!

cococandy:
Talk about female virginity without male virginity is stupid talk.

Remijuice:
Guy Your Post is Self Contradictory!
The first case you talked about, all I have to tell you is that girls don't marry for love. They marry the one that is ready for marriage.
About the Five Sisters :
The none virgin married a Simp man.
She's a whóre, so it's easier for her to discern a nice guy. You know, good guys finish last.
The virgin ones: You are a virgin shouldn't make you dumb. It's easier for a player to get a virgin girl than a dummy..
Lastly : A virgin won't be missing her ex dick or complaining that your penis is weeny.

Adeagbo77:
It's a matter of choice or available lady within your reach. Whether virgin or non-virgin the best thing that can happen to a man is to get a good well-mannered and cultured wife. If that's complemented with a nice and responsible husband, the marriage will be an enviable one. All the same, there's nothing as sweet as marrying a virgin with qualities of a good wife. Any time, any day that man would continue to cherish her. I am talking from experience. When I met my wife as virgin, I gave her special gifts and bought a big ram for her father. Ladies don't be deceived, you would be more appreciated by your husband if you marry as virgin.

walexy06:
Me that want to marry a virgin, am I even a virgin? Please no need to live double standard life.. Let virgins go for virgins n others as dey please.
One thing I know is, all virgins are ugly, I am a living example.

fullblast:
Marriage is all about crisis management. Are you a good crisis manager?
That should be the topmost requirement before delving into such serious Union.
Virginity has nothing to do with it.
Just like the op, I'm not promoting promiscuity.

Way back in school, I know a lady who kept her virginity but loves anal s3x and 69 position. Is this one a Vee? Lol! But She's married now. At least I know something the husband will never know.
I just pity those that have fetish for Vees. You can't be certain that it's tested or untested Ok. Lol!

Experience, they say, is the best. Most of the outgoing ladies end up marrying the best husband materials. Remember, I didn't say ALL of them.

My advice: Build up yourself in all ramifications. Do not stick to handouts only because life is a jig-saw puzzle.
Prove most things (DO IT YOURSELF). This will earn u firsthand experience. Hence you become a better crisis Manager to EASILY overcome the twists and bends in life.