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Peacefullove:
Money will give you HER BODY . not her heart ... Na why dem still dey cheat on una with Ex boyfriends who dey are in love with be that. While improving your life goals. U must study this aspect too. Or else u buy her body while someone else got her heart. And where her heart is , her body follows.

OgunLaakaye:
In my opinion
I feel both you and your friend are kids.
Male puppies.

Ricchcream:
Ok, I'll do my own research and intimate you when I find something.

I'm interested in it because the words reel off as if from a book. Lol.

Ariza:
I wonder why Ubuntu's followers always go overboard with things. Some days ago, a follower was arguing that guys aren't supposed to relate or converse with ladies here no matter what because redpills doesn't allow it. Now another follower stupidly blown what he could have won out of unnecessary pride.

Yes I read the No approach No greenlight and I support it. Men shouldn't chase everything that's in skirts and should save themselves from unnecessary "magarism" . So I hold no brief against op for trying to use what he learned, however,op over did it! The girl offering her number after getting your card is a greenlight. An Alphamale will collect the number but won't call, this will put the girl in suspense thereby prompt her to call in order to find out why he hasn't called then the guy takes it off from there. That's how to do stuff. Not some outright bluff like you own the Moon, no sane being finds that attractive.

Op the stunt you pulled will not work on Nigerian girls especially the ones with value.Just forget the girl and move on because She will never call.If she does she can't be trusted, she's probably planning to teach you some lessons because that's something I would do.

Jaqenhghar:
Fúck you! You can't prove shít because it never happened. You are a liar. There is no way a man with experience dating women will post the nonsense you have been putting up. That's my evidence. You are an incel and its because you are too scared to approach women thats why you post all that gibberish. Im sure women have rejected you plenty. Your esteem is so low you have to build yourself somehow and create this false persona like girls fall over themselves for you.

FROGMAN101:
What is the worth of the “heart” when she’s f**ing someone else for money? How do you take that kind of person seriously?

Why do you boys see a big deal in a woman’s love? So she claims to love you but she’s getting f*ucked someone else for money and you think it’s an achievement for you? Servant.

Can’t you see you are being exploited? You are being used for fun. You are being used as a tool. Do you boys think getting exploited only relates to money?

You guys wake up for god sake. Don’t be stupid.

**Puts mask back on**

Peacefullove:
You don't understand Nada.

A woman's love act as a shield that protect her body. When she is in love, the DM from other guys is even irritating. She can have 300 contacts .. But will ignore them all to attend to just one. ( its the reason so many guys complaining ladies snub, when they clearly saw her online for hours ) Its complex . the probability of cheating is extremely low when a woman is in love.


This is why its important to get her love. But when u don't get her love even if you marry her , SHE WILL ALWAYS USE your money to Cater for the attention of the Guy she loves.... That's is the real getting exploited.

ubunja:
it's all the same truth. If you want to be the Prize you act like the prize. Remember both man and woman can be the Prize. I aim to make men the prize.

When men take numbers and initiate the calls, the lady is the Prize. And on the Miseducations we don't want that.

I have heard about that Robert Greene book.

razible5384:
i think you are wrong bro.. You can still initiate the call an eventually become the prize, by making her know an see the stuffs you are made up of when you guys start flowing..she will definitely be the one coming after you,over here, money need dey involve o

pansophist:
Since I operate on the idea that women are the chooser, I'll only shoot my shot to the demography of women who have already chosen and found me attractive to begin with. The typical protocol of approaching a girl, such as, trying to "prove oneself", woeing, taking her out, and all those loops jumping is not for me. I'll never do that. So as a rule, I am always self-improving, to maximise the number of women that will find me attractive, and the number of men that will respect me base on my personality. It is from that pool that I'll pick my friends, and also a potential partner. My current relationship is almost five years, I got her through this method, and I have never for once doubted her love towards me.

When I was about 15 years old or so, my mum told me that she has already loved my dad before he approached her, but had to shakara a bit (playing hard to get), to give my dad the false illusion that he worked for her. It is of no surprise that over 35 years and counting, my mum still love my dad deeply, because it was something she desired from the beginning, and she adviced me and my brothers to only go where we are appreciated romantically. So its green light before approach.

fernandoc:
You gave her card and declined collecting hers as Mark Zuckerberg or who?

razible5384:
u have not still answered the question.. Would you rather resolve to playing your cards close to your chest by waiting for her to take the first initiative by putting a call across or would you take the manly approach by first doing the calling?

So as a rule, I am always self-improving, to maximize the number of women that will find me attractive, and the number of men that will respect me base on my personality. It is from that pool that I'll pick my friends, and also a potential partner

XhosaNostra:
Too many questions.

1st let me explain something to you, perhaps you'll understand where I'm coming from much better. Say I like a guy, right? The way I see it, those are my feelings ( my "headache" ) & just because I feel them is not an indication for me to act on them or start expressing them. I keep a lot of things under lock & key. I will never desert what I consider to be common sense & my dignity because I have "feelings". I'm an extremely proud person & my pride alone will never allow me to chase after ANYONE. Don't care who they are. If they don't make an effort, I also won't bother. Those feelings, that are my own beast to tame, I can always deal with them another time, without burdening somebody else with them. They're mine to handle, after all.

pansophist:
You didn't read to understand. I have already answered your question. So below is an excerpt from what I wrote before.



From the above excerpt, it is clear that I have already answered your question. I must be convinced of the greenlights I am receiving from a woman before I initiate and start romantic negotiations. In other words, I will be the bus driver, but you must be ready to jump inside let us go. I can't do that for you, and will only drive when I am sure there is a passenger waiting to board.

With this method, you will eliminate time wasters, leeches, being perceived as weak trying to ''win'' an inexistent love. Also, you will not be at the mercy of women who will use your affection as leverage to milk you dry financially, as an orbiter for a constant ego boost, and an emotional tampon that soaks all her negative emotions, while putting you on the hook, giving you a false hope that something may come out of it. This is the best method men that respect themselves get women, not the opposite.

I hope it is clarified.

razible5384:
not really against your view cos is very concrete an generally practiced by virtually all the female folks.. But I guess they will be some shifting of stance if it were some rich famous celebrity offering you his card. U will likely do the first calling

XhosaNostra:
Why do think that? You guys have this tendency of projecting things on people.

I've said it already that I don't care who the person is, my nature is to fall way back. Status & money doesn't impress me or make me act out of character either.

A while back when I was still a student, I worked casually as a waitress to make some pocket money. I wasn't making a lot of money, but I was getting by. In that line of work you meet a lot of well-to-do people, especially if you're working for a 5* establishment like I did. Anyway, this guy, a lawyer was interested in me. He had his own law firm & was obviously very wealthy going by the car that he drove. I didn't care about any of that, I didn't want him. I got fired from the restaurant because I refused to serve him for always making lewd comments etc. That's the kind of person I am. Your money is your money, but one thing for sure, it'll not make me treat you any differently just because you have it. I have my own standards that remain the same no matter where I am or who I'm associating with. Yes, I'm very rigid & very unlikely to change my beliefs.

Jaqenhghar:
You know the average Niggerian worships money. Theu believe in that money over everything including your health and dignity. So they dont understand it when they see someone different

XhosaNostra:
Why do think that? You guys have this tendency of projecting things on people.

I've said it already that I don't care who the person is, my nature is to fall way back. Status & money doesn't impress me or make me act out of character either.

A while back when I was still a student, I worked casually as a waitress to make some pocket money. I wasn't making a lot of money, but I was getting by. In that line of work you meet a lot of well-to-do people, especially if you're working for a 5* establishment like I did. Anyway, this guy, a lawyer was interested in me. He had his own law firm & was obviously very wealthy going by the car that he drove. I didn't care about any of that, I didn't want him. I got fired from the restaurant because I refused to serve him for always making lewd comments etc. That's the kind of person I am. Your money is your money, but one thing for sure, it'll not make me treat you any differently just because you have it. I have my own standards that remain the same no matter where I am or who I'm associating with. Yes, I'm very rigid & very unlikely to change my beliefs.

razible5384:
nice hearing this if at all is not made up as some sort of defense mechanism... Good to know we still have some right thinking an sane females around... My bad though

XhosaNostra:
Made up for what? Why would I be afraid to say my truth? Abeg.

ubunja:
not really.

Remember women don't approach like how men approach.

Men physically approach. But a woman approaches by MAKING HERSELF AVAILABLE. Be it walking slowly for the guy to catch up. Or moving away from her friends to give the guy his chance. Or asking for help. That's how Women approach. Also called the Green Lights.
. As a guy you watch out for those. Once given make the move. Then give your number. Then she must initiate the communications by phone etc. But in every step at this stage the lady must lead.


I'm going now. Talk to you later on

pansophist:
Since I operate on the idea that women are the chooser, I'll only shoot my shot to the demography of women who have already chosen and found me attractive to begin with. The typical protocol of approaching a girl, such as, trying to "prove oneself", woeing, taking her out, and all those loops jumping is not for me. I'll never do that. So as a rule, I am always self-improving, to maximise the number of women that will find me attractive, and the number of men that will respect me base on my personality. It is from that pool that I'll pick my friends, and also a potential partner. My current relationship is almost five years, I got her through this method, and I have never for once doubted her love towards me.

When I was about 15 years old or so, my mum told me that she has already loved my dad before he approached her, but had to shakara a bit (playing hard to get), to give my dad the false illusion that he worked for her. It is of no surprise that over 35 years and counting, my mum still love my dad deeply, because it was something she desired from the beginning, and she adviced me and my brothers to only go where we are appreciated romantically. So its green light before approach.

Goalnaldo:
sorry bro but how do you go about it since you say you don't woo them or take them out on a date. Do they come directly and tell you they love you and film relationship Don started.

pansophist:
No, they don't come directly and profess love, that is not a woman thing. What they do is that they drop green lights and behaviours that a man has to be daft not to pick it up. She will give you evidence and cues like a criminal desperate to be arrested.

The hoops and loops she would make other guys undergo, you'll be spared from. No billing, she will call and pick your calls with enthusiasm, laugh at even your driest jokes, interested about your love life, remember your birthdays, wants to spend time and special time with you (eg Valentine, Christmas etc).

Then you can launch your proposal. I do take women on a date, all I'm saying is that I do not just pursue a random girl that I have feelings for, I just let it fade off. I only initiate romantic negotiations with women that have already "chosen" me. Then it's honourable, and I won't feel emasculated trying to get her to like me.

Look at all species, of all the billions of species on the planet, only the human male think they choose a woman, which is not true. The female chooses the male, that's the natural blueprint, and if she accepts your proposal, it's because she has chosen you in the first place, and let you feel like you "won" her over.

pansophist:
No, they don't come directly and profess love, that is not a woman thing. What they do is that they drop green lights and behaviours that a man has to be daft not to pick it up. She will give you evidence and cues like a criminal desperate to be arrested.

The hoops and loops she would make other guys undergo, you'll be spared from. No billing, she will call and pick your calls with enthusiasm, laugh at even your driest jokes, interested about your love life, remember your birthdays, wants to spend time and special time with you (eg Valentine, Christmas etc).

Then you can launch your proposal. I do take women on a date, all I'm saying is that I do not just pursue a random girl that I have feelings for, I just let it fade off. I only initiate romantic negotiations with women that have already "chosen" me. Then it's honourable, and I won't feel emasculated trying to get her to like me.

Look at all species, of all the billions of species on the planet, only the human male think they choose a woman, which is not true. The female chooses the male, that's the natural blueprint, and if she accepts your proposal, it's because she has chosen you in the first place, and let you feel like you "won" her over.

Zabiboy:
Before giving up what??...

C'mon man...

So if she calls now, u'll jzt feel so relieved like u won a lottery??

Infact i dont even knw how to tell u what i want to tell u without sounding rude....so i'll rather not say anything..