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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by remedick: 1:27pm On Mar 29, 2020
heartofcity12:
I wonder why some guys bother themselves about girls.Same girl that is one night stand for one guy will be giving another guy headache for months. Same girl that a guy will get within 3 days, another guy will keep chasing her for years.
Guys wise up, if she’s not agreeing to date you, let her go, stop chasing women. There are a lot of women.
My brother, I learned that lesson the hard way lol.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Budline1(m): 1:27pm On Mar 29, 2020
remedick:
Yes he could cos it seems he just want to fulfill a fantasy he has been nurturing and if he tries being serious with a girl like that... he would regret things

Exactly. That's right.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Fostercat(m): 2:12pm On Mar 29, 2020
Small pikin. Once you chop the kpekus now,
You will run away.

You only talked about the physical attraction.it tells alot about you. The lady is wiser grin

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by mechanics(m): 2:17pm On Mar 29, 2020
larryking540:

Na so men take day buy problem small small ..later they start blaming mother in laws
hahahah, it's well bro.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by WiseStarr(m): 2:19pm On Mar 29, 2020
remedick:
All this one na story... I would never go near a girl like he described her ever again. their head no correct.
Bro,if getting a girl is easy for you just know that there are some people it's hard for them to get the girl they want

And the ladies saying that too has her reason,all you need to do is just to prove her wrong, trust me,she is just being pessimistic
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by ibidapko(m): 2:30pm On Mar 29, 2020
OluwasureGig:

lol. girls ehh. their wahala just too much. especially the fine ones
You guys are definitely not getting the deep reason why the lady is stone walling the guy. I had a similar encounter in my dating days and after a lot of frustration I stumbled on the real reason the lady was turning me around = SHE LIKES MINGLING WITH MUSICIANS AND PEOPLE LIVING ON THE EDGE! GUYS WHO SMOKE HEMP AND WOULDN'T MIND HER HAVING ONE OR TWO SUGAR DADDIES!!

I, a clean corporate guy with a cool ride and a decent apartment was just NOT HER TYPE.
So I looked the other way.

My suggestion is that the guy should look beyond the exteriors and see what the lady is on the inside!!

Maybe she is only turned on by the dreadlocks wearing type!!

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by UndauntedYOCA(f): 2:34pm On Mar 29, 2020
OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heelgrin

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IGgrin

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks

One thing I've learnt in life is never to force myself on people, if your feelings aren't reciprocated after many efforts then let her be. There are many good people out there (beautiful as well). You sort of sound like you're in love with her cuz of her physical attributes, have you even gotten to know her?

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by bjreal67(m): 2:47pm On Mar 29, 2020
My advise: Since you have talked to her and she gave you her response end of chapter the rest of your efforts will be cajoling her which is wrong. Move on cos what you see may not be what you will get

#Too clean.. LOL
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by oshibowalesb: 2:48pm On Mar 29, 2020
You are handsome and always clean, and she is also very beautiful as you have said, stop disturbing yourself bro, both of you are not good for each other in todays marrital life. Marrying a lady who has been complaining about your cleaningness from the begining would surely lead to a very serious problem in future. REALITY!

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by bizzibodi(m): 3:04pm On Mar 29, 2020
Run away from her...she iz dirty or else u will smell bad all-day long.
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Priceless200(f): 3:24pm On Mar 29, 2020
OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heelgrin

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IGgrin

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks

Too handsome you mean?

Neat girls naturally like neat guys.

If truly you re exceptionally neat. Dm
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Nobody: 3:38pm On Mar 29, 2020
PrimadonnaO:


Lol. Nothing of that sort.
I think i understand u... maybe some guys pay too much attention to those things but it doesn't mean we shouldn't groom ourselves to look & smell good tho.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by PrimadonnaO(f): 4:04pm On Mar 29, 2020
dairykidd:

I think i understand u... maybe some guys pay too much attention to those things but it doesn't mean we shouldn't groom ourselves to look & smell good tho.

Great. You get. It's the excessiveness of it making it seem like Obsessive Compulsive Disorder that's a problem.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by mrSerious(m): 4:08pm On Mar 29, 2020
RUN!
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Deyemz(f): 4:10pm On Mar 29, 2020
Hmmm
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Nobody: 4:25pm On Mar 29, 2020
PrimadonnaO:


Great. You get. It's the excessiveness of it making it seem like Obsessive Compulsive Disorder that's a problem.
Yeah and it seems kinda wierd for a guy to be excessive about it or obsessed with how he looks... Ijs

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by remedick: 4:36pm On Mar 29, 2020
WiseStarr:

Bro,if getting a girl is easy for you just know that there are some people it's hard for them to get the girl they want

And the ladies saying that too has her reason,all you need to do is just to prove her wrong, trust me,she is just being pessimistic

Do u want me to tell u what I have learned? undecided
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by HustleMind12(m): 5:19pm On Mar 29, 2020
Bro I wan ask u abeg wetin u do get money vome fresh up like that? ...I dey my mid twenties now and frankly account red o �,


My number just in case u wanna reach out & epp a bro 08063173493
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by PrimadonnaO(f): 5:34pm On Mar 29, 2020
dairykidd:

Yeah and it seems kinda wierd for a guy to be excessive about it or obsessed with how he looks... Ijs

kiss

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Nobody: 6:20pm On Mar 29, 2020
PrimadonnaO:


kiss
First lady cheesy

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by angelfallz(m): 8:12pm On Mar 29, 2020
femi4:
You describe a girl by using general terms like attractive, beautiful etc.

How will you feel if ladies start describing their men like : "He has a curve and long dick"
I would feel normal.

You describe a girl by using general terms like attractive, beautiful etc.

Lol you can describe a girl however you want. others can describe a girl however they want.
He was detailed in his description to give a mental picture of what the girl looks like.
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by angelfallz(m): 8:24pm On Mar 29, 2020
Peacefullove:


There is a way to make Your intention known without needing to follow the bold, by the bold you mean ask her out. ? If she accept ... You risk entering a one sided Love .most men are victims, that's why you hear stories like She only flash whole I do the calling , She always tell me she is busy etc... And if she Reject , you will still end up in that same friend zone, You are no longer a mystery .. She know u have feelings for her , she can easily tamper with your emotions . what I mean is before asking her out,make her want you.

No, i don't mean ask her out when you first see her, that would be foolish. What i meant by the bolded part is get to know her by talking to her, hanging out, maybe go to dominos or mr bigs. This part does not require spending so much time(it is just for you to get a sense of her character and if you like her character and if she is interested you), this can be done in 1 to 2 weeks, although it depends on so many factors oh, like work, school etc. once you are satisfied, ask her to be your girlfriend immediately.
The one of being friends that you talked about is more or less like spending weeks and months being friendly to the girl. Don't you know that other guys are eyeing her as well? the sharp guys would snap her up while you still being friends with her.
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by remedick: 8:55pm On Mar 29, 2020
ibidapko:
You guys are definitely not getting the deep reason why the lady is stone walling the guy. I had a similar encounter in my dating days and after a lot of frustration I stumbled on the real reason the lady was turning me around = SHE LIKES MINGLING WITH MUSICIANS AND PEOPLE LIVING ON THE EDGE! GUYS WHO SMOKE HEMP AND WOULDN'T MIND HER HAVING ONE OR TWO SUGAR DADDIES!!

I, a clean corporate guy with a cool ride and a decent apartment was just NOT HER TYPE.
So I looked the other way.

My suggestion is that the guy should look beyond the exteriors and see what the lady is on the inside!!

Maybe she is only turned on by the dreadlocks wearing type!!
another angu lol... the

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Penndragon(m): 8:56pm On Mar 29, 2020
Nawa oo
Guy you wan dirty??

cleanliness is next to godliness..
Better stay fresh my guy..
If it was one of those guys on Tv she go talk that one?

However me I think sey maybe...she dey fear her own "dirty" secret heheh cheesy

Stay safe bro

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by remedick: 9:07pm On Mar 29, 2020
Peacefullove:


There is a way to make Your intention known without needing to follow the bold, by the bold you mean ask her out. ? If she accept ... You risk entering a one sided Love .most men are victims, that's why you hear stories like She only flash whole I do the calling , She always tell me she is busy etc... And if she Reject , you will still end up in that same friend zone, You are no longer a mystery .. She know u have feelings for her , she can easily tamper with your emotions . what I mean is before asking her out,make her want you.
Oga boss, there is nothing wrong in making your intention known... Most Nigerian girls do not know how to handle a relationship because most of them don't know how it works or should work.

It has nothing to do with making intentions know by asking her out directly. If a girl does not want to call, she wouldn't call you. Nigerian girls, over 80% of them don't know how to do these things... and it is their nature, especially when you are dealing with those ones from some sort of average or below average homes.

Nigerian Girls who call are from a different strata of the society if you check your stats.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by remedick: 9:20pm On Mar 29, 2020
Priceless200:


Too handsome you mean?

Neat girls naturally like neat guys.

If truly you re exceptionally neat. Dm
Bold woman. I like that. But I will advise you go through his post again to know you meet up to his "fantasy" and are comfortable with the way he described the girl in question, which to me is just lusting.

Don't come back and say men are scum o... me i go remove shirt and fight you if you do that...

Good luck.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Natemrwiz: 10:24pm On Mar 29, 2020
[quote author=OluwasureGig post=87800176]Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heelgrin

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IGgrin

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks[lmao detty yourself ]
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Budline1(m): 10:41pm On Mar 29, 2020
ibidapko:
You guys are definitely not getting the deep reason why the lady is stone walling the guy. I had a similar encounter in my dating days and after a lot of frustration I stumbled on the real reason the lady was turning me around = SHE LIKES MINGLING WITH MUSICIANS AND PEOPLE LIVING ON THE EDGE! GUYS WHO SMOKE HEMP AND WOULDN'T MIND HER HAVING ONE OR TWO SUGAR DADDIES!!

I, a clean corporate guy with a cool ride and a decent apartment was just NOT HER TYPE.
So I looked the other way.

My suggestion is that the guy should look beyond the exteriors and see what the lady is on the inside!!

Maybe she is only turned on by the dreadlocks wearing type!!

Another angle. Yours was a typical runs girl tho.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by princevee(m): 11:59pm On Mar 29, 2020
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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by alfonso36(m): 12:06am On Mar 30, 2020
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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by tomju(m): 5:54am On Mar 30, 2020
Get dirty!!
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by WiseStarr(m): 7:59am On Mar 30, 2020
remedick:


Do u want me to tell u what I have learned? undecided

I will like you to tell me

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