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What a true-life story.

Learnt a lot.

Tankunland:
When Shola's mom called me her first question was do i know who the father of Samuel is and I replied and said yes of course it's her grand daughters dad and she said to me I'm the real father of Samuel and that her late daughter reiterated it 2 days before she died guys I went crazy again.


Why me, why me, why me was the question I was asking my self. Why is all this thing's happening to me was the question that just kept repeating itself in my head.


I went to see my boy and the connection was instant ooo just carrying him again after 6 months send shivers down my spine and now I'm just waiting for his Grandma to tell the other guy that Samuel is mine.


I have already started sending my kid small small money again for his up keep Lol even tho not much because I don't even have much now but i would do everything within my power to give this Young kid the best of life that me and his late mother my queen his mother planned for him even when I never knew he was mine.


Wow I'm done. My hands ache. Just wanna say thank you to Seun Osewa for this beautiful forum, thank you to Joe Abah for retweeting that tweet even tho it hasn't yield devident yet but thanks and thank you to those beautiful souls that saved my life with that 9k I know you remember me and I say God bless you.


and to those on the verge of suicide I tell you that you can overcome and it's not the end of the world for you and Whatever you are passing through has an end ok and I need you to realize people somewhere is passing through the same or even harder situation than you. Don't give up, don't stop praying even tho I lost my faith a lil but don't lose yours because only the almighty can do all things.


To my young sister's reading this please be contented with what your man gives to you. The course of sholas death was so painful when I heard but please my dear sister dont date a Yahoo boy for any reason or even go out with one.


I tell you Yahoo doesn't work again and what they do now is Yahoo plus and some of this guy's are heartless and don't care about anyone than just to make that fetish money amd they would use you and any other girl they find to keep that money coming.


To my Young King's reading this don't have a girlfriend in your 20s please. Use that time to develop your self. Work hard to make yourself better as getting a girlfriend would really slow you dowm from attaining that top you want to go.

And last Please if you are too weak to move on or too tired to live again and you think suicide is your escape please speak out, yes some would laugh at you and call you names but speak out as there is that one person that would listen to you.



I LOVE YOU SHOLA AND REST IN PEACE

Your story is quite touching bro.

RIP to your sweetheart but what was the cause of her death?

Tankunland:
When Shola's mom called me her first question was do i know who the father of Samuel is and I replied and said yes of course it's her grand daughters dad and she said to me I'm the real father of Samuel and that her late daughter reiterated it 2 days before she died guys I went crazy again.


Why me, why me, why me was the question I was asking my self. Why is all this thing's happening to me was the question that just kept repeating itself in my head.


I went to see my boy and the connection was instant ooo just carrying him again after 6 months send shivers down my spine and now I'm just waiting for his Grandma to tell the other guy that Samuel is mine.


I have already started sending my kid small small money again for his up keep Lol even tho not much because I don't even have much now but i would do everything within my power to give this Young kid the best of life that me and his late mother my queen his mother planned for him even when I never knew he was mine.


Wow I'm done. My hands ache. Just wanna say thank you to Seun Osewa for this beautiful forum, thank you to Joe Abah for retweeting that tweet even tho it hasn't yield devident yet but thanks and thank you to those beautiful souls that saved my life with that 9k I know you remember me and I say God bless you.


and to those on the verge of suicide I tell you that you can overcome and it's not the end of the world for you and Whatever you are passing through has an end ok and I need you to realize people somewhere is passing through the same or even harder situation than you. Don't give up, don't stop praying even tho I lost my faith a lil but don't lose yours because only the almighty can do all things.


To my young sister's reading this please be contented with what your man gives to you. The course of sholas death was so painful when I heard but please my dear sister dont date a Yahoo boy for any reason or even go out with one.


I tell you Yahoo doesn't work again and what they do now is Yahoo plus and some of this guy's are heartless and don't care about anyone than just to make that fetish money amd they would use you and any other girl they find to keep that money coming.


To my Young King's reading this don't have a girlfriend in your 20s please. Use that time to develop your self. Work hard to make yourself better as getting a girlfriend would really slow you dowm from attaining that top you want to go.

And last Please if you are too weak to move on or too tired to live again and you think suicide is your escape please speak out, yes some would laugh at you and call you names but speak out as there is that one person that would listen to you.



I LOVE YOU SHOLA AND REST IN PEACE

did you do DNA to confirm if it's your son

akaahs:
Wooowah, ur resilient to those temptations is something encouraging and ur write ups even as secondary school leaver is a top notch.
I really felt inspired by ur story and all the lesson learned.
But what's the cause of Sholas death?

ah Sir let me respect her memories ok. That's private for me and her family. I'm sorry sir

skymight:
Thanks bro this really touched me. I have been planning for a sucide now since January this year but I am having a rethink right now.

ah no no no no no bro. Come on my brother there is light at end of each tunnel. Please don't, you would overcome I tell you sir. God got you ok. I love you, we love you and you would make it

Tankunland:
yeah I already did thanks. I gave out lot of informations and I wouldn't want it leading back to me

Have you heard of the redpill? Will you take the redpill?

https://www.nairaland.com/5695941/many-memes-redpill-guys-get

https://www.nairaland.com/5150034/boys-get-here-mumu-must

naijastoryz:
did you do DNA to confirm if it's your son

would she lie on her dying bed Sir? Anyways when there is enough funds hopefully I would go do a paternity test but facially goodness this kid looks like me

Tankunland:
nope you know I wanna keep my animosity right? But my name is close to ajayi but not ajayi

Kindly remove your twitter handle on this profile. You aren't anonymous because your twitter handle have your name, picture and you fixing CCTV cams.

Stay Strong and never give up.

Tankunland:
would she lie on her dying bed Sir? Anyways when there is enough funds hopefully I would go do a paternity test but facially goodness this kid looks like me

make sure you do DNA test and you didn't tell us what killed her

Veryfoolishboy:
I
SAY
SOME
BODY
SHOUT
HALELUYAAAAA

Halleluyayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

ubunja martinez39s franchangs pansophist
Pls, abeg make una come put mouth fot this mata

Asin,as i was srolling,i nearly cried.Not funny

Opperwezen:
Walahi I dey tell you, that time wey i use keypad navigate nairaland my thumb nearly destroy
Not much of a stress on a touch screen tho

Tankunland:
would she lie on her dying bed Sir? Anyways when there is enough funds hopefully I would go do a paternity test but facially goodness this kid looks like me

You had better start using your brain. Go get a DNA test. What if she pinned the boy on you because she knows her baby daddy won't take care of him like you would after she is gone? What if it was her last-ditch effort to secure her son's future? Why would you trust the words of someone who said your "son" belongs to her baby daddy and had the boy live with the baby daddy as his son for a long time? You really need to start using your brain. Seems your ordeal wasn't harsh enough to activate your brain and make it override your emotions. You have to tune down your emotions, and start being logical.

Bro you gave this thread a wrong heading.
It should have been -

The rise and fall of Takunland or

The chronicles and lamentation of Takunland.
Which one you prefer?

Asin,as i was scrolling,i nearly cried.Not funny

Opperwezen:
Walahi I dey tell you, that time wey i use keypad navigate nairaland my thumb nearly destroy
Not much of a stress on a touch screen tho

realestate99:
our people will say "someone that has a kid for you can not be called a concubine again". in as much your story is very touching, I am not comfortable with your shola going back to her baby daddy, I think there is always this bond that can't be explained between two ex lovers with a kid from their union. In all sincerity, it takes huge maturity to be in a relationship with a baby mama.

You are so so right. I have realized that the earlier one topped being UNNECESSARILY EMOTIONAL in decision making, the best for his or her future, peace and well being

Rawhumper:
So sorry bro,ur Story Looks real but u know we dont know scammers from The real Thing.
I hv a beautiful Lady i met her last year she is with a five yr daughter both Are really fair and gorgeous.She told me the father of her daughter is already married but she didnt know about it till after her marriage.
But after Reading ur Story i am havin a change Of mind... i dnt give her much.She Loves me,tho am goodlooking (not really photogenic) dont sorry myself about women as i can get 16yr old gals to date me as well without giving them much at my age now.She once told me many men Are pestering her for marriage but for many months has stuck to me....the truth is i hv others but i love her More.When we walk even in darkness pple turn to look at her cos of her Beauty.I intend been serious with her but i Hope she wont come up with sumtin one day....
She doesnt demand,most times am d one begging her to collect what i hv for her.

I hope you learned something from op mgs. His girlfriend who is a SM (single mom) of two told him if he didn't get her 15k, no sex! These leeches are not supposed to be pitied. You ask yourself if she was smart enough, would she make the mistake of having a baby out of wedlock. I'd tell you the real story behind your girlfriend and that man she said is married and left her with a baby. You girlfriend wanted to use a baby to trap him, and he decided to bounce on her and got married to another woman leaving your girlfriend with the baby. Look, if you don't believe, ask her why she hasn't made contact to the man's current wife and told her if the ordeal since she believes she didn't know the man was married when they were dating.

Dating is no excuse to have a baby for another man who is not married or is actually planning on getting to you as a woman! As a young girl you might think it's actually being woke, but you are not, you are just stupıd.

Back to you humper the earlier you dump that SM of a girlfriend the best for you. She is not a smart girl and her poor choices shows that.

OP I have one thing to tell you.
"To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering, one must not love. But then, one suffers from not loving. Therefore, to love is to suffer; not to love is to suffer; to suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy, then, is to suffer, but suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be happy, one must love or love to suffer or suffer from too much happiness."

Sure, this is funny as hell. But I am here to remind you -- your love life does NOT have to be your suffering life.

Viking007:
This is how some people use their own hands to curse themselves. You accuse someone of being a scammer with no evidence whatsoever, then you begin to wonder why you find it difficult getting help when you need one...You reap what you sow.

Glad he's doing much better now.

Tankunland:
When Shola's mom called me her first question was do i know who the father of Samuel is and I replied and said yes of course it's her grand daughters dad and she said to me I'm the real father of Samuel and that her late daughter reiterated it 2 days before she died guys I went crazy again.


Why me, why me, why me was the question I was asking my self. Why is all this thing's happening to me was the question that just kept repeating itself in my head.


I went to see my boy and the connection was instant ooo just carrying him again after 6 months send shivers down my spine and now I'm just waiting for his Grandma to tell the other guy that Samuel is mine.


I have already started sending my kid small small money again for his up keep Lol even tho not much because I don't even have much now but i would do everything within my power to give this Young kid the best of life that me and his late mother my queen his mother planned for him even when I never knew he was mine.


Wow I'm done. My hands ache. Just wanna say thank you to Seun Osewa for this beautiful forum, thank you to Joe Abah for retweeting that tweet even tho it hasn't yield devident yet but thanks and thank you to those beautiful souls that saved my life with that 9k I know you remember me and I say God bless you.


and to those on the verge of suicide I tell you that you can overcome and it's not the end of the world for you and Whatever you are passing through has an end ok and I need you to realize people somewhere is passing through the same or even harder situation than you. Don't give up, don't stop praying even tho I lost my faith a lil but don't lose yours because only the almighty can do all things.


To my young sister's reading this please be contented with what your man gives to you. The course of sholas death was so painful when I heard but please my dear sister dont date a Yahoo boy for any reason or even go out with one.


I tell you Yahoo doesn't work again and what they do now is Yahoo plus and some of this guy's are heartless and don't care about anyone than just to make that fetish money amd they would use you and any other girl they find to keep that money coming.


To my Young King's reading this don't have a girlfriend in your 20s please. Use that time to develop your self. Work hard to make yourself better as getting a girlfriend would really slow you dowm from attaining that top you want to go.

And last Please if you are too weak to move on or too tired to live again and you think suicide is your escape please speak out, yes some would laugh at you and call you names but speak out as there is that one person that would listen to you.



I LOVE YOU SHOLA AND REST IN PEACE

Ur writeup almost made me cry but as a Benin boy, I won't cry. I hail.

jeph19:
E tire me oo
What happened to dating single ladies??

And what is wrong in dating single mothers for those who are comfortable with it and matured in mind to do so?

Tankunland:
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how did shola die? What Killed her? Revealing the paternity of her child 2 days to death means she knew she was going to die?

You type well, try publishing ur story and i wish u well in all u do!

What a sad one... RIP to Shola

You were too young to start a family. To make matter worse not your children another man's responsibilities. What were you thinking?

Martinez39s:
You had better start using your brain. Go get a DNA test. What if she pinned the boy on you because she knows her baby daddy won't take care of him like you would after she is gone? What if it was her last-ditch effort to secure her son's future? Why would you trust the words of someone who said your "son" belongs to her baby daddy and had the boy live with the baby daddy as his son for a long time? You really need to start using your brain. Seems your ordeal wasn't harsh enough to activate your brain and make it override your emotions. You have to tune down your emotions, and start being logical.

Uncle, na by force? You have given your advice, let him decide and it isn't your call to throw tantrums just because he isn't tuning into your advice.

Dis nonfictional write-up touched me sorry I had to activate my profile and make a comment. Am not new on no, I just come ,read and go but dis made me realize it's time I start making my own contributions.@Tankunland stay blessed, stay safe, be strong.

Continue what again... The end lopin cinema

Angelacruz:
Abeg cum continue

quite inspiring but i must confess, you were a fool for love, too weak to be a man.


its a good thing you would be wiser now i want to believe so.


that lady really used you, she was part of your problem.


i advice you to turn this into a book and publish on amazon.


do a dna test on that boy to be sure that she was evil to her grave
tankunland

Tankunland:
ah Sir let me respect her memories ok. That's private for me and her family. I'm sorry sir

cause of death is private? lol. is her cause of death embarrassin or shameful?

nigga you only learnt life, love has not taught you its own lesson yet.

Tankunland:
When Shola's mom called me her first question was do i know who the father of Samuel is and I replied and said yes of course it's her grand daughters dad and she said to me I'm the real father of Samuel and that her late daughter reiterated it 2 days before she died guys I went crazy again.


Why me, why me, why me was the question I was asking my self. Why is all this thing's happening to me was the question that just kept repeating itself in my head.


I went to see my boy and the connection was instant ooo just carrying him again after 6 months send shivers down my spine and now I'm just waiting for his Grandma to tell the other guy that Samuel is mine.


I have already started sending my kid small small money again for his up keep Lol even tho not much because I don't even have much now but i would do everything within my power to give this Young kid the best of life that me and his late mother my queen his mother planned for him even when I never knew he was mine.


Wow I'm done. My hands ache. Just wanna say thank you to Seun Osewa for this beautiful forum, thank you to Joe Abah for retweeting that tweet even tho it hasn't yield devident yet but thanks and thank you to those beautiful souls that saved my life with that 9k I know you remember me and I say God bless you.


and to those on the verge of suicide I tell you that you can overcome and it's not the end of the world for you and Whatever you are passing through has an end ok and I need you to realize people somewhere is passing through the same or even harder situation than you. Don't give up, don't stop praying even tho I lost my faith a lil but don't lose yours because only the almighty can do all things.


To my young sister's reading this please be contented with what your man gives to you. The course of sholas death was so painful when I heard but please my dear sister dont date a Yahoo boy for any reason or even go out with one.


I tell you Yahoo doesn't work again and what they do now is Yahoo plus and some of this guy's are heartless and don't care about anyone than just to make that fetish money amd they would use you and any other girl they find to keep that money coming.


To my Young King's reading this don't have a girlfriend in your 20s please. Use that time to develop your self. Work hard to make yourself better as getting a girlfriend would really slow you dowm from attaining that top you want to go.

And last Please if you are too weak to move on or too tired to live again and you think suicide is your escape please speak out, yes some would laugh at you and call you names but speak out as there is that one person that would listen to you.



I LOVE YOU SHOLA AND REST IN PEACE

Yo bro, your story sounds familiar, are tou the guy i encouraged last year about suicide? A guy who said his wife left him because he lost his job? Adebowalay by nairaland moniker? Are you?

PapaNnamdi:
Martinez39s
ubunja


you see those two monikers,
they have made alot of Revelations through their posts,

This thread is a living testimony to what they have been posting,


God bless you Op, although you learnt the hard way
God bless Martinez39s for your red pill threads
God bless Ubunja for your bitter truths

You are very correct.

The op made lots of mistakes other young men should learn from.

I do read comments from the usernames you mentioned, in as much as their posts do sound harsh and awkward, I will say they have some bitter lessons for young people to learn.


And from the little time I have spent reading posts on Nairaland romance section, I want to advice young people on this forum looking forward to learn more about relationship, dating, marriage and love to always read and follow comments from the below handles:


Martinez39s
ubunja
Toks2008
Franchasmg
Emmaodet
Procillian
Ishilove

And some others I cannot remember.


There are so many truths in their harsh comments on this forum, if you calm down you will learn a lot.





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You see how you lost 1.3M, your keke and job within 20 days? You may likely encounter the same if you link up with a wrong woman. There are some women you hook with and your fortunes will become horrible even if you like learn a skill and there are some you meet and things become so smooth you begin to wonder.

Those ones that bring you ill luck are the most difficult to leave so I won't blame you for always going back to her.

i praise your determination,you are an inspiration and a pure heart to share your secrets with strangers,hardwork pays,may shola rest in peace,this is real life struggle,you took us right from when you where a boy to when you brcame a man,indeed youve learned a lot,its great picking your peices and building afresh,may the earth and nature be kind on you.cheers warrior.