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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by evil1: 2:21pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
its good you have moved on. Focus more on ur children and forget abt the girls family. I'm touched by your story though I have had my own share of struggling and hustling which I'm still on to but its not as bad as urs. Though I wish I could share mine. Its really good to be nice but the truth is never put others above you. 14 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by emmaodet: 2:29pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
mimilogs: Mimilogs, thanks for the recognition. You see, it is not as if we hate women or been toxic or bitter or broke. No Bro, man eye don see. Been a nice, quite, gentle, caring but poor guy got my hands burnt a lot with women. I learnt bitterly but it shaped my perception about relationship. May God help us all. 34 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by dhejykeane: 2:31pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
My moral of the story 1. Invest wisely and pray to God about the investment. He did invest but it vanished into thin air 2. Don't leave above your means. Renting an apartment of 300k on an actual salary of 50k though he was seeing other cash at work was not the best thing to do 3. Dont date or marry a jobless woman/man, if she is jobless she should have prospect of getting employed or a trade /he/she intends to do 4. Single mothers come with excess baggage, if you cant handle it dont go there. And there is always a high possibility of she still sleeping with the baby daddy 5. God should take control of our life, some things happened to him that where beyong his control. Losing his job and the keke in thesame month But Op, First of all she told you she was going to spend a week or so with the ex family. As what exactly and you did not rebuke it? She came back to you after everything went sour with her baby daddy and you took her back. Yes she was nice to you before but you have repaid her faith in you already and owed her nothing anymore at that point. Has the girls mother told her baby daddy that he's not the father of the boy? If she has not then she is playing politics to keep getting money from both of you for the boy and the boy could belong to anyone of you 2 as it is. A DNA test in the nearest future would not be a bad idea She did more harm tham good in your life but I wish you all the best in life, I pray you recover all you lost in more than double folds I pray you find love again, a pure love. I pray God opens your inner understanding so you would stop blaming yourself about the deceased. RIP to dead and God keep her children and all those she left behind safe 43 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by adajoe555: 2:34pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Hmmmmmm... It is well |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Martinez39s(m): 2:36pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
GboyegaD:I didn't give him the initial advice, and I wasn't referring to you. Mind your business. 23 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by TGMISKY(m): 2:37pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
I feel revived by just reading this. God bless you for sharing this experience 5 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 2:46pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
AgentGoat:maybe love or maybe stupidity but I guess stupidity would be the correct answer but I sincerely loved her 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by akaahs(m): 2:50pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Tankunland:Good one but I actually saw ur post, I just wave it for my mind is one of those co-operate beggers.now U open my eyes. 2 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 2:51pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
KingZaddy:thank you for the advice and the harsh words. Maybe I was weak but bro even Achilles died because of love so i guess love makes us foolish and weak. When money comes I would do the paternity test for Samuel 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 2:53pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
emmaodet:no I'm not Chief 2 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by 2buffagain(m): 2:56pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Losing job and girlfriend should not lead you to suicide. You exist as more than just these things. Although with the way nigerian simps be thinking, if they cannot be an ATM to their spendy women they start questioning their existence. That's not normal. A good number of you naija guys need to take care of yourself mentally and practice self love. This is why it is sad that mental health is not taken seriously in that country. Simping is a mental illness. - Find a better job. The next job will likely be better. - Stretch and Enjoy your singleness for a time. Use it to focus on your self improvement. Losing a girlfriend means you have an opportunity to refine what you look for in others. No relationship experience is wasted. 34 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by revived: 3:00pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 3:02pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Eberechi24:cry ke op needs cane for even contemplating suicide 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Omar09(m): 3:04pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Martinez39s: Here comes the hard truth guys. Make way! You know funny thing is, I used to think that us who would simmer down the hard truth with a bottle of soda is very strong but I've realized that to live a lie is very much difficult to do and thumbs up to those simps put there, they're pretty strong. We took the shortest way out. And no one said anything about that short way being easy and smooth. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by sulmeza(m): 3:11pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Hmmm....Quite an interesting read I must say. |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by clerkent(m): 3:11pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Bro God is your strength. |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Iceyjayz: 3:11pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
MiaB:Shut up! |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by jeph19(m): 3:13pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
GboyegaD: Nothing oo IN my opinion... Y would I leave dodo(fried plantain) for kpekere? (plantain chips) 4 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by SweetCunt97(f): 3:16pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
evil1:Forget about which girl's family? The op does not own any of those kids legally sef. That her husband got say cos his name will b in the boy's birth certificate. 1 Like |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by culf: 3:18pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
what a story. Thanks for sharing your story with us, its inspiring and encouraging. Rip in peace to Shola. Thank you Lord 3 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Gallantfortune(m): 3:18pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Mr tankunland, After going through your life story I've learnt so many things. I will not criticize you because am not the wisest man on earth. Experience teaches us so many things. An adage goes this way in my language. Ologbon eyan lo ma n fi oro oloro ko ogbon. Thanks for sharing this piece. God see you through (Amen). Rip to Shola. 20 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Iceyjayz: 3:18pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Angelacruz:Nokia X2 in this age? |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by SweetCunt97(f): 3:19pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
jeph19:Keep ur opinion to yourself. Don't you know there are sterile men who scout for single mothers in order to feel the completeness of a family as they can't impregnate anyone? What complete woman would allow a man render her life childless shooting blanks? 10 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Veryfoolishboy: 3:19pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
coronavirus19:so coronavirus19 dey quote me? yeeye move along 3 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Veryfoolishboy: 3:23pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
MiaB:life is what happens when you don't mind your business |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by emmafineboy(m): 3:24pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
I learned alots here is a reflection wat happened to me March this yr,a gal i love so much left becus i lost my job February wen i needed her most... she stopped checking on me,dis is a gal dat don't stop seeing me each day even wen I'm @nyt duty she'll stayed in my hus without my present even wen she has her own hus..& i lost my parents @ a tender age is nt easy but I've to work hard to survive & pay my bills(hus rent).... i summon courage after seeing dis I'll be gr8 again, but still struggling to find mysf a new job. 60 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by CAPSLOCKED: 3:30pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Omar09: DOES YOUR TRUTH APPLY TO EVERY OTHER ASPECTS OF LIFE, OR YOU ONLY CONCENTRATE IT ON REDPILL/SIMP DISCUSSIONS? 9 Likes |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Omar09(m): 3:31pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED: Every other part except religion. I've decided to be a fool for Jesus Christ. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Angy55(f): 3:31pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
luminouz: I feel like spanking you on your bumbum.. When will you change? |
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by meetme01: 3:34pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
1x2x3: This is what lots of young guys fail to understand. Jumping from one lady to the other all because of s.x could be the beginning of eternal failure. S.ex has a lot to do with your life. We should ensure we try as much possible to limit our body counts. 11 Likes 1 Share |
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