tyup:
Reading some few lines i knew the whole message would be senseless n really when that guy said 9ja babes in Canada 're less attractive n not good looking dang i now believe

mehnn Op wor wor ehn Tuueh

Besides only a lonely lady would have such time to reply breaking in messages just like you've done

Mstick:
Anybody with a brain knows that thread was created to massage the ego of Nigerian men.

Nigerian men like to praise themselves and make it look like women from other continents are falling over themselves to date them but believe me it's 100% false.

Black men are just the worst honestly, you see them opening threads upon threads insulting and humiliating black women but you would NEVER see men from other races do that. Are their women perfect? NO! but they respect and protect them anyway.

The reason why most of this black men go after white women is because of the standard the white men set for their own women, they built a country and environment where there women can thrive meanwhile our own men are still here debating if we're allowed to serve them garri with one meat.

usfreshen:


I follow your YouTube page but I unsubscribe when I saw you using words like Bleep and sheet about Nigeria in one of your videos that’s why I unsubscribe cause Whether you like it or not Nigeria is home for you. This was where you made the cash you could use to facilitate your traveling.

sassysure:

Which one is lipstick alley?
I'm actually tired of this place but to get the latest naija news always bring me here.

Any vibrant and matured forum is welcomed.

Timijo:
@Whizqueen, please ignore those ones saying rubbish about your look. You are wonderfully and beautifully created by God. In fact, God did not create anyone to be ugly but we are the ones who coined the word "ugly" out of a mindset of inferiority complex. So, you look beautiful the way you are.

safarigirl:


Please tag me, if you start such a thread on a respectable site.

Lipstick alley is actually great. If NL men stray to that site, this sense of importance they have will be cast away. People that Congolese and Ghanaian men are upstaging in global discussions

xavuv:
Hey whizqueen, i have read your post in the diaries section.

I have a question tho, is it necessary for spouse and i to write ielts exam.

We r hoping it will be accepted & added when we eventually apply and also hoping it will increase our points/chances.

Burgcudi:
No degree... I am an Auto-spray painter. Do you mean having a companion makes it cheaper, easier and faster ?... please sir/ma’am I am here to learn. Thank you

xavuv:
Hey whizqueen, i have read your post in the diaries section.

I have a question tho, is it necessary for spouse and i to write ielts exam.

We r hoping it will be accepted & added when we eventually apply and also hoping it will increase our points/chances.

Tigold01:
@ Op. Please come and marry me, I want to go to Canada and be your blanket.

ibkayee:

I won’t say it’s completely sane lol but the discussions are a lot more diverse and mature. It’s a majority African American female forum but there are handfuls of subgroups who also participate e.g. Nigerian females

Lipstickalley (dot) com

UKBobo:
I can tell you categorically that the only white men interested in naija women have a serious 'jungle bunny' fetish. They want to be explorers like Mansa Musa. They are not interested in long term anything, intelligence, just satisfying a primal urge.

ibkayee:

I won’t say it’s completely sane lol but the discussions are a lot more diverse and mature. It’s a majority African American female forum but there are handfuls of subgroups who also participate e.g. Nigerian females

Lipstickalley (dot) com

whizqueen:
My friend sent me this thread last night but I had too much to say so here we go.

I (A Nigerian girl living in Canada) will be responding to the OP's points and some other comments I found on the thread.


Are Nigerian Ladies in Canada lonely? Ofcourse we are! Are Nigerian girls in NIGERIA lonely? Hell yeah!!! Are Nigerian girls in other countries lonely? Absolutely!!!!! Being lonely is not a factor of location or person. It's about not finding the right friends/partner you vibe with.


Why did we immigrate? Bros are you kidding me? Canadian govt is paying me $2000 monthly and other benefits for losing income due to covid-19 Is that happening in Naija right now? All the money donated by philanthropist in Nigeria would soon disappear into the thin air without our govt giving explanation of any sort. Ofcourse, it's not bed of roses abroad neither were we expecting a man wrapped in a gift bag but please don't let your sentiments cloud your reasoning as to why people make immigration decisions abeg.


I personally feel attacked I recently posted a video on my YouTube Channel about finding love & online dating in Canada. It's asif this hope saw my video and wanted to attack me


What makes you think we would be interested in you to begin with? Don't pride yourself too much plis dear


If you like let the OP influence your decision and stop you from chasing your immigration dreams, last last it's up to you to decide what you want for your future.


Whilst I would agree with growing together with your partner and building with them. I think it's just shallow minded of anyone in this age and time to ask for women to chase marriage first before career. Marriage is not the ultimate not everyone sees marriage as an achievement. These days, if you crave for sex so much, you can pay someone to do it or get yourself a Love Machine, if you want a child, you can literally just buy a sperm and save yourself lots of stress. Most of us are yet to keep an open mind to these things, however if you want something badly there;s always a way to get it.


Most Nigerian men hate to see it happen, there are laws that protect women here and they would prefer dying single than to see women as their equals. A good number of them are control freaks and would rather their woman be at their beck and call for everything as opposed to having their marriage work as a partnership. Nigerian married man knowing the laws of the land will still go ahead and cheat on his wife with a girl living in the same condo with his wife. Una no even dey fear or respect una madam. If atall you really want to cheat, you cannot travel to Nigeria and secretly mess with girls that fancy IJGB crew or allen avenue. As expected, some women do exploit the situation but if you find yourself a god-fearing person and you do the right thing, no divorce laws or child custody issue would stop y'all from flourishing.


White men dont find us attractive? Laughs is Swahili
On the contrary most men of other races have FETISH for Nigerian girls and Black girls in general. Maybe not long term in all cases tho but they reaaaaaaally fancy us and admire our enthusiasm towards life. Whilst most Nigerian girls would likely not wanna go for the likes of 'Ryan', 'Billy' and co it's not cos we don't find them attractive. Firstly, Naija guys are smart, intelligent and goal oriented. You see the average ones already have plans for their future and working towards it unlike the counterparts who are comfortable with just a high school degree. If a Naija guy is even into technical jobs he would try to be the best at it and work towards starting his own company in the near future. Secondly, coping with someone with a different culture, lifestyle, food, etc is honestly stressful. I was talking with one Persian guy and he said before we can kiss or hold hands, we have to be temporarily married. The other chinese guy is only about 5ft tall, I'm just wondering what he would look like in that department

In Nigeria, when you visit a guy at home, some would expect you to know that's express ticket to get laid with them. But here if you visit a guy at home, you can be almost certain that if you guys have sex it's cos you wanted it, no guy will try to lure or manipulate you to straff them or tell you when you came to my house what were you thinking. They know it's important to ask for your opinion or even avoid the whole situation altogether.

Something the OP failed to address is that the Loneliness spans across both men and women living in Diaspora. Even the white people find it hard getting a partner for themselves much less an immigrant that would probably take some time to fully settle in. The system is built to have everyone mind their business, that togetherness or family-spirit is missing.

All the naija guys and ladies in Toronto have finish dating themselves. It's such a small city, everyone knows eachother thru another person only a matter of time before you find out that; the guy toasting you is ex with your colleagues' friend. Or the guy you matched with on the dating app went on a date with your housemate the day before. Some would be married and they would be on the dating apps lying to other women.

Some of us don't even mind going back home to bring men here, but 'em guys just they find paper. Only few genuinely love and care for you. I kuku know people here already do that as business tho, some ladies/guys now charge up to $30,000 to marry people from home to help them get residency here.

There are tons of Nigerians in Canada groups on WhatsApp and Telegram some are just for singles and you find people of age 35, 40, etc filled with both women and MEN. Some guys eventually resort to going back home to marry the less exposed girls, but guess what happens once they reach YYZ airport? Oh well your guess is as good as mine. Their eyes go open finish.

A good number of Naija guys are single and desperately finding love as well as ladies. Truth is, we all crave for love. And that's not a bad thing to want. Finding a good match or significant other is a honestly a game of chance. Home and Abroad, White or Black race finding a partner is truly difficult and if you got lucky finding that one special person, you better love and cherish them truly.

I rest my case; I am in the comment section waiting for someone to jump on my mention and before you do so just remember: Opinions are like as5holes and everyone is entitled to one. So this is my opinion, I have free time today

Link to Original thread https://www.nairaland.com/5782313/chai-nigerian-girls-canada-lonely

tyup:
Reading some few lines i knew the whole message would be senseless n really when that guy said 9ja babes in Canada 're less attractive n not good looking dang i now believe

mehnn Op wor wor ehn Tuueh

Besides only a lonely lady would have such time to reply breaking in messages just like you've done

babyfaceafrica:
Weak rebuttal

orunmila144:
everybody is lonely in canada. its a cold dark lonely depressing place with high taxes, high rent and mediocre wages

iammiracle1:


I meant it in the sense that you both can pull resources and increase each others points if applicable, that's why I said someone also interested in migrating, w/o a degree i don't know much about migration, but I do know Aussie has PR options for artisans and they actually get it faster if their job skills are in need.

ibkayee:

The portion of Hispanic and white women that are fetishising ‘rushing’ black men are not thinking of Nigerians. Yes, Nigerians are technically black but Nigerian men in particular are not necessarily a ‘category’ being targeted

northvietnam:










Thanks for your Candid observation...

She’s so Damn ugly

princealexndre:
well I see why he said You people are lonely, Someone that is not lonely cannot type all this story

TheKingIsHere:


Dem don reply you o...Waiting for your response

Burgcudi:
Please Sir/Ma’am can I get your phone number

whizqueen:

Govt said we should stay at home and they would pay us $500 weekly. Please give me one reason why I should not have free time

Ayohbk:


I can assure you the O. P is a beautiful, well packaged, independent lady. One that from your post you can't get. You are a ball-less and spineless man who think bringing down a woman with words would make you better. But the joke is on you. To even think you use another man's picture on your profile says a lot about you.

I'll state clearly without mincing words, the O.P IS WAY OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE. Get of the keypad now, boy and make something out of your miserable misogynistic life

gypsey:
I have had sex with nearly 150 women, most them i cannot even remember their names or faces. from married women, to prostitutes, so called girlfriends, one night stands, work colleagues and i ve been married twice, divorced twice, still single and lonely.


what exactly could my problem be?