twhy111:


I knew of a virgin, who got married and is currently having a fling with her first love ex...

She's trying to experience all those things they couldn't do together then. She wanna explore even after two kids with her husband.


Virginity is just a status and personal decisions. Not a test for moral principles.

Are you trying to say a person who sleeps around can have better moral conducts/principle than someone who is chaste?


Virginity is also a proof of moral principle, it shows a person is chaste and can actually handle tough situations, it gives their spouse a reason to trust them fully. A virgin person is more likely to commit totally and not cheat in their marriage.

Erediauwa:
How do you do Lamanii22...


I uploaded a new profile picture, I hope you like it though.

How do you do?



Don't laugh at me lol how do they view other people's profile picture?

BluntNigerian:
Do you know how you would feel if this your virgin wife goes wild under your own roof out of your own negligence?
That one sef is worse.

Why must there be an evil suggestion of uncertainty in a case so deem to be certainly stable? Show me how many true virgins has gone wild in marriage compared to the no of non virgins?

olumide4christ:


Nice...just keep your faith and hope on God...seek to be the best gift of a husband to your future wife... and God will bring the best woman for you (including being a virgin) your way, Amen!
God did it for me, He will do the same for you too because He is the same, yesterday and today and forever!

God bless u sir.....I tap on to this testimony

Happy New year mhisbliss...

Mr. Giddy!


Stay off your exes!

Lamanii22:




How do you do?



Don't laugh at me lol how do they view other people's profile picture?

Just a click at my moniker.



Now lemme laugh at you...

Personally,i will not get married to a virgin . My opinion

bigpriik:
That's why it's good to marry a virgin.

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Heineken:
hahahaha the guy dey give full inspiration boss. This ashkoko ehn. Lol. Like your know me personally abi boss?

You're a nice friend bro....

Way back 2014.... That should serve as a clue.

BareFacedLies:
I have fúcked a lady 2 weeks before her wedding day

Clap for yourself if you think it is an achievement!!!

2 weeks is too long and why not on her wedding day probably before her make-up artist (painter) arrived.

I am sure you are still clamouring to break greater records & hope you will come out with your complete body intact.

RECORD BREAKER INDEED

Erediauwa:
You're a nice friend bro....

Way back 2014.... That should serve as a clue.

wow.. Nice one boss.. Awon ti 2014 back then. Lol

This is the act of wickedness, many have done so and get away with you..I advice you reading my words now, don't try it... I have seen several occasion where ladies were set up...becareful ...Men drive pleasures always caused by female- Facebook.com/staru1

Chi59:
I once liked a guy on nairaland we started getting to know each other. I noticed that this fellow was fond of uploading pics of his ex almost every other day. I called his attention to it. He flared up. Na so everything scatter. Good riddance.
I never keep contacts or memoirs of exes. Once we're done we're done. I don't know the kind of spirit that possess many young people of nowadays.
Once I found out you're still attached to your ex, I'm out. I'm not your rebound girl.

You get sense. God bless your mother and father.

That's why the Bible warns us to flee fornication, because when it starts happening it can't easily be controlled unless by divine intervention.

clemmonce:
it is not a good thing at all. It breaks the home. I hope people hear. An Ex is an Ex for a reason. Same. If i notice you are still contacting your Ex, or even have his number. I will end the relationship instantly. No stories.

It shows that the person lacks discipline and respect for me. And I can never tolerate it.

M00N:



Are you trying to say a person who sleeps around can have better moral conducts/principle than someone who is chaste?


Virginity is also a proof of moral principle, it shows a person is chaste and can actually handle tough situations, it gives their spouse a reason to trust them fully. A virgin person is more likely to commit totally and not cheat in their marriage.

The olosho out there was once a virgin you know, it bores down to personal trait the act is another thing.

And who told you virgin can't misbehave after marriage?
People exhibit their main character at one point in their life

WORLDPEACE:


You get sense. God bless your mother and father.

Amen.

Chi59:

It shows that the person lacks discipline and respect for me. And I can never tolerate it.

Exactly.

HisCutestDamsel:
God forbid. What rubbish fling

Hi
I want to be a friend

Well!!

Hausaboy239:
Am still caught up in this!
Had this girl i was dating since 2015,i was 20 in my 300level and she was 18,we really liked each other so much but her parents got someone they thought was good for her, you may have an idea of how northern parents impose marriage on their daughters.
The man they chose for her was much older atleast he was up to 45 then although she didn’t like him but there was nothing she could do. We weren’t getting intimate before the marriage issue came up but we started having sex a month before her marriage,we even had sex on her wedding day.

Fast forward to after her marriage,we promised each other we were going to keep off each other but after some months we were back making calls and chatting though she was in another state and i was in school.

More than a year passed by,we were on and off but were fooling ourselves that we were just friends. Whenever she has problems with her hubby i will be the first person she will look for cause she can’t report to her parents(they’re blinded by his money).

Unfortunately i was done with uni and went to serve in Abuja and that was were it started again,she was staying there and the husband had traveled abroad and was staying for bout 8months there.

Cut the story short,we started seeing each other often and anytime we met it happened to the extent that we got used to it!
I finished serving 2017 and got a job in Abuja,she’s still with her husband but we still hook up anytime she’s chanced though it could take months sometimes but I really feel bad when I think bout it and i sincerely want to call it off!

Pls how can i do stop it?

Nice one bro, get ready for same with ur wife as well. THIS LIFE IS ALWAYS FAIR

Are you sure you are not that your friend?

placeofallure:
My friend from university days, she had this bf, he didn't marry her cause it was a few months to his wedding when they started dating, though he'd been pestering her for long, she no gree. Her excuse? he's a bit elderly - 8/9 years, not sure.

A relationship started and it was hot. My friend, according to her, didn't know he was that close to marrying his girlfriend, she wouldn't have agreed to date him.

They made love on his wedding day, dunno how the guy managed with that. He hid it from her. She got to know later that that was his wedding day.

It's been years now, they're both married
and they still see. They said they can't stop. I wonder if the two of them are not crazy, they would've just married each other.

So, so for a match made in heaven.

A very unreasonable thing to do....

bigpriik:
That's why it's good to marry a virgin.

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Thank you.

twhy111:

The olosho out there was once a virgin you know, it bores down to personal trait the act is another thing.

And who told you virgin can't misbehave after marriage?
People exhibit their main character at one point in their life

The chance of a virgin misbehaving is 50/50 even worse is the chance of a non-virgin when you do not meet her usual requirements

Annie001:
Well!!
I think women who do last fling are weak and as for me, if I happen not to marry the guy I am currently dating, except he is living in another planet, there is no way we won’t have something together if we happen to meet, the love is just beyond me.

That which you call love is nothing but LUST..


Don't be confused, just control it.

Hausaboy239:
Am still caught up in this!
Had this girl i was dating since 2015,i was 20 in my 300level and she was 18,we really liked each other so much but her parents got someone they thought was good for her, you may have an idea of how northern parents impose marriage on their daughters.
The man they chose for her was much older atleast he was up to 45 then although she didn’t like him but there was nothing she could do. We weren’t getting intimate before the marriage issue came up but we started having sex a month before her marriage,we even had sex on her wedding day.

Fast forward to after her marriage,we promised each other we were going to keep off each other but after some months we were back making calls and chatting though she was in another state and i was in school.

More than a year passed by,we were on and off but were fooling ourselves that we were just friends. Whenever she has problems with her hubby i will be the first person she will look for cause she can’t report to her parents(they’re blinded by his money).

Unfortunately i was done with uni and went to serve in Abuja and that was were it started again,she was staying there and the husband had traveled abroad and was staying for bout 8months there.

Cut the story short,we started seeing each other often and anytime we met it happened to the extent that we got used to it!
I finished serving 2017 and got a job in Abuja,she’s still with her husband but we still hook up anytime she’s chanced though it could take months sometimes but I really feel bad when I think bout it and i sincerely want to call it off!

Pls how can i do stop it?

nawao bro why na? You effed up.

Exchange of seimen-fluid-sperm as that is spiritual bonding. Once a man sleeps and have sexual relationship with any woman, it becomes a spiritual bonding that may end up destroying their future relationship like marriage.

i watched a programm from one of the televised church deliverance where a guy said he once had sex with a female dog and since then, he only feel sexual urge whenever he sees any dog and moreover, in his dream, he makes luv with dogs and they keep chassing him. That is spiritual bonding. The only way out for people like him is deliverance. Same thing goes for any form of sex we have with the opposite sex. You see some partners die b4 their wedding day or after 'cus the person they slept with in their past or about to marry, are spiritually married nd bonded. Sex is beyond what we see outside like fun or lust. If you encounter bad one, you are gone.

I have this very close friend, more like a brother. He had a girlfriend in school and another at home.

The school girlfriend knew about the home girlfriend and has refused sex for this reason. They almost had sex a few times but it never happened. They eventually broke up.

Fast forward 4 yrs later, my friend has finished NYSC and working, the sch girlfriend is serving. My guy had promised himself to get married as soon as he can get work so he went on as planned with home girlfriend. The sch girlfriend heard the wedding bells and invited my guy to her coppers lodge. She fvcked him for the very first time and asked him thereafter if he was sure of what he was doing. He just chopped free pussy and proceeded with his plans.

Sch girlfriend came for the wedding along with us his friends. We all lodged in the same hotel and had a bachelor's eve party. The groom had a lot of guest and stuff so he couldn't settle down. By 2am when he cleared everything and made sure everyone is settled, a storm fell so he retired to his room with his best man.

After the wedding, bride and friends were tired and went to their hotel rooms gisting while groom and friends were having their after party, same hotel. Bride and friends showed up for a while and retired finally but groom and friends kept partying hard. 12pm groom was gisting with sch ex girl but the noise was too much and they took a walk outside the hotel. And sat on the street. She confessed she came to give him farewell sex at the bachelors eve but he was too busy.

He told her he would've appreciated it and would've made it happen but both admitted it was too late. She wished him well hugged and kissed but that was a trigger. His prick was already rock hard, her pant was dripping wet that they rushed back to the hotel holding hands calling me to the gate and said give me your room key, I gave him and he bleeped her brains out on his wedding night.

It was just unfortunate but he confessed it was the best sex of his life cause it was not just sex, it was banging and shouting that he never experienced before.

M00N:



Are you trying to say a person who sleeps around can have better moral conducts/principle than someone who is chaste?


Virginity is also a proof of moral principle, it shows a person is chaste and can actually handle tough situations, it gives their spouse a reason to trust them fully. A virgin person is more likely to commit totally and not cheat in their marriage.

Oga forget this thing. I knew of different virgins whose virginity status were just about keeping the hymen intact, but who performed all other sexual acts. It takes only God to stop either partners from cheating, not only yeye moral principle.