MYHUBBY:



Dumbness at its peak. Are your sisters your reference of conclusion?


Any man that's marrying non virgins lady should request for discount in her Bride price. You can't be non virgin and your parents will be giving me big list when your dignity and value had been diminished?




To men that don't have choice, I say kudos. No non virgin will even be in a courtship with me not to talk of marriage, Godforbid

Mariangeles:

Trashed!
Virginity is more than a hymen!
Virginity is chastity!

BluntNigerian:
Earlier in March, she brought her wedding invitation card with a bottle of wine to my office to inform me about her wedding. I was so happy for her, at least she finally found that special man she had been searching for all the while.

We talked a lot about past times and popped the wine in celebration. As we giggled and laughed over a lot of things, without even knowing what I was doing, I walked around my table, got to her seat and perked her lips, and went back to my seat. I couldn't remember whatever else we discussed after that small touch of lips, but we ended up having a quick one on my desk.

Since then, I've been trying to brush her off my mind, and I kept reminding myself that she was in my past, furthermore, she would be getting married a week after Easter.

Fast-forward to yesterday, she came back again.
This time, she came to the house. She said that she came to specially inform me that the wedding had been postponed till further notice.

I was trying to be straight forward and mean with her, before she asked what I cooked. Next thing, she started cooking beans and yam. I tried reminding her that we are no more together, then she told me clearly that after the night together, if I don't want her again, then it would be her last night ever in my house.

Being that I have nothing to gain or loose, I kept quiet and enjoyed the night and still hoping for more.

I am not regretting anything here though.
Long Distance, and let me say “poverty”, made her leave me those days for someone richer. And she had been into series of relationships after separating from me, but we were always in touch. At times, we stumble and find ourselves deep inside ourselves again even when we were into serious relationships. We never really stopped.

And I don't think we may stop any time soon, even after we both got married.
We have this thing together that keeps attracting us together, yet we don't just want to be together in a relationship again.
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#Copied..

This is exactly what a lot of intending brides and grooms are always passing through when their wedding dates are approaching, and that is, having one last fling with an Ex (or some Ex'es) before finally getting married.

You may think that it will end after you are married, but the truth is, it may continue.
This very person would be the reason you are not concentrated in your new family after wedding. You would always see yourself going back to him/her whenever the pressure of your newfound home is weighing down on you.
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Please, this last fling of a thing is really bad.
It is really dangerous.
It is a Home Breaker.

Ziky491:
u'r not serious, am stil one but dat dosnt giv me d rit to cal other wo are nt names ok so take note n enjoy d privilage god gav u bc i knw uv been a bad guy b4 u found dat god fearing lady.

M00N:


I belive strongly there still are.

M00N:
Things like this get me angry and encourages the discouragement of marriage for me.

I mean how can I love someone so much and plan to marry her yet she cheats on me and disrespect me by having a fling with her ex/sex partner? It's even worse when the she does this after a date for the wedding has be choosed(I be mumu for her eyes niyen) She is no longer Worthy of me, she is a whóre and I won't take that shit from no one no matter how much I loved het. It breaks my heart when I see people taking back cheating partners who have no regards for them.

GUYS IT IS BETTER TO MARRY A VIRGIN SO YOU DON'T HAVE TO DEAL WITH HEARTACHES


WE REALLY SHOULD FILTER WHAT WE LEARN FROM THE WESTERN CULTURES

Hisincrease:
If my girl tries that nonsense, let it remain a top secret until my death because if I find out even after the wedding, I will throw her out of my house.

What nonsense fling..... As if both parties never had sex prior to meeting the new partner. I just tire for some kind crap people cook up to satisfy their foolishness.

Stephenmoka4:
I do support you on that one, if only we could beg the virgins to keep themselves BTW you can't figure it out easily without them telling you.

Rick9:
I don't have such time, i always look out for red flags, if i notice any ex shit we are done. No argument

MYHUBBY:



I'm not even preaching celibacy here because I'm not saint but if you see the way ladies are now becoming useless


a 15yrs old lady lost their hymen so quick just because they're looking up to those slay Queens


how many of married men here met their wives a virgin? we can't continue managing marriage like that abeg, though every men with his own choice

FnbAutos:


If you go on looking for virgins, I hope you can cope with a Virgin with awful character, abi you think say na all Virgin get behave well? They can even use the fact that they’re virgins to take advantage of you, times have CHANGED!!!

membranus:


Record the one you wrote up there for a starter.

We'll luv to listen to it.

Annie001:
Well!!
I think women who do last fling are weak and as for me, if I happen not to marry the guy I am currently dating, except he is living in another planet, there is no way we won’t have something together if we happen to meet, the love is just beyond me.

Stephenmoka4:
Some girls are good at keeping secrets

Tkash01:





I agree that it's a theorem, and consolation it is, because if you still think dignity and value is all about a lady's virginity status, then I can only wish you good luck in your way forward, and in your search for virgins whose dignity and value is intact

FnbAutos:


If you go on looking for virgins, I hope you can cope with a Virgin with awful character, abi you think say na all Virgin get behave well? They can even use the fact that they’re virgins to take advantage of you, times have CHANGED!!!

M00N:



Walahi people are just mad that is how they will now pin another man's child on their husbands and some men too will be bringing home children of affairs to their wives.

My advice bro is that before you marry any woman take her for tests and let them check her womb, study her very well and know her numbers of exes. Discourage also sorts of male besties( opposite sex besties are home breakers.

Tkash01:



Good

So is there a test for chastity?

Or you take her word for it seh?

Smiles

annyz:


Clap for yourself if you think it is an achievement!!!

2 weeks is too long and why not on her wedding day probably before her make-up artist (painter) arrived.

I am sure you are still clamouring to break greater records & hope you will come out with your complete body intact.

RECORD BREAKER INDEED

Erediauwa:
You've seen it right?

LightQueen:

Lightqueen, stop laughing

olumide4christ:

The secret will always be exposed if you have the spirit of God with His gift of discernment in you.

Missmossy:
Not everyone deserves to get married. If you know you can’t respect the sacredness of marriage and stick to your partner you should stay single.

Lamanii22:



Omg! Only one person has that picture.... Who are you? Loool

MYHUBBY:



what else is ladies dignity and value? please come and analyse


you can be convince with a virgin lady of 28yrs above loyalty easily, without her verbal oath. this is just common sense


a lady with lost Hymen have no dignity, value and pride. you can verify and ask some ladies, they feel guilty sometimes when there with their men, most esp with wide pussy that their man have moderate dick


mehn! some men dey try, carry big wide vagina, still proceed to pay her Bride price

DanDeeBoss:
Lightqueen, stop laughing

kokaneprodigy:
i swear, u view a vagina positioned in doggy style from behind and you can see gaping hole while you are yet slide in. cum no go gree come cos there is little friction and you will rush and pay bride price on top woman that is bringing all her responsibilities for you to foot with a gaping vagina to offer.

the guys that left it that way how much did they pay?

Chidorx60:
chai if I had money I would asked for account number.....you are one of the few men who have the boldness to say this....most guys around will not dare ask for virgins because of the journeys their manhood has underwent......we are together ..
#teamvirginsornothing

LightQueen:
Is it your laugh?

Lol....