slyfoxxjoe:
Story. I must Bleep either the best friend or sister of my wife to be before our wedding.

I’m sorry it’s just in my bucket list of things to do in this life.

Erediauwa:
I frown at this ugly and immoral culture we've copied from the Western world... This is not an African culture neither is the Bachelor's Eve or Baby showers ours.

These generation of ours tends to copy what I termed "Animalistic Behavior"


I don't keep an "Ex" contact, once you agree we're done, then we're DONE for good, that doesn't make us enemies, but keep your distance and don't come close.


I remember the ugly last fling of one Elohor at Ughelli, she thought it was just a last fling, but she didn't know she was taking her last breathe as her would be husband traced her to the foolish Ex place and sniff the life out of them.

You might think it's just one last fun, but there's no last fun.


Listen to "Long Story" by Erigga and hear the story of Ese.

Hisincrease:
If my girl tries that nonsense, let it remain a top secret until my death because if I find out even after the wedding, I will throw her out of my house.

What nonsense fling..... As if both parties never had sex prior to meeting the new partner. I just tire for some kind crap people cook up to satisfy their foolishness.

Misterdhee1:

Oga forget this thing. I knew of different virgins whose virginity status were just about keeping the hymen intact, but who performed all other sexual acts. It takes only God to stop either partners from cheating, not only yeye moral principle.

M00N:


The chance of a virgin misbehaving is 50/50 even worse is the chance of a non-virgin when you do not meet her usual requirements

adanny01:
I have this very close friend, more like a brother. He had a girlfriend in school and another at home.

The school girlfriend knew about the home girlfriend and has denied sex to. This guy for this reason. They almost had sex a few times but it never happened. They eventually broke up.

Fast forward 3 yrs later, my friend has finished service and working, the sch girlfriend is serving. My guy had promised himself to get married as soon as he can get work so he went on as planned with home girlfriend. The sch girlfriend heard the wedding bells and invited my guy to her coppers lodge. She fvcked him for the very first time and asked him after if he was sure of what he was doing. He just choooed free pussy and proceeded with his plans.

Sch girlfriend came for the wedding along with us his friends. We all lodged in the same hotel and had a bachelor's eve party. The groom had alot of guest and stuff so he couldn't settle down. By 2am when he clear everything and made sure everyone is settled, rain fell so he retired to his room with his best man.

After the wedding, bride and friends were tired and went to their hotel rooms gisting while groom and friends were having there after party same hotel. Bride and friends showed of for a while and retired finally but groom and friends were partying hard. 12pm groom was gisting with sch ex girl but the noise was too much and they took a walk outside the hotel. And sat on the street. She confessed she came to give him farewell sex at the bachelors eve but he was too busy.

He said he wanted it and hoped he even had an idea, he would have made it happen but both admitted it was too late. She wished him well hugged and kissed but that was a trigger. His prick was already rock hard, her pant was dripping wet that they rush back to the hotel holding hands, he called me to the gate and said give me your room key, I gave him and he bleeped her brains out on his wedding night.

It was just unfortunate but he confessed it was the best sex of his life cause it was not just sex, it was banging and shouting that he never experienced before.

M00N:


Those ones are not virgin they are fakes

twhy111:

Your argument is logical, the same way a non-virgin can behave herself and come back to her senses all in the name of 'I've seen it all'

Stop attaching too much importance to being a virgin. It doesn't mean they're the good girls out there, you're virgin doesn't mean you can't turn to a LovePeddler within the blink of an eye.

bigpriik:
That's why it's good to marry a virgin.

Misterdhee1:

How many real virgins do you actually think you can find in Nigeria? Females are exposed to various kinds of temptations every other day. It takes something above their natural capacity to stop them from committing.

MYHUBBY:



Dumbness at its peak. Are your sisters your reference of conclusion?


Any man that's marrying non virgins lady should request for discount in her Bride price. You can't be non virgin and your parents will be giving me big list when your dignity and value had been diminished?



To men that don't have choice, I say kudos. No non virgin will even be in a courtship with me not to talk of marriage, Godforbid

Erediauwa:
Just a click at my moniker.



Now lemme laugh at you...

bmdmixer:
there's nothing like last fling
if u fling before
u will fling during
and be flunging after



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Hausaboy239:
Am still caught up in this!
Had this girl i was dating since 2015,i was 20 in my 300level and she was 18,we really liked each other so much but her parents got someone they thought was good for her, you may have an idea of how northern parents impose marriage on their daughters.
The man they chose for her was much older atleast he was up to 45 then although she didn’t like him but there was nothing she could do. We weren’t getting intimate before the marriage issue came up but we started having sex a month before her marriage,we even had sex on her wedding day.

Fast forward to after her marriage,we promised each other we were going to keep off each other but after some months we were back making calls and chatting though she was in another state and i was in school.

More than a year passed by,we were on and off but were fooling ourselves that we were just friends. Whenever she has problems with her hubby i will be the first person she will look for cause she can’t report to her parents(they’re blinded by his money).

Unfortunately i was done with uni and went to serve in Abuja and that was were it started again,she was staying there and the husband had traveled abroad and was staying for bout 8months there.

Cut the story short,we started seeing each other often and anytime we met it happened to the extent that we got used to it!
I finished serving 2017 and got a job in Abuja,she’s still with her husband but we still hook up anytime she’s chanced though it could take months sometimes but I really feel bad when I think bout it and i sincerely want to call it off!

Pls how can i do stop it?

Lamanii22:



okay lol

Ziky491:
Bro but u'r not one so y loking 4 one?!

BlueBanana:

Virgins date and have exes before they marry and some sleep with their ex before marriage.

BluntNigerian:
Do you know how you would feel if this your virgin wife goes wild under your own roof out of your own negligence?
That one sef is worse.

Tkash01:
It's so funny how many people think virginity is all about having your hymen unbroken, some "virgins" have engaged explicitly in sexual activities that if you hear you'll be shocked, in this world where their is anal sex,MouthAction, sex machines, and you are there believing it's only virgins that will assure you of cheat free marriages, virginity is no test of personality, some virgins can be there husband/wife's worst nightmare, with there bad character, so when it comes to getting a partners just ask God for guidance, because if you think you were celibate before marriage and you feel you are guaranteed to get a good wife or husband, then I don't think you are even prepared for marriage at all

Chi59:

I put it to you that there is no "friend" anywhere. You are the one. What do you take us for?
Anyway, what goes around, comes around. Prepare to care for a child that's not yours.

Ochuksbaba:
WARNING

never fall in love or marry a lady that still has close contact with her Ex

it's always fatal

Misterdhee1:

How many real virgins do you actually think you can find in Nigeria? Females are exposed to various kinds of temptations every other day. It takes something above their natural capacity to stop them from committing.

placeofallure:
My friend from university days, she had this bf, he didn't marry her cause it was a few months to his wedding when they started dating, though he'd been pestering her for long, she no gree. Her excuse? he's a bit elderly - 8/9 years, not sure.

A relationship started and it was hot. My friend, according to her, didn't know he was that close to marrying his girlfriend, she wouldn't have agreed to date him.

They made love on his wedding day, dunno how the guy managed with that. He hid it from her. She got to know later that that was his wedding day.

It's been years now, they're both married
and they still see. They said they can't stop. I wonder if the two of them are not crazy, they would've just married each other.

So, so for a match made in heaven.

MYHUBBY:



does men have hymen? God doesn't sealed pussy for nothing, it was sealed to protect the female gender dignity, pride and value, so why give it to men that has not pay your bride price? most of you self now use it to make money, that's the weird thing some men will still pay Bride price on



beside I'm not looking for one, I've found one already. why are you worried about what I want?



face the man that's managing yours like that OK. thank you

Tkash01:
It's so funny how many people think virginity is all about having your hymen unbroken, some "virgins" have engaged explicitly in sexual activities that if you hear you'll be shocked, in this world where their is anal sex,MouthAction, sex machines, and you are there believing it's only virgins that will assure you of cheat free marriages, virginity is no test of personality, some virgins can be there husband/wife's worst nightmare, with there bad character, so when it comes to getting a partners just ask God for guidance, because if you think you were celibate before marriage and you feel you are guaranteed to get a good wife or husband, then I don't think you are even prepared for marriage at all

bigpriik:

It's only a foolish virgin that will keep her virginity till marriage and end up giving it to another other than her husband...

MYHUBBY:
[s][/s]



any lady that give her pussy out to a man that has not show commitment are all corporate olosho, no one is a saint here but we are talking about dignity and value here



so your theorem is just a mere consolation and nothing more

OChimex:


You think so?

Let me tell you bro, most virgins, whether men or women, always think there is something outside which they didn't taste before marriage...

After that long wait for sex, and they had it the first time, they are like "is this the sex that I had been dying to have or does it mean that out there there must be someone who is sweeter?"

That is the irony of life..... human wants will always be insatiable as Economics puts it. It takes God's grace for all things to work out for you not really because you are this or that way...