It's easy to spot a bad/fake friend only if you pay enough attention.

I am the type that likes making friends with guys, so way back on campus I had a very close male friend whom every tot I was dating including my own female friends but we weren't really dating. So Anita talked me out of being too close to this particular saying everyone's is suspecting us. Fast forward to exam day, first paper was 8am I didn't know tot it's 3pm, that was how I missed d exam o and it was this guy only that tried to call me, I picked but didn't hear him clearly, he wasn't having enough card. My so called female friends didn't call me, until after d exams I was so hurt...an automatic carryover, I decided to change all of them. I was later betrayed severally before graduation by this same Anita after foolishly listening to her advice to forsake my close male friend.[color=#000000][/color]

Jaysleeves:
I was betrayed at work by my superior and it cost me my job, there's a document called P.T.W. " Permit to work document ". It's a written legal document that grant permission and authorization to commence a task. Usually high risk task, my immediate boss and i are both signatories to that document, i.e. I have to sign and my immediate boss as well. I did my part. Inspect work areas, got authorized by the PM and only needed my direct boss to sign to commence operation. I called him on radio as I was on the site. I.e an high rise tower of 34 floors and we were on the 34th level, My boss gave me a verbal permission to tell the guys to commence work even without him signing the permit. I was adamant and reluctant saying it's was against ethical practice, but he insisted that there isn't any problem. So I gave the go ahead only to be called that the companies "HSE Manger" is on site and on her way to supervise our activity, I was worried but not bothered as I was only following instructions from senior supervisor beside he is to take the blame. How wrong was I, to my uttermost surprise my boss denied me and claim he wasn't even aware of the designated task. I was shocked, I couldn't even say a word other workers came to my aid and said he was lying but all fell on deaf ears. This is a man I trusted so much as I have never in my life thought that this man can do such, my appointment was terminated for incompetency. It's painful but I have forgiven him. My only mistake was TRUST.

ThanGod for street OT.

Mine was when my Boss ask me to open an account in both me and his name and we will be transferring some money monthly from our organisation account into that account ....

I said I ain't doing that cuz my pay grade is not up to such task .... He chided me and told me nothing go happen that do I wish him evil ....... I know he wanna ride on my innocence because there are others above my pay grade who can comfortably do that nonsense.

I said no sir but anything can change anytime and I don't wanna suffer nasty consequences at the starting phase of my career. Though, I will reap many benefits from this including being his best pal (More money) .... But Good name is better than Gold ......

He was furious, He relieved me of all other normal responsibilities he has given to me .... He stopped talking to me , I even stopped greeting him self ......We started dusting each other .... Who born monkey father ....

He started plotting for me but I am not his match nor mate as a Yoruba boy ....Everybody advised me to take the offer but I said No cuz my other colleagues are all against it (Badbelle things) but I know one of them will be d one to cast me ......

In life, You have to limit your enemies and deal decisive blows on the stubborn ones ..... You shouldn't be fighting on many fronts.


Immediately he started doing nonsense, his case has already been tabled , if he no leave me alone, his hen go chop pin niyen........

Na ihm later come beg me and told me I'm weak , that I should man up If I go reach some level in life.......
. I just dey tell am Yessir, Thanks sir, ......

Guess who is visiting EFCC today ........

He is a womaniser and drunkard, who enter alliance with such fellow ......... when shi.t hit , he will deny me and serve me to EFCC ..... Oloshi

How I go dey vomit or explain wetin I no chop pass token While he will chop the chunk and still deny me since na my name will be responsible for depositing and withdrawing....

Briller:

Sad. PM me.

i have done that sir

Holamilekan97:


Ọmọ Dis shiiii sucks asf. I would have loved to do something broda. But this lockdown shiiii get as e be ajé. You fit drop me your WhatsApp digit nothing wey no fit happen overnight .

his story is more pathetic than others .....was wondering how I can come in...if he will like to go back n start the laundry stuff

Lamanii22:




Right. I met a guy at a wedding ceremony, It was an elite wedding but I was there to serve food to the guests there. When I was washing the plates, there was this guy that came to me to ask for fork unknowing to me that he was the groom's brother... What a cute guy lol! So I gave him...



He asked for my number he said I was really nice, so I gave it to him, we got talking, he said he's got cousins around where I live and that he'd come check Me whenever he comes...


He fulfilled his promise, he started coming to my house with lots of gifts, he was nice, a perfect gentleman I must say... He asked me out properly, I was 18 at that time, still very shy, I was still trying to do shakara I didn't want to be cheap and all...


Unknowing to me that my step sister that's younger than me had fallen for the guy, she had already started visiting the guy at his house... There was this day he invited me over to his cousin's I asked my sister to follow me, when we got there, we were gisting and all, then my sister said she was coming, few minutes later he said he was coming too they went outside, I was left alone so I went outside too and I caught them kissing....


I felt betrayed, I was hurt... I agree with what you said "never introduce your friend/sister to you man either ex, present&future"


That pain really hit different.... I have forgiven though... She seem like a good person now but I can never trust her again.

I seriously hope the guy no chop both of you

bestabigaelever:
You saying it like it's easy....I'm not a sister ooo are you a pastor?

So your a mommy abi?

Honeydenz:
It's easy to spot a bad/fake friend only if you pay enough attention.

I am the type that likes making friends with guys, so way back on campus I had a very close male friend whom every tot I was dating including my own female friends but we weren't really dating. So Anita talked me out of being too close to this particular saying everyone's is suspecting us. Fast forward to exam day, first paper was 8am I didn't know tot it's 3pm, that was how I missed d exam o and it was this guy only that tried to call me, I picked but didn't hear him clearly, he wasn't having enough card. My so called female friends didn't call me, until after d exams I was so hurt...an automatic carryover, I decided to change all of them. I was later betrayed severally before graduation by this same Anita after foolishly listening to her advice to forsake my close male friend.[color=#000000][/color]

This post says a lot about you.

bestabigaelever:

I never gossip sis
If it was something I said, I would have see it coming
I would have deserved it but sis my life is practically destroyed and I DON'T deserve that
I'm a good person

U don't even sound like one ......with all due respect......I'm sorry.....this is my first comment here ever

Meet Oshiomhole

foleskay:

I seriously hope the guy no chop both of you

Nah... I stopped speaking to him...

MYHUBBY:

my advice for men, don't attempt to marry a lady from a broken home, they're always emotionally and psychologically traumatize forever

Life is a bitch !!!

I only help people for the sake of God without string attached .... God will surely pay you back !!

Never attach emotions to what you give to people and never give to people what will affect you emotionally

Saintmary:

Before nko?
I'm blocking all those loopholes aggressively.

Lol better

Eulalia:


Like I said, I hide away from him most times. And sometimes when he calls me to come close for a discussion, I just bone him.

He doesn't even have my active number. Gave him a fake one and warned my sis not to give him.
Though I was shocked when he called during this lock down and said the son wants to talk with me. Guess he collected number from her recently with excuse of this lockdown. ** yinmu*

Na only God fit help both of you guys not to later shack each other ....

The feelings is there at both end , you are only taking precautions...... Sha manage the issue wellwell and avoid the home as much as possible because of Temptation !!

DonroxyII:
Na only God fit help both of you guys not to later shack each other ....

The feelings is there at both end , you are only taking precautions...... Sha manage the issue wellwell and avoid the home as much as possible because of Temptation !!

Did you read my first comment at all?
I said I don't like this guy for anything and we never dated! So, where's the feeling coming from? Gosh!

What betrayal can be worse than this:

Getting drugged by my childhood best friend who I never knew was bi.
Thing is, we moved out of the area to a far distance but we still communicated on phone. Few years later I paid him a visit cuz we was truly my real padi. He made my childhood and teenage life worth it even though our parents were cats and rats.

I grew up on the streets where we trusted nobody. yeah, "we" . We were the team. We could kill together but never eachother. We went through dark times and came outta it together.

That crazy day I decided to go see my long term padi after I gained admission into the university. He told he also got admitted into a school but I knew he was lying cuz his elder bro told me. The day I came was a joy to behold. I noticed changes around his eyelashes- they were looking darker. Was hungry so I bought indomie for him to cook for both of us. After cooking, he served and said I should be eating that he wants to clear the kitchen . I was foolishly rushing the food like we always do to eachother. Didn't know I was rushing my death. He will come, take one spoon and go back inside to do Only God knows.

While he saw I was going down, he started telling me his plans on how he's going to call his other Gay friends and how they'll burst my anus open . How he's going to initiate me into their new club. Blablabla.

I couldn't move even though I was a lil bit conscious. I was paralyzed. Then he went to take his shirt inside the room that was when my mom's prayer got answered. I didn't know till today what pushed me out of that house. I didn't even know how I got the bus that took me home....

That was how I became a lone ranger. Everybody's best friend and Nobody's best friend.

Well well well. I now know better. I now function better.

Talking about betrayal. I was scammed off $71,500 back in 2019 January, I was down physically ,emotionally.I hardly sleep for months and the funniest stuff was, my guy was the mastermind , he even tried a lot to poison me but I thank God for his blessings ever since if there's life there's hope. Sometimes in life you gotta fall so you won't fall later in the future and that might be bad than the first betrayal.

Eulalia:


Like I said, I hide away from him most times. And sometimes when he calls me to come close for a discussion, I just bone him.

He doesn't even have my active number. Gave him a fake one and warned my sis not to give him.
Though I was shocked when he called during this lock down and said the son wants to talk with me. Guess he collected number from her recently with excuse of this lockdown. ** yinmu*

Stay away. Meet your sister somewhere else. Please this is fire. Don't get burnt

DonroxyII:

Life is a bitch !!!

I only help people for the sake of God without string attached .... God will surely pay you back !!

Never attach emotions to what you give to people and never give to people what will affect you emotionally

I acknowledged and appreciate your words. thanks

BennyDGreat:


Stay away. Meet your sister somewhere else. Please this is fire. Don't get burnt

OK.
Thank you.

yes

Galactico4ever:
During my 300 level I Gave my ATM card to my best friend in sec. school who have been my roommate since my 2nd year..We did everything 2geda:studying,dodging classes,toasting babes,playing video games,playing soccer,clubbing and even wear the same clothes.Some peeps even thought we were brothers.I was paying the rent and all the expenses cos i knew his family was struggling to pay his sch.fees.I Was in bankFin 300 while he was in ECONS 200.on that fateful day,he asked me for #200 to photocopy some handouts and since i had only my t~fare,i gave him my ATM card and then told him to withdraw 15k for refilling our gas cylinder and subscribing for our gotv and buy essentials with the rest. This was like the millionth time i was giving him the card.this guy emptied my account worth #96,680 and left #680 probably because he cant empty it totally. i remember calling him after the alert came and he refused to pick.Even remembering this now is making me tear up cos the aftermath was the end of our friendship...

Did you later see him, or he ran away forever??

titsqueez:


bros how far ....send me ur account number

acct no. 0420980433
bank. Gtbank
name. Ayoregha Davidson Tobore
thanks bro
I really appreciate
God bless you

Lighthammer:
The one that affects me most and turned my life upside down
turning me into someone who now begs,cnt boast of ordinary 1 k again
a friend that i brought from my town in osun state to kwara here,housed him,fed him and clothed him fr almost 6 month last year,got a job paying almost 50 k fr him,while am earning 35 k myself,
so i took a huge loan of almost close to 500 k to start a business but my so called friend joined league with some people and defrauded me,then shit hit the fan,i lost my job,got arrested many times,almost commit suicide because i was overwhelmed....
i was evicted from where i was paying close to 100 k as rent,my other friends and people i have helped in the past turned their back on me...
i lived in an uncompleted building fr two month...till nw am nt balanced financially,emotionally and psychologically....
as am typing now,been surviving on water and mangoe fr d past one week....
fear people......fear people and limit who you help.

don't give up bro, life is beautiful .

done!

QuinModah:
People will betray you, you can't escape it. What is more important is that you come out Better

Have you being betrayed before? Share your story, you might heal

Use share so others can learn


While I was working for a company. I got diagnosed of a kidney infection and was admitted in the hospital for two weeks. I was staying with my father’s elder sister at the time because my parents were here in Abuja

Two weeks of constant drugs,drips and injections on my *you know* and guess what, my aunt and her family never came to visit for one day. My friends(even tho I didn’t have a lot of them) were to busy to come see me. No company representative to pay me a visit.

Everyday I would walk to the little store close to the hospital to buy biscuits and yoghurt because no one would bring them to me.


Betrayal hurts so bad because it never comes from strangers but those of your household.

This is why I recommend people live like they are alone on this planet. Have zero expectations. Any human can become anything at anytime.When u expect so much from people, betrayal is inevitable. Live ur life without expectations.

All these people that never came the you, how do you treat them. Would you do the same. Trust me if you were better, someone would have showed up

Warmaterial:
Mehn one thing that I always say to myself after so many difficulties and betrayers in life, dat I was born alone, going to die alone, not with anybody. I mind my business, I work hard in order not to beg anybody. I tried and build friendship with myself , before work every morning I take my weed alone inside my house and after work in the night I take my weed alone again inside my house before enjoying my self with goodies. So many want to be my friend both male and female but I don't need a friend, some are forcing their self to be close to me but I don't need a friend. If I need a girl I will make call and pay them some if them want to be close after two times of coming around and I will cut them off and make new contacts... That's my life

You can't continue like that. You need reorientation bro

titsqueez:


done!

bros abeg drop me ur number I need to appreciate u I beg u in d name of God. dis mine 08065500452

foleskay:


Did you later see him, or he ran away forever??

I saw him after four days. d guy even withdrew the money by dad transfered to the account that weekend b4 i blocked the card.i really hated that time in my life

mine was when I introduced one of my friend's to my boyfriend I could tell she was jealous. My boyfriend came to visit me with one of his friend's and then we were lodged in a hotel,he (my boyfriend) told my friend to go and meet his friend in the other room so they can gist and get to know their selves in other for her to give us our privacy ,when she left I wasn't really comfortable with her and that guy alone my instincts kept on telling me she might say things she ain't suppose to talk about ,to cut the long story short I took that same girl out made her feel comfortable and when we left there I gisted my other friend how everything went excluding one particular thing only for the girl I took there to go behind my back and she told that girl what I excluded mehn I felt betrayed to the point I told my guy about it that was when he told me to careful about her that while we were at that hotel she told his friends a lot of things about me he was surprised she could say for the fact they just met and I THANKGOD my boyfriend is already aware of everything she told his friend ....I was betrayed twice from say person ,when I confronted her she started pleading that it was the devil that made her say all that to the point she went to tell our neighbor who is a pastor to help her beg me . Guys never trust someone enough to disclose things only you should know . I can't trust anyone that much again.


Another betrayal, my very good that I use to leave in room and go to school sef,one fateful evening he came to me to borrow my ATM that he wants to transfer money and then withdraw it,I gave him without thinking he can even do otherwise, two days later I got a debit alert of 9000+ from my account without purchasing anything online I had to run to the bank to complain only to be told someone used my information to purchase something
from Amazon my dear I felt hurt ,when I told the manager how I borrowed someone my ATM he advised to go and get him arrested that he is the one that stole my money ,I just left the bank came home confronted him and the bastard started saying he knows nothing about that was even swearing ,I just left everything in God's hands and blocked the ATM . Such mistake can't happen again

zionmde:
Had a friend in school, were so close to each other, people will call us brothers. I had a major breakdown just after service, me being someone that hardly ask help from people because of my growing up experience. He was d only one I had to run to. he promised to call me back, but after 2 days he never did, he also refused to pick my calls. I knew how hunger handled my life dat period but I was most broken because of d fact that someone I called a brother could turn his back on me so easily
that experience alone made me learn never to depend on anyone.

fast forward to some years later, he contacted me pretending he didn't know wat happened, I poured everything to his face, forgave him and moved on

Very good

rapid101:
bros abeg drop me ur number I need to appreciate u I beg u in d name of God. dis mine 08065500452

No need my broda... na as my spirit lead me. One love bro!!

Briller:


Sad. PM me.

God bless you!