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Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by SweetyZinta(f): 8:42am On Apr 21, 2020 |
Giwoni:I am dumbfounded!! You will overcome. Finding the right partner is hard this days. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Favourite001: 8:44am On Apr 21, 2020 |
sucre:Woah, wud love to learn Akwa ibom language plssss, ibibio in particular. 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by GreenDee(f): 8:45am On Apr 21, 2020 |
Well focus more on yourself, when she sees you are doing very well, without involving her in your life, she will come back and pls don't fall for it,just take it easy, time heals emotional injury, in few weeks time you will be alright. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by MisterKings(m): 8:45am On Apr 21, 2020 |
Sorry bro. It is over. On a petty note ask her to pay back every damn thing you gave her. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by ucheuzor1(m): 8:59am On Apr 21, 2020 |
missimelda01: Shut up. It is not one side anything. Women don't know what they want, that's all. I can bet my ball that it wasn't the girl's parents that said she can't marry an ebonyi man. She never had plans of marrying the Bobo. She just used that language as a legal yardstick to push the guy off. Either she's seeing someone else that she feel is settled and serious or she never saw herself ending up with the OP. I guess she didn't just want to marry from that region. Parents gat nothing to do with this. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by fredopareto(m): 8:59am On Apr 21, 2020 |
Obidikejr:abi..him fit do him own like DAT ni |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by alfarouq(m): 9:01am On Apr 21, 2020 |
Anambranians and Ebonyians are both Igbo. I don't understand why they can't marry each other. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Theicecode(m): 9:06am On Apr 21, 2020 |
Giwoni:I need to flog sense into you. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by SonOfEl(m): 9:09am On Apr 21, 2020 |
Anambra people is most clannish when it comes marriage. Take heart bro. you will find true love soon, whether from anambra or otherwise. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by missimelda01(f): 9:10am On Apr 21, 2020 |
stag: Firstly, thanks for the bolded. About the DM thingy, I'm sure you can read my signature clearly.. it has my business contact and Instagram handle for those interested in what I sell, you might not understand how difficult it is to respond to every PMs only for you to be asked silly questions, that is why I decided to make it easier by dropping my contact in my signature where people can see it without necessarily viewing my profile. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by shakara121(f): 9:10am On Apr 21, 2020 |
If she is not ready for marriage come and marry me oooo won’t disappoint you |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Theicecode(m): 9:12am On Apr 21, 2020 |
missimelda01:Birds of the same feathers, get outta here. 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by SweetCunt97(f): 9:12am On Apr 21, 2020 |
comrChris:Offcourse there are exceptions. Just airing popular belief |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by kasim155: 9:13am On Apr 21, 2020 |
Someone told you that if you fail your 2nd Mbbs exam she will leave you and you passed and continued with her I swaer OP, this is were most of ur problems started from. Immediately u saw dat u have passed ur MBBS exams, u should have been giving her serious attitude den because she only love u with a/some conditions. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by missimelda01(f): 9:15am On Apr 21, 2020 |
razible5384: Please what is your problem? I clearly didn't choose sides, I only asked questions to get the full picture before passing my judgement but obviously even OP doesn't know what he wants in a woman. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by SweetCunt97(f): 9:17am On Apr 21, 2020 |
Chi59:But that's not true though. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by missimelda01(f): 9:19am On Apr 21, 2020 |
DoubleEngine007: I want to correct something, I never insulted him.. I only reminded him that his mother is also a woman and when next he wants to make a statement about women, he should be careful not to generalise it. If I was asked the same question, I would gladly answer it. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by tpadua22(m): 9:20am On Apr 21, 2020 |
Giwoni, plz, call my number, I have an idea... 07066222772 |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by meetme01: 9:20am On Apr 21, 2020 |
Op, you have done nothing wrong. You have learnt your love lesson. Rarely do people marry their first love. Your experience is one of the things you need to have before marriage. I have been in your shoes before. Mine was on religious grounds. It would be hard to let go. You would cry. It will weigh you down. You will be disturbed psychologically and emotionally. Trust me, with time, it will fade and you start all over. Just try as much as possible to make her a friend. She would regret. My ex whom I thought I would marry still calls. I know how she feels. I know it would be hard for her to find someone like me. I met her a viirgin, our courtship was exceptional but I still left her virgin since that's her wish. I respected her. Pick yourself up, dust your loving skills and find another lady. I believe you now know questions you need to ask before falling into the same shit. Trust me, you did your best for your ex. Your new courtship would be better off. What I have realized in my yeare of courtship is that, if you treat a woman right and you guys depart amicably, the next lady would be much better. You would be glad she left. Shoot your shot Doc. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Successmind(m): 9:20am On Apr 21, 2020 |
Feed a dog for 3days and they will remember you for 3years,feed human being for 3years all u will hear is what have u done.....life is full of ups and down my brother....you are the only one in the relationship, and she's only using you as a means of survival to achieve her goal.... Although it's not easy,but i will only advice u to move on with your life....coz d more u try been hopeful,the more you get hurt and depressed... This might eventually make u fail at school which could be more remorseful and regretful.... Summon courage,replace her, and move on....like once said it's not easy to take the decision,but u must take a risk that is worthwhile... 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by AlphaMajestic: 9:30am On Apr 21, 2020 |
comrChris: ok mentally unstable doesn't apply to everyone from ebonyi state...but then everbody knows this so no need to argue it...imagine this idiot coming to tell us about how he bought point and kill for his babe secondly am not from Anambra...infact i hate Anambra people with passion..those people are just plain foolish and selfish...that igbo people are bad and greedy is Anambra and mbaise... so most times u just have to be careful when dealing with this two |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by gbogboija: 9:30am On Apr 21, 2020 |
O boy don't get too emotional. Yours will not be the first or last, move on with your life and forget about her. Don't rush into another relationship quickly, don't flash money as well in the new relationship, and don't make mistake in putting her into consideration in case she comes back. She will chop you bad, break your heart again, and leave you more emotional injured like never before. Remember, you will not be the first or the last to experience emotional breakdown. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Nobody: 9:32am On Apr 21, 2020 |
Obviously the she was just in it for all the benefits she was getting, because if she loves u, she can convince her mom to see reasons with her.. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Nobody: 9:34am On Apr 21, 2020 |
My guy, sorry to hear this. As small comfort as it will be to you at this time, take heart that this has happened to the best of us. As the saying goes, the best revenge you can have, is to live well. All plans you have put aside, pick them up and run with them. Then go one step further. Focus on yourself, but do not isolate yourself. Don't come out of this a bitter man who will want to make the next woman you meet, pay for the "sins" of another. Remember, a woman is there to compliment you, but should not be your focus in life. Make your career grow, be successful in life and attitude (I mean that don't let bitterness overtake you, it may blind you to your wife when she turns up) and enter this new phase of your life with a wiser outlook. Who knows, the guy/lady you may mentor tomorrow, is currently looking to date a girl/man who may find themselves in the position you found yourself and would appreciate your thoughts on how to go about things. All the best and hope you become a guru doctor o! We need you guys more than ever, especially around this pandemic, and beyond that. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Erickymania: 9:36am On Apr 21, 2020 |
My brother, just look away and move on. Be grateful to God that you notice this early enough. Plz take your time and find another beautiful Medical student with a rich background in your faculty who will not be a liability. Advise to young guys: Stop paying ladies school fees if she is not your wife. Majority of them turn out to be ungrateful. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Meomonla: 9:42am On Apr 21, 2020 |
The girl has been using you all along just that you were too blind to see. Saying her poor mom, who seeks financial help from a daughter she ought to be paying bills for through school, would not want her to marry you because of some ethnic reasons even though she knows the only reason why her daughter is still in school is because you care, is a fat lie. My mother say I cannot marry excuse, is a cooked story from her. Her conscience will not let her tell you directly to your face that she can't marry you, so using her moms story is a nice way of telling that. Now that you've know you've been played, stop been a fool. Seize all cash flow to her from you. Don't let your dime go her way. If she comes back begging, you can go ahead and fvck her for free as compensation. My guy build a stone heart towards her. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by drjoshua91: 9:42am On Apr 21, 2020 |
Doc let me start this way. you made a big mistake putting your pure mind on this particular girl. if care is not taken, you didn't even get to paradise which is another big f. Up. Real men don't trust girls, they play along with them until they see something futuristic possible. Most Anambra ladies are cool for marriage notwithstanding,but you should have found out the relationship between Anambra girls and Ebonyi guys. The truth is most Anambra girls I know wouldn't want to marry in Ebonyi based on family reasons, I don't know why kwanu. Secondly, this so called lady told you it was going to be over between both of you if you failed your professional Examination, that should have been a clear indication that whatever affection she might have been showing was being faked. Because whoever loves someone would stand stronger beside the person in times of agony. Let me put it to you that, that girl was simply digging your gold. whatever good she was doing you was just to reciprocate your spendings on her, they weren't really genuine. But since things are already the way they are, I wouldn't want you to convince her into marrying you as it might be counterproductive in future if she accepts, rather just forget about her. Take her as an indigent person you were helping in school, then look for a better person, after all you're a doctor & doctors by nature are ladies' guys. you know what I mean. Yeah, pain is always associated with losing a loved one but there's no time dwelling on that especially considering the kind of person involved. My suggestion then is, since you're not the only son and not terminally ill, you shouldn't be in so much hurry getting married and you shouldn't rush into any other relationship so soon to feel up the vacuum. Settle down yet, reflect on the past, meditate on the kind of woman you want, talk things over with your brother, even if you don't finally find a person to marry here before Leaving, if you get there you'll definitely find good well meaning Nigerian ladies who will love you unconditionally. this is my Candid advice. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by chatinent: 9:43am On Apr 21, 2020 |
This is the highest highest of mumuthology. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by OriOko88(m): 9:43am On Apr 21, 2020 |
Chi59: Lol. Na Yoruba u go marry laslas. You're from which state? |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by talk2aikay(m): 9:44am On Apr 21, 2020 |
I’ve always avoided engaging in issues like this one but I’ll make an exception for you. Bro you’re too good for this young lady, and she doesn’t deserve you one bit. That BS about not marrying someone from Ebonyi is a ruse. Eventually you will discover the real reason is that she either has someone else or, she doesn’t love you and is making up excuses- which is better than ending up with her and being miserable. Move on okay, you sound like a nice chap with potential, and trust me there are too many girls out there waiting to make you happy beyond your wildest dreams, go ahead and find them. |
Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by Archie30: 9:45am On Apr 21, 2020 |
He's done all the spending in good faith. You win some you lose some. He loved and still loves this girl. Look my dad is from Anambra State. He met my mum completely broke ...guess what? while at the MED school too. My mum supported my dad through his medical school. My mum isnt Nigerian for a starter and they both went through a lot and all the carry on from Anambra why my dad should stick to his own. Luckily they've been married for nearly 50yrs. It's sad but what I get from Anambra is a people non -conforming to culture outside theirs. I think that is changing a bit and as proud Anambra man I will advise this guy to stay strong and fight for his love....well his love; that's if she truly loves him. I will do anything for someone I love and care about. She's his life and he could help her and happy to do so. That's what my mum done to my dad...from Anambra state! It can go either way and value is so objective and non relative. It stands true in every situation or cultures |
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