234GT:
Women love and pray to marry men who cheat.
Reason is that women don't know what they want.

bdchange:
The rate at which married men cheat this days is alarming I swear and there is little the woman can do because they put themselves in a situation where marriage has become an achievement in order to get to her highest pinnacle in life.She neglected building herself and getting some financial power before marriage which resulted to inability to make financial contributions in the marriage, totally dependent on the husband. So even if the husband cheat, she can't divorce but to stay and pray for a miracle. A woman in my previous house left her cheating and abusive husband and left with two kids, but she had to come back because she couldn't take care of those kids on her own except she wants them to suffer. many are on this path right now and many young ladies will join them in the future. A man respects and fears a lady who contribute a lot to the family and dare not try rubbish with her because he knows her worth that she can leave if he messes up and continue her life with her children and never misses an inch of the man.

crackkhaus:

Blehhhh... this is only what you people like to tell yourselves so you don't come off as most people already assume most women are (all about the finances).

The number of women who forgive cheating husbands who are dependent on them, is so little that it is nothing compared to the ones who forgive because of the financial/economic fallout they will face from leaving him...let's not kid ourselves please.

Rozz:
It is never in a woman's nature to cheat,very few vulnerable women do so based on problems beyond them. These problems mostly from their husbands but I can bet that the few women that cheats never wanted to and are never cool with the act unlike men who thinks it is their birthright to cheat.

emmaodet:


Pls, don't give excuses for cheating. A cheat is a cheat and they will always have tons of excuses to use to justify it.
Why not use a more self preservation route of divorcing instead of cheating?
Moreover, it can go the other side too.
I can tell you a man cheats because -
Is wife is not beautiful, lazy, not productive and contributing, dirty, small boobs and buttocks, too big boobs and buttocks, lazy on bed/sexually, mannerless, abusive, not romantic, not prayerful etc
You see? The list is endless if we start giving excuses and you know what? It is at this stage most ladies will find their voices that Why did you marry her when you noticed all these flaws?
And which am throwing back to you that why did you marry him when you noticed these flaws Or why didn't you divorce him when you noticed this negative traits? Instead of cheating.

Rozz:
Where did you get this your own from

234GT:


It is a fact that I have seen severally.

A lady dating a responsible man will by herself leave the man for one nonsense reason ( eg, he prefers wearing pam slippers to trainers) and start dating an obvious cheat.

Cheats know how to fascinate women. Women take responsible men for granted and still cry that cheats cheat on them.

crackkhaus:



Sassy no let me beat you oo, na bros I just dey look..

sassysure:

Bros has been saving for long now

emmaodet:


Brother, do you or have you worked with Eastern Europeans before? Russians, Ukrainians ant co? because that is a common slag with them especially when annoyed

crackkhaus:

Saving what?

Rozz:
Truly there's no excuse for cheating,i only brought that up since the men believe they can be excused for cheating because they are men

sassysure:

Saving me from those that want to beat me na

I open mouth, yarn rubbish, go hide for his back And struck out my tongue

Hahahaaa,
I can see why most married women get away with caustic tongue.

I have seen one married woman reduce a guy to nothing. The guy so restrained himself just because of the husband. She was lucky, another might not do that. W

crackkhaus:

Lol, nope.

Only ever met one Russian, then a family member is married to a Romanian woman. That's about it.

234GT:


It is a fact that I have seen severally.

A lady dating a responsible man will by herself leave the man for one nonsense reason ( eg, he prefers wearing pam slippers to trainers) and start dating an obvious cheat.

Cheats know how to fascinate women. Women take responsible men for granted and still cry that cheats cheat on them.

emmaodet:

Bro, i think it goes both ways.
Women see responsible men as boring and too predictable while men see responsible women as too bland, mostly not sexy because they are not wearing tight fitting body exposing clothes with make ups.

sassysure:

Forgot I called u a babe. This my short memory

234GT:


Very well said.

For me, I am okay with a simple straight forward woman that gives me peace of mind.

Rozz:
you are same person as emmaodet

emmaodet:


Hello
Why did you say am sassysure? I don't know her and i only have one moniker.
Do we have anything in common? to come to such conclusion.

Rozz:
ok sorry, I quoted you and she responded, that's why.

SweetCunt97:
How can he subject you to one dick for 10 to 40 years to come?

If you wanna get married, simply stick to your partner and the vows you both took.

emmaodet:
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100% correct but the Bitter truth is that Most women are ready to compromise low or average life with a partner that has a 80-90% chance of giving them rest of mind, happiness, sanity, self respect and integrity to most financially stable guys with a 70-85% chance of cheating remorselessly on them, little to no self respect and integrity.
In life, most things are not balanced.
You have to lose some and gain some.
Most guys will likely go for a beautiful woman with nice shape and body while avoid financially independent women despite the fact that they know that what they have gained in beauty, they will have to pay by constantly hustling to keep and maintain the woman, else divorce possible.
But the problem with most ladies are, they want to have it all without paying little or no price.
You want a rich, handsome, God fearing, caring, jovial and not boring, highly sexually satisfying man All in one body.
If you want a financially stable man, then don't complain about cheating - that is the price to pay.
If you want a handsome man, then most likely you have to move your ass because a large percentage of fine boys are not productive or resourceful, likewise a Sex machine guy.

emmaodet:
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At the bolded, Exactly bro.
If your wife is bringing 40% and above to the marriage, then you must be a Very Useless man to even think of cheating.
If i find myself in that situation, then i will have to compromise.
I will fully help out in house chores and keep doing everything possible to keep motivating and encouraging her and not add not become silly by adding cheating to it.
That is why i see most ladies who broke shame guys as myopic.
They don't want to hustle and move their asses so that they can marry stable guys.
If you don't bring much to the table as a woman so as to checkmate the excesses of a man, na Sorry be your matter.
Power respects power no matter how small it is.
It is very easy for buhari/govt to roll out soldiers and start molesting harmless citizens who either come out to protest for salary increment, going on strike etc because the citizens have been rendered handicapped and not empowered to take their destiny in their hands but the same govt will come out to dialogue if they are to face chad, niger or benin rep. ?
Power, empowerment - no matter how small will check others excesses simply because these other countries have their own soldiers, armor tanks and won't be pushed anyhow or given bullshits.

Expensiverichyb:
Serious? What does it mean to love?

Rozz:
Arent we supposed to be morally upright as human,why do you men think it's OK to cheat not minding the emotional trauma you will be putting your wife through.Going by your belief women can cheat if she's the one with the money abi.I know men who won't cheat for the love and respect they have for their wives,you may not believe but they exist.

Rozz:
Married women in the house,how did you cope or how are you coping with your cheating husbands and still leaving with him,what is making you stay? or is cheating not enough reason to leave? when and if I get married,i don't think I will be able to stay with a cheating man(whats nature).I can't imagine my husband still coming close to me with the same body he's laying with other ladies,i will feel so dirty.I will marry a man of God so that I can have peace.

Rozz:
How many have you witnessed cheating on their wives or you just believe what you read online,most of those stories are fake and no true man of God will be caught in such act

omoharry:
Do not vouch for any man of God oo!! Remember they are only human with have blood flowing in thier vain. Vouch for urself alone and stop looking at them like Demi-god who cannot fall prey to such acts

Rozz:
Married women in the house,how did you cope or how are you coping with your cheating husbands and still leaving with him,what is making you stay? or is cheating not enough reason to leave? when and if I get married,i don't think I will be able to stay with a cheating man(whats nature).I can't imagine my husband still coming close to me with the same body he's laying with other ladies,i will feel so dirty.I will marry a man of God so that I can have peace.

Rozz:
not vouching for any but no true man of God will indulge in such act